Alright. The muddy waters get muddier for me and instead of tossing it around in my head a million times I’m reaching out on this one.
She told me that me and my POI were soul mates but not life partners and the reason we’re not life partners is because if we were there wouldn’t be all these obstacles. And she *also* said that he thinks about me all the time, romantically even, but thinks he can’t give me what I’m looking for. She said I would be in communication with him again once I started seeing other people. That I would meet someone who would take my mind off my POI and that he would feel like he missed out with me. Also that as soon as a woman shows him affection he shuts down. He wants a challenge.
Well for goodness sake!!!! I really care for this man so much and I can’t figure out what to do. I don’t want to get back into the on line dating scene and there’s not a lot of opportunity for me to meet people because of how busy I am and where I’m located.
Other advisors that have connected to me very well have told me either that I will have a choice with him, or that we will end up together, or a similar thing to what she’s saying where he’ll come back around once I’m with someone else and then it will be too late.
I mean what do I do with that?!? Somehow I have to reconcile within myself that I need to move on from this man (who Cookie and one or two others have said the reason I can’t fully is because he’s the one not letting go of me!) ...
This is just so confusing and heartbreaking to me. I don’t want to date I just want to focus on myself.
So my question is this ... she said that the reason we’re not life partners is because it wouldn’t have all these interferences ... but we are soulmates and he thinks about me all the time etc. So those that have had readings with her - is that like her opinion of the situation coming in where it’s not set in stone or is that really a prediction? I want to be open to whatever she’s telling me but I’m having a hard time with this when the problem doesn’t seem to be that he doesn’t want me (although he’s basically sort of dating around right now) - but that I don’t give him enough of a challenge or something?!?
This is my hurdle. Is the fact that she doesn’t see us as life partners an opinion on her end kind of thing, or a solid prediction kind of thing? Because I have also had several that I have considered truly reliable tell me at least that I would have a choice or that we would end up together again once he gets through his “awakening” so to speak. That he will realize that he does want me instead of dating lots of women.
So confusing. Thanks for reading if you got this far. I know I should be happy about some new man coming along but the fact that it’s depending on my letting go and starting to date new people is really hard because I’m just tired and done with dating for a while and want to focus on myself.