I got a reading.
I messaged and said
Personalisation:
My name DOB, Single
I met a someone I feel drawn to. We were friends; but currently not speaking. I am wondering if he is my soulmate, twinflame karmic lesson....
His name and DOB
Her reply is below.
Hi ____
Your bond with ___ has the distance but certainly cannot deny its gravity, keeping you in his orbit even when life threw barriers. The dynamics between two pieces are layered and complex, with textures forming feelings of unfinished business as if more is to be revealed, something's unwritten, or unresolved. There's a reason for the overthinking; there's a connection despite the break in communication. It's not an ordinary relationship; it is important to relate that it's meant to shift aspects of your inner self through love, transformation, or lessons that impact your path significantly and lastingly.
___ was not in your life for no reason. There was a familiarity, a recognition that either felt instant or quietly developed over time. The energies of soulmates and twin flames are often confused in the misunderstanding because of the intensity, attraction, and very personal feelings they can evoke; however, their purpose is not to serve. Twin flames are mirrors that reflect all your real truths, inner scars, and growth edges in such an exaggerated way that you cannot escape evolution. Soulmates offer such intimate companionship and sense of knowing that they often bring healing or stability where it is needed most. The karmic lessons are meant to teach something-sometimes it is about breaking cycles or healing old wounds so that new doors can open.
Your connection with ___ leans heavily into twin flame and karmic energy. There is a mirroring aspect here, where his presence likely brought up parts of yourself that needed to be seen, acknowledged, and healed. He may have challenged you in ways that felt frustrating, yet also necessary. Twin flames are not always meant to be lifelong partners, but rather catalysts for deep self-discovery. The way things unfolded, the current distance, and the fact that you are still drawn to him suggest that this was a transformative connection but one that may not have been built for permanence in the way you initially hoped.
There is a sense that ___, on some level, felt the intensity of this bond too. He may not have fully understood it, or he may not have been in a place where he was ready to embrace the depth of what was happening between you. His energy suggests someone who holds back when emotions become overwhelming, someone who may struggle with vulnerability, or who chooses to retreat rather than confront difficult emotions head-on. If communication broke down, it may have been because the intensity of this connection forced both of you to confront things that were not easy to process. That does not mean he did not care. It means that something in this bond triggered old wounds, fears, or insecurities—on both sides.
Your question is no longer personal to ___. It becomes broader in scope: was this connection intended for the long haul, does it still have a course to live ahead of it, or was it simply meant to teach you a lesson leading toward something bigger? The fact is that the energy between you two is not completely cut off. There is still some cable there, some space where unacted emotions are sitting. But what would be the answer if revisiting this relationship would bring healing or would keep you stuck in a cycle not meant to continue anymore?
If __ is your twin flame, then the separation is part of the journey, a period of individual growth that is necessary before any kind of reunion could be possible. Twin flames often go through cycles of meeting, separating, evolving, and sometimes reconnecting in new ways. But if this is more karmic in nature, then this connection may have served its purpose already, teaching you what it needed to teach before releasing you to move forward.
The best way to think about this is to consider how this relationship impacted your emotions-not only in the positive moments but also in confusion, pain, and uncertainty. Did you feel recognized and appreciated in the relationship, or did you always feel confused about your status? Did you find this relationship conducive to your growth, or did it seem to hinder you from achieving emotional stability? Answering these questions will help determine if it’s a connection worth revisiting or one that needs to be released with gratitude for its lessons.
___ may still think of you; perhaps he still feels the echoes of this connection even if he's not acting on them. His energy also speaks to someone who has a hard time going very far in a full, deep emotional space, either because he is scared of what vulnerability will require of him or because he compartmentalizes emotions in a way that keeps him from really getting involved. If he did return, would he be up with you as you are now, or would the old patterns just repeat themselves?
You do not stay in limbo. Whether you end up revisiting this relationship or not, the guidance is toward clarity and to the type of love and partnership that offer peace instead of emotional turmoil. If ___ was meant to be in your life in a permanent way, that door will open organically when the timing is right. Otherwise, holding on to this connection may just blind you to all the opportunities ahead of you.
If there is a need for closing, it might be worth contacting, but that should only be done if it's coming from an inner strength and not a need for confirmation or expectation. The person's energy should be in the process of backing off and releasing this; whatever is meant for you will never pass you by. The universe doesn't take without giving in return, and what you are moving toward may be far better than what you're leaving behind.
You are on your way to a higher, more profound connection with Marc or someone new; the love you're seeking is already vibrating with you. So trust that.
Yes no maybe so. Kind of confusing, and all over the place.