Hey listen take your time. Took me 3.5 years to get over this guy!! Friends kept telling me to date in the meanwhile. But I didn’t feel like it. I joined dating sites but it didn’t sit right with me. I put all my heartache into working hard and turning my finances around. I made sure that first started with psychics (to stop calling to save money) so I took up therapy. One of the best things I invested in was therapy!! I then took some online finance classes, joined a support/help group for the classes where there were several calls per week on zoom. On the zoom calls I met this wonderful new man!! It’s great we have so much in common. I read a book on depression and it talks about how we need nature (going outside) and people around us (the right ones) to feel better again. We need to be apart of a community and not close off on our phones. We are built as humans to be around people, be in nature and feel apart of a community. It’s no wonder now in this modern age that people feel low and depressed! I was talking about this with my hairdresser. She has some very wealthy clients and they say to her “I just done my yoga, my meditation, my skincare routine, my self love, listened to a podcast yet I still feel low!” Well they have shut themselves off from the outside world.
I hope this helps. I feel you when I was reading your message and sending you positivity, light and healing your way xx
No psychic predicted at all what I mentioned the above.
Some books I recommend that helped me turn things around were:
“Losing Eden” - Lucy Jones
“Lost Connections” - Johann Hari