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Relationship Psychology Discussions => My Story => Topic started by: Highlyfavored1 on September 25, 2011, 04:37:28 PM
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Hello
I'm new so I'd thought I'd post my story with how I began to use these psychic Networks (Most of which I regret)
It all started in Feb 2010 when I ended a 3 and 1/2 year relationship with a guy who I was never in love with. I loved him at one point, but I was never in love with him. I met him at work along with my (SM) I chose him b/c the (SM) seemed to hard and complicated(which I would later find out to be true) this guy was the "safe" choice. I knew I would not get hurt from Day (1), and by hurt I mean heartbroken Unfortunately he ended up getting hurt and still is till this day...more on that later.
Now, where were we? ok yes Feb 2010 I broke up with the "safe" guy and in March 2010 I started having dreams about the (SM) I had not seen him since 2008 (2years) so it kind of freaked me out, and every time I would dream about him I would get contact from him or communication. So I called a Psychic. I chose The Psychic Power Network $1.99 a minute and so it began. Most would tell me that that the (SM) and I would never be together and I would meet someone in 2 months, 3 months 6 months..ect..) Then I ran across this one psychic on the network who told me in March that he and I would be in a relationship and he would finally tell me that he wants to be in a relationship with me before the end of August, 2010. It was March I'm thinking "yeah right" That was 6 months down the road. Each prediction she made for contact "DID" happen. If it was 10 Days, 5 Days 1 Day on the 25th, whenever IT HAPPENED (100%) But I doubted he and I would ever be in a relationship. He's very handsome and had women falling all over him throwing themselves at him. He'd never settle down!
Fast forward August 30th, 2010 he asked me to be in a relationship! The one of (3) who I trust was RIGHT! but it has been an up & down battle with him every since. It hasn't been easy and for now I'm letting God take control. The relationship hasn't been bad, there is no cheating or other issues. He is afraid, his feelings are intense and he has told me so things are "stuck" not moving forward. I've made the decision to date other people. I've consulted with Steve Gunn the "soul mate expert" I 've read the book "When Two Souls Connect" and it helped me to understand the dynamics of the relationship. So I know all about the deeper dynamics going on in the relationship. But since we are "stuck" and have been for 3 months I can't sit by and "do nothing" as I've been told, and wait for contact ect..
Now until I have commitment, which "most" say I will get but it will be end of this year or next year, I'm going to date other people. and who knows what may happen? I've streamed down my consultations to once a month & not with anyone new. My soul-mate will have to either deal with the "fear" or lose me in the process. That's his choice. Venus(who I hated at first) but came to find out she was right told me to take care of me and she was right! I'm not hoping he comes around. I "KNOW" he will, but will I be there when he does???
Now I have talked to a TON! and I do mean a TON so if u every want my opinion on who at California, Source, Access, PPN, Independent then I can tell you. I didn't have any success at Keen and only was there a short time.
I use to do Readings about 10 years ago on other people using Playing Cards, but I never tried on myself. I had a high accuracy rate, but it was draining and I would get called 24hrs to do readings so I stopped & want to try doing them on myself at some point. But for now I will relinquish the "NEED TO KNOW" and just have "FAITH" instead.
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hello Misty, Maryjane and Highlyfavored, big welcome to you all and is so nice to have new members to join us and share your stories!
highlyfavored, can you elaborate more on "your SM is stuck by fear"? i am sure you obviously like him, so what is his fear based on? is it something to do with commitment phobia? what did the psychics say?
can you share your reviews on Thereas PS, Isabella and Raven star ( PA ) if you had tried them?i haven't tried Thereas before but very keen. would appreciate your comments , thank you!
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hello Misty, Maryjane and Highlyfavored, big welcome to you all and is so nice to have new members to join us and share your stories!
highlyfavored, can you elaborate more on "your SM is stuck by fear"? i am sure you obviously like him, so what is his fear based on? is it something to do with commitment phobia? what did the psychics say?
can you share your reviews on Thereas PS, Isabella and Raven star ( PA ) if you had tried them?i haven't tried Thereas before but very keen. would appreciate your comments , thank you!
lightme ..Sure
When I say stuck I mean he's afraid to move forward to more committed territory engagement and marriage. Now the thing is I was told this by a few Psychics even the one's I trust, but I didn't believe them. He was too confident and put on a front really well. He told me in June that he is terrified of moving the relationship forward b/c he feels he will fail and that fear of failure is keeping things the way they are. I'm TIRED and EXHAUSTED. I'm scared too, but I can't let my life be controlled with that fear. I invested a lot emotionally and spiritually in this relationship and Ive seen the HIGHEST HIGH'S and the lowest LOWS. He has two fears to deal with (1)Losing Me (2)Moving the relationship forward-Commitment. I don't want to hurt him, but this back and forth pulling away and coming together is wreaking HAVOC on me Mentally and Physically I'm drained!!!!
Reviews:
Therese(Psychic Source) I haven't spoken to her in a while. She was accurate for me on when there would be Communication and Physical Contact from my guy. She is known for her timing abilities. She was wrong about me getting a job that she said I would get offered. I didn't get offered the job. She reads Tarot and is good at it. She is better for me dealing with relationship issues.
Raven Star(Psychic Access) I called her when my guy and I broke up. We had been broken up for 2 and 1/2 weeks at the point I called her. She asked me how long we had been broken up and I told her. She said it will be a month, or exactly 4weeks you have 2 more weeks to go. She was right it was exactly a month to the date. I called her once before and she was accurate on timing on when I would see my guy again. She said 3weeks at the most is your longest wait. She was right again. She is worth calling she's cheap and has good emphatic abilities.
Isabella(Psychic Access) I spoke to her once in July before the break-up, and she told me he was my soul-mate things would be bad for 3 to 4 months and I would have to have patience. (My patience is GONE)(lol) She said things would get better. I haven't given her prediction time to manifest b/c my patience is on the line. She is quick too
Hope this helps!
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Hi High,
i feel the same as you towards Raven and Isabella. i think Raven is pretty good on short term prediction for her price.
you said your SM is confident on the front, do you mean he acted like he was very sure in the beginning but later couldn't follow thru his words? ( my guy is like this.) i totally understand what you mean by being drained and exhausted. so i guess you are waiting for the big prediction? what is your timeline like?
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Welcome Newbies :D
Highlyfavored: who have you used on CP and what were your experiences?
Is there communication now between you and your sm?
greengrlx33,
To answer the shortest question first yes, there is communication between he and I. It is sporadic and via text about once a week! It consist of him telling me he is in love with me (BLAH) and misses me (BLAH) his actions are completely different so that is why I say (BLAH) if you missed me you would communicate more..right?? logically that's the right answer. But anyway.
I was BIG on timing at one point b/c I had a reader that Spoiled me and every time she said communication, contact, or an event or anything dealing with timing would occur she was right. She dealt with OUTCOMES. She didn't read the past FUTURE only! If she couldn't see a date or time frame she would say so. So I was sooo spoiled. Then she left the network I was using! So in between the time I found her again I tried out all these others and wasted MONEY!!!
California Psychics: (These are from July/August) when my guy & I were separated. I went overboard calling (NEVER AGAIN)
Allison- Gave me a specific time frame for communication and it didn't occur. She and I didn't have a connection. It never occurred
Venus - I didn't like the reading, but what she told me has been the truth. She doesn't see my guy in commitment territory till December. I spoke to her in August.
Darcy - told me when communication would occur - gave me three dates, it happened. She told me she was 99.9% accurate
Venice- I had such high hopes for her & 3 pages full of notes! She gave me dates and times and checked and double checked. I spoke to her in July. She said my guy and I would be in Full Relationship status by the 1st day of Fall..um..NOPE hasn't occurred. Still up and down! She said that I would marry this guy. She repeated it 3 times! She said Next year 2012 ( yeah well, I'm not holding my breath or unto that prediction) I don't know it could be a factor of waiting but she sounded SO CONFIDENT in her dates.
Abrielle - Told me I would see my guy the weekend of Labor Day or the next weekend. It has not happened. Said my guy calls me a Pet Name. She wanted to know what it was. I told her but I had other people tell me she told them that too. She also sees marriage. None of her predictions for me have panned out. She did however read the PRESENT very well.
Devyn- Told me to leave the guy, that I would meet someone new that was my soulmate before the end of September. (5) More days left & the countdown continues.
Danni- Gave a 3 week prediction that happened, everything else was advice.
Nina- Told me the month of September would be silent and a little into October. Told me that I would see him in October and there would be (intimacy) and November his heart would start talking to him. It would take 4 months from November - Feb 2011. I will get a full commitment after Feb 2011 talks of marriage, engagement. ect. So far she has been right about the month of September. She also told me DO NOT CALL HER BACK for a while to check in maybe Oct/Nov but don't call her often. Give the predictions time to manifest. (WOW) She was very confident. All I told her was my name and she took off from there. September Prediction has been true. (Time frame for Prediction hasn't occurred)
Samadi- Um :o ??????? She speaks to Spirit guides. She couldn't give me a time frame. She said she can tell me that it will be 8 more weeks up and down. My guy has work to do with his Ego and The Universe is getting everyone into alignment. "Yeah" She's on some DEEP..DEEP..type stuff I don't recommend for the faint at heart. You must be highly developed on your spiritual journey to talk with her.(Time frame for Prediction hasn't occurred)
Meryl- Sounded Very confident told me that I will marry my (S/M) in July/August 2012
(I don't believe her) Said I would meet his family in Dec/Jan(2011/2012) that's when engagement would occur. End of October Better w/Communication. (Time frame for Prediction hasn't occurred)
Mona- Sounds like she's 12 but don't let that fool you. Prediction's for December for things picking up and no commitment till March of next yr and then things move extremely fast. marriage & engagement will occur very quick.(Time frame for Prediction hasn't occurred)
Miriam- I actually liked She just asked my name and took off!Told me my guy wants this relationship so bad and is terrified at the same time (Same thing he said to me in June) Has Predictions for this upcoming week for communication either Monday or Thursday (She told me she is not good with time frames) She said she sees communication the last week in September but can't pinpoint exactly when and it will be just friendly. Stated tht Oct/Nov up and down. She also sees intimacy in October like Nina. Told me to PLEASE give it more time & not walk away. I've already started walking (Time frame for Prediction hasn't occurred)
Natalie - Saw that my guy was checking up on me on facebook. She was right about that my guy sent me screenshots of my facebook updates for a week. Wondering if I was seeing someone else. He and I are not facebook friends, so I don't know how he was able to see it Said she didn't know cause I have (3) men around me. My guy
was in front and the other two are on the side, and I will have a choice to make. I HAVE NO IDEA who the other two guys are! Timeframe for contact didn't occur
Anasela- Called her twice she got the same cards both times. Now she picked up on My guy's personality very well, what he did for a living everything in the PRESENT she get's 10 stars for. She was great. She gave NO TIME FRAMES. She just gave predictions. said we will live together, get married, and I started laughing on the phone. She told me "She will have the last laugh" She said I don't have to believe her She prefers that I don't but it WILL HAPPEN! VERY CONFIDENT.
Michelle- Told me to date other people and her time frame for contact did occur.
Charlie - Accurately described my physical appearance and has good empath abilities. He didn't make any predictions
Jaqueline - She was very Quick! Accurate description of the situation her prediction for contact occurred, but not in the time frame she gave. About 3 days later. Her predictions are for Nov/December.
THE END----FINALLY!
Now "If" I decide to call California Psychics again It will be in 2012. I have enough "PREDICTIONS" to last me until then! I'm trying to go with my own intuitiveness for now and FAITH!
Hopes this help someone.
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thanks for sharing so much with us, very interesting.
who was the psychic who spoilt you and did you find her after she left that network?
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Hello High, So happy to meet you and I must say that I wish I had your attitude and courage when my ex first broke up with me. I think I would be in a completely different place at this time. I admire you very much. Youre very uplifting and appear to be a strong confident woman. Like I used to be, lol. But Im getting back to that place after so long. Good luck to you.
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Hello High, So happy to meet you and I must say that I wish I had your attitude and courage when my ex first broke up with me. I think I would be in a completely different place at this time. I admire you very much. Youre very uplifting and appear to be a strong confident woman. Like I used to be, lol. But Im getting back to that place after so long. Good luck to you.
Hello 4ever!
OH!!!! Let me just tell you it hasn't always been that way. I use to be embarrassed to tell anyone this b/c I was ashamed I let myself get this far. But it "AINT" easy. I have always prided myself in being able to walk away from any MAN! But this has taken (2) Complete Breakdown's I mean full FLEDGED can't get out of BED type! Mom has to come take care of me! Taking LEAVE from WORK & SCHOOL (GRAD SCHOOL)
It's your own opinion, but this Soul-Mate stuff is REAL. Physically and MENTALLY I just can't do it!!! I can't I'm IN LOVE to the 10th POWER!!! I can't even look at a picture of him..It's THAT BAD!
BUT before I go COMPLETELY BROKE & INSANE b/c I'm prescribed anxiety & sleeping medication!!! During the time we were broke up. See I'm the one who is WALKING AWAY from HIM! He's scared I know, but I can't keep getting my heart broken. he comes in really hard then he pulls away <--------> its back and forth and I CAN'T. If the predictions happen I will be ELATED!! OVERJOYED!!! but in the meantime I've decided to surrender..wave the white flag!! I'm not reaching out anymore & if he wants me in his life b/c I can't be HIS FRIEND! (tried that..he can't either) he has to give me commitment so until then(if it happens) I'm GONE!
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Oh I totally understand the soulmate thing. Even with everything that has happened and no contact from my ex for very, very long, the feelings are still there. They just dont leave. But there comes a time(in my situation) to just give up and walk away for good. But the feelings dont leave that easily. And the dating world is vicious. Too many young beautiful women there seeking attention from the gentlemen, even the ones that are my age. Im 54, so dating just doesnt come as easily as it used to. Outer beauty fades and is replaced by signs of aging, this is something that is not attractive to most men. Unless they take the time to know a woman of my age, they usually just arent interested. The world is so superficial these days. But I am finding my strength again, one day at a time. I guess some things were just never meant to be so I have to accept it.
You did make one comment about Abrielle telling you that he called you a pet name, but she asked you what it was. She told me the same thing except that she told me what the pet name was. I didnt tell her. I was so surprised when she blurted out the name. I almost fell off the bed, lol. Then she also gave me another little quirk of his that no one would have known. Some of this psychic stuff I do have faith in, but some of the predictions I still see as fluff. Something to make us feel good in the moment and maybe to help us to let go in our own time, but really the fluff just keeps us hanging on and never lets us loose from the hope. Takes a long time to let go of it since it is embedded in our brains, even when reality hits us in the face like a freight train, lol.
Good luck with your ordeal, I hope he comes to his senses and decides to give his all to your relationship.
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HF1, I think you are amazing by being able to let go so quickly. I was stuck in a rut for 18 mos and finally let myself go to be with someone else who has been interested in me for awhile. Literally since winter, maybe 6 mos I held this new r/s at arms length hoping my ex would come around. Damned if it hasn't been now 5 weeks since I last heard from him in any form, save from a pic he posted on his fb wall last week.
Yes, it is draining and exhausting but I did it believing it would show how much I loved him and really wanted to be with him. I so get the the BLAH! LOL
I believe that I had to get to a certain point in order to be able to let go and I reached it last month. A few psychics told me I would have a choice to make and it looks as though they are right - if he ever decides to seek me out again. At this stage I am much more interested in the guy I am seeing now, as HE WANTS to spend time with me and my ex could care less.
Yes, I always felt I was strong and independent and this knocked me on my ass! I refused medication, don't know if it would have helped me move along at all. Pain killers and cold meds are all I ever take. I spent many many hours in bed wondering what on earth I was doing. I admire you for picking yourself up! Kudos to you. :)
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4everhopeful and Sunandmoon!
Thank's its hard, but I just feel the more I hold on to him, I may be blocking someone who is not scared to step up to the plate to come along!!
He's dragging his feet Another many WILL COME ALONG I'm sure and when he does I'm not going to look back. For now, he has a grace period in which if he would step up to the plate I would take him back. But that will be ending soon as my heart is hardening towards him daily. I will always have love for him, but I won't always be in love with him. We will share the connection, but I'm tired!
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I sure understand being tired H. Me too. And after the reading I had this afternoon, I feel better than I have in a long time. I wont let anyone take this feeling away. It is time to move on and if he resurfaces I will deal with it at that time, if he doesnt then it is his loss and I know in my heart that he knows he made a mistake. He is trapped and he will feel the remorse no matter what road he decides to take. He has no way out now. There will be regrets in either direction. But I have options. And one of my options is to be happy no matter what my circumstances because I have healthy children, a nice home, a good job, and nothing to pressure me. But he on the other hand, he is faced with a responsibility that he never wanted. So he is trapped and can't be relieved of the responsibility without regrets and remorse. To be honest with you, as we say in the south, "Its gravy on my grits" that he has gotten himself involved in such a mess. Because I know he never wanted such a thing. All he ever wanted was a woman with no ties, no children, nothing but attention for him. Now he has to share it all and support a woman and a child. LOL. Forgive me but I have to laugh just a little. I will be free of the child rearing in just a few short years, he has at least 18 yrs to go, lmao. I guess I got the last laugh after all.
The reason I say this is that the reading I received this afternoon covered this issue. I told her that I hated that he was faced with such an issue and I hoped that he was happy but just wanted to know how he felt. She said he wasnt happy at all with the situation and that it wouldnt last. I know what he went through after his divorce and involving his children. If he leaves another child behind, it will eat him alive. Maybe karma really does bite you in the butt. And he isnt gonna have a butt left, lol. Oh well. I told him he was making a mistake when he left me. I think I was right.
I dont mean to sound cruel or mean. But I think it serves him right to try so hard to find a woman without children or family and now to find himself with a child on the way. Especially while Im free to do what I want, when I want. With the exception of having a teen age son, who by the way, is a budding football star, which the ex would have loved if he had just taken the time and effort to take the chance. Looks like he will miss it all. I feel sorry for him in a way. But thats the way the cookie crumbles. Thank you so much Jewels Edwards, for such an honest and uplifting reading. Even if it wasnt what I really wanted to hear. It has set me free.
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Hi Friends, what do you think of the following statements:
" i am single, i like this girl soooo much, and she likes me so much too and she appears crushed that i am not contacting her. i have such intense feelings towards her and i am so scared ! so intense that i need to disappear for i-dont-know-how-long."
i observed that many of us are here because our guys had stepped back ( way too much and for too long ) and even hanging out with other women. and i observed the pattern that the most psychics say the same thing no matter how bad the situation is: he has such intense feelings for you that he is scared. and it is just a casual relationship with the girl he is with right now ( and it is ABSOLUTELY LOGICAL that he is spending tons of time with her and not with you but you are the one he has intense feelings for. and feelings grow with time but he is choosing to grow feelings with her and not with you. he has strong connections with you but beats me why he has no craving to see you. )
i am not directing the above at anybody, but i am directing it to the psychics.
i had read relationship books and breakup packages with sound and logical advices. there is such thing call commitment phobia, and bordom and losing interesting and checking other people out. there is no such thing as i have intense feelings for you and i am so scared that i have to disappear for a long long time ( unless there is valid reasons like he is married or he has terminal illness and only has 6 months to live.) i am a man in my 40s, but i feel so scared like a little rabbit in front of the woman i love so deeply. i have to leave her and sleep with someone else.
seesh.... does the above even make sense?
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Lightme, you are so right!!!!
Almost every single psychic I have spoken with says the same exact thing. With my guy, I know he's busy with law school and work. I get it. He also told me directly that he does not want a commitment due to the fact that law school is his number one priority. With that said, this doesn't stop him from going out and meeting other women. The advisors I trust and speak with repeatedly all say that he's not involved with anyone seriously, and he spends time with other women because he's a man and... wait for it... he's SCARED of the feelings he has for me. GIVE ME A BREAK!!! This man is 45 years old! He's been in enough relationships and one failed marriage to know all about feelings and how to handle them.
Sure, I have fears too! Especially considering all the stuff the father of my children put me through, BUT I know that there are good men out there, and I know that not everyone is going to be like my ex. Why can't this new man just face his fears or ignore them or move past them to move forward with me?? If he wants me, he'll be with me. So then why can't I just accept that? Instead, I've convinced myself that he has these deep, intense feelings for me and that I should just wait around for him to realize I'm worth the risk. Please. In the meantime, it is very likely that he'll start to get closer to one of these meaningless flings, and he'll move on from me! This is so ridiculous.
I'm turning 30 on Thursday. Only one psychic has said that this man will do something for my birthday. All others say he's stressed, he's busy, he wants to do something, but he just can't. Are you kidding me?! I see him everyday at work. I've done stuff for him for Christmas, his birthday, and Valentine's Day. He has not done the same for me. I'm not asking for anything big, just some acknowledgement or a date! I won't hold my breath. Why? I know it's not because of all these intense feelings he supposedly has... NO, it's because he just doesn't care.
I'm embarassed to think I've held on with basically nothing from him since May. The saddest part is that even though I just spelled it out for myself, I'm going to continue hoping he'll come around and realize what he could have with me. :-[ As I do that, I'll also continue spending money on psychics who aren't going to tell me anything different than what they've been telling me since January.
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I agree with Synergy, if I really stop and think about it the scenario descrided fits my siutation to a tee. my friends have told me to move on but that is not what I want to hear, I want to believe what the psychics have told me, this woman I see him with is just a friend, he really wants to be with me but is affraid to come forward for blah blah blah reason. I have convinced myself that all these psychics can not be wrong and they know more than my friends do so I am going to believe the psychics.
I think for me its hard to let go because everyone once in a while I will see something in him that gives me that small glimmer of hope that what the psychics have told me is true. I hope they are right but if they are not, I hope I come to that reality soon.
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that's right, Synergy.
i also observed that many of us are of a stable mature age group, like 30s and 40s. and we are talking of men in their 40s !!! why are they acting like they are 18 when they had been thru divorce and relationships? in the first place did they even tell us they are so scared and so overwhelmed by the intense feelings?
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hey lightme, thanks for the warm welcome.
I did have the privilege to talk to Therese (PS) 2 different times in the past 3 weeks. My first reading only lasted 5 mins and whatever she said didn't make sense to me because she told me that it was my exboyfriend that was having trust issues with me and would try bringing up the topic of getting back together in about 1-2 weeks and that he was uncomfortable with the presence of someone around me. I didn't know what to do with that.
Second time reading with her lasted for 12 minutes exactly a week after the last, I called her the day after i found pictures of my ex with a girl he's been physical with. What hurt the most was that the entire time we've been broken up, he's ALWAYS said that he still loves me. Therese picked up everything right away and she even remembered me and my situation. She was extremely understanding yet she did kind of scold me like how a mother does saying he has the right to do whatever he wants with after we break up and so do I.
Her predictions for the final outcome were still positive, she gave me quite some advice, it made sense this time and i'm following them she said she thinks I should take him back. Even though my and my ex have to see eachother at school twice a week (we're in 3 different classes together), I still ignore him. 2 weeks ago she said it would be about 2-3 weeks after when he starts getting aggressive trying to make me talk to him. Well its almost been 2 weeks, this thursday.
I recommend her I've read a lot of good reviews about her but what still makes me doubt her is how she WAS NOT ABLE TO sense the person AROUND HIM!! the booty call of his.. I feel like maybe i shouldnt hold this on her nor any of the other readers, (Ricky, Stella, Isis) but cmon. I know I only read with her for 5 mins the first time but I read with Ricky for 40 minutes and he clearly said my ex was lonely even though he has so many people around him and he wasn't in a relationship... So do Psychics not consider bootycalls as relationships?
Im sorry for the long post lightme..:S I don;t talk much but when i get started its hard for me to stop lol
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Should i have just post this in the individual Therese section? I don't think i should copy and paste this and put it there too
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Hello Misty,
thank you for sharingyour experience with Therese, ( and don't worry about long post :) i had been thinking of calling her for the past two weeks. currently i am trying to keep myself clear headed and also trying to find out the more honest psychics.
i have this problem with psychics not picking up on the third party too. the thing is, once i told the psychic about the third party, the psychic could "suddenly" come out with information about the third party. if you can read the third party, how come you didn't mention her right from the beginning? some psychics would do the stunt of asking you the name of the third party before coming out with the info.
i did read with a few psychics who picked up on the 3rd party without me saying anything. still, it was just a very vague pick up. i haven't met one who is so super good to paint the whole picture accurately before me.
keep sharing with us, Misty.
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lightme hit the nail on the head! When we were together there was NOTHING and I mean NOTHING that would keep him from me!!!! Didn't matter how broke or busy or sick or tired he was, I was #1 to him. Now I am nothing but dirt, on a good day. They say the women he talks to the most (I'd honestly be shocked if they were actually physical) is just someone that yes, cares for him, but on his end he likes the attention and sometimes plays games with her because she cares for him. Well for 18 mos I was more than willing to give him attention yet she got more and is still getting it - and she is WEIRD. Do I want a man who enjoys playing games with other women? Did he enjoy playing games with my heart and emotions?
He has had failed relationships, been married and yep at 40 he should be able to handle things. I know there are reasons it's harder for him than most but that doesn't excuse him from everything.
He had NO problems telling me his thoughts and feelings in the past.
Now I have found a man who only keeps quiet because he doesn't want to scare me off. Any time I let something slip about my feelings, he is right there to back them up with his. Plus I can FEEL how much he cares about me, there is no mystery. That is what it's all about IMO
For those of you still holding out hope, I am not picking on you at all. Trust me I totally get your feelings. I was there for 18 months. Some day your ex will either come around or you'll decide you've gone through enough pain and move on. Either way, it will all work out for the best :)
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In regards to psychics not picking up on the third person, I have been told by psychics that sometimes they cannot pick up on that person because you, the person they are reading do not have direct interaction with them so their energy is not around you, especially if you are not aware that this person in in your SM life. The same thing has happened with me, they kind of pick up on a woman but they ask me if I am aware of her. When I say yes, they ask me for her name, as soon as I provide it they give me a bunch of details.
This may just be an excuse for not giving an accurate reading but that is what I've been told by some psychics.
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misty: yes i know about the third party, and vice versa. Psychic Isabella ( PA ) said " there is another woman " immediately, Vicki Joy saw women figures but defined them wrongly, still she saw. Raven star said obstacle. Magical Sandra also picked up the people involved but she was wrong about something major. the day i read with her, she said he was so shut down now. guess what? he texted me on that day itself!
i am in a confused state now regarding the psychics ( who isn't? lol). some psychics known for being honest would say there is no connection, but he had been reaching out a lot. and pscyhics who gave me the fluff and fairytales were right about him reaching out. in conclusion, i haven't found a super good psychic. i have learnt to lower my expectations on psychics and not expect them to be 100% right, maybe 50% to 70%.
sunandmoon: so happy for you! it feels so good to be in a straight foward no mystery relationship isn't it ?
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In regards to psychics not picking up on the third person, I have been told by psychics that sometimes they cannot pick up on that person because you, the person they are reading do not have direct interaction with them so their energy is not around you, especially if you are not aware that this person in in your SM life. The same thing has happened with me, they kind of pick up on a woman but they ask me if I am aware of her. When I say yes, they ask me for her name, as soon as I provide it they give me a bunch of details.
This may just be an excuse for not giving an accurate reading but that is what I've been told by some psychics.
I was told by two psychics that they get the connection first between us and our sm and from the sm to the other person. It is weaker but it's there. One psychic actually would see my ex and the other women (or anyone) standing and if he had his back to them, he didn't care about them but if he was facing them he did and vice versa.
Lightme, it's been so long since I was in a healthy r/s I had forgotten how good it feels! No text bombing either LOL
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I've had three readings with Lisa Dianne from Keen, and the second one was completely different from the first and third. She was telling me about the man in question, and then I randomly mentioned something about his motorcycle (which I'm not to happy he bought, but whatever). Anyways, she said, "Uh oh." As soon as she pictured the motorcycle, she was able to picture the "light-haired" woman he's supposedly been spending time with. I cannot confirm this because he hasn't told me if he's seeing anyone.
I called her again last week, and she said he's been flirting with women but there isn't anyone he's been seeing. She did not mention the woman she spoke of in the previous reading. The rest of her prediction remained the same, though.
I don't know what to believe anymore!!! It's awful that we're all in similar situations.
sunandmoon, I am so happy you are with someone who appreciates you and is building a healthy relationship with you. This is how it should be!!!!
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lightme - LOL from the book quote you gave us. You are right. None of it makes any sense.
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Hello Misty,
thank you for sharingyour experience with Therese, ( and don't worry about long post :) i had been thinking of calling her for the past two weeks. currently i am trying to keep myself clear headed and also trying to find out the more honest psychics.
i have this problem with psychics not picking up on the third party too. the thing is, once i told the psychic about the third party, the psychic could "suddenly" come out with information about the third party. if you can read the third party, how come you didn't mention her right from the beginning? some psychics would do the stunt of asking you the name of the third party before coming out with the info.
i did read with a few psychics who picked up on the 3rd party without me saying anything. still, it was just a very vague pick up. i haven't met one who is so super good to paint the whole picture accurately before me.
keep sharing with us, Misty.
Hi Lightme, June at PS picked the third party without input from me. And she gave me details about the overall situation that mad me think she was on the right track. Others just said she's moved on but they all had my input.
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hey lightme, thanks for the warm welcome.
I did have the privilege to talk to Therese (PS) 2 different times in the past 3 weeks. My first reading only lasted 5 mins and whatever she said didn't make sense to me because she told me that it was my exboyfriend that was having trust issues with me and would try bringing up the topic of getting back together in about 1-2 weeks and that he was uncomfortable with the presence of someone around me. I didn't know what to do with that.
Second time reading with her lasted for 12 minutes exactly a week after the last, I called her the day after i found pictures of my ex with a girl he's been physical with. What hurt the most was that the entire time we've been broken up, he's ALWAYS said that he still loves me. Therese picked up everything right away and she even remembered me and my situation. She was extremely understanding yet she did kind of scold me like how a mother does saying he has the right to do whatever he wants with after we break up and so do I.
Her predictions for the final outcome were still positive, she gave me quite some advice, it made sense this time and i'm following them she said she thinks I should take him back. Even though my and my ex have to see eachother at school twice a week (we're in 3 different classes together), I still ignore him. 2 weeks ago she said it would be about 2-3 weeks after when he starts getting aggressive trying to make me talk to him. Well its almost been 2 weeks, this thursday.
I recommend her I've read a lot of good reviews about her but what still makes me doubt her is how she WAS NOT ABLE TO sense the person AROUND HIM!! the booty call of his.. I feel like maybe i shouldnt hold this on her nor any of the other readers, (Ricky, Stella, Isis) but cmon. I know I only read with her for 5 mins the first time but I read with Ricky for 40 minutes and he clearly said my ex was lonely even though he has so many people around him and he wasn't in a relationship... So do Psychics not consider bootycalls as relationships?
Im sorry for the long post lightme..:S I don;t talk much but when i get started its hard for me to stop lol
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Should i have just post this in the individual Therese section? I don't think i should copy and paste this and put it there too
Hi Misty - a booty call is not a relationship. However, they should be able to sense the presence of a new person. In my case they didn't (as I have said). So I personally won't call many of them back.
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I'm pretty sure I've mentioned before as well, but Therese didn't pick up a third party either. She specifically said there was no one. So did Ricky. I don't trust them for this reason. This other woman was not even a booty call, they were in a relationship and he was falling in love with her. They are over now because the other woman was cheating on my ex, but they should have picked it up. Like I said will never spend the big bucks on PS again
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I'm pretty sure I've mentioned before as well, but Therese didn't pick up a third party either. She specifically said there was no one. So did Ricky. I don't trust them for this reason. This other woman was not even a booty call, they were in a relationship and he was falling in love with her. They are over now because the other woman was cheating on my ex, but they should have picked it up. Like I said will never spend the big bucks on PS again
I agree with Starrlite, my story is kind of similar to yours. I called Ricky a number of times before contacting ex (after a long pause). It was reasonable to think she'd be in relationship with someone. But I kept asking Ricky, before i initiated contact; he kept saying 'single', he kept saying 'safe to go ahead and contact'. WRONG! >:( I then called back and to update, his then said "not true, she's overrating this relationship". So, where is the psychic ability? In hindsight, I think he had a file on me and would read every time, just like Therese did. How is it that after every shuffling I got (always) the 'Ten of Pentacles', the supercard for lover (I think she said that)....Ten of pentacles my butt. :(
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ghf just to let you know Ricky keeps notes on all his callers! He slipped it out himself with one of the callers from the forum and confused her with another of his clients
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That is no surprise misty. For some of them this is purely income and business, not as much helping others.
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Libra...that makes me question why in the world they were given their "gift".
Don't/shouldn't they get stripped of their gifts when they start misusing them? (any other Charmed fans here?)
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ghf just to let you know Ricky keeps notes on all his callers! He slipped it out himself with one of the callers from the forum and confused her with another of his clients
Well, he won't be updating his notes on me. >:(
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I think there are a lot of the psychics that keep notes on their callers. Jean at CP told me once to let her look back and see what she told me. That let me know right there that she had notes. If they are truly psychic they shouldnt need notes to refer back to. Im done with the psychics. Nothing concerning my original question ever came true, especially the outcome, and it never even came close to happening. It only went farther and farther away. Im finally regaining my strength. I was offered free email readings for as long as it took to get me through this recovery and I think I got the most honest reading in my life. But I honestly think this lady is just a counselor, and she admitted to me that she was a paid counselor in the past. But she does psychic readings now and she does claim to have this gift and was born with it. But who knows? But she offered the services after I had asked how to find reputable psychics at the Wahm forum. I gave her my email address and she emailed me several times and offered me a free phone reading also, telling me that she would email me as long as I needed it at no charge. She has helped me greatly and I think she is a wonderful lady for helping me without pay. I will gladly send her something in time, but she understands that these other hotline psychics almost broke me, and still no results or truth from them. I havent even felt the need to talk to this lady in several weeks now. Its like a weight lifted from my shoulders. I dont know if she just opened me up to the truth or if her prayers worked on me, but something sure happened and I feel a lot better.
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Hello
I'm new so I'd thought I'd post my story with how I began to use these psychic Networks (Most of which I regret)
It all started in Feb 2010 when I ended a 3 and 1/2 year relationship with a guy who I was never in love with. I loved him at one point, but I was never in love with him. I met him at work along with my (SM) I chose him b/c the (SM) seemed to hard and complicated(which I would later find out to be true) this guy was the "safe" choice. I knew I would not get hurt from Day (1), and by hurt I mean heartbroken Unfortunately he ended up getting hurt and still is till this day...more on that later.
Now, where were we? ok yes Feb 2010 I broke up with the "safe" guy and in March 2010 I started having dreams about the (SM) I had not seen him since 2008 (2years) so it kind of freaked me out, and every time I would dream about him I would get contact from him or communication. So I called a Psychic. I chose The Psychic Power Network $1.99 a minute and so it began. Most would tell me that that the (SM) and I would never be together and I would meet someone in 2 months, 3 months 6 months..ect..) Then I ran across this one psychic on the network who told me in March that he and I would be in a relationship and he would finally tell me that he wants to be in a relationship with me before the end of August, 2010. It was March I'm thinking "yeah right" That was 6 months down the road. Each prediction she made for contact "DID" happen. If it was 10 Days, 5 Days 1 Day on the 25th, whenever IT HAPPENED (100%) But I doubted he and I would ever be in a relationship. He's very handsome and had women falling all over him throwing themselves at him. He'd never settle down!
Fast forward August 30th, 2010 he asked me to be in a relationship! The one of (3) who I trust was RIGHT! but it has been an up & down battle with him every since. It hasn't been easy and for now I'm letting God take control. The relationship hasn't been bad, there is no cheating or other issues. He is afraid, his feelings are intense and he has told me so things are "stuck" not moving forward. I've made the decision to date other people. I've consulted with Steve Gunn the "soul mate expert" I 've read the book "When Two Souls Connect" and it helped me to understand the dynamics of the relationship. So I know all about the deeper dynamics going on in the relationship. But since we are "stuck" and have been for 3 months I can't sit by and "do nothing" as I've been told, and wait for contact ect..
Now until I have commitment, which "most" say I will get but it will be end of this year or next year, I'm going to date other people. and who knows what may happen? I've streamed down my consultations to once a month & not with anyone new. My soul-mate will have to either deal with the "fear" or lose me in the process. That's his choice. Venus(who I hated at first) but came to find out she was right told me to take care of me and she was right! I'm not hoping he comes around. I "KNOW" he will, but will I be there when he does???
Now I have talked to a TON! and I do mean a TON so if u every want my opinion on who at California, Source, Access, PPN, Independent then I can tell you. I didn't have any success at Keen and only was there a short time.
I use to do Readings about 10 years ago on other people using Playing Cards, but I never tried on myself. I had a high accuracy rate, but it was draining and I would get called 24hrs to do readings so I stopped & want to try doing them on myself at some point. But for now I will relinquish the "NEED TO KNOW" and just have "FAITH" instead.
i would love to talk to you - our stories our similar and i talked to steve gunn too! i also talk to nina and i would love to know how things are progressing in your relationship after the october predictions started to happen! you are so positive and i am doing the same....i am no longer hoping i just KNOW he will but will i be here when he does???
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I just have to ask this. Those of you that say you just know he will return and you will be ready. Is this a feeling you have in your gut or is it because psychics have predicted it to happen. Its been a very long time for me since my ex and I broke up but he is still in my thoughts daily and I still feel the love for him. Ive been told by a couple of psychics and one in particular put it this way. She said " You know the sun is going to rise every morning but you dont think about it, you just know it will happen. I want you to do the same about this man because he will be back."
Was just wondering if this is what you are experiencing. I had one of the psychics that I called just to ask her how to get closure and move on from this whole thing to say that she wanted to consult her cards first and she came back and said she was sorry to tell me but he was coming back and I just needed to go on with my life and "window shop" until that time. She told me to date and go out and have fun. Well, Ive tried. But the men that Ive gone out with either wanted to jump in the sack or they wanted to start a relationship after the first date. Im not up for either trip.
I just wonder sometime if my praying to dream of this man for so long and no dreams came, but then when I start to try to move on and forget him he suddenly shows up in my dreams means anything. In my dreams that popped up unexpectedly he was returning but I wasnt ready. I was either looking horrible from working around the house or something and was trying to get to the other room to prepare myself to see him and he was trying to get in the door before I was ready. So weird to dream something like that and especially when I wasnt wanting to dream about him. But for several years I had prayed a lot of times for God to let me dream about him just so I could see his face and hear his voice. I know this sounds so stupid, lol. But Im a romantic at heart and I just cant seem to let go of what I once had. This whole message probably doesnt make sense as I feel I am rambling. Wishing you all the best of luck and I hope we all find the one that we are waiting for or the one that will take us off this roller coaster and let us live peaceful comfortable and passionate lives.
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Hi 4everhopeful! Don't feel bad about what you're saying. I have been there on that rollercoaster. I had broken up with my ex and had gotten back together, but in between those times, I was always wondering if he would come back and if I should just move on. I would try to date other guys, but I just was not into it at all. I had psychics that predicted that he would come back and even when, and he did at the time that I was given, but they never predicted we would break up again! lol It's hard to hold on. We got back together again, on the date given once again, but by that time I had become so jaded that I didn't know it. My ex and I reconciled and he was better than ever. Slowly, however I drifted apart and I ended up breaking up with him and started dating someone new! I never thought I would do that. The ex was the guy I wanted to marry. Here I am though... I have this new boyfriend and now seven months later I miss my ex. He had tried to reconcile and I would not hear of it a the time. I know I'm rambling on, but you just never know what life has in store. Just hang in there. It's important to feel that passion and love for someone. I know it can be attractive to settle, but you know what would make you fulfilled as a person. Now, looking back, I wish I would have stayed with my ex, he even asked me to marry him and I had said NO! I can kick myself. If I hadn't called those psychics, I wouldn't have been so tired and resentful of him... Life's funny! Anyway, truly, just follow your heart and intuition.