Most of readers belong to 2 categories: 1. seeking answers to your specific questions 2. channeling whatever they feel related to your energy (not exactly what you are asking, but more about whatever they feel). In either category, she didn't do a good job. She assumed what you were trying to ask and judged you for not being honest, which to me is inappropriate.
At least 2 years ago, I had a brief chat with her on Keen. She said something and asked me if what she said made sense to see if we connected. However she ended the chat right away before I could reply. I had to email to her saying "it's OK, what you said made sense..." like trying to comfort a vulnerable crying baby.
Later on she gave me a reading thru her personal site. Nothing she said in that reading manifested. I gave her the benefit of doubt and ordered another reading. After asking my first question, she yelled at me criticizing why I asked what I asked. I didn't say a word, instead just let her vent. She probably realized her inappropriate reaction, apologized and refunded me fully. I did neither think about this too much nor let this experience bother me. I just moved on and completely forgot about this, until I saw your post. I don't have much bitterness towards her, but just feel she is not for me, at least back then.
Actually there are many readers who have the attitude issues, either because this is a stressful job, or they have a HUGE ego and put themselves on a pedestal, or maybe just purely because they are experiencing some unpleasant events in their life at that moment. No matter what, I do hope people who work in this industry can learn how to respect their clients. If you go to a store to buy a cell phone, you don't see the staff yelling at you for not knowing what the right questions to ask or not knowing how to use the phone. (It might happen occasionally, but you can complain)
I hope the same rule can apply to all industries, but unfortunately there is just no so much customer services and professional training in this "psychic" reading industry.
If what she said hurt your feelings, keeping thinking about what she made you uncomfortable will only hurt you more. Sharing your experience with us is definitely a healthy way for you to let out the unpleasant feeling stuck in your check. Hope you feel better now and can find the readers who work for you! Good luck!
Unpopular opinion, but this woman was a grade A jerk to me, and 100% wrong to boot! I will leave the chat here, word for word, leaving nothing out (except names) and you all can judge for yourself:
HER: hi how are you ?
HER: anyone there lol
ME: Hello, my name is ------ and I'm good, thanks. Hope you are as well. My POI is ----- I was wondering how is she emotionally. What's she going thru?
HER: I need something more specific than what is she going through, like what are you really asking
HER: I sent mins to see if we connect and if I can't read on it , I will let you know
ME: How is she in life in general?
HER: you're asking about whether she's interesting in a long term relationship, right ?
ME: Okay let me ask this.....What are her current feelings about me?
HER: there's someone else in the pic
HER: please be more honest in your questions, this is time wasting
And then she ended the chat without warning. I am leaving this info here to counter her raving reviews and to warn others, as I was unable to leave feedback on Keen due to the brievity of the chat. And I am also HOPING she sees this so she can know how rude I found her. Lady, I wasn't being indirect. I was not asking if she was interested in a long term relationship. I was asking you exactly what I was asking you. The best part? You were completely wrong anyway. I don't know who you think you are, but your people skills need some serious work, especially with you being in the trauma business, dealing with people who are usually at their worst when they contact you. Thankfully, Keen refunded me.
