Folks. This is a familiar warning. PLEASE ADVISE:
The other week i had a bit of a meltdown and noticed a contact in my boyfriends phone that seemed labeled incorrectly/ was sketchy. It was a girls first name and the name of his company next to it. He doesnt have coworkers by that name. I thought something was up. Long story. I checked in with several psychics and they were all extremely wrong.
Chelli told me he was having an affair with this woman and hiding it from me to look like a coworker, kiery (who is usually pretty good) told me that he was hiding it from me and lying because he had met her recently (not through work she said!) and wanted to talk to her behind my back and flirt because he liked validation. She said (he does this a lot). I said “ but he doesnt go out, lives at home, and when hes out or in the city, its with me.” She insisted. celtic moon said it was a woman he had met from before he and i met who he wanted to keep her phone number but didnt want me to see he had it saved.
Sad about the last one because i actually like her and trusted her. Maybe shes just bad at the past or details?
Okay so. I freaked out. Called him out on it and would not accept his explanation. he kept insisting he didnt recognize her and had no idea who she was and couldnt remember why he had that number in his phone. I ended up messaging the girl myself after a night of crying and anxiety, and turns out it was a girl that he and i had both met together two weeks prior- we were getting some film shots of people out and about and everyone had to sign contracts for consent and give all contact info.. which i was incharge of.
We were in a rush when we got to her so i made him save her number in his phone to add to the consent form later on. I specifically had him put the number in his phone with his company name next to it so he’d remember. The thing is, we talked to so many people that night, and it was outside and pretty dark, that i had completely forgotten this girls name and face and that we’d even met her.
So my boyfriend was right and being 100% honest the entire time. I feel terrible. He didnt recognize her at first either and was swearing to me he didnt know her and wasnt lying to me. He found her name on the consent forms later on and connected the dots as well. This was just a random girl we had both met and talked to for about 5 minutes, 2 weeks prior, that we took footage of for his work (hes shooting a commercial & needed nightlife footage). Maybe if there was some other explanation or connection, even some of what the psychics told me could potentially apply or i could at least see how they’d interpret this... but no. This is nothing sketchy. If anything, i was talking to her and saved her number in his phone MYSELF. There was no behind the back flirting, meeting or texting in secret, or any sketchy “hiding” of her contact to confuse me.
They all INSISTED something suspicious was going on with this girl.
OMG.
i ended up causing a massive fight and accusing him of lying to me solely because i believed these psychics (at least kiery and celtic moon). I was so embarrassed. Thankfully he forgave me but OMG.
Please be careful. When i found out who she was it all came back to me and i was like “oh .. shit. I fucked up. Big time” Even with the psychics you trust who’ve gotten it right about other details in the past. I ended up making myself look like an insane psychopath and super paranoid. Taught me a valuable lesson... and thankfully my boyfriend and i have been together a while and he was understanding, but it almost broke us up and caused a huge issue, and a lot of unnecessary stress and pain.
As for chelli— dear god no. She said “its an affair, hes lying to you. Its a woman on the side im sorry to say.” And then ended the chat. A big NO. Avoid.
