3rd parties? What is the psychic "take" on what is going on?

[Bark angel]

Are all cases involving 3rd parties similar?  I am listing a number of things that have been shared with me about my case.  Wondering if others have been given this same scenario.

[melancholia]

All of the above, plus "unfinished business between them."

Makes me sick thinking about it.

[Synergy]

The third party is "manipulative", interested in money/financial gain, etc.  The relationship is one of convenience or is described as comfortable.  And you can imagine all the rest. 

[sagitira]

same - third party is manipulative, clingy, emotional...no real connection just convenience, habit and comfort. stories are the same...(reality seems totally different), also financial ties etc...

[hope4love]

nm

[allbitenobark]

I'm sure I've heard all the other excuses/explanations or combinations of all but the manipulation and controlling scenario seems to get used the most.

[Zenia]

Yep, I've heard these lines before as well as:

This interest is an ego boost
He's not in love with her but he loves and respects her as a person 
Relationship isn't that great, it's just okay (yes, comfortable)
Nice financial arrangement
Too much for him to lose
Kids and finance are an issue/roadblock

We've all had readers who couldn't pick up a third party and the classic line I've gotten is:
he hasn't been involved with anyone for a long time; he dates on occasion but he's not with anyone.
In this particular scenario, this person was living with someone and they had a daughter together.   
How the heck could this not come up?!? 

auuchh!Yes,how could this not show.. I have heard the same myself.

[Zenia]

I'm sure I've heard all the other excuses/explanations or combinations of all but the manipulation and controlling scenario seems to get used the most.

Same here.And they even take it a step forward,saying she is an evil person,,a psychopat and that she is destroying his life.And that he is so low in energy that he cant get out of it.

[Zee]

Because it's sort of related, I wanted to ask this question here. What's it mean when a man checks himself into rehab? What exactly is he rehabbing?

I'm referring to both Tiger Woods, but more recently Dean McDermott:http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/tori-spelling-dean-mcdermott-drastic-move-save-marriage-article-1.1591833.

What does rehab fix for cheaters? I've just always wondered about this and wasn't sure.

[Bark angel]

Not sure about Dean, but I thought I recalled hearing at one point that for Tiger it was to treat a sexual addiction, wasn't it?

[Zee]

Well, I have a food addiction. I have to and want to eat, should I go to rehab?

[fiercefoxie]

I am being told it's superficial and he has no real feelings for her. She is an ego boost that he can still get whomever he wants but once she wants something in return, he loses interest (this appears to be right from what has been happening on facebook.)

[marybell]

Well, I have a food addiction. I have to and want to eat, should I go to rehab?

If you are obese or having other major health issues due to your over eating, then the answer is yes

[Zee]

Point missed as usual.

[hope4love]

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