Someone, I think Reed, explained the other people to me in this way. I had called him asking specifically about the other girl (the one he actually had the r/s with as opposed to the one that's been hanging around for 2 yrs). He had broken it off with her (she was married) and she was suddenly not only moving out of her house but to a place a mile from him. Reed said that he couldn't really feel her and he felt that it was because there was no deep connection between the two of them. He said he went from me to him and felt a huge connection and from him out and really felt very little. So maybe that's why very few picked up on the r/s. Typically they'd pick up on someone near him and they'd describe his sister to a T - they are very close.
The only one that seemed to was Winter. The end of March I called her as he had been really quite. She told me of course that he still loved me. She said he would open up more by mid-April (which did happen but note the 2-week timeline).
This is what she said about the other woman: there may be someone trying to be with him romantically
but they are not together
someone from his past
she doesn’t see anything happening with them
he told her about us and she is trying to pursue him
This was all true, once I found out about the r/s.
So the end of May I find out this girl is getting divorced and moving near him. I freak out again and in re-reading my notes I am thrilled Winter was the only one that picked up on her. So I call her back in early June. She tells me the EXACT same things since I just let her talk, someone from his past is around, gave me a two week timeline for things to open up again (did NOT happen), he takes me for granted because I am still around, it was like she was reading a script.
I wish I had known that you could ask for a refund as I really felt scammed that day.
I agree they should allow negative feedback. I left neg feedback at Keen for someone pretty $$ and admitted hey maybe she had a bad day but you know, it wasn't what I was told and no way did we connect. It was posted right away. I can see them still monitoring it in case of profanity or something. HOpefully at least internally they use the negative feedback to rate them.