Thank you tacobelle914. 3 weeks isn't long but added to a month of wondering wth is going one because neither one of us wants to be the one to reach out really sucks.
This man seems to think i should be chasing him and there is no way i will. I am an open book and he is so afraid to express himself that i need him to show me what he wants with his actions. At this point if April rolls around and he doesn't give me a sign that he wants to work things out i will just have to right him off.
I understand that - I was in a situation with a stubborn man, and it was soooo hard not to get a million readings, questioning each one along with my sanity when he wasn't messaging me immediately.
I've gone through fear, uneasiness, and straight up panic. And you know what - when I stopped obsessing and listened to my gut (I felt that he was coming back, in spite of 3 months of silence) he came back.
Yes, I got a few readings in the meantime, but with the 3 readers I have come to trust most... before if someone wasn't online I would come on here to scout out the next best psychic and get triggered if it was something I didn't want to hear lol.
Personally, I believe people are more psychic than they know and can pick up on the energies of someone they are connected to. What I would say is that a time limit is great, but I wouldn't think of it as writing him off. I would think of it more as shifting your attention/focus to yourself and your life.
That way you can really address and process things instead of burying it. And - if he does come back - you can make an honest assessment about him and whether you
really want to pursue something with him.
Anyway, that's the way I see things. You can always message me if you'd like to chat about things in depth or just take whatever tidbits are helpful to you/your situation from this message. I'm really rooting for you - I'm sure at the end of the day things will work out just fine, even if it's in a different way than expected.