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Psychic Development / Re: No One Predicted This: How Psychic Readings Failed Me

« Last post by Outlander on January 14, 2026, 02:47:17 AM »

I met someone this fall, and we started seeing each other. I really felt a deep connection with this person, and I truly saw something long-term. A lot of things happened, including many things in his life, and I don’t really want to go into too many details. Then he went to stay with his family for the holidays. We didn’t see each other for quite a while. Toward the end, I started to feel him becoming distant, and eventually he ghosted me. I didn’t hear from him for a week and a half.

I was really hurt. I felt absolutely awful. I fell into a deep depression, trying to understand why, what had happened, what went wrong. Eventually, I decided to call him from a private number just to finally get an answer. We were able to talk on the phone. He apologized for his behavior, for ghosting me. But he told me that he had decided to move back and live elsewhere, in another province (hometown) close to his family and friends, because he feels happier there.

I’ve spent a lot of money recently on psychic readings, trying to understand what was happening and whether he would come back or contact me again. But no one—no one—saw this coming. Some told me it was due to external factors and that everything was very unclear, others said he wasn’t ready or whatever, but no one saw this. No one.

I’ve tried rereading my readings with Yona a million times to try to understand. I’m still trying to understand. I’m not sure if they’re really talking about him, if he’s going to come back or not. I’m extremely confused. I don’t understand anything. Someone even told me they would be very surprised if he came back.

I feel so broken. My whole life, I’ve been rejected by every guy. I’ve been single for so long, but I truly felt something with this person. And now the circumstances make it so that it just won’t work. I feel so stupid for having spent all my money, because now I have no money left. I’m poor, I can’t spend anything anymore. All of this for shitty psychic readings that no one saw coming.

If you have to call someone from a private phone so that they will answer, that is your answer to all your doubts. And only when you called from a hidden phone did he tell you something. Otherwise, he wouldn't have.

Someone who is emotionally available, mentally healthy, relationship material and mature will NOT ever disappear. Run fast in the opposite direction from anyone who is not capable to have difficult conversations. Communication is key to any interaction with humans. That is only a coward and it is better he leaves , the sooner the better. Otherwise, what you will have is what Philosopher has here....4 years with someone who keeps running away and moving out and her being co/depenendent and addicted to psychics and to the toxic situationships. She has been all her life with this guy and with all the previous disastrous situationships she has had all her life. Do not fall for that crap.

They are not psychics. They are SCAMMERS, gold diggers. You will waste your money and you will never have the answers. The only one who has the answers is God. The problem is that these scammers pretend to be doing God's job while they empty your bank account. Wake up and stop the scammers.

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Addicted to Psychics / Re: What’s unattractive about being hooked on psychics?

« Last post by Outlander on January 14, 2026, 02:38:44 AM »

I’m working day 4!
And ooofff I can feel my self wanting to break.

But again just taking one action, one moment at a time. I can only handle today and that’s more than enough.

And I’m making a list for myself and perhaps others (in the atomic habit fashion) what’s truly unattractive about calling psychics. Some were my own but some where also with the help of my ChatGPT (the irony):

-it cheapens real intuition (real intuition is quiet, an inner knowing… I really like this one a lot. It also forces me to define what is intuition?)

-it trains my brain to want more drama (I remember someone posting how when they gave up psychics (or perhaps it was about this groups) that they realized they kind of craved drama… and this is true. I do tend to crave just grubby feel for the highs and low (it’s not to shame but again “for entertainment purposes” there are times sitting with boredom is a good thing it helps us create other hobbies and things) I do see so many post with: well I was bored and I had free minutes … but honestly anytime I had free minutes I still spent money and most times more than I could budget

-it waste money on IMAGINARY CERTAINTIES (I had to sit with this… I’m often calling for feeling of relief and very little do I realize the relief feeling I’m “buying” isn’t even for real either)

-it keeps me emotionally exposed
  - a stranger can ruin my day
  - I give access to my inner world easily (ugh I feel so cheap and easy now… I forget my inner world is also private to me and a few should only be allowed)

-it gives off the icke vibes when I ask about ppl. It does. It’s like spending all day on someone social media I haven’t met but then I do meet them and they look at me like you’ve been watching them naked. Women be honest: ever get the creep vibes from someone you know who likes you but you can’t put your finger on it, yet something truly bothers you. Energetically this might be the same.

-It outsources my inner authority. Yes we’ve argued about free will all day long, and destiny… but there is still agency and just for minute trusting what you say matters (even if wrong, I choose, and I believe HAS POWER)

-I feel like I’m hiding a dirty secret. I weekly or daily have to clear my phone history so ppl don’t see the sites I’ve been to. I mean I dare not do look up the sites at a work computer … but everything is shared on the cloud and it’s getting harder and harder to keep a secret

I have more but I thought I’d share these for food for thought and perhaps ppl can add their own

YAWN!!!!

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Psychic Development / Re: No One Predicted This: How Psychic Readings Failed Me

« Last post by mliva34 on January 13, 2026, 08:56:06 PM »

Sorry you went through that.

I had a friend who was calling and even took out loans and I told her to stop. It was a lot of money. I think it was her addictive personality and other mental stuff going on. But she called nonstop about a guy who she was seeing for some time and she would catch him message other people and even cheated on her. But readers told her that he wasn't cheating.. I felt bad because I feel like at one point she was getting readings to try and understand how could they possibly predict those things when the opposite was happening.

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Addicted to Psychics / Re: What’s unattractive about being hooked on psychics?

« Last post by mliva34 on January 13, 2026, 08:18:03 PM »

How I stopped is by thinking that the things that the readers were telling me was not matching with what's happening in real time. So I'm paying someone to predict something that may or may not happen...
so I transferred my 'addiction' to something healthier like working out or shopping which is more of a self investment than getting readings. I was not getting anything out of it.
I think a lot of people have an addictive personality and we've invested so much in one thing and becomes a habit and it's difficult to break away from.

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Addicted to Psychics / Re: What’s unattractive about being hooked on psychics?

« Last post by frozenfox on January 13, 2026, 07:12:06 PM »

OOoh, I like this thread!! I agree with all your points.

It gets easier with time, trust me. I'm 3 years reading-free and my intuition has only gotten stronger. I've learned to follow it and nothing feels better than learning to trust yourself and your own strength.

You lose a lot of power adjusting your behavior for a reading in hopes a prediction will pass... and I always felt so gross because it felt like 1. I was being inauthentic (I was) 2. I was trying to manipulate their behavior to get an outcome.

I think about it from the other person's perspective and if I knew someone was getting readings specifically on me, I would lose any sort of attraction I had for them because I wouldn't be able to trust that every interaction we've had was them being themselves.

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Psychic Development / No One Predicted This: How Psychic Readings Failed Me

« Last post by Lys on January 13, 2026, 06:54:25 PM »

I met someone this fall, and we started seeing each other. I really felt a deep connection with this person, and I truly saw something long-term. A lot of things happened, including many things in his life, and I don’t really want to go into too many details. Then he went to stay with his family for the holidays. We didn’t see each other for quite a while. Toward the end, I started to feel him becoming distant, and eventually he ghosted me. I didn’t hear from him for a week and a half.

I was really hurt. I felt absolutely awful. I fell into a deep depression, trying to understand why, what had happened, what went wrong. Eventually, I decided to call him from a private number just to finally get an answer. We were able to talk on the phone. He apologized for his behavior, for ghosting me. But he told me that he had decided to move back and live elsewhere, in another province (hometown) close to his family and friends, because he feels happier there.

I’ve spent a lot of money recently on psychic readings, trying to understand what was happening and whether he would come back or contact me again. But no one—no one—saw this coming. Some told me it was due to external factors and that everything was very unclear, others said he wasn’t ready or whatever, but no one saw this. No one.

I’ve tried rereading my readings with Yona a million times to try to understand. I’m still trying to understand. I’m not sure if they’re really talking about him, if he’s going to come back or not. I’m extremely confused. I don’t understand anything. Someone even told me they would be very surprised if he came back.

I feel so broken. My whole life, I’ve been rejected by every guy. I’ve been single for so long, but I truly felt something with this person. And now the circumstances make it so that it just won’t work. I feel so stupid for having spent all my money, because now I have no money left. I’m poor, I can’t spend anything anymore. All of this for shitty psychic readings that no one saw coming.

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Addicted to Psychics / What’s unattractive about being hooked on psychics?

« Last post by Mina on January 13, 2026, 05:35:29 PM »

I’m working day 4!
And ooofff I can feel my self wanting to break.

But again just taking one action, one moment at a time. I can only handle today and that’s more than enough.

And I’m making a list for myself and perhaps others (in the atomic habit fashion) what’s truly unattractive about calling psychics. Some were my own but some where also with the help of my ChatGPT (the irony):

-it cheapens real intuition (real intuition is quiet, an inner knowing… I really like this one a lot. It also forces me to define what is intuition?)

-it trains my brain to want more drama (I remember someone posting how when they gave up psychics (or perhaps it was about this groups) that they realized they kind of craved drama… and this is true. I do tend to crave just grubby feel for the highs and low (it’s not to shame but again “for entertainment purposes” there are times sitting with boredom is a good thing it helps us create other hobbies and things) I do see so many post with: well I was bored and I had free minutes … but honestly anytime I had free minutes I still spent money and most times more than I could budget

-it waste money on IMAGINARY CERTAINTIES (I had to sit with this… I’m often calling for feeling of relief and very little do I realize the relief feeling I’m “buying” isn’t even for real either)

-it keeps me emotionally exposed
  - a stranger can ruin my day
  - I give access to my inner world easily (ugh I feel so cheap and easy now… I forget my inner world is also private to me and a few should only be allowed)

-it gives off the icke vibes when I ask about ppl. It does. It’s like spending all day on someone social media I haven’t met but then I do meet them and they look at me like you’ve been watching them naked. Women be honest: ever get the creep vibes from someone you know who likes you but you can’t put your finger on it, yet something truly bothers you. Energetically this might be the same.

-It outsources my inner authority. Yes we’ve argued about free will all day long, and destiny… but there is still agency and just for minute trusting what you say matters (even if wrong, I choose, and I believe HAS POWER)

-I feel like I’m hiding a dirty secret. I weekly or daily have to clear my phone history so ppl don’t see the sites I’ve been to. I mean I dare not do look up the sites at a work computer … but everything is shared on the cloud and it’s getting harder and harder to keep a secret

I have more but I thought I’d share these for food for thought and perhaps ppl can add their own

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Keen.com / Re: SINCERITY

« Last post by gemmaasks on January 13, 2026, 02:50:34 PM »

Thanks for sharing. It seems like sincerity says this to her readers then.

She said to me that I had a strong team of guides taking care of me and wouldnt allow me to make any mistakes on my decitions. This was regarding other life circumstances and I sometimes yes get nudges. We should try this thread on the other side it’s more peaceful and we don’t have aggressiveness

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Connect With Others / Re: Help! Accounting job opportunity

« Last post by gemmaasks on January 13, 2026, 12:30:10 PM »

I’ll look into Fairygodboss. Ty!

Fairygodboss is another place that has a lot of accounting jobs listed. It's tough out there, but not impossible.

Hi! Yes, ive reached out to multiple staffing agencies including Roberthalf. Ive been job searching since late February. I finally landed something in late sept but got laid off from that recently. I got some interviews through staffing agencies but they kinda stopped after awhile. so I would reach out to them personally. even though most of the times, they don't respond. 

Have you looked at Robert Half? They specialize in placing accounting/finance jobs.

Hi All, I recently got laid off again. I have exhausted my unemployment benefits and used up almost all of my savings. I’m about to lose everything. If your workplace is hiring for an accountant or finance operations specialist, I hope we can connect for a referral. I understand if you are uncomfortable about it. I’m happy to chat via personal dm first so we can get to know each other a bit more. Ty for reading this.

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Keen.com / Re: SINCERITY

« Last post by Florallover87 on January 13, 2026, 11:04:19 AM »

She said to me that I had a strong team of guides taking care of me and wouldnt allow me to make any mistakes on my decitions. This was regarding other life circumstances and I sometimes yes get nudges. We should try this thread on the other side it’s more peaceful and we don’t have aggressiveness