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Offline JonesCDee

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Re: Sonika's Guidance
« Reply #15 on: August 29, 2018, 02:28:22 AM »
I read with her and she was good, got a lot right but seems to go on the side of the negative more than I like. She was right that I my ex was cheating on me and lying to me, and she got his description and my state of mind at the time. Definitely worth a try

Some readers are always negative if you tell them it is an ex, simply because it is the most realistic outcome that could happen instead of giving you a fairy tale that is so far out of reach it doesn't seem possible. The lying and cheating is a general statement that could apply to many situations, and it's also not that easy to verify if the person was doing things behind your back that you didn't know about.

The anger and blame is also a general statement but it has no connection to reality in my situation because we did not break up over a fight or argument, but he just didn't feel ready to have a serious relationship because he has been going through a lot of other things in his life.

What your saying makes alot of sense. Had not thought about it that way, ty