cjean- I totally agree with pt...I have been working with a metaphysica
l healer who works with helping you change your energy and he says everytime you look ahead or try to think when something will or won't happen, that is a prediction. It's okay to have them but my problem (and I'm sure others too) are that I started acting on my predictions
. Like for instance, if I didn't hear from sm in a week i would think omg, he doesn't want to talk to me and be depressed(prediction) or if I was feeling sad and thought that I would never see sm or be happy again I would freak (predicition). Predictions are okay if you don't act on them, instead be okay with "the moment", what is happening right now, not later, in a day, etc. Trust me, it is not easy to begin to think like this but I can tell you I have been working on it....I have had scenarios and predictions in my mind for so long and have made myself nuts on things I "thought" but had no reality. I used to call CP several times a week since the fall and I can honestly say, I have cut waaaaay back on calling because I am just trying to work on what I'm currently feeling or what is currently happening, not what will happen. I figured I had to change my way of thinking because the way I used to be wasn't working for me and making me crazy. I don't know if this is related to any of the work I've been doing on myself but sm and I haven't really talked much other than a "hey how are you doing" but the other night when i sent him a "hey, how are you doing" we began talking and he began to slowly open up about his feelings for me....NEVER EVER has this happened in the past!! Usually, I would begin to plan when I'm going to talk to him or see him again and start thinking about the things that can happen between us but I will say that I am just happy that he is opening up and I am okay with that for now. I'm not going to freak if I don't hear from him for a while because at least I know how he feels and for now, that is good enough for me!!
