Hello, I am new to this group but just wanted to vent. I am going through a marital separation, and I got addicted to psychics trying to find answers. I’ve tried hundreds on Keen, I’ve tried a few on Bitwine, and a lot on Best Psychic Directory. At first, everyone seemed to think my spouse would return in February, and that we would reconcile. Then, they all saw me meeting someone new and “deleting” my feelings for my spouse, and getting the courage to divorce. Now, everyone is saying he will be the one to divorce me in summer. I am just so confused. Has anyone ever had this happen to them? Apart from my relationship, I have asked career questions, and it’s the same story. I would leave my job in February, then I would get a promotion, now I won’t be getting a promotion.
It happens
It’s might or might not be comforting to know that you’re not the first person to get addicted to psychics because their love life fell apart… it’s actually common (doesn’t mean we should normalize it). But you won’t be the last either. (But the grief is that unbearable)
When things fall apart we then get stuck in this lack energy, or it’s not enough mentality and it quickly snowballs. Guarding our thoughts and healing, “should” be a natural “duh” but when we we don’t trust our support system: family, friends. Or it’s failed us, or just don’t know. But overall just in it. For some it’s psychics, other it’s mix of alcohol, gambling, controlling, eating disorders, drugs (there’s an endless amount of addictions really)
Regardless the best I can offer is humor. Know this:
At least you’re not getting in a relationship with Kanye and at least you’re not divorced from Kanye. And most importantly you don’t have to co-parent with Kanye.
What helps me sleep at night is this meme I made on full moon: At least I’m not coparenting Kanye
