@attaboy - I mean I would think only you know. I mean asking if she has an addiction and an unhealthy life to me is not something that they would commonly ask. I have never been asked that by anyone. That isnt exactly a common issue among individuals or POI's I wouldnt think. If she does (you dont obviously need to answer) - but then I would say you definitely have validation that Tara is connecting with you. It's those sort of things that I look for with a reader. Not "he has commitment issues or trust issues". or some other bullshit that 95% of men have so they can throw it out there and were like yes that sounds just like him!
Good news is she's definitely legit! Not sure how much of it she gets "wrong" though. She definitely told me things about my POI which cannot be guesses. I'm talking deep, specific things, which really only apply to her. But for me, so far, at least, one of her timelines had passed with the event not happening. So maybe her timeframe is off. We'll see. But upon telling her something negative that happened with my POI and I, something she did (She had valid reasons. I don't want to elaborate), she suddenly stopped using her "abilities" and began saying, "She's crazy. I don't even feel comfortable reaffirming my last predictions anymore". So I guess she "took them back", after learning about something that had happened. So it's clear to me that her logical brain kicked in and kicked the "psychic" side of her mind out for a bit. She still gave me that timeline for something to have happened this past month which hadn't happened yet. I suppose the timeframe could be off. But she literally took back her entire previous reading after I told her what I had. And you could tell it came from a place of judging her based on what I told her, rather than her actual gift, so I feel very comfortable going back to her "old" prediction, which she gave me many times before. I feel like she just wants what's best for her clients, so when I told her what I had, her mind went from "psychic abilities incoming!" to "That doesn't sounds good. I need to get this guy to steer clear of her! I don't like this girl anymore".
So we will see what happens. But she just has to kind of shy away from assuming and judging, and go in 100% with the abilities she has. Otherwise, you're bound to get a reading based on judgement as opposed to ability. I did have to stop her within multiple readings to get back on track and not try to sell me on some book. But she was understanding, which was great. And I know she just wants to help. We all have our good and bad in us. And overall she's a really kind and considerate person, and I love her, i think she's amazing, but it would be super if she kind of tried to stay on topic and avoid putting her own assumption or opinion is, and trying to base her reading off of opinion or assumption.
