tjoy- I've also noticed that by reading on this forum.... So I'm starting to wonder myself if it's just a line. That was the first thing she said both times, but I can't confirm if it's valid or not. I've had a couple other readers bring up legal issues and it's only been since recently. So I'm not sure, but it will come to light
Truelove- I guess technically no he wasn't an ex. This was the whole problem with the relationship. We dated for over a year, spent all our free time together, agreed not to see other people, but when I began to look for the "title" he didn't see the point and I didn't see his. This all happened in June. He did contact me maybe 2 times in July a few in August, but it was a hey or how are you. When I called, I wanted to know if he would actually put in some effort to see me and try to reconcile.