When prediction dates pass they can make us feel crushed or foolish for trusting an advisor. The farther time moves away from the prediction date, the more hopeless we feel. Hearing about "free will" interference is frustrating and makes me wonder if I'm not just being duped altogether. HOWEVERR I just read this explanation in Samantha Wilds profile on Keen and it is VERY interesting and well illustrated.
Here's what she said about Timing
Why timing questions make me nuts...or how you can win the war with free will
Here's the thing about timing: Your actions or feelings about the situation can change an outcome. Yup it sure can.
I am going to explain, why, but first allow me to share an assumption:
If you are calling to speak to a psychic, you hold a belief that there exists something that is greater than yourself. Whether you believe that there is a divine source that exists within you that connects all humans to one consciousness ( almost like the Borg, but in a good way) or the opposite - you believe the source is outside of you, like a mighty ruler on a throne, angels around us, these beliefs show that you feel that there is "more" than what meets the eye. Correct?
I am more from the school of thought that these are both correct. We have a total universe within us, and within this universe exists all of life including the guides (or angels) that help us.
You've heard the saying about how if you cast a pebble, "When casting pebbles into water, look at the ripples being formed thereby. Otherwise this activity will be an empty amusement."
— Kozma Prutkov
Although a pebble is small , its ripples are far reaching
Okay, now think of that pebble as an emotion thrown into the vast consciousness of everything that is. In this vast consciousness are every ones thoughts and feelings, just a pebbles throw away from yours. It is in this consciousness that an empath draws from in order to find answers for you.
Lets look at a common scenario and the various pebble effects.
Sue is waiting for Sam to call. They had an argument 2 days earlier He completely shuts down asks her to leave him alone for a while . She asks a psychic how long is a while? When will he call?
The reader tells Sue that Sam will call in 3 months, he needs a major cooling off time to clarify his feeling and to find the words to explain to Sue how he feels about things. Shes told that if she lets him be, the air will be cleared and they can have a fresh start.
Here are only a few of the possible hundreds of ripple responses of Sue hearing the prediction of 3 months.
ripple one - hearing that it will take 3 months for the call - sue gets annoyed , calls Sam, demanding he grow up and deals with the issue now. Sam feels Sue is controlling , demanding and disrespectful of his request for time out and decides he doesn't want a pushy girl friend, and takes off for good.
ripple two - sue hears 3 months, decides that its too long to wait, and decides she can make him respond faster if she hits on a mutual friend ,thinking the jealousy will make him return sooner.Only now, he doesn't return at all , because he doesn't trust her. Or worse , he returns due to his jealously, with revenge on his mind.
ripple 3 - Sue decides Sam is just plain selfish for taking that long so she takes the bull by the horns and decides to move on. She feels that if he can't confront their issues faster, they are not a good fit. Now, do you remember the pebble? Because Sam and Sue are so connected, when she cut the cord so to speak, he feels it. All in that unconscious pool of sharing. She cuts the cord...ripple ripple ripple - snap - he feels it, unconsciously,. And suddenly like a shot, he panic's, feels he is losing her, has no clue why he feels that way, and phones. .. not 3 months later but 4 days.
ripple 4 - Sue hears 3 months, says.."okay, whatever.. I am just going to do my life.If I meet someone in the meantime, cool , and if not and I still want him, cool too! " A calm is created in that ripple. Once again he feels the change in pressure, no longer an intense wave, rather a calm pond, so to speak..Something in Sam calms a little, it takes him less time to process his feelings because he feels more relaxed, and he calls Sue 2 weeks later.
ripple 5.. Sue says 3 months too long, and she phones him the following day in a calm loving state to work things out. Sam is not used to this from Sue. Something shifts in him. and opens up with his thoughts. They clear the air. Together they agree on how to proceed next.
ripple 6 Sue does not take her focus off the phone for one minute. Waiting for that call., Sam can feel the pressure (ripple) , he can feel her waiting although he may not know that it is her waiting that is making him uncomfortable.. He hates this feeling...and starts dating someone else because he feels it will remove the pressure.OR He decides that he just doesn't want to be with her if it makes him feel bad.
ripple 7 - my favorite... let go and let God. Get your focus off timing, and trust that the universal consciousness is working in wondrous ways.
All these emotional responses to the 3 month prediction , changed the course of events as originally seen, thus changing the timing and the ultimate response the adviser saw in Sam. In many of these cases , the renewal of the relationship does not occur, and unfortunately it's all too easy to blame the adviser for "leading you on" , but more often than not, it is your reaction to the information that shifts the timing Of course, the opposite is true as well. Sometimes when we just let go... the return speeds up. Yes, free will, is real!.
