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Relationship Psychology Discussions => My Story => Topic started by: AngelGuided on February 19, 2011, 07:28:12 PM
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I'll play!!!!
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what?!?! I actually can't believe she posted that with everything going on!! I would never do that! I didn't even post my ex-sm (whatever?) here because he was not legally even available -shit!
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hey are you a cancer? or pisces even?
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I'm a libra and they're both scorpios. I thought it was pretty brazen of her myself! She has balls I tell you! Funny thing is this morning she posted a rant on her fb page about her husband. She left her husband about 3 days before my husband left me. She was ranting about the other woman and referenced a Taylor Swift song about revenge. I wasn't familiar with it, so I researched it. It's about another woman taking your man, seems she's quite jealous of the woman that's with her husband's with now! Talk about karma!
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The whole situation sounds so off balance and bound to blow up. Ok, so I was off about your being a water sign, but I still sense form your eyes, that you are kind and sweet and it seems to me that you stay strong especially in front of others, but obviously are feeling tremendous hurt.
Based on what I know of your story, and seeing you all, I'd like to say this to you. It's all kinds of tangled up, he's got issues to face and some call that "mid-life crisis" but either way, it's pent up shit and he has to get it out. She is going to hang on to him to feel some kind of victory here. If you seem like a threat, if you seem like you care, she will fight harder to keep him seduced. I really think, if only for appearances, you should try to go on some dates. Let her think you don't care. And equally important here, let him think you are slipping away, better yet, make him feel it, by doing it. Oh man... I didn't do a reading on this, and I will if you like, but seriously, my gutt is screaming for you to at the very least appear (convincingly now) to be moving on. Super important. Seems like a game, but you're dealing with scorpios who are dealing with tsunamis of emotions right now, and when those waves recede, if you still love him, he's gonna be one wet dog looking for saving.
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You pegged it for sure! Yeah, if you would like to do a reading, I'd appreciate it! This is completely a game to her and I've known that from very beginning. I've been trying to make it appear that I've moved on and don't care. Usually he's the one that calls me about something financial. I've called him a couple times, like over insurance cards, but usually he makes the contact. He called this morning as a matter of fact.
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I'll send you a message about a reading.
But before I even do it, your situation calls for the advice my scorpio grandmother gave me time and time again over the years which of course I never once was able to do, (southern drawl, nice and slow) "Honey, act like you don't care."
And since my last two exes are scorps (one being my kid's dad, so I have had to deal with him thru the worst), I can tell you for sure, he will not let go that easily, he expects you to be strong and waiting, and the quickest way to wake his ass up is by him really feeling you being over it and on top of that you shining and looking/feeling better than ever (of course that last part works with most men!)
This next part is just for a laugh- although I'm sorry if it's not funny- any chance you could go on a date with her ex?! haha! double wham!!! jk ;)
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Thanks KiraKira! Great advice! Funny thing is for the first 6 weeks I was talking to her husband quite a bit. Even met up with him twice to share info. He was really "off" though, obsessed about following my husband, breaking his leg, etc. He was stalking him and her, calling him, general harrassment, etc. The whole family seems to be disturbed, so I quit talking to him because it was making me uncomfortable. From the looks of things he's got a steady girl now though and she doesn't like it one bit!
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Her husband had their daughter tell her that we had met and had lunch, just to get a rise out of her. Of course, we didn't.
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haha. seems that Scorpios give a lot of problems to their partner. My ex is a scorpio too. Urgh, I am talking to this guy who is a scorpio too. I wonder if anything will happen haha.
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"any chance you could go on a date with her ex?! haha!"
there is your scorpio moon coming out:)
angelguided do you have some water in your chart? It looks to me as if you do.
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Totally, I bet she must. I got water all over this lady too.
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i saw that you read with claire before too, i was thinking about getting a reading with her. was she accurate?
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ACK - we all want to throw darts at the other woman!!!
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Hi everyone! I love it PositiveThoughts!! Go for it with the darts!!! CSK, Claire seemed to be a good empath. I'm not sure how she is with predictions, she didn't really give me much in that department? But, she assessed the situation well.
As for whether I've got water in my chart, seems like I recall having Aquarius in my chart? I was born here in Virginia on 10/18/72 at 3:31 am, if any of you are good with that sort of thing?
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I just did my natal chart online. Guess the only water sign that I have is scorpio?
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 25.01 Ascendant Virgo 8.24
Moon Aquarius 27.54 II Libra 3.18
Mercury Scorpio 13.13 III Scorpio 2.45
Venus Virgo 15.02 IV Sagittarius 5.35
Mars Libra 11.14 V Capricorn 9.01
Jupiter Capricorn 2.45 VI Aquarius 10.18
Saturn Gemini 20.22 R VII Pisces 8.24
Uranus Libra 19.06 VIII Aries 3.18
Neptune Sagittarius 3.35 IX Taurus 2.45
Pluto Libra 2.47 Midheaven Gemini 5.35
Lilith Scorpio 26.26 XI Cancer 9.01
Asc node Capricorn 20.54 XII Leo 10.18
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That's surprising to me! Almost under-balanced in water... and you are under-balanced in fire too... hmmm... well then, maybe what I'm sensing from your face isn't about astrology at all, making it possibly even a more practical perception via straight intuition! I can't wait to get to your reading!
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Yes, your perception and intuition are strong.
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Your solstice moon ( aquarius) conjunct your husband's sun ( scorpio) that is way there is an attraction between you both.
I wonder if your husband day of birth is between ( october25th and october 28)
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Hmmm, interesting. His dob is actually 11/11/68. He has some scorpio tendencies, but he's not at all your typical scorpio.
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that's exactly my date of birth 11/11/1968. I'm very emotional, very attached to people who i'm in love with. I think if you ignore him, he will come back to you, because his moon is in leo which means he likes attention.
and again he is going through a lot of changes starting from april 2009, that is what confused him and knowing his progressed sun conjunct transiting pluto, it made him go through a lot of stress.
He has been through a slow periode in termes of finances or career the last 7 years, but trust me things are going to be okay for him by the end of the year.
I do a lot of astrology, i know this because i share my date of birth with your husband.
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Hey AngelG. Im also a Libra and I also have Mercury in Scorpio!
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Thanks Koukou! That's fantastic! What are the odds, that you would have the exact same birthday, amazing! He is a quiet, emotional type of guy. I'm sure you're right about ignoring him, I really need to do more of that. He seems to call about once every wk or two about something he wants to tell me. Yesterday, he had come up with a creative way of making a medical bill mine. Our daughter had surgery last summer about a month or so prior to him leaving. Our court order for child support states that I have to pay 1st $250 of medical expenses for her. He was trying to tell me that since he still owed on that bill and we were in a new calendar year that I owed the 1st $250. I may be wrong, but I don't think so? I told him that just because he had drug paying that balance out 8 months, didn't make it my responsibility now. The surgery and bill predate the court order and our separation for that matter. So, we butted heads and he replied, I'll see you in court and I said, guess so! I need to completely blow him off, will get his goad but Jacqueline and Michelle have been telling me that he is going to contact me and things are going to change, so I take his calls hoping that will happen.
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Really is a small world isn't it Libra!!! We didn't meet here by coincidence!
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When is your bday Angel? Mine is October 10
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I think having Mercury in Scorpio adds that "don't f*** with me" factor to a people pleasing libra personality
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Lol Libra, that could be what it is the scorpio! My birthday is 10/18.
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Libra we have the same birthday! I am a 10/10 baby too....what year were you born?
AngelGuided you said:
"He is a quiet, emotional type of guy." ----Do you know what time he was born and where? Depending on his birth details he could have a cancer moon in the late degrees.
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I believe he was born @ 8:30 am in Virginia.
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yep, his moon is in cancer
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Scorpio 19.14 Ascendant Sagittarius 7.49
Moon Cancer 28.52 II Capricorn 10.18
Mercury Scorpio 4.44 III Aquarius 17.32
Venus Sagittarius 25.58 IV Pisces 23.40
Mars Libra 1.25 V Aries 23.32
Jupiter Virgo 29.16 VI Taurus 17.24
Saturn Aries 20.04 R VII Gemini 7.49
Uranus Libra 2.31 VIII Cancer 10.18
Neptune Scorpio 26.01 IX Leo 17.32
Pluto Virgo 24.33 Midheaven Virgo 23.40
Lilith Gemini 16.22 XI Libra 23.32
Asc node Aries 8.48 XII Scorpio 17.24
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Since his moon is in cancer, he is very emotional and generous ( venus in sagittarius) his mars in libra made him kind of hard to make decisions.
He has venus square jupitaire ( extravagant)
venus square pluto (great passions)
I also wanted to mention since his birthday is 11/11 it is very powerfull and karmic number, your husband has strong intuition, he can feel you ( especially with cancer moon).
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Thanks Koukou! That sums him up! I didn't realize the intuition though? I have heard about the power of 11/11 before?
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I've had an interesting day!! Had to have my furnance checked out because it hasn't been working. Guy comes to fix furnace, he starts hitting on me. He had evidently been here to work on heating/cooling before, I did recall him being here once before, but it had been a couple years. He told me that I was using the wrong type of air filter, that I needed the cheap fiberglass, the one I am using was overworking the system. He makes a comment about me having 2 or 3 kids (not sure exactly where he was going with this), I said no I just have 1. He said, oh I thought you had 2 or 3 kids? I thought, how strange? How would you know? I said, nope, just me and my daughter. He said, you had a husband when I was here last time. I said, oh yeah, but not any longer! He replied, 19 year marriage and caught my wife cheating! This floored me because I thought he was telling me my story! Then, I realized he was telling me his! My husband left in August, his wife and him split up in November. Same story, married 19 yrs, both of us have 17 year old daughters, a month apart, both graduating high school. How weird!!! He teaches at Valley Vo Tech about furnace repair several nights a week. Donna told me that I would be meeting a teacher in the spring that would be a better match for me than my husband. He gave me his number and told me to call him if I wanted to go out or needed anything? We stood here and talked for a long time, had alot in common!
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oh my.......thats awesome Angelguided!!!!!!----what a weird way of meeting someone!
Def call him----get to know him better ;)
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WHAT?????????
Are you going to call???????????????????
:) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
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WOW AngelG! What a story, yeah go for it girl. Let him take you out! So Donna was right? Wow Want to chat tonight with me and CSK? About 10pm
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wow..Angel....congrats!!!!!! I love Donna by the way...and I can't wait for her predictions for me to come true also ;D
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She is still $4.50 so if you need an update, now is the time...................
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several psychics have told me that I would have a choice? Yes, Libra let's chat tonight! I texted him about a local place he frequents to ask about a band, but he hasn't responded and it's been an hr? Maybe that was too forward of me?
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well...was donna the only one who sad that you would meet a teacher though?
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YOU GO GIRL............ANGEL GUIDED................GO ON THAT DATE? IS HE GOOD LOOKING?
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I think he's hot!! Yes, CJean Donna was the only one to be specific enough to say he would be a teacher.
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Haha, if he is a good catch do not let him go :P Enjoy yourself and have fun.
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Angel - this news was just great!!
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AngelGuided don't be so quick to think negatively!!!!! He could be busy at work or teaching or something. If he wasn't interested he never would have given you his number or even get into it with his story. Just be patient!!!!!!!
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haha its interesting how when the other party does not reply, we will think what happen, is he still interested and blah blah blah
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Angel that's great news, I'm excited for you :)
Don't worry about him not testing back yet, there could be a million reasons for that. I know sometimes it would take me hours to text girls back, sometimes just cause I'm nervous. Haha sounds silly but with sm I would wait just not to sound to eager lol. And what moneta said he wouldn't have given his number if he wasn't interested!!!!
It's def positive. If they say there may be a choice well then when you meet someone and enjoy them maybe that means it's getting closer.....just a thought :)
JB
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well that certainly is a big help!
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Good point JB! Thanks Moneta! He gave me his number very early in our chat, then we went on talking for 1 1/2 hrs!!! He's going through what we're all going through too and I'm sure that complicates things.
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Seems like it was Donna that said it would be a chance meeting? I'll have to check my notes, but I know one of the psychics that said there would be someone else said that it would be an odd type meeting?
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Angel - you put your profile up on a dating web site? You go girl!!! This is all excellent. Don't worry about the text back. Some people aren't quick with that stuff.
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Angel, you sound really happy. ;D
Such an interesting way to meet someone too!!! Totally unexpected, right?
Don't worry about the text. Some people are just slow on responding to texts.
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Yeah, some aren't quick to respond and he may have had something to do or class?
Thanks Kiki! There seemed to be chemistry between us and I guess that made me happy?
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His story was empowering too!
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Hell yea there was chemistry. Woooo.
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AngelG join the chat!
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We sent a few texts back and forth, he asked me out for Saturday night
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Awesome angel!! So exited for you. I know you'll have a wonderful time!! :)
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OMG Angel!!!! Hooray!!!!!!!!! What are you going to wear? Where are you going?
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I'm not sure just yet? He said he would let me know where, it'll probably be a local club.
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I just got chills for the second time about this!!!!! I am so excited for you. Just to be able to step outside of all the other stuff and hopefully enjoy yourself, but maybe maybe even find something really cool!! How perfect that you have the SAME history!! Do your daughters know each other?
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Thanks KiraKira! No, they go to different schools, but I'm sure they will have some mutual acquaintances. The whole situation was mind blowing!
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Husband called again this morning to start a discussion over a lame gas bill. He still does this kind of thing about once a week now. We argued about this bill briefly, he's bent out of shape that acct is still in his name. Then, I called him back and left him a message telling him not to call me anymore about these bs issues. I said that I don't have time to spend on this anymore and I didn't need to put on a "show" for him and her. I said they had a dysfunctional relationship and I want no part of any of it. I told him that he comes off desperate contacting me over a gas bill that I am paying, when more important bills are not being paid, such as our mortgage and he never calls to offer any info about the letters he receives with regard to that. Our daughter told him on Monday that she doesn't want anything to do with him, so I said told him no one wants to talk to you anymore. I've got better things to do with my time, I'm tired of the games.
She manipulates him into calling me about bills and $ issues, so she can keep the pot stirred up. She sits and listens to our conversation.
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Good response to him, now just ignore him as much as you can.
Every night I want to do your reading and I am so tired... but again, I don't even need to go there to know a lot of this situation. Like I said, I think you're gonna surprise yourself with how your feelings will change. It's happening now.
Just breathe and smile to make up for all the time recently you couldn't do it! You've got an army of support on this forum!
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Angel, I can almost feeeel your happiness. This is so cool. I feel like you've really risen above a lot of the drama.
I also want to say...and I don't mean to give unsolicited advice or anything like that (it's not my style)...and obviously I don't know your entire financial situation or anything like that...ugh...I really hesitate saying this... Do you think you could lay off the readings for a while until you get up to date on your mortgage payment? I'd hate for you to lose your home over the drama and trying to find knowns to the unknowns.
Maybe this is a great time for you to trust your gut, go with the flow and have fun.
I really do say this from a caring and not judging place.
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what are you going to wear omg! 8)
I understand what your saying kiki.. :-X lol
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Thanks KiraKira, Kiki, and Cjean! I understand KiraKira, and appreciate your time whenever you're able to do reading. Kiki, I completely agree and understand where you're coming from. As far as the mortgage goes, it's seriously delinquent because of this situation. I haven't had the income to even close to cover it? I'm hoping for a loan modification to restructure the loan to bring it current and lower the payment so I can afford, that's the only way paying it will be an option for me. Of course, I've still got this pending court appeal with him for support next month. I've cut back significantly from number of readings from the previous couple months. I'm appreciative to all of you and your support! Cjean, I think I'll wear my best looking jeans and a very attractive top, what do ya think? I'll bet you're a fashionista, I can tell from your picture!!!
I'm going to focus on reducing my stress and anxiety. I am excited about meeting someone else because I didn't really think I could be interested in someone else. It's only the beginning now, but I do feel that I am wrong about that? I felt like yesterday was an amazing situation that just doesn't usually happen for no reason? What are the odds that someone could come to your door and fall in your lap when you're not looking for it? Especially the circumstances, he's been married same number of years and daughter exact same age! Completely freakyyy!
He's been texting me all day telling me about the band for Saturday night. I do look forward to having a good time and enjoying myself for a change.
I met with new attorney on Monday who advised me to file for divorce, that it would make all the other arrangements flow smoother. I dropped my divorce papers back to attorney today. That's also strange? I meet with attorney for divorce on Monday, meet someone on Tuesday, sign papers on Wednesday, Thursday, paperwork filed at courthouse, Friday he will be served, and Saturday...I have a date!
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I think thats a very cute outfit ;)
and I must say AngelG: that you are the most down to earth person ever 8)
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Thanks Cjean, I appreciate that!
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I think based on the text messages it isn't going to matter what you wear. He likes you!! :)
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AngelG, we are going to read the full, detailed report after Saturday.
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Well, I think at this point of time, maybe it is beteer to see what comes up with the new guy and enjoy yourself, reagrdimg your ex, maybe clean things up and move on?
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We might need updates during the date!
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I'm with PT! It's ON!!!! And we want updates!!!! post from the ladies' room!!!
I don't how you look when you're just at the house and all, but I assume you'll look even better when you put the effort in to go out, so if he liked you that day...ooooh man!!!!!!!!!!! Agh!!!! This is the most exciting thing happening on the forum!!!! Have you dared ask any psychics about him? I can add him to the reading if ya want!! I'm seriously gonna try to do yours tonite!! I have to! I want to know more!!!
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lol...so do I kira ;)
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I'll do my best with the updates! I still don't know where we're going?
I am thinking of doing a reading, but I'm not sure who to call now? I called Jacqueline on Monday, I haven't spoken to Michelle in 2 1/2 weeks.
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Don't panic. I'm sure he has work stuff. I wouldn't text him again though......
Maybe wait for a reading until after you have a date? The energy will be stronger plus you already had a reading this week. ;)
We're not meant to know everything that's going to happen at every turn. With a-hole husband it is one thing. New date - not worth the $$.
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PT is right AngelG Don't panic, the guy has his life and is probably busy, with his life, he definitely considers you, but most people won't just drop online dating right away like that. Let him get to know you, and take things easy.
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I'm going to agree with PT again, seems like I've been doing that lots lately lol don't worry about him not texting back, from yesterday it seems obvious he digs you!!
And I think waiting for a reading is a good idea. We don't want to know everything, life still needs to have it's surprises or it could get pretty boring lol.
I can't wait to hear how it goes, I hope it goes atl least as good as my dates with new girl :) ;)
JB
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yeah, I wasn't going to, unless he responded. He just texted back a little while ago and said for me to have a great day? Simple enough, we have exchanged a couple texts, nothing serious. Your right about the $$! Thanks PT!
OOOW JB! Sounds like life is good?
Libra, you're right! I don't expect him to stop pursing any other interests or online dating at this point. We only just met!
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Well, it has taken SM 7 month's to drop online dating (yes, he has been on and off 100 times)....................
I wouldn't panic over a day considering you haven't even gone out yet..................
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But let's hope New Dude is nice and normal. We don't need anymore difficult relationships around here. :)
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Right you are PT! I don't really have any expectation, but I am excited about the prospect.
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This is going to be a new experience for you Angel. You haven't dated in a long time and have had some rocky experiences to shake your confidence. I would cool off texting him a bit. Remember boy chases girl...... (aef :))
Usually people don't go off the dating site until they are in a committed relationship.
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I, of coarse, took my profile down after date 2 with SM because I had no idea what I was doing. Then I couldn't really put it back up until we actually broke up. So whatever you do, don't take it down!!
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Definitely new experience for me, it's been 20 years! We've been texting back and forth all morning. I'm really trying to lay off, but the conversation's just too good! I completely agree about the dating site, makes sense.
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I am going to post a special message under my story after this one, and it has a message for you. I just want to type it once and want to keep it there. So please look for that...
OK! I want to add to this conversation- I would definitely not call any psychics yet about the new guy. I completely understand your excitement (I actually feel it), and I've felt it recently for myself. I had a date a couple weeks ago, first one since my heart was smashed up in January. I thought this new guy might be the one! There was just something... well, I called a couple psychics 24 hours after the date (on psychic source) and they told me (1) I found my soulmate! and (2) it was the start of a healthy relationship. I was so excited and you know how we give them the power to make that huge! Well, I texted him 2 nights after the date, and he hasn't responded in two weeks now since that!! Ok. I got over it, but...
Anyway, dating is crazy, but do have fun! Can I also share that something is going on with me?! Last week a guy I dated twice in October messaged me that we should get together and chat soon, two night ago a guy I talked to in June(?) who told me he'd rather not get involved with a woman with a kid, messaged me on dating site, I reminded him we already 'met', and last night a guy who stood me up for coffee in November emailed asking if I remember him and did I want to get coffee!!!!
They are something... men... (no offense to ours here, but...) Anyway! I can't wait to see who's next to reappear!! I know they will, I can feel it!!! Thing is, I don't care to hear from a single one I've already met! Let's get on to the new!!!
Just a funny little adventure in dating, thought I'd share since you're back in the game! xo
ok- I'm going to my story now for your other message!!!!
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Well angel its going alright. me and the new girl really hit it off last week if ya know what i mean ;) haha Shes gone this week so unfortunatley ive had sm on my mind most of the week lol
Im totally interested in this new girl, but i am still talking to a few other girls I know and i certainly didnt take my dating profile down yet....and im pretty interested...so dont worry about that. Also it might be just as new an experince for him as it is you so i imagine he is just as nervous as you are.
I really feel like this is going to go really well for you
JB
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I don't know if you read my story above about dating... just a word of advice from a woman to a man! Don't mess up by playing it cool and for goodness sake don't appear to be exploring every option. With online dating, I've felt that guys are like, 'I like you but I need to sample everyone and be sure...' Just be honest about new feelings, even if it seems risky. Girls love to know where they stand! Games are never good, never never! Also, try to let that sm girl go, because it will most definitely interfere with your new chances. I dated several guys while I was entangled with 'the guy who nearly broke me' and I honestly think nothing sparked because he was on my mind. Although I know that's easier said than done...but if you can!
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Girls love to know where they stand. You are so right, kirakira.
I'd rather know the harsh truth than make up my own stories of what's going on.
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Hey Kira,
Thanks for the pointers, and dont worry im not explroing every option out there i was just saying that my dating profile is still up and i am very interested in the new girl. We have already briefly talked about what we were looking for and how we felt so far about each other, so she knows that im digging her and i know that shes into me. And moving on from the sm is the whole reason i have started dating again and met this new girl so thats what im doing, or at least working on.
I dont know how much details you guys want to know about me and the new girls dates but it sure seems to be going somewhere. I didnt really post to much before cause work has been crazy and i havent had a lot of time to post, but i do know so any questions are welcome lol... its also been kind of a weird week with me seeing sm so much and the new girl being gone all week!!!
JB
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JB - what I find interesting is that you meet someone you actually like and suddenly you see SM a bunch of times in one week after not running into her in 4 months. Don't know what it means but I think you are heading in the right direction my friend.
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Yes i find it pretty interesting myself lol...Just wish i knew what it meant haha. I sure would like something a little more concrete to tell me things are moving along other then just some random times of me seeing her, but you are right it is kind of a strange coincedence lol
I think something that may be bothering me a little about this new girl is i am kind of worried of scaring her away, like how forward and open i should be with her. I know i didnt really hold anything back from sm and it kind of scared her....I dont want to do that with the new girl....ya know.....lol
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Thanks Kira and JB! I appreciate the info and perspectives, I couldn't agree more Kira.
JB, my advice would be to take it slow, especially for you, you're still healing. Don't worry too much about scaring her off. Maybe open up in a slow, evolved fashion to test the waters. See how she responds to the baby steps then you'll know how honest and open you can be and whether she's ready.
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JB, one other note the fact that you are seeing sm now is no coincidence. Maybe it has do with the shift of you moving on, as was explained to me?
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I know everyone's gonna say take it slow because you're healing, but I personally love jumping on the wild ride of new love! I love nothing more than a guy I like being really honest and open and courageous about how he feels! I honetsly think it attracts me to him more -to feel a man isn't too proud to wear his heart on his sleeve and be romantic and run with it. I don't know what she's about, but don't you really want to be with someone you can just go there with? Know what I mean? I totally can't wait to feel that again, the unabashed shameless flow of adoration!!!! sigh..... oh man!!! That's just me. Imagine losing someone because you DIDN'T tell them what you really felt! That would be far worse than scaring someone with your love, right? Anyone who's scared either isn't ready or isn't for you anyway!!
Now I'm all excited for you too!! When is she coming back? Do you have plans to see each other?
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sorry jb! I got carried away! Of course you should listen to your heart! Do what feels right, just don't be afraid, because if we're feeling it, we love to hear you are too! ;)
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Thanks all for the advice, its greatly appreciated.
I suppose i should let you all know that we may have had some intimate time the second time we was out. Just so you all know the whole stroy when giving me advice =) please no judging i am a guy :P lol
Kira I totally understand what you are saying, i am excited about this myself. I to am kind of a sucker for the wild ride of things at the beginning. You make a good point about scaring her away, that means she isnt ready....and i know what im ready for....im just going to go with the flow....and that seems to be going pretty fast :) Im not exactly sure when she gets back we havent talked all that much since she left. On monday when i asked her she just said not for awhile. Its been snowing lots here and where shes from so the weather is delaying her coming back lol should be on the weekend or begninning of next week!!!
Angel- I have also thought about that, cause i was just a few days after my second date that i seen her a bunch, so it very well could be related....Its just hard to believe with out something a little more solid....like a text back saying hi lmao
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jb- no judgment from me! I move wicked fast too!! In fact, I almost told angel to be sure and shave her legs Saturday!! haha! (Then I remembered not everyone's like that!) ;)
Boo, snow! >:(
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Maybe it's the fact that she's seeing you more than you needing to see her, if you know what I mean? Maybe it's divine intervention trying to move her? Definitely go with the flow, I wasn't implying that you were moving too fast. I was just saying if you're unsure how she may respond, to test the water a little. No judgement from me whatsoever. ;D
Yeah, Kira I'll probably shave my legs just because I'll feel more confident, but I don't think we'll be intimate on 1st date. Especially since both of us have been in 20+ yr relationships. I know men are different, but I'm still surprised he's dating and already filed for divorce and it's only been 3 months for him?
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No doubt, she's into you JB! She wouldn't be intimate on 2nd date if she wasn't. ;)
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Well thanx for not judging me lmao...it certainly was what i needed haha
I was thinking about that myself angel...but im unsure if she seen me any of the times....
And i will just see how things go when she gets back...just hope she doesnt get stuck up there to long with the weather!! lol
I think your right angel....guess its just weird she left right after and we havent talked to much....Im not worried about it yet lol
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JB - My only thought reading this is that from each relationship we learn and then apply new wisdom to new relationships. But this new chickie babe isn't SM and she might like it like kira, or she might like it slow. But how do you like it??? That is the question. Maybe in the middle? What has worked in the past? Not worked? best of luck figuring it out. :)
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Your right PT, though i really dont have alot of experince with this stuff. I havent been in a realtionship for a very long time.
But I know my best bet is to just go with the flow and see where it goes. If i start really liking her and want to get serious I will just nut up and say something ;) I know im all worried just cause we havent talked much, but shes outta town so i cant really blame her lol
I kinda starting to think i may like her more then i thought lmao
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Nut up = get the balls? Best thing I've heard all day. 8)
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you got it kiki haha....canadian lingo i guess lol
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Nut up?? LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL
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Angel - this song came to mind when I was thinking of your date tonight. Good for you for being brave and giving something else a try. I was with my ex-husband for almost 20 years (between dating and marriage) as well. I was shaking when I went on my 1st date and it ended up being SO fun. Good luck!!!!
To those of you who are my age-ish you'll remember this song.
The Best of Times
Styx
Tonight's the night we'll make history, honey, you and I
And I'll take any risk to tie back the hands of time
And stay with you here tonight
I know you feel these are the worst of times
I do believe it's true
When people lock their doors and hide inside
Rumor has it it's the end of Paradise
But I know, if the world just passed us by
Baby I know, you wouldn't have to cry
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Another thought - just go into the date with the expectation of enjoying the company of a man other then your husband. Try not to think about the future. Just think about how you are a sexy Mom who deserves alittle attention!!!
xxoo
pt
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Good luck tonight angel, although i dont think you need luck!!! You will have a wonderful time and that im sure of!!!
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Thanks!
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i went for a few drinks with a girl i met at a Tim hortons close to my house. We went and seen a local band at an acoustics lounge...just wanted to report lol although i kinda feel like im highjacking angels thread.....lol
Oh and my cat had three kittens this morning......lol
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JB I love cats! Check my story to see a pic of my big boy. Are your cats breed, what are you going to do with the babies?
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I love cats myself...well kittens, when they get bigger i kinda just deal with them lol...No there not breed just bunch of rascals lol....Ill just be giving them away once they get a wittle bit bigger lol
Ill see if i can post some pics after work sometime!!!
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Sounds like your getting on with your life JB, that's great! Congratulations on the kittens!
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AngelG good luck. Im sure you will rock tonight.
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Good luck tonight....have a great time and just go with the moment!! :)
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ok, jb, get that cat spayed soon as those kittens are weened!!!!
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yeah maybe we should make this post the angle/ jb topic lmao.. *hehe :P
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So our date last night was awesome! We had a great time together, have alot in common other than just spousal infidelity. I admit I spent the whole night with him talking. Although my daughter is very upset with me today for being out, I'm very happy I went out with him. I've only slept an hour since yesterday.
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OMG AngelG wiow Im so happy you had a great time!!!
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yay!! yay!!! YAY!!!!!!!!!!!! yay!!!!! agh!!!!!! ;D
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Thats awesome Angel!!!!!!!!yayyyyyyy have u guys made plans to see each other again?
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Yes, he asked about Tuesday but we haven't made any definitive plans
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So happy for you....I would love to see your ex-husbands face when he finds out you are dating!! :)
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Yeah, I've wondered about that? I sort of feel a little self-conscious about him finding out. Not that he's not living with someone else? I arrived home this morning well after sun rise and that felt really weird. My daughter was furious with me although she and I were texting each other throughout the evening and up til I came home. She knew I was alright, I was coming home just didn't happen as quickly as we planned.
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I was thinking about you last night, Angel. I'm so happy you had such a great time! I LOL'ed at your comment about having a lot in common besides spousal infidelity.
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so happy for you....at the very least this has to make you feel better even if it just ends up being a friendship right?
on a scale of 1-10 how much do you like him so far?
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OHH ANGEL........how Awesome!! You hot mamm! You needed it and you deserved it!
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WooooHoooooo!!!! Sounds awesome. So happy for you :)
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He's trying to get me to come over now, lol. Probably on a scale of 1-10, I would say an 8.
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well are you going over there?!
we are chatting get in the chat room!
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come over? ??? :-\ too soon...tell him to slow the brakes!
you mustve looked HOT last night....he's wanting some more of you BIGTIME! ;)
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no way, no brakes !!!!! yee ha!!! angel!!!!! I am with you, girl!!! My new guy (hahahaha) is coming over in an hour!!!!!!
agh!!!!
i love pt's excitement too!!! haha, i read her earlier comments and was rolling!!!!
xoxoxo!
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add the brakes - add the brakes (sorry Kira - I hear ya but this is her 1st....). You haven't dated in TWENTY YEARS!!! No late night visits yet!!!!! LOL
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I didn't go over last night, it was too soon! I just came home yesterday morning from our date, it'd been barely 12 hrs since he left. I also knew my daughter would've been furious, she was very upset with me when I came home for being out so long. I guess we'll get together on Tuesday because he teaches this evening. He offered to make me dinner.
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Angel, that's so cute he offered to make you dinner. I love when guys just act how they feel and put their emotions out there.
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I ended up talking to him last night for almost 2hrs. But, I think we spent most of that time talking about our exs unfortunately, not a good idea.
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How'd it go with the new guy Kira? Is he a match?
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AngelG, good that you didn't go there right away, let him miss you till Tuesday. Also try to change the subjects to your what both of your interests are. Good luck.
Yeah, we need Kira's detailed report on what went on...
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NOT a match :(
I hate to be picky, but...
It's too bad because on the phone we were so compatible -so so SO compatible, but in person there were a lot of little things that weren't right. I felt really awkward because he was trying and diggin me, but I was not feeling him at all.
Oh well!! On to the next!!
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thanks pt...glad u agree lol
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heart breaker lol 8)
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Too bad Kira, but only you know what you need. :)
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Kira - we don't settle anymore - we know better!! lol
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That's right, pt! And I already have a new date tomorrow night! Without getting overly excited about it, I actually honestly do have reason to believe we might be onto something this time... ::)
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Well things have certainly turned around quickly for you Kira! Congrats!
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I had an amazing experience last night! As I've mentioned in the vent, I've been going through some changes after meeting someone new, etc. Last night I was very unsettled so as I was lying in bed, praying out loud which I don't usually pray out loud? I was asking for guidance and direction because I was so confused? I asked to be able to be connected with my guides for clarity and to receive some kind of sign of assurance. I was asking to be alleviated from pain and stress. I prayed that I trust your divine plan in my life. All of a sudden, I felt something in my abdomen, don't really know how to explain it. I'm familiar with this sensation. I get this when I have a "knowing" feeling. Then this vibration in my lower back, very warm and soothing. This feeling of peace came over me. Strange thing is I've had this vibration before and never really paid attention as to what it was? It's a sensation that goes through my body all the way down to my feet. I guess it had become so normal that I ignored it? As to being able to define this, I still really can't say but I have felt better. A little unsettled today but more at peace. Not sure what the outcome will be, but I trust that things will work out the way they're supposed to.
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it is interesting, I ever have a friend who told me most of our spirit guides are not able to communicate with us directly however they give us physical impulses. Not that I am so observant to notice that but hey mayb they are trying to tell you something and to help you in times of need. See if you get any messages from them? Good luck.
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I'm certainly trying to open up FM! I would love some messages, just not sure what to look for?
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Angel..the messages usually come through dreams.
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I wrote a letter to the Universe (call it how you will) last night specifically asking for guidance with making the best life for my daughter and me. I've found that writing it out in a letter format can do wonders.
Any word from furnace guy all weekend now? Any new prospects?
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kira, i honestly love that you did that.
i think everyone here should write a letter asking for what they want/need or for what is best. that is sort of how the law of attraction works anyway.
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Letter is a good idea Kira. Nope, not heard a word from furnace guy? He replied to the voice text I left him and that was the last he's contacted me.
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Angel - ugh :-\
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well you know what angel...boy chases girl...so forget him for now. ...and let him chase u...someone is right around the corner
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I had another experience last night as I was on the phone talking to my aunt. We were having a deep conversation about why I think we're here on earth to learn and grow, as I was saying this that tingling vibration started to wash over me once again. I've had it before, but never related it to anything. I was much observant and aware of where it started this time. It began in the base of my spine, then ran down my legs and into my feet and toes, completely washed me over. It's a tingling sensation, feels like I'm vibrating? No dreams yet, though! ;)
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I completely understand how you feel angel...its like you dont want to have left a bad situation to walk into another bad one :-\
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Nice to meet you Angelguided I look forward to getting to know you on here, and I am bored right now their is a break from school, so you are going to see me on here alot.