i'm afraid to do it but i think i need to.
help!
Good luck, Peppie!
I have been off keen and other psychic sites for over a month now; I went through psychic addiction for about 4 years. Here was my recipe to end that nightmare:
#1. I got completely exhausted/emotionally drained by quick relieve (when getting readings) - anxiety (a few days after, while wondering if the predictions will really come true) - sadness/apathy/depressive moods (when witnesing nothing coming to fruition) cycle. About 90%of all readings were about a man Iwas interested in and at some point Isimply got tired of that pitiful state I have been in for too long; that in turn led me to my next step
#2. After hearing numerous times that my poi will contact me and I should have some patience, I had enough and decided to get all the clarity myself by reaching out to that man and asking him to meet and ask him pretty much all the questions I was asking psychics about him. I texted him and we met, and here is a very powerful thing occured when I met him: I got very present to the fact that most, if not all, psychic readings put us into another dimention, like an alternate reality in wich we start to believe certain things about people we ask about. Like in my case I was meeting my ex still thinking that he likes me a lot and that deep inside he wants to recconect and didn't forget about me, however when I actually met him - it became clear almost right away that he has moved on, moreover he was sharing his plans for the future and I was nowhere near it. I didn't even ask him the questions I wanted to ask him, because it was not even appropriate in that moment - everything was clear without words.
After that meeting I wasn't calling psychics for about 4 months. I think actually meeting a guy to check with him where we stand was THE MOST powerful thing Ihave done to stop that addiction. The questions that I was asking psychics about were all answered.
However, over 4 months later, I run into my ex again, accidentally. He was sweet and flirtatious with me, and said, "hey, we should get a drink", but even though I was open to it, he made no actual plan to meet and never called/texted after that meeting. That should have been enough for me an indication that he didn't actually mean what he said, but silly me, I got lost in a forest of 3 trees, ugh...and called psychics again. and dumped close to $4k in a month
Close to all psychics told me I was going to hear from my ex, a few said I won't. Most memorable was a reading with QoC. After she told me that my ex won't come back, I asked her about possibilities in the next few months. She answered, "Nah, I see you seating around, patiently waiting for the guy, believing he will reach out to you. He wants nothing to do with you though". It was painful to hear her saying that, but now I can't thank her enough for doing that.
I stopped getting readings and started to heal again.
#3 All november and pretty much every day in december I have been reading posts here (I really wish I had discovered this forum long ago, but I only found it at the end of september), I espcially enjoy reading old posts and posts written by members who have been here for awhile. It looks like some folks actually did move on, no longer enchanted by psychic readings and rarely check in here, good for them! I found it benefitial to read posts like, "almost all were wrong" and some posts just made me get really present to what a horrific impact that adiction had on people's life. Like when people were given a false hope for years while their poi were dating others, getting engaged, getting married. One of the first posts that had in impact on me was:
http://www.thepsychicreviews.com/forum/index.php/topic,1337.0.html I am extremaly greatful for people having courage to share their true life stories here. I know the pain many of you were writing about - reading it definitely played a huge part in my working through addiction. Using the guidance of a truly gifted psychic, takes wisdom, takes knowing how to ground yourself, how to keep yourself balanced, how to use their guidance to create and NOT EVER FORGETING that we and not psychics create our future. The way I was getting readings was definitely unhealthy.
