Update - I started to read with her in Feb 2024 about this specific POI, J. In her first reading, she saw that he would want to be in a committed relationship with me before the end of the summer (end of Sep) but by then, I would no longer be interested in him. I was bit underwhelmed during this first reading because she told me "generic" poi things like scared / fear of relationship & I come off as someone who's representative of a relationship / he takes me seriously. The timeline she gave me was a month / 30 days from the call. She advised me not to "wait for him." But he will try and come back in but more of the same - can't committed because he's scared and that he's too scared.
2nd reading (Apr) - she saw the commitment in May and June. Picked up poi's father abandonment by herself - I can validate this as my poi has mentioned child neglect and was in foster care. He never mentioned his father to me before. May and June came and went. No commitment from poi.
3rd/4th/5th readings (May - Aug) - timing is similar to reading #1. End of summer or gave me 3/4 months timeline. New thing she saw was that my poi and I would have a talk about seeing other people or he would ask me about it. In one of these readings, she picked up that my poi "knows" what im up to via social media.
End of Sept/ end of the summer - my poi brought up passive aggressively about me seeing someone else / hanging out with someone. I thought this was an opportunity to have "the talk." I told poi that our situationship is not sustainable and that I need an answer. Btw, I don't have anyone else. Poi almost got a panic attack from the talk.
I called Lillian and this time, she saw commitment in Jan/Feb 2025 now. I told her about her previous predictions (end of summer) and she kinda got mad? She said if I talk to poi about commitment, he will get scared and that's why the timing got delayed to next year. She advised me to walk away from poi and this way, he will come back to me.
She saw that my poi doesn't take responsibility about his mistakes with his exes. I mentioned this to her in the previous readings so now I wonder if she takes notes. On another note, she asked me what happened on Wednesday of last week (I called her on the following Monday), that's the day I hung out with poi and we had a great time together but this wasn't the day we had our tough conversation about our situationship. That was Saturday. So I will give her points for picking up Wednesday by herself.
Final thoughts - I think she has some talents. She's good at picking the current energies. I would not rely on her for predictions and timelines.
