@wildfox- Judi hasn't ever told me fairy tales. she's given me bad, heart wrenching news before.
I'm curious, did she just give you this news when you asked your question or did you press her for more info? I ask cause I just want to know whether you guys have found her to be straightforward or she may withhold some info.
she gave me the news when I asked. I didn't press her for more info. With me, she's been very straightforward
I've verified a few things that were wrong. First, she arbitrarily just told me he'd seen me the day before but I didn't see him. then she said he'd driven by my house. I found that quite odd and didn't really believe it. Still don't. Then when i asked if the GF was going on a trip with them, she channeled and said NO. Well, she is on the trip with him. She also asked him if he's breaking up with GF and said yes, after the trip most likely. I seriously doubt it. They look very happy. Why would he take his GF if he's SO miserable, unhappy and bored with the GF? He's gone to his parents house in Florida so that's even more confirmation he's not miserable.
You know what? and I'm not condoning this guy's behavior towards you or anything of the sort, but when I was in a really bad place with my current guy, I mean really bad (we broke up a few months later and he moved out) he took me on a trip to his parents out of state....so apperances can be disceiving.
Definitely can be. When I was in a very bad place with a live-in ex (not the one I'm asking about currently), we went out of town for the weekend, out to eat together but mostly with groups, did some activities alone up for about six weeks until the day he moved out. I haven't seen him since. You truly can't tell what's going on with them by what they do together.