I gotta say the same. Seems like the little things happen at a rapid pace at first, then start to die off, but then something a bit bigger (not much) happens but then it seems to go right back to limbo land. I think it will depend a lot on the actual person we are calling about though. I mean, they probably fluctuate in their emotions just as much as we do, if not more. So we get the little things, but then they don't end up following through on the big thing(s) and then it's just more disappointment. We then go and call again to get "updates" and, of course, either the time line changes drastically, or the pathway completely changes or even a combination of both. It's really so exhausting.
That's pretty much what's happening in my situation. Little things, then something a bit bigger, and then nothing again. Honestly, I've sort of had enough. I'm tired of getting bad news in my readings and I always will so long as I call about this particular person and that's because of who HE is. Has nothing to do with the psychic being negative or positive. If I never called a psychic about him, I'd still see the negative patterns. He never lets me go fully, but at the same time, doesn't grow or change enough to be the man I need in my life so it's just constant cycles and limbo. Since I've recognized that, I'm now just really working on healing and moving forward. I feel like my life has been in limbo waiting for him to grow up, which has been a huge mistake on my part.
These situations teach us lessons and I think one of the biggest lessons in this for me is, not to stay with a person or even get with a person that makes you feel like you need to call a psychic to gain clarification on how he feels, what he wants, etc. A grown man knows what he wants and his actions will show it. A confused little boy also will show things with his behaviors. It's a matter of us not overlooking these things anymore and just cutting it off at the first sign of it. That's been my huge huge huge lesson anyway.
My situation feels dead again. I called one of my faves today to get an "update" to see if timelines were still on track. But, nope. Timelines changed. Outcome didn't, but more delays apparently and the cause of the delays make perfect sense but I didn't need a psychic to tell me that either. I actually think the universe is doing me a huge favor with these delays, because I'm tired of waiting now and within that feeling of being tired of waiting and holding on, I will create the space for something and someone much healthier and better for me that I don't need to wait for them to recognize what they have or not. A grown man with wisdom can see it from the start and doesn't play games etc. I've just really learned a ton of things.
I think for any of us that has called and are still calling psychics, it's all part of the journey to healing. Just all part of the process. It's like the grief process. There are different phases we will go through with each phase lasting for an uncertain period of time, until we are finally healed and have really let go in every way and have come to a place of internal happiness, growth, and hope again.
Again, I think the delays are for a reason, and for good reason that maybe we can't see right now but when predictions stop happening, I think it's a blessing in disguise to be honest. It's for our own highest good. That's just my two cents.
