Any updates on Judi?
I've had 3 readings with her in 8 months. She's definitely not a scam. I've gotten a lot of assistance from her. If she is having an off day, end the call.
1. Don't ever go to an empath with your head full of a script of what you want to hear.
2. You need to be detached from the outcome. Do cord cutting meditations even if it feels ridiculous. If you have a death grip on your outcome, you will end up disappointed in the end 99.99% of the time.
3. Don't focus on time frames as if they are make or break for accuracy. It's great when someone gets an exact hit, but don't count on it. Someone isn't wrong if you get a call on Wednesday or Friday instead of Thursday. In general, contact predictions are the worst thing ever. Full of desperation. Don't think people can't feel it, even if they haven't talked to you for months. If you were hanging off a cliff, you would want to climb up and get off, not hang on forever. You also wouldn't bitch if search and rescue showed up, no matter when it was. If you are getting back together or whatever, it will happen whether or not he/she calls you on Thursday at 6:47 pm. You are much more attractive when you aren't waiting around.
4. Don't automatically assume a genuine reader is wrong. One of the funniest "that reader was soooo wrong" when she was soooo right examples I ever saw was when a reader told someone her new boyfriend's car had horses on it. The client posts that the reader is soooo wrong because her boyfriends car is a Porsche. Uh, the Porsche medallion has had a stallion on it since 1931, so your boyfriend's car does in fact have at least 5 horses on it. Listen to what they say. Just because it's not exactly the way you envision it (giant airbrushed horses) doesn't mean they are wrong. There are always things that don't pan out, but if you record your reading and listen to it a few months later, you can be surprised at what you missed the first time because you were so dead set on hearing what you wanted to hear.
5. If you are full of fear and desperation, that is what you are going to keep on getting. Judi is great because she reads heart and ego. Not everyone acts on what they feel, and feelings can evolve, for better and for worse. I had a situation that had no visible progress for about 2 1/2 months. Recently, I felt something change. I just knew it. I called Judi and the first thing she said was "Somethings changed!".
6. Sometimes a reader picks up on someone else. A long time ago I had a reader tell me my life was about to completely change. I was going to be offered a job out of the blue by someone I was connected to through work, in Washington D.C., in a completely different line of work than I was in now. I got exact details on the job, everything. Nothing happened. About six months later, I was at a party and I asked about someone I hadn't seen in a few months and a mutual friend said "Oh, you haven't heard? She got offered a job in Washington D.C. as a __________by our former boss, who was now a White House domestic policy advisor. Or it is possible he was trying to decide which one of us to reach out to and decided on her.
Judi has given me a lot of insight into what people are thinking and feeling, and so far it's been pretty accurate. That is very helpful when you are in a situation when you can't or shouldn't ask them. I have no doubt she is genuine. She's probably not perfect, but she is very good. No reader is great for everyone and I'm sure that sooner or later I will have an off day with her, but that's ok. I'll call another day.
