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Psychic Development / Re: No One Predicted This: How Psychic Readings Failed Me
« Last post by Lys on January 16, 2026, 09:04:39 AM »Have you considered the possibility you’re going thru a trauma response?
I heard this saying: chasing someone who doesn’t want you back is a trauma response 💣
It’s not entirely true, but it’s up there with “if they could they would” which I’m sure is some outlandishly maggot local favorites
Here’s the solution: be kind to yourself, forgive yourself for not being with someone (or forgive yourself for not having boyfriend… in Latin culture this can psychologically be a huge hang up), work thru the stages of grief with a professional in therapy.
Try to understand you’re chasing a FEELING. And while feelings are valid (they’re not wrong or bad) they’re wrapped in perceptions and beliefs. What I’m reading is here is a belief that if you don’t have this connection, this one connection, “you found it, it’s lost”, and your life can feel like death and meaningless. So your response to not having money for psychics is totally understandable. But… it sounds like an addiction, or a trauma response… or whatever it is does not sound healthy or loving to yourself.
Being kind to yourself will also hold a kind boundary that is loving and unique to yourself that will say “no I won’t put myself in that situation” or “wow that was nice connection, and this separation sucks but I can hold myself to go through this grief without despair” - AND IT FEELS GOOD! There are times when I felt anger, disappointment, heartbreak, but held myself and it feels so good! It’s the top 10 best ugly cries -a coming home to myself. However, I needed help, help to walk me thru the growing pains separation (but not psychic help). And I hope you don’t read this the wrong way but when you do put yourself first it is HUGLY attractive. Even what you wrote about this person saying they’re depressed didn’t surprise me because in a way it also speaks to areas where perhaps you’re not putting yourself first. I bet you when you do do something outside of having a relationship that you have neglected this guy will come back because: a healthy mindset is attractive… but by putting what psychic say first, searching to see if they were right (which most you are asking are wrong- even the heavy hitters have failed me) spending every dime you have left to soothe a feeling … you’re neglecting yourself, it self abandonment.
Please don’t spiral and tire yourself out for a reading with so and so
He’s already responded and he choosing his mental health first but you need to too
Thank you for you answer I appreciate. I’m finally able to have an appointment with a psychologist so I hope that will help. I just can’t stop to read my readings with Yona because I’m sure she talked about him and he will reach out and comeback but I will have a choice to make. But I’m scared nothing will happen
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What an a-hole.