Soulmate and Twin Flame relationships/connections, ultimately nobody can confirm/deny that the whole thing is "real".
What we DO know is that these people impact us more than most.
So let's go with these connection types/groupings whatever are "real". Rachel Marie, who is my HOMEGIRL (love her) has said over the years that, these relationships are the toughest, and she would always be like "I told you.... these are the hardest relationships."
So, I really wouldn't wish for this type of connection or try to keep it alive. Because 50% of it is out of our hands. the OTHER person has to take their right growth steps for it to "work". And yes, from my experiences, they DO feel it too. But SOMETIMES they don't take those steps "fast enough" and our souls want growth too, so life helps us move along our path and brings in someone else.
Sometimes it's another soulmate. Sometimes it's an easier relationship.
Sometimes soulmate relationships are contracted to make you grow and learn a certain thing and then leave.
Twin Flames - my two cents is I think this is kind of something someone made up at some point. And it just became something people want to believe "MY relationship/connection is SPECIAL AND UNIQUE!!!" this person is MEANT FOR ME! That's why NOBODY GETS IT BUT ME AND MY PSYCHIC!
Guys...we only have ONE life here, and our time is short. Yes, follow your heart. BUT at the same time let your head in there too. You deserve to have a loving relationship WITH a person, not the IDEA of a person who was ONCE in your life and is on their OWN journey.
I recently started (re-)reading Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love. One of the very first parts really hit me this time, it's what is that *I* am doing to block having a healthy, loving relationship? Why is it truly that I don't WANT this, and instead I'm on the short bus of special relationships.
You can only answer that question for yourself.
But I agree with the person who wrote that these labels are NOT healthy or helpful for anyone, at the end of the day, EVEN if they are true. You have to RADICALLY ACCEPT THE REALITY of your situation, and that's where readings get hard.
"But so and so said..." gives us a reason to NOT accept reality. To hang on to hope.
My best advice (easier said than done) is to ACCEPT reality the way it is TODAY. Realize the person may NEVER come back. And do your best to live your best life TODAY. Find other things that make you happy and fulfilled if you're not ready to open yourself up to someone else (I'm not, personally).
Everyone here is deserving of ACTIVE love that exists in day-to-day life. It's hard to let go and accept, I know that. Trust me, I know. I work on it every day, because one day I really don't want to have to call psychics because I'm so upset at how my life is. I'm learning, personally, to lean more on believing there's a greater plan for my life, that this does all happen for good reason/my best interests, and so on.
Now, if you truly enjoy spending money on readings for "entertainment" then, go for it! Me personally, I KNOW I need to wean off of it and use that money for things that bring me more joy in THIS life. Like, traveling!!!
And if soulmates/twin flames ARE true...you can't do anything to hurry it up. As we know timing is like, nice when it happens, but mostly doesn't (in readings, I mean). And sometimes it never does. and sometimes it happens way later. If it's meant to be, they will come back at some point, but you've got to live your life now, and let in whatever life wants you to have. And then when they come back, either you'll be open to hearing them out/trying again, OR you'll be moved on and be like "you know what, you hurt me too much. I don't feel the same. No. Byeeeee"
