The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: Love2lovenj on April 26, 2019, 05:25:29 PM
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Is it me or is there more lurkers on here then people willing to share their experiences? I could be wrong but i don't understand why people won't contribute to the forum. They could actually help someone in making a decision on whether or not to use their money on a reader. 😞
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Is it me or is there more lurkers on here then people willing to share their experiences? I could be wrong but i don't understand why people won't contribute to the forum. They could actually help someone in making a decision on whether or not to use their money on a reader. 😞
Yes definitely more lurkers than contributors. Some even come out and say “Ive been an long time lurker.....”
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May be because there are some bullies here and people don't know how their opinions will be taken. I had my reservations when I started posting. And another thing was that I had to wait a long time before I could post here because my account was under review, so around that time I could only lurk lol.
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May be because there are some bullies here and people don't know how their opinions will be taken. I had my reservations when I started posting. And another thing was that I had to wait a long time before I could post here because my account was under review, so around that time I could only lurk lol.
I think it's sad that some might not find it a safe place to post their opinions. In the end the attacks only hurt others who would have benefited in hearing what had to be said. Personally if someone doesn't agree with me that's their prerogative because i know no reader is 100% for anyone. So someone who may be spot on with most people may no connect with me at all. People need to keep that in mind. No one knows all. 😎 but if you find someone who does can you please pm me that info. 🤣
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May be because there are some bullies here and people don't know how their opinions will be taken. I had my reservations when I started posting. And another thing was that I had to wait a long time before I could post here because my account was under review, so around that time I could only lurk lol.
I think it's sad that some might not find it a safe place to post their opinions. In the end the attacks only hurt others who would have benefited in hearing what had to be said. Personally if someone doesn't agree with me that's their prerogative because i know no reader is 100% for anyone. So someone who may be spot on with most people may no connect with me at all. People need to keep that in mind. No one knows all. 😎 but if you find someone who does can you please pm me that info. 🤣
Girl who are we kidding? lol. I'll message you some of my faves though.
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Happyk you are the best. 😘👍
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just bear in mind because someone worked for person A, doesn't mean they will work for person B..I'm sure you know this already.
I also feel some might not want to fuel anyone's addiction..So many people come on here just desperate for predictions (I was one of them lol) and just get reading after reading. It's not healthy. So even if someone found a psychic that works for them, they might not want to share for that reason...JMO.
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No i totally get that but that has also been the way we exposed the scammers too. So i suppose its a catch 22. I just always felt the positive out weighed the negative. Girl i know all about jumping on band wagon of the next hot advisor. My poor wallet felt it too. Ughhh
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UGH! I know! lol. I still try new readers here and there but overall I think I'm much better than I used to be....LOL
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Ill be turning into a lurker while I am awaiting my predictions :-) But will revert as soon as they pass :-) I am also getting good at not getting readings while waiting
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Me too! I've been doing a lot better. Some days are better than others of course. So cheers for us!! We're overcoming this!
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I’ve stopped posting much because of several aspects already mentioned. Once June is over though I will post a summary of who worked and who didn’t for me. But for now I lurk a lot to try to see if I can figure out who might be right or not. But it’s hard to post without sharing some degree of personal details about your situation as well, at least for me. Or details about the readings themselves. And based on my experience I shy away from either now because I am completely sure there are readers who lurk here and try to find info about clients, and / or people who work for or in some way benefit from the sites like Keen and CP. So honestly I don’t trust anyyyyyone much at. All. So that’s impacted what I share and when. But I do think it might be valuable to someone else to know what predictions happened and what didn’t and I should really know for sure by end of June.
Of course then I could always go down the road of “timing being off” lol but I don’t think I’ll go down that path anymore after that point lol. You could say 10 years later “timing was off” lol.
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So true. There have been predictions from very popular readers that have yet to happen. So is it just the timing is off or are they just wrong. How long do you wait before you can honestly say if they are wrong or right.
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I don't share many details of my readings because I KNOW advisors google their handles and read what is posted because I have had four Bitwine advisors mention comments made on these forums. My user names are different, but with specific info they can still tell who you are. Some advisors will block forum members that they know are posting. So yeah I just basically try to say they were right or they were wrong, unfortunately.
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Same thing as everyone has mentioned before, I've witnessed members being disrespected or attacked (even in a passive aggressive manner) by other members for merely airing their personal views on certain readers, that creates a discouraging atmosphere for persons who may want to openly share honest feedback on readers.
Also, the readers themselves target you if they're able to identify your account on their site, I've actually experienced outting a scammer only to have my account shut down by bitwine because of the information I shared here. I have no regrets and the scammer's profile is deleted now but it's hard to freely post with the best of intentions when everything you share here makes you a target or the information that you so share is used against you in a nefarious manner.
The truth is, this site isn't a safe zone to share psychic reviews, it takes a lot of courage and defiance to post anything here and not everyone is up for that. They're probably doing the smarter thing which is protecting their identity/privacy, gathering information on the low and using it accordingly. We're the ones bearing the risk when we post our business up, but that's entirely on us...
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I for one don't feel you need to share the details of your reading or your story to let someone know if the reader is accurate. Or even just share if they seemed to have a gift or not. To be honest al ot of us on here are in similar situation so unless you are being specific or giving details i would think it would really be hard to pin point who you are. IMO, i just wished people could chime in and say yay or nay on someone they tried. Yet still keeping the details to the minimum. Otherwise it just seems like you never know about these other readers who maybe good but not mentioned on here. For me some of these popular readers may have picked up the past and possibly what is currently going on but just fall flat when it comes to predictions.
I do want to say that i do appreciate all of you who take the time and courage to share your experiences. 👍
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I feel like I overshare my experiences lol. I don’t mind. I have quite a few real life friends but no one I can really share my hopes and fears with like I do on here.
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I have only one friend who knows that i have spent so much money on readings. Lol if she knew i still had them she might stick me in a rubber room and throw away the key. So its nice to have you all here for support.
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Yea, sharing is great until you accidentally start a new thread and oh boy are you in trouble now. Having said that, I also think we should all try to share our experiences more. I'm going to go through my list and try to share more. You guys don't know me but I feel this shame, this embarrassment to have read with so many people. We're all in similar positions (although some say not) so this is a good platform to be able to talk without a lot of judgement being passed, I still can't help but be mad at myself.
Love, none of my friends know I've spent so much money on readings. I can't even imagine if they were to know what the consequences would be.
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Honestly if i gave a whole list of people I've read with i bet some people wouldn't even know who half of these readers are. I mainly use Bitwine but have had 3 readings on keen and a couple of youtube readers.
Yes i honestly agree a lot of us are in very similar situations which i feel why its so easy for some of the scammers to get away with giving readings and us being in awe. This forum has definitely open my eyes to that.
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Yea, sharing is great until you accidentally start a new thread and oh boy are you in trouble now. Having said that, I also think we should all try to share our experiences more. I'm going to go through my list and try to share more. You guys don't know me but I feel this shame, this embarrassment to have read with so many people. We're all in similar positions (although some say not) so this is a good platform to be able to talk without a lot of judgement being passed, I still can't help but be mad at myself.
Love, none of my friends know I've spent so much money on readings. I can't even imagine if they were to know what the consequences would be.
It's not really anyone's business what you do with your money. Lol people can keep their consequences to themselves and worry about their own lives.
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Yea, sharing is great until you accidentally start a new thread and oh boy are you in trouble now. Having said that, I also think we should all try to share our experiences more. I'm going to go through my list and try to share more. You guys don't know me but I feel this shame, this embarrassment to have read with so many people. We're all in similar positions (although some say not) so this is a good platform to be able to talk without a lot of judgement being passed, I still can't help but be mad at myself.
Love, none of my friends know I've spent so much money on readings. I can't even imagine if they were to know what the consequences would be.
It's not really anyone's business what you do with your money. Lol people can keep their consequences to themselves and worry about their own lives.
It really isn't, A but you know how we let other's opinions affect us. And my obsession is pretty unhealthy and when someone points it out, it only intensifies the guilt I have over my unwise decisions. So, to avoid that I just don't tell anyone anything and this forum has been my safe space. I do want to tell people to go f themselves sometimes and I'm getting better at it lol.
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Yea, sharing is great until you accidentally start a new thread and oh boy are you in trouble now. Having said that, I also think we should all try to share our experiences more. I'm going to go through my list and try to share more. You guys don't know me but I feel this shame, this embarrassment to have read with so many people. We're all in similar positions (although some say not) so this is a good platform to be able to talk without a lot of judgement being passed, I still can't help but be mad at myself.
Love, none of my friends know I've spent so much money on readings. I can't even imagine if they were to know what the consequences would be.
HappyK I know what you mean I have not told anyone about my addiction. Never been able to. I am embarrassed to say the least and how much I need to be able to tackle this on my own. My bestest friend in the whole world whom I tell everything to doesnt even know. Thank goodness for you guys
It's not really anyone's business what you do with your money. Lol people can keep their consequences to themselves and worry about their own lives.
It really isn't, A but you know how we let other's opinions affect us. And my obsession is pretty unhealthy and when someone points it out, it only intensifies the guilt I have over my unwise decisions. So, to avoid that I just don't tell anyone anything and this forum has been my safe space. I do want to tell people to go f themselves sometimes and I'm getting better at it lol.