For me, I’m ok with giving a birthday or even date of last contact and very neutral info like that. But when an advisor asks me “what do you mean by will you reconnect” and “how long have you known him” -(and without providing any validating info at all) those are different kinds of questions that impact the integrity of the reading in my opinion.
I think the question of "when did you last speak?" or any type of last contact question can 100% impact the course of the reading. There is USUALLY a big difference when someone hasn't heard or spoken to someone in 5-7 months vs 2 days. That's just my opinion. I've never read with Constance but I've had readers who I consider good who have asked me that question too.
I agree - definitely the amount of time since last contact can impact a reading - but with readers that either I trust from other readings or that have given me something that validates they are picking up on specifics about me or my POI - I don’t mind giving that date of last contact. Because honestly last contact could have been a horrible fight or completely the opposite. Just date of last contact in some situations I’m good with.
But “how long have you known” the person - well that’s a different kettle of fish all together! Idk just my opinion.