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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #15 on: November 03, 2018, 10:09:37 PM »
candiednut, I'm surprised you went on chat with her at her rate.

I didn't, I recorded the call and I'm transcribing it.

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #16 on: November 03, 2018, 10:21:10 PM »
Here is my reading with Mattie (names and birth dates have been changed for privacy)
P = psychic (Mattie)
M = me

P: Can I have your name?
M: Hi Mattie, this is Serena.
P: Oh Hi Serena, nice to talk to you. Can I just ask you lovely, what is your date of birth? Not the year, just the date.
M: Yes, January 15th.
P: January 15th. Have I worked with you before?
M: Yes we have.
P: Oh lovely. What can I look into for you today lovely, whats going on?
M: Yes. So I have um an ex boyfriend, his name is Kevin. We havent talked for like..a really long time, 4 to 5 years. And he just contacted me out of the blue, like once a month ago and another time 2 days ago, and i"m just wondering what his intentions are?
P: Okay...lets have a look and see. Right..ok. I get the feeling that hes trying to...reconnect. I get the sense that, in a way, hes trying to work out whats going on with your life . You know, where you're at with your life. I think theres more communication coming. I get the feeling you're holding back, you're a little bit cautious..if that makes sense. Would understand that he just sort of disappeared, or kind of just let go, and you didnt quite see it coming...do you understand this?
M: um i think you're picking up on someone else...this is a different ex.
P: Ahhh...okay lets make sure we're tuning in with the right one then. Lets ask spirit to make sure Kevin...can I Just clear everybody else and just look at Kevin...umm...okay....ok, they're definitely giving me the 4-5 link so I think we are now looking at him. Would you understand that there was a bit of fear, around Kevin about commitment? Cuz I felt commitment was the issue...does that make sense?
M: Um...no, no, thats not the issue with him.
P: why do I feel...Serena, I dont think I'm linking with him for some reason, I'd rather you got another advisor, I dont want to read if its not the right one. For some reason they're not making it clear. Sorry about that
M: Yeah okay...would it help if I gave you his date of birth?
P: Um...lets try.
M: Ok, ok his birthdate is September 23rd.
P: Ok so hes a Libra isnt he.
M: yes
P: Ok....um...nice guy isnt he, hes a nice guy. I dont feel hes a player. I just dont know whether, in some ways, he..ooh, okay, be careful, I just feel with him, hes still a little bit uncertain, about what he wants okay. So I get the feeling, its about taking things slowly ok? There was somebody else around him, does this make sense lovely?
M: Sorry Mattie, I dont think you;re connecting to him, thats not the issue.
P: Ah..okay..because I just felt for some reason, I got a sense of uncertainty...um...what was the issue?
M: The issue was I was the one that cut it off, and hes not over me. And, its not because he, there wasnt anybody else.
P: Was there anyone else for you tho?
M: Yes, but its not like, that wasn't the reason for the break up.
P: Ah..okay. okay. Serena, get a refund lovely, because I'm not tuning in to you at all today, I get very blocked with you at the moment, my apologies um...
M: Okay.
P: I just feel for some reason, just a sense of uncertainty, maybe with you as well. I don't know. Thats the strong message I'm getting. There is more to come, but I don't feel hes necessarily going to be your happily ever after. Does that make sense?
M: *laughs* no no, I don't want him to be.
P: No, okay, okay, no, I don't feel hes very much..the guy..that you'll settle with, unfortunately, well fortunately for you, um, um, I just think theres somebody else coming um....and I just dont see that he is somebody you'll necessarily, um, I think theres a friendship, but I don't see you going back into that relationship.
M: No, I actually wanted to know if theres any way I can like, stop him from communicating with me, because I don't want anything to do with him.
P: Um...I think that in a way, it'll generally just burn out anyway. I think hes just trying his luck, when he realizes that you're not going to respond accordingly then I get the feeling he'll go. He'll go by the end of this month, I don't feel he'll persist. Um, I think there will be 3 more communications coming in then I think he'll realize and give up. So I mean, you know, I don't think you have to be rude, thats not in your nature anyway. But I would..I just get the feeling, he is just, maybe, feeling a bit uncertain about life and maybe he needs someone to kind of talk to or link to in a way. Or maybe you're the one that got away that he never completely got over...I think, you know, theres a realization deep down within him that you know, you're not gonna change your mind, but I just get the feeling that theres much more to come for you, in a different area, with a different guy.
M: Okay..um
P: Why are they talking about a different area though? different area...go on lovely what did you want to ask?
M: Yeah um I just wanted more clarification on him, cuz I do want him to be happy, its just never going to be me. Do you see him in a relationship in the future, or getting married or being successful?
P: I see he will...I get the feeling theres a Christina, or Christine or somebody that I feel..she may be a teacher, actually, or education related. I think actually, probably, around this time next year, theres somebody he'll have a short experience with...

TO BE CONTINUED...

Wow.. It really seems like she wasn't getting your situation at all. Well, duh! To me, that sounded too generic.I'm not doubting she's a good reader, but that was very poor from compared to what has been said on here about her. It seems like career and other life areas are better? she *does* seem a little to be cold reading there and just guessworking because she got into a slight panic where she was getting things wrong and that's maybe where she began to falter the minute you said she was getting it wrong. For $13 a minute, I'm alarmed to give her a go on my situation. It's too risky if I cannot connect with her or she is similar with me.

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #17 on: November 03, 2018, 10:30:39 PM »
I won’t attempt to speak to what happened with candienut’s call or anyone else’s experience but for me, for the convo went (almost word for word anyway):
Can I get your name and birthday, not year just day and month?
Sure it’s ——
Okay and is there something you’re calling about in particular?
Yes I’d like to ask about a relationship between me and a man named —-
Okay can I have his birthday?
Yes it’s —-
Okay. Now if I told you the phrase “on a break” would that make sense to you?

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Which was the exact last words I texted my POI.

So I don’t know for me that validated a lot.

I just told her yes it absolutely did. And after that she went into a lot of specifics and details about the situation that I don’t have word for word but I know she couldn’t have known without a gift

As for predictions we’ll see but for me my experience was definitely very good with relationship reading. I don’t think she could have guessed or assumed the exact phase I said and had been mulling over and over in my mind like that. Just my experience for what it’s worth.


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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #18 on: November 03, 2018, 10:36:56 PM »
Flora that is a very common phrase and I am sure lot of people call in because they are on a break with person.

I would agree if it were a different context where I had given any info at all that was leading and also the other info she gave me was very specific as I posted in the other thread and won’t rehash here. Again I’m just sharing my experience and I don’t need to defend it to anyone.

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #19 on: November 03, 2018, 10:42:17 PM »
i do not know i just need hope right at this moment. i hope you are right.

Flora that is a very common phrase and I am sure lot of people call in because they are on a break with person.

I would agree if it were a different context where I had given any info at all that was leading and also the other info she gave me was very specific as I posted in the other thread and won’t rehash here. Again I’m just sharing my experience and I don’t need to defend it to anyone.
I’m not saying she will be right for you or me or anyone. But I am saying I believe that she gave me info during that call anyway that she could not have known without a gift and maybe it was just the present and maybe the predictions won’t happen and maybe she’s not right for everyone all the time. But for me for that reading of the present she was. I hope things turn out well for you and wish you all the best.

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #20 on: November 03, 2018, 11:10:33 PM »
Mattie reading continued....P=Mattie M=Me

P:.....that he'll have a very strong connection with. I'm sure shes got some sort of teaching or education link somewhere. And, I get the feeling yes, he will actually be in a committed relationship. I think he some ways, hes got some learning to do a little bit, about life and about love. Um, and I think that he will eventually find love and I do think he will settle. But I dont get the feeling hes in any hurry necessarily. But he is..hes quite a sweet guy isnt he, hes quite a nice guy, does that make sense?

M: *laughs* well...theres two sides to him, I guess when you first meet him you could call him a "nice guy".

P: I think ultimately..I don't think hes somebody that would, be a player, or...I just get the feeling theres something a little bit insecure about him. THats why I said he needs to learn...stuff that he needs to learn....and sort out. I get the feeling that he'll get counselling, but I think that could well be some sort of, stuff hes gonna look at doing. Which I think, maybe an option that would be quite helpful to him. But  i just feel that, you...you have known him in a past life actually. theres some sort of karmic link here...so you were kind of meant to have understood each other or been  together. Um, but I just feel, for him, i dont know, I just feel hes got a lot to learn, spirit is saying...but theres somebody ultimately that is quite nurturing, whos got an education link, and i think he will settle down with. Why are they giving me "sleepness in seattle"? thats a film isnt it? I cant remember what happened in it...OR, its a seattle link with him, or with this girl, i dont know, they just shouted seattle to me for some reason. Um, would you understand the name Tom, lovely, do you understand TOm?

M: Tom?

P: Yeah, do you know the name?

M: Um, I know a Tom, but we're not close or anything.

P: I wonder why its been mentioned...um...it could well be that somebody thats not somebody you know already. They just shouted Tom quite loudly for some reason, um, and maybe there is going to be some significance, but not yet. Um, I just feel with Kevin, there will be an understanding between you, that is going to put your mind at rest in some way. I do think he has struggled though, with different things, I do feel he will mature and kind of learn stuff as he goes forward. I think you will have, maybe a little bit of connection always, I dont think hes going to go completely away I just feel it might be you have a casual connection with communication.

M: Cuz I havent actually replied him at all...like Im just wondering like, do you see him still trying to communicate if I ignore him?

P: um..yes, they're giving me the number 3, so I think there could be 3 more attempts or something within 3 days. Um, and again, its up to you whether you choose to respond. I sort of dont see any harm in responding. Why do you feel you dont want to?

M: Because....

P: Are you worried about encouraging him?

M: yes, giving him false hope. Also because this was a very negative situation, he was stalking me and I don't want that energy in my life. *goes into a little bit of detail about it*

P: No..no..I mean, if thats the way you feel then go with your instinct because its telling you not to. But i do feel hes got a greater understanding now. And maybe thats why he sought therapy. Perhaps hes undergone some realization that his behavior with you was inappropriate, But i just think that *1 minute ding*

* didn't catch what she said

P: of love for you, or imagined love, if that makes sense. I think hes got a little bit carried away, almost to the point where it was a little bit delusional, does that make sense?

M: Yeah, do you see him backing off, carrying on with his life or do you see him relentlessly trying to like pursue something with me?

P: No, i think actually he knows his boundaries now, I think he has changed. I think he has..actually...theres a gentle tone with him now, not aggressive, I suppose he was a little bit mad in a way, because you do get mad sometimes with love in a way. But i just get the feeling he did seek help with that um, because I think he did struggle with the ending of the relationship. Perhaps in a way, he is now looking for ....*cuts off*
What a bummer :( I was pretty excited an hopeful about Mattie. Time will tell if anything she said to me pans out or not :/

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #21 on: November 04, 2018, 02:38:43 PM »
Any further update on mattie?

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #22 on: November 04, 2018, 06:13:55 PM »
Any further update on mattie?

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #23 on: November 04, 2018, 06:15:12 PM »
Any further update on mattie?

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #24 on: November 04, 2018, 06:32:33 PM »
Any further update on mattie?

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #25 on: November 05, 2018, 04:52:16 PM »
lol people get scared to put reviews thats why these psychics get away with stuff. expose it and itll help all of us... i didnt learn what i know about David James until I saw this site and it helped because I know i wasnt alone and he is a scam. a lot of site delete negative reviews on their advisors bc that would make their site look bad duh! so we have sites like this to tell the truth and to have a voice.

I understand why they don't want to leave a bad review here, because some people get really upset when their fav or popular psychic was wrong. I've seen it on another board too. So i can understand that they don't want to be torn apart.
and as many have said and i will repeat who works for one, may not work for another.

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #26 on: November 05, 2018, 04:56:03 PM »
95 percent of the psychics is fake even then the real one give peoples flase hope so they can make a buck or two imagine your jobs is to lied to peoples everyday how can these people live with them self.

No different than a weather man lol and they never lose their jobs :P

No not 95% are fake, some people have unrealistic expectations, no one is ever 100% and they don't pick up on the same things or everything, it's not 1 800 dial heaven. It's what ever info is presented to them, they don't pick and chose what comes to them. What the client is meant to know is what is revealed.

There are a lot of crappy people out there pretending to be psychics, or have limited abilities claiming to  have more.

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #27 on: November 05, 2018, 05:12:42 PM »
After reading the transcript, i don't understand why you continued the call after she told you to go to another advisor, that she couldn't connect and to get a refund?  When you continued the call she just tried her best to connect with you. She told you she has no control over what info she gets.   Yes, a person may be calling about xyz, but at times your own guides may be saying you need to know about abc instead. We aren't meant to know every single thing.   Your energy could very well have been blocked, if you were in specific mood or state emotionally, that can also block a reading.  This is why its always advisable before a reading to make sure your energy is even and open, so it's easier to connect with. Think of it as a radio station, it's like this for both reader and psychic,  the calmer the energy the better for them to pick things up.  it just seems to me that even after she told you all the above, you still wanted to stay on and talk to her, so she tried her best to connect even after she told you she was having a hard time.

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #28 on: November 05, 2018, 05:34:08 PM »
I agree, when it dosent start off well and the psycic says "hey, I'm not doing well with this"..I think we should accept that. When you as a customer want to stay on and glean what you can from her, she has to oblige and try her best. The best she can do will likely not be very good tho.

However, I don't believe this spiel about "being blocked". That to me just means that the psychic can't tune in to whatever you are inquiring about. To say, "you are blocked" is a cop out. It is their job to read. She did say she is not in control of the information she gets and its more of a "hearing what comes to me" instead of actively looking for specific information. That is important information. And it explains why her random predictions/insights were accurate for me. I think she is only gifted in that way.

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Re: EFFING DISAPPOINTED
« Reply #29 on: November 05, 2018, 06:05:42 PM »
I had an ex contact me recently, this is not a "POI" ex as I want nothing to do with him, he is an effing stalker, psychopath and sexually abused me. The only reason that I called about him is to ask about his INTENTIONS of contact (after 5 years of not talking) and whether or not I can feel safe.

Psychics can't pick up shit.

What do his intentions matter?  He's a "psychopath" and he "sexually abused" you per your own words.  In what possible scenario would you think they are noble and good?  What part of you could possibly think something good would come from talking with or meeting up with this person?  He is clearly looking for a victim.

This isn't a "psychics can't pick up shit" matter.  It's about you being able to think for yourself and immediately recognizing when something isn't in your best interests.

 

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