Interesting question.... Im divorced and not sure I really want to get married again! I have had advisors/readers talk to me about "commitments" and so when I dig in and say what do you mean you dont see him committing in the next 6 months? Theyll say like a ring..... Im like, you can commit for a lifetime without getting married. Ive had this with QoC many times. I have to break down what she means a little! No Ive never been told I will get married. But again divorced, with kids and blending families is tricky and I admire those who make it work but Im not sure it's what I want. So again, it's also a way to know if an advisor is real because of course the normal fairytale is..... girl meets boy, boy proposes, they have kids and live happily ever after. If someone gives me this tale than I know....
