Ok, I decided to update on my two conversations with Lotus.
She told me March would be my month; my relationship would have completely ended with my spouse giving up, I would have a better job, and my move would go smoothly. It seems lotus and I do not have a strong connection in terms of interpretation. When I gave her my concerns she would respond with a definitive "yes" or "no" but she also used wording that alluded to the opposite. I interpretated what she said using the definitive answer and nothing she said has been true other than the month of March being a great month for me. It was.
March: the job offer I got was given to someone else, but I made a GIGANTIC bonus that convinced me to stay anyway. I did not get the home I was hoping for, rather my spouse and I reconciled and we moved back in together.
I spoke with Lotus again a month after these conversations and she told me the summer months would be best for me. I can't say she was wrong, March was a great month! But, it seems I needed to read in between the lines in order to get an accurate answer.