Professor: that was really nice thank you so much. Yes let life happen. That’s my mantra. And also, he is someone I know my whole life and he knows that getting involved with me ( bc he knows and is very connected to my family since we were kids) always was going to men’s long term. I would have been the last person for him to seek out if he just wanted to fuss around... so I’m sure that things will happen on their own just like you said...... Yona is great, I am just going to take her advice too and stay neautral and slow things down and not be so impatient.....
Yona saw that I had met someone through the spread and then she said” what worries you about him” and then I explained to her the situation and how we met that we have known eachother and the fact that he cancelled his wedding back in August and we went out for the first time this past November... she then went on to say her thoughts and feelings why he is not “ avoiding” sex, but isn’t quite ready to do it yet. Her reasoning is very very very good and realistic- simply that he just hasn’t processed, not the ex per se, but just the entire break up and feels guilty to physically be intimate with someone else. She likes him - Yona said he isn’t a bad guy. And if he was a player or a lyer the cards would show. And I know he isn’t any of those things I am happy Yona saw that too... I guess I just wanted to see if she’s also that good at interrupting POIs feelings and motives...so to sneer ur questions I didn’t quite ask her but I explained to her and then she went on to talk about him.... now I know that I shouldn’t ask her direct questions cause she isn’t that accurate .... I did just simply ask toward the end of the reading if she thought there would be any endings between us and she said no she didn’t see him vanishing.... I am assuming that’s ok to ask? Ugh! Idk? Nothing about him disappearing came up... so I’m assuming he is here to stay.... thanks everyone