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Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => Keen.com => Topic started by: annathechica on December 27, 2019, 01:59:57 AM

Title: please help me
Post by: annathechica on December 27, 2019, 01:59:57 AM
I am in a dark place tonight. im on clomid a fertility drug which is making my depression a horrible spiral of sobbing that wont stop

(in not suicidal) but I just need a psychic to help me sort through this that isnt going to toy w my intense emotional state right now thats fucking fragile , 
I also only make like 900 a month due to a disability so I have super small amount to spend right now?

Does anyone know a psychic that would be good at complicated matters?
my POI is mentally ill, and his moods are up down. he came back after 7 mo, proposed and said EVERY thing i dreamed he would say if he came back, then 4 days later blocked me w no explanation of why. its 2 months later now and what would normally be depression/anx is now insanely awful . I have 2 more days of this medication which is KNOWN to make people nuts (jacks with all the bad pms hormones in a womens level and sends them sky high).

So a sensitive, affordable, caring but accurate at deciphering a complicated situation and predicting accurately
like ya'll I have called about 500 psychics and WAS weaning off them until this . medication

jesus i sound pathetic but I'd appreciate ya'lls help

anna
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Sunshine75 on December 27, 2019, 06:43:31 PM
I hope you feel better soon. In all honesty I used Keen for about a decade and I can't truly recommend any of them. I believe you would be better off to stay away from Keen. Finding a good psychic on there is like finding a needle in a haystack. Most psychics are not good at reading people who are mentally ill. Try to hang in there until this medication wears off. I know how it feels to have your hormones out of whack, I am so sorry. It will get better.

Agree with still tired, psychics will likely only add to your problem or make things worse. And someone who will take your money when your not doing well in that way is likely not ethical or going to help. In a similar situation Coda helped me and its free, plus I found access to good subsidized local counseling help there also. Hope you feel better real soon
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Arigirl on December 27, 2019, 07:20:54 PM
I hope you feel better soon. In all honesty I used Keen for about a decade and I can't truly recommend any of them. I believe you would be better off to stay away from Keen. Finding a good psychic on there is like finding a needle in a haystack. Most psychics are not good at reading people who are mentally ill. Try to hang in there until this medication wears off. I know how it feels to have your hormones out of whack, I am so sorry. It will get better.

Agree with still tired, psychics will likely only add to your problem or make things worse. And someone who will take your money when your not doing well in that way is likely not ethical or going to help. In a similar situation Coda helped me and its free, plus I found access to good subsidized local counseling help there also. Hope you feel better real soon

Could you expand on Coda? I googled for more information, it looks intriguing. Thanks!
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Sunshine75 on December 27, 2019, 07:32:32 PM
Np, message me :)
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: jas on December 28, 2019, 12:09:04 PM
I know this is going to come off as harsh.....but.....you really need to get off the fertility drugs.  Why are you even on them?  If you aren't in a stable relationship and you are barely keeping your head above water on $900 a month, this may not be the best time to have a child.  If the fertility drugs are for some reason other than a child, then please accept my apologies.

I do send out love and prayers for you and I hope that you can rise up out of the dark spot you are in right now.  There are some good psychics out there but what works for me may not work for you.  Two of my three favorites don't work so well for folks on here so I don't promote the reader or defend them too much.  The third reader works well for several people on here but she isn't taking new clients right now.

Please let us know how you are doing today.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: annathechica on December 28, 2019, 05:37:07 PM
There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.

I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.

this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.

I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Cteebaby1 on December 28, 2019, 06:25:43 PM
I hope you have the baby u always dreamed of and have a safe full term pregnancy ❤️
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: _sydney_vicious_ on December 28, 2019, 08:15:46 PM
You’re in a sensitive place right now and I know you feel like you need a psychic due to the medication, but you really don’t. The last thing you need right now is to be wasting money on false hopes and promises. You absolutely cannot be wasting money on someone who plans to take advantage of you in this time of need.  You mentioned that you only have two days of the medication - just hang in there. You’re almost at the tail end of it. You can do this.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: ES1281 on December 29, 2019, 12:41:54 AM
There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.

I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.

this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.

I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china

Hi Anna

I think what you need isn't psychic but counselor for your mental health.

I have two kids my own and I'm sure mom's mental health is very important for kids' wellbeing.

This is very serious.
Please find a good counselor, but not psychics.
Psychics aren't professions in charge of people's mental health, they don't need any certifigation and degrees to be a psychic.

But a counselor does.

In addiotion I want to say stop saying' f-king china', I'm chinese, you didn't mean to hurt anybody but this hurts people.
Don't make chinese people sad okay?
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: jas on December 29, 2019, 02:10:18 AM
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a single mother - I just hope you are in a good spot to bring a child into the world.  Raising a child alone isn't a problem as long as you are truly ready for the commitment.  It will absolutely be the most demanding job you have ever had.....also the most rewarding. 

ES1281 is spot on with her advice. 
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: HornetKick on December 29, 2019, 03:17:13 AM
There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.

I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.

this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.

I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china

Hi Anna

I think what you need isn't psychic but counselor for your mental health.

I have two kids my own and I'm sure mom's mental health is very important for kids' wellbeing.

This is very serious.
Please find a good counselor, but not psychics.
Psychics aren't professions in charge of people's mental health, they don't need any certifigation and degrees to be a psychic.

But a counselor does.

In addiotion I want to say stop saying' f-king china', I'm chinese, you didn't mean to hurt anybody but this hurts people.
Don't make chinese people sad okay?

How is she making chinese people sad? She wasn't talking about chinese people, she was referring to China's culture of the one child policy. In all honesty facts shouldn't be hurtful.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Bostongirl on December 29, 2019, 03:25:13 AM
how and when someone chooses to have a child is their business.  They asked for help about psychic readings.  referring to China is offences to a Chinese person and she kindly asked for it not to be referred too. It's not how you feel about something it's how a chinese person feels. Respect their wishes and move on.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Sparkle002 on December 29, 2019, 03:43:49 AM
Facts can be hurtful. I mean, if someone was ugly (as a fact or ...in other words unattractive) it would probably be hurtful to say it to their face #differentperspective or if someone wasn’t intelligent - calling someone “dumb” is hurtful

There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.

I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.

this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.

I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china

Hi Anna

I think what you need isn't psychic but counselor for your mental health.

I have two kids my own and I'm sure mom's mental health is very important for kids' wellbeing.

This is very serious.
Please find a good counselor, but not psychics.
Psychics aren't professions in charge of people's mental health, they don't need any certifigation and degrees to be a psychic.

But a counselor does.

In addiotion I want to say stop saying' f-king china', I'm chinese, you didn't mean to hurt anybody but this hurts people.
Don't make chinese people sad okay?

How is she making chinese people sad? She wasn't talking about chinese people, she was referring to China's culture of the one child policy. In all honesty facts shouldn't be hurtful.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: HornetKick on December 29, 2019, 04:49:34 AM
Facts can be hurtful. I mean, if someone was ugly (as a fact or ...in other words unattractive) it would probably be hurtful to say it to their face #differentperspective or if someone wasn’t intelligent - calling someone “dumb” is hurtful
You're missing the point, but if you think someone is ugly doesn't make it a fact, it makes it your opinion. That same person may not be ugly to another person. The same as if you're calling someone dumb. That's all objective. It's not a fact.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Sparkle002 on December 29, 2019, 05:07:18 AM
Not missing the point...maybe it was a bad example since those things I mentioned are "subjective"...but the point (in this response) is that Facts actually can be hurtful. Just because its fact doesnt mean it cant be hurtful.

Let's try a disability - that's a fact, right? If someone lost their leg. But to make fun of someone disabled, or reference it negatively can be hurtful.

Either way I think the point was missed in the original response...I don't think everyone automatically knew the background behind the OPs post referencing China and children...

Facts can be hurtful. I mean, if someone was ugly (as a fact or ...in other words unattractive) it would probably be hurtful to say it to their face #differentperspective or if someone wasn’t intelligent - calling someone “dumb” is hurtful
You're missing the point, but if you think someone is ugly doesn't make it a fact, it makes it your opinion. That same person may not be ugly to another person. The same as if you're calling someone dumb. That's all objective. It's not a fact.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: pfizer on December 29, 2019, 05:40:43 AM
well i am a half chinese too; but i dont feel offensive about her 'fxking china' statement.
china is notorious that way; that is fact checked! i dont think she meant to hurt chinese feeling.

being a single mom is absolutely OK, as long as you yourself are mentally healthy so you can prepare yourself for the upcoming hardship on raising the kid on your own.

take care of yourself; find a good and reliable consultant or mental doctor; you dont need a psychic now.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: sexyp on December 29, 2019, 10:07:41 AM
no offense to you but you are half chinese and not full chinese. don't take this the wrong way but this is almost like a white person using the n-word and then a black person says they are offended by it but then comes a half black/half white person and says well I didn't find it offensive. let's be racially/culturally sensitive. op could have made her post without dragging people from China into her issue.


 
well i am a half chinese too; but i dont feel offensive about her 'fxking china' statement.
china is notorious that way; that is fact checked! i dont think she meant to hurt chinese feeling.

being a single mom is absolutely OK, as long as you yourself are mentally healthy so you can prepare yourself for the upcoming hardship on raising the kid on your own.

take care of yourself; find a good and reliable consultant or mental doctor; you dont need a psychic now.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: ES1281 on December 29, 2019, 10:46:25 AM
My kids are chinese’ too of course I’m unhappy about her post but I was giving her advise to find a counselor but some of you guys are like I shouldn’t be offensive?
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Bostongirl on December 29, 2019, 11:41:18 AM
You weren't ignore them.... If that statement upset you then your entitled to say so.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: pfizer on December 29, 2019, 11:55:49 AM
no offense to you but you are half chinese and not full chinese. don't take this the wrong way but this is almost like a white person using the n-word and then a black person says they are offended by it but then comes a half black/half white person and says well I didn't find it offensive. let's be racially/culturally sensitive. op could have made her post without dragging people from China into her issue.


 
well i am a half chinese too; but i dont feel offensive about her 'fxking china' statement.
china is notorious that way; that is fact checked! i dont think she meant to hurt chinese feeling.

being a single mom is absolutely OK, as long as you yourself are mentally healthy so you can prepare yourself for the upcoming hardship on raising the kid on your own.

take care of yourself; find a good and reliable consultant or mental doctor; you dont need a psychic now.

i didnt get it, the one child policy is damn WRONG, completely anti-human; and what she said was pretty clear referring to this policy; why you have to generalise it to ALL chinese and WHOLE china or maybe even the chinese culture? i am living in asia so my daily life is still pretty chinese/chinese dominated, i really dont find her statement (with her background story) racist AT ALL.

now i got it why people nowadays dont even dare talk to chinese; they could be offended by any ANY way.  :o :o :o :o
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Fidget1028 on December 29, 2019, 04:14:14 PM
I’m 36 and I’ll be 37 next year... I’m more interested in becoming a mother. (And Im scared my window is also closing ... frankly this seems young to me, but medically speaking I’m considered now “old”)
If I get my finances in order, and if I become mentally better- I want to really do this.

I often joke with my sister who is older let’s get the same donor and do it at the same time so our keikis children will not only be cousins but also siblings! And have someone to grow up with... what would that be called? Cousin-brother?

Hope that’s a minder bender to defuse situation

Don't focus too much on age. I had my last baby at 42. There's something to be said for older parents. But I do get it.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Fidget1028 on December 29, 2019, 08:25:29 PM
There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.

I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.

this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.

I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china

Sorry but here's how it is. When you are relying on "the state" to help, you are relying on your fellow tax citizens to support your life decisions. "The state" doesn't do offer anything other than to redirect tax money from them to you.

So actually, it IS other people's business. Literally. It is money coming out of other people's pockets. This isn't a personal choice. It's a choice that impacts society at large.

China, for whatever it's worth, simply has better sense than to allow this kind of thing.

Also you say you are "going" to be approved for disability? How do you know? What if you are not approved, or you have to appeal and it takes years to get approved? What if you don't get disability unti your child is in kindergarten?

I have a disability also and a very limited income because of it. I'm still working. I am 41 and already going into menopause. I could do the same thing you are doing, but I choose not to. What kind of life would that be for a child?

Agree with all of this. Sorry if it sounds judgmental, but you chose to put your business out there. If you can't afford to support the child yourself, maybe you shouldn't be budgeting psychic readings into the mix.

Title: Re: please help me
Post by: sexyp on December 29, 2019, 08:34:41 PM
i agree too. having a baby is a lot of pressure for anyone let alone someone who has some other issues going on. i think it is unfair to bring a child into the mix if you are not in a good place financially and mentally.

There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.

I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.

this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.

I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china

Sorry but here's how it is. When you are relying on "the state" to help, you are relying on your fellow tax citizens to support your life decisions. "The state" doesn't do offer anything other than to redirect tax money from them to you.

So actually, it IS other people's business. Literally. It is money coming out of other people's pockets. This isn't a personal choice. It's a choice that impacts society at large.

China, for whatever it's worth, simply has better sense than to allow this kind of thing.

Also you say you are "going" to be approved for disability? How do you know? What if you are not approved, or you have to appeal and it takes years to get approved? What if you don't get disability unti your child is in kindergarten?

I have a disability also and a very limited income because of it. I'm still working. I am 41 and already going into menopause. I could do the same thing you are doing, but I choose not to. What kind of life would that be for a child?

Agree with all of this. Sorry if it sounds judgmental, but you chose to put your business out there. If you can't afford to support the child yourself, maybe you shouldn't be budgeting psychic readings into the mix.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Sparkle002 on December 29, 2019, 08:40:06 PM
Why do ppl actually “want” kids again? Lol

i agree too. having a baby is a lot of pressure for anyone let alone someone who has some other issues going on. i think it is unfair to bring a child into the mix if you are not in a good place financially and mentally.

There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.

I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.

this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.

I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china

Sorry but here's how it is. When you are relying on "the state" to help, you are relying on your fellow tax citizens to support your life decisions. "The state" doesn't do offer anything other than to redirect tax money from them to you.

So actually, it IS other people's business. Literally. It is money coming out of other people's pockets. This isn't a personal choice. It's a choice that impacts society at large.

China, for whatever it's worth, simply has better sense than to allow this kind of thing.

Also you say you are "going" to be approved for disability? How do you know? What if you are not approved, or you have to appeal and it takes years to get approved? What if you don't get disability unti your child is in kindergarten?

I have a disability also and a very limited income because of it. I'm still working. I am 41 and already going into menopause. I could do the same thing you are doing, but I choose not to. What kind of life would that be for a child?

Agree with all of this. Sorry if it sounds judgmental, but you chose to put your business out there. If you can't afford to support the child yourself, maybe you shouldn't be budgeting psychic readings into the mix.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Fidget1028 on December 29, 2019, 08:51:25 PM
LOL...seriously. I have 3 (2 are adults now), and I love them all dearly, but if anyone wants a taste of being a parent, feel free to borrow mine.  ;D

Why do ppl actually “want” kids again? Lol

i agree too. having a baby is a lot of pressure for anyone let alone someone who has some other issues going on. i think it is unfair to bring a child into the mix if you are not in a good place financially and mentally.

There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.

I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.

this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.

I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china

Sorry but here's how it is. When you are relying on "the state" to help, you are relying on your fellow tax citizens to support your life decisions. "The state" doesn't do offer anything other than to redirect tax money from them to you.

So actually, it IS other people's business. Literally. It is money coming out of other people's pockets. This isn't a personal choice. It's a choice that impacts society at large.

China, for whatever it's worth, simply has better sense than to allow this kind of thing.

Also you say you are "going" to be approved for disability? How do you know? What if you are not approved, or you have to appeal and it takes years to get approved? What if you don't get disability unti your child is in kindergarten?

I have a disability also and a very limited income because of it. I'm still working. I am 41 and already going into menopause. I could do the same thing you are doing, but I choose not to. What kind of life would that be for a child?

Agree with all of this. Sorry if it sounds judgmental, but you chose to put your business out there. If you can't afford to support the child yourself, maybe you shouldn't be budgeting psychic readings into the mix.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Sparkle002 on December 29, 2019, 09:03:08 PM

Hahah!

LOL...seriously. I have 3 (2 are adults now), and I love them all dearly, but if anyone wants a taste of being a parent, feel free to borrow mine.  ;D

Why do ppl actually “want” kids again? Lol

i agree too. having a baby is a lot of pressure for anyone let alone someone who has some other issues going on. i think it is unfair to bring a child into the mix if you are not in a good place financially and mentally.

There are strong opinions about single mothers by choce but i have dreamed of being a mom and my fertility window is closing.
i cant wait on guys any longer.

I am going to get approved for disability, also. the state offers help for babies, as well.

this REALLY is a personal choice and NOT anyone's business.

I have people in my life who will help
SERIOUSLY - I didnt ask anyones opinion on my choices of having a child. this isnt F-ing china

Sorry but here's how it is. When you are relying on "the state" to help, you are relying on your fellow tax citizens to support your life decisions. "The state" doesn't do offer anything other than to redirect tax money from them to you.

So actually, it IS other people's business. Literally. It is money coming out of other people's pockets. This isn't a personal choice. It's a choice that impacts society at large.

China, for whatever it's worth, simply has better sense than to allow this kind of thing.

Also you say you are "going" to be approved for disability? How do you know? What if you are not approved, or you have to appeal and it takes years to get approved? What if you don't get disability unti your child is in kindergarten?

I have a disability also and a very limited income because of it. I'm still working. I am 41 and already going into menopause. I could do the same thing you are doing, but I choose not to. What kind of life would that be for a child?

Agree with all of this. Sorry if it sounds judgmental, but you chose to put your business out there. If you can't afford to support the child yourself, maybe you shouldn't be budgeting psychic readings into the mix.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: jas on December 29, 2019, 11:29:13 PM
I agree 100% with Still Tired - you took the words out of my mouth.

Here is what really irks me - I have great insurance through work but if I wanted to have fertility treatments it would be just this side of impossible to get approved. How does someone on $900 a month get approved for fertility treatments??  If I am not mistaken, the state is paying for the treatment that the rest of us would be unable to receive.  So to sum it up.....the state (us) supports you, the state (us) pays for the fertility treatments AND the state (us) is going to pay not only for the birth of the child but cover all expenses for the next 18 years??

Oh, let me throw a stupid idea out.....how about getting approved to be a foster parent first and see how it goes - you actually will get paid as a foster parent.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Sparkle002 on December 29, 2019, 11:52:18 PM
I agree 100% with Still Tired - you took the words out of my mouth.

Here is what really irks me - I have great insurance through work but if I wanted to have fertility treatments it would be just this side of impossible to get approved. How does someone on $900 a month get approved for fertility treatments??  If I am not mistaken, the state is paying for the treatment that the rest of us would be unable to receive.  So to sum it up.....the state (us) supports you, the state (us) pays for the fertility treatments AND the state (us) is going to pay not only for the birth of the child but cover all expenses for the next 18 years??

Oh, let me throw a stupid idea out.....how about getting approved to be a foster parent first and see how it goes - you actually will get paid as a foster parent.

WOW I thought the same thing (fostering)
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Imnotsure on December 30, 2019, 02:01:54 AM
This thread makes me sad. I’m a young widow with a toddler. My husband unexpectedly died before we could have more than one child. I’d LOVE to find love again and have more babies. But I know that having one by myself is really challenging at times. I don’t know if I could handle two by myself. And I have a good career and family support. I wish I could do fertility treatments but I know I’m not in a place emotionally or practically to do it. I don’t know what the point of my post is, but I think I just feel sorry for the OP’s future child. Being a single mom to an infant is really hard.

See this thread makes me sad as well, but for opposite reasons. Instead of uplifting, supporting or putting light and love out for OP or members of this thread, I feel quite the opposite is happening on this thread.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: ES1281 on December 30, 2019, 02:06:58 AM
This thread makes me sad. I’m a young widow with a toddler. My husband unexpectedly died before we could have more than one child. I’d LOVE to find love again and have more babies. But I know that having one by myself is really challenging at times. I don’t know if I could handle two by myself. And I have a good career and family support. I wish I could do fertility treatments but I know I’m not in a place emotionally or practically to do it. I don’t know what the point of my post is, but I think I just feel sorry for the OP’s future child. Being a single mom to an infant is really hard.

Hug to you, I wish there will be something good comes into your life.

I feel if the single parent isn't emotionally and financially stable, it will be very challenging for both the parent and child.
In a long term.

I believe mental health comes first on a person's happiness.
So hope op will think twice to get ready for a kid.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: ES1281 on December 30, 2019, 02:19:39 AM
This thread makes me sad. I’m a young widow with a toddler. My husband unexpectedly died before we could have more than one child. I’d LOVE to find love again and have more babies. But I know that having one by myself is really challenging at times. I don’t know if I could handle two by myself. And I have a good career and family support. I wish I could do fertility treatments but I know I’m not in a place emotionally or practically to do it. I don’t know what the point of my post is, but I think I just feel sorry for the OP’s future child. Being a single mom to an infant is really hard.

Hug to you, I wish there will be something good comes into your life.

I feel if the single parent isn't emotionally and financially stable, it will be very challenging for both the parent and child.
In a long term.

I believe mental health comes first on a person's happiness.
So hope op will think twice to get ready for a kid.

Thank you. Truthfully the only reason o started calling psychics is because a lost love came back into my life after my husband died. And I’m soooo hopeful for something great to happen soon. We went through a pretty crappy year.

I wish you will get what you want/ deserve! I belive we get what we give to others and ourselves.
Sending love!
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: lp1111 on December 30, 2019, 02:31:52 AM
Still tired, YES! Thank you. I’m a single mom trying to support my and my daughter’s lives, yet half of my money goes out in taxes.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: jas on December 30, 2019, 02:34:04 AM
Yes, ES, you are so correct - we get what we give.   It isn't always easy to put out love when life throws something at us and we want to do just the opposite.


Title: Re: please help me
Post by: ES1281 on December 30, 2019, 02:48:11 AM
Yes, ES, you are so correct - we get what we give.   It isn't always easy to put out love when life throws something at us and we want to do just the opposite.

Hi Jas, yeap, those negative life experiences teach us understand better how to treat others(Sometimes it's hard) and eventually reflect back to our own life.

I'm happy seeing more good people with a kind heart here.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: Yaz88 on December 30, 2019, 03:33:26 AM
To Anna the OP: You will not get any judgment from me as I do not know your situation and it is not my rightful place to judge you or the veracity and correctness of the desire of your heart to be a mother.  I highly suggest that you stay away from the platform readers, being that the vulnerability of your circumstances and emotions will likely result in one of two things (1) the reader feeds into your emotional upheaval to keep you on the phone and it ends up costing you half your monthly income; or (2) the reader reacts harshly and condescendingly to your predicament, which will most likely only add to your confusion and depression.  Unfortunately, all of the legitimate and succinct readers that I know of on the platforms would most likely not offer much in the way of empathy (they wouldn’t take your money, but you wouldn’t get much guidance). 

Depending on what it is you’d like to sort through, the most empathetic readers (meaning kind and patient) off the platforms, who make use of a flate fee corresponding with time, are Lady Persephone, Matilda, Yona (but she is booked out for weeks).  You may have better luck going to a local psychic that has good google reviews and can offer psychic ability with some practical guidance.

Best of luck to you and may you find the clarity you desire.  Remember, you do have your own intuition and the ability to quiet your mind.  Don’t discount your own powers and your own magnificent connection to the divine. 
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: ES1281 on December 30, 2019, 07:21:37 PM
This thread makes me sad. I’m a young widow with a toddler. My husband unexpectedly died before we could have more than one child. I’d LOVE to find love again and have more babies. But I know that having one by myself is really challenging at times. I don’t know if I could handle two by myself. And I have a good career and family support. I wish I could do fertility treatments but I know I’m not in a place emotionally or practically to do it. I don’t know what the point of my post is, but I think I just feel sorry for the OP’s future child. Being a single mom to an infant is really hard.

See this thread makes me sad as well, but for opposite reasons. Instead of uplifting, supporting or putting light and love out for OP or members of this thread, I feel quite the opposite is happening on this thread.

Yeah I was kind of shocked to encounter some people never existed in my social circle.
Very ignorant with low vibe.

 This is why some are physically  healthy with no baggage, but still struggles on business, love for years,  continue the reading loop.

We get what we pushed out(deserve).
Readings doesn't help much on this part.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: annathechica on January 13, 2020, 02:56:20 AM
imnotsure - thank you for your post!

people should put more light and love into the world

i was asking for HELP not criticisms.   my choices, my finances - WHERE i am getting money to do fertility treatments - ALL personal things.
I am seeking a counselor - even though my insurance this year now makes covering that difficult -
YES i have hurdles to jump over but you all have no idea my life path and what i've overcome already

even though i am exhausted from criticism and beat down by the world. for God sake its usually broken people who turn to psychics as an addictive way of coping. I would think we would offer sympathy to each other

im nearly 40 so its now or never.

what I havent received was much of an answer to my initial question but WHATEVER

the FACT of the one child limit in china is what i was referring to  - ya'll that got butthurt.     NOT referring to china
I am a very open minded all inclusive multicultural loving hippie girl.

GAWD just reaching out for help

hurt people hurt people so to those who slapped me verbally I send love and light to you broken ones.

Title: Re: please help me
Post by: ES1281 on January 13, 2020, 03:21:58 AM
imnotsure - thank you for your post!

people should put more light and love into the world

i was asking for HELP not criticisms.   my choices, my finances - WHERE i am getting money to do fertility treatments - ALL personal things.
I am seeking a counselor - even though my insurance this year now makes covering that difficult -
YES i have hurdles to jump over but you all have no idea my life path and what i've overcome already

even though i am exhausted from criticism and beat down by the world. for God sake its usually broken people who turn to psychics as an addictive way of coping. I would think we would offer sympathy to each other

im nearly 40 so its now or never.

what I havent received was much of an answer to my initial question but WHATEVER

the FACT of the one child limit in china is what i was referring to  - ya'll that got butthurt.     NOT referring to china
I am a very open minded all inclusive multicultural loving hippie girl.

GAWD just reaching out for help

hurt people hurt people so to those who slapped me verbally I send love and light to you broken ones.

Hi Anna

Sending love and light doesn't mean ppl need to agree with you(like psychics child etc) but I understand you:)
I think you already received a lot of love from those replies to you I truly felt there are many people seriously cared about your situation which is a great thing.
I wish all the best to you:) and your baby if you will have one coming.
Title: Re: please help me
Post by: jas on January 13, 2020, 02:39:51 PM
OP - so you are asking the $84M question: So a sensitive, affordable, caring but accurate at deciphering a complicated situation and predicting accurately

That is what we are ALL looking for by way of this board.  If you read the threads on different psychics it may help to answer your question.  Unfortunately, it is trial and error until you find someone that works for you.  The reader that works for me may not be the best for you. 

It really is that simple.