So far on bitwine and mypsy everyone I spoke to saw reconciliation but Leeloo, Dino and Cali nailed the prediction timeline of when I would hear from him and how it would be (very casual).
I decided to not reply to his casual message because its not really an effort of any means so will see what happens next and if he reaches out again.
The way i see it now is that by replying to such a stupid message I'm just enabling his cycle of coming and going and his effort needs to be much higher than what it is and for what hes done.