Does your POI have mood swings?
That, too. Depression, bi-polar, you name it mental health wise can have effect on readings. Readers can't always see if a person has "issues". I know my POI has depression or something going on. I had a reading once and the reader was getting really spaced out and confused trying to concentrate on what he was thinking. She was honestly really struggling to get into his head, it can make readers disorientated.
I don't know if I necessarily agree with this, Star, Still Tired. My ex haissues like that and the readers I went to would always read "below the surface" and give predictions that would pass. I never found changing "in-the-moment" feelings (bipolar, depression, etc.) to have any impact on my readings. I feel it gives readers a bit more leeway to say, "Oh I wasn't wrong." But that's just been my experience.
But as I said, different readers have different reading strengths.. Some readers may get confused when they're trying to get into his mind. People in general struggle to understand someone with mental health issues, imagine trying to get into someone's head who has conflicting thoughts and feelings. I find it a fair statement to use. Yes, it's frustrating when readings change, but the poster isn't talking about predictions.. She's saying different readers seeing different things.
Oh, no, I understand haha. If you're talking to a psychic who's good with connecting to you (and of course if they're real) you can ask something like, "How are they feeling about me in the current moment" vs "How do they feel about me? Like, overall?" and you may get very different answers. That's another thing I've learned. it's important to ask a specific way sometimes, especially, for example, with Tarot readers. And sometimes other psychics too.
I'd rather a reader was honest with me and said "whoa, this guy is a bit all over the place. It's going to be hard for me to give an accurate reading", than "oh. Well he cared the last time, but this time he doesn't care for you". And yeah QOC is like that, I guess. Best for current, apparently. That's what I ask, now. I just ask what he's feeling for me currently, worryingly most haven't picked up that this guy is unstable and has issues going on. Less than the fingers of one hand.
Oh of course! I completely agree. I've had my accurate readers tell me how someone is feeling about me, and they can only pick up "in the moment", and I'd have others who pick up the "overall feeling". For the former, they might say, "Right now they're really not in a good mood. Not thinking about romance at all. No feelings toward anyone at this moment", whereas another psychic who can get the "overall scheme" would say, "I can see they feel very deeply for you, but they're really not in a good place right now". I've always found it to be how "deep" a reader can read certain things. But yeah, hahaha! The in-the-moment answers kind of drive me crazy, haha!
See because I'm young, age always comes into play and it's about how immature my guy is. I believe that his behaviour and.. His "issues" go way deeper than immaturity. It's that and whatever else is going on. I've known 18 year olds to be more mature than he is. That's why I hate giving DOB's, lol.
Shit, I just want to say I'm sorry. I know how it can be when the POI you're interested in is a little immature, especially, like, when you say the issues can go deeper than that. It's a hard thing to deal with sometimes, when trying to understand what's going on in their head. I wish you the best of luck with that! And yeah haha! I used to see date of birth as a red flag, but over time I've learned that it probably is just a question they're either A) required to ask (I know some do not read for some under 18) and/or B) it helps them connect a bit "easier".
Yeah, it's a toss up between immature and got issues going on for sure. It's just the moment they hear age, they blame it all on the immaturity. Hardly any pick up on his deep issues, which for me is a validation. But thanks for your support, and yeah some sites require you to give DOB and for better connection. It's frustrating when you get the stock lines, haha.
I'm not psychic by any means, so I wonder if possibly, it can be hard to differentiate between "brain" and "abilities" *cough*Tara*cough*. Maybe that's why they get "immaturity" sometimes? Yeah stock lines are really rough :/ I'm sure there are some legit psychics out there who come up with things that could be considered "stock lines", and still have ability though. So that's good! The only thing is it can make you doubt haha! For example, barbara4-whatever gets some insane details when she connects! But she also throws out some of the same gibbrish for everybody haha! Maybe it's a "Brain" vs "Abilities" type deal again. But yeah, I really wish you the best! I know how hard it can be not knowing what's going on :/ If you need anybody to talk to, please let me know! I'll be here! This goes for anyone and everyone else here, as well.
Sorry to derail, Dascallie!
Thanks so much Josh, I really appreciate it, you too.
Someone on another board tried Tara and liked her. Their situation is certainly unique, but I don't know if I want to try her after hearing the things about her on this board. Most of them don't pick up lots of crucial parts to my situation, unfortunately. Only a handful. But I think that that's the same with most people on here.. I've read so many stories where only 1 or 2 ended up being correct for someone. Typical, lol
You're welcome!:)
And she's... interesting. She can be very accurate, but she's just very judgemental and will often put her "psychic abilities" on hold, and replace them with her assumption and opinion. And with that, she can often take back her previous readings after learning something negative. You can tell she lets her judgements get in the way of a proper read.
She can be kind, but she lets her judgements and assumptions manipulate her reading, and get in the way of her gift. And she tries to recommend books sometimes and interject random questions which I really don't care about. I'd have to redirect her. But don't get me wrong! When she uses her abilities, she is fantastic! Or at least she has been for me! I know I've written a lot about judgements, but most of the time, she's been very VERY sweet to me and had been very very accurate for me. You just have to be careful because remember, you're spending 7.50/m haha.
I don't know if I have the patience for that 🤔 lol. I am in a bish bash bosh mood with my readings and just want to be told the answers, if I wanted opinion - I've got friends and family for that (FOR FREE!).
RIGHT?! Haha! i completely agree. I'm really sorry because I know how tough it can be
Have you tried Mattie? I know she can be pricey but I'm feeling pretty good about her! Thing is she just upp'd her price from what I read, so that's kind of worrisome. Angel Readings (Bitwine) was someone who was good for me. I've been trying to get less readings and focus on meditating. It's tough but it helps!:)
I want to try Mattie, but I think $15 a minute is a little.. Greedy, in my eyes. Also, I'm worried about the risk running of her being inaccurate. I liked KnowingAngel on Bitwine/Kasamba, she was the most realistic for me so far.
Yeah that worries me a bit too! I make ~that much in an hour, so spending an hours' worth of work for ten minutes of speak seems a little excessive... Maybe wait for a sale? I know it's not much, but at one point, I believe, if you signed up for the mobile app, you got 20 dollars free. I know it won't go far, but saving up those little promos can help! And maybe there will be a sale at some point! And who knows? Maybe you'll run into a random chunk of monies
I've never heard of KnowingAngel! - Well, I've heard of them. But I never read with them! That's Karen Jo, correct? It's been a whiel since I've heard that name haha! I'm glad she works well for you!:)
Stay positive, okay? I know it can be tough, scary, etc. But we are here for YOU! If you need anything at all.