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Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => Keen.com => Topic started by: just this one post on September 05, 2018, 04:05:34 PM
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I have been a long time lurker and keen user and I would like to say, save your money! I wish I never found keen, I reached out and have been calling people on there as I looked for reassurance. It's short lived and usually wrong. Meanwhile, while I was getting told one more month, one more month, etc... my poi was in a relationship the whole time and I feel like such a sucker and a fool. They get just enough right to keep you attached, but frankly I don't think anyone can truly predict another person's actions.
What good does it do to hear they will contact in 3? Nothing. Except keeping you hooked and calling again. If they were going to contact you they would have without you waiting. It's really an addiction.
Who did I use? all the ones recommended here, I'm not going to say because I think it just feeds the addiction, trust me I've done it! They'd get little details and it was entertaining but never anything that made my life or outcome any better, just with less money and lots of false expectations...
Also when we think they know the situation, I'm willing to bet most of us have the same situation. And so when we think they get them, they get the pattern of 80% of their callers : (
The final straw for me was when someone who gets a lot of little things said, she's going to call you, right on top of it, then a week later, she was thinking about it but now is distracted with work. And I thought, well shoot, even if it's right why did I just pay for that? NO POINT other than to feed your obsession and to temporarily calm your mind.
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What you mentioned in the end is so frustrating. When an advisor tells you when contact would happen, time passes and when you follow up they tell you he or she was distracted, they thought about contacting you or, they have free will but ensure it will happen.
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I have been a long time lurker and keen user and I would like to say, save your money! I wish I never found keen, I reached out and have been calling people on there as I looked for reassurance. It's short lived and usually wrong. Meanwhile, while I was getting told one more month, one more month, etc... my poi was in a relationship the whole time and I feel like such a sucker and a fool. They get just enough right to keep you attached, but frankly I don't think anyone can truly predict another person's actions.
What good does it do to hear they will contact in 3? Nothing. Except keeping you hooked and calling again. If they were going to contact you they would have without you waiting. It's really an addiction.
Who did I use? all the ones recommended here, I'm not going to say because I think it just feeds the addiction, trust me I've done it! They'd get little details and it was entertaining but never anything that made my life or outcome any better, just with less money and lots of false expectations...
Also when we think they know the situation, I'm willing to bet most of us have the same situation. And so when we think they get them, they get the pattern of 80% of their callers : (
The final straw for me was when someone who gets a lot of little things said, she's going to call you, right on top of it, then a week later, she was thinking about it but now is distracted with work. And I thought, well shoot, even if it's right why did I just pay for that? NO POINT other than to feed your obsession and to temporarily calm your mind.
Please don't feed them any more money.
Exactly! I hung onto contact predictions for dear life in the beginning...it's like, why?? Even though they got some of those right, it didn't amount to anything anyway.
I really think if you have to call a psychic about a relationship, it's doomed.
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I totally agree... When I think of the amount of money I've spent to just have someone tell me what I wanted to hear, only to be devastated afterward when nothing came true. Makes me want to cry. I honestly think it's also the reason why 2 years on I'm still not over the person I always asked about. Guess what - in 2 years' time NO ONE has gotten a single contact prediction right! Not a single one, and I've talked with all the 'good ones' :(
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Funny I found this on KEEN
"Beating Psychic Addiction" lol
https://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/Kara_Jane/Beating-Psychic-Addiction/463241.aspx
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This. All of this!
I haven't posted on here in a while which feels good because oddly enough, I felt like I was slightly addicted to this specific forum in terms of always wanting to know about a psychic on Keen, people's reviews and whether or not I should give them a try.
I've said this before and I'll say it again. I've spent thousands of dollars on Keen within the last year. I don't know the exact amount and I don't want to know because it will make me sick but I know that it was easily in the thousands. That's money that I won't get back and I'm more mad at myself than anything. Nobody forced me to get readings, I willingly put money on my account and I willingly reached out to new readers for reassurance.
And guess what?
My situation and POI that I kept on calling and chatting about is exactly the same as it was months ago!
I kept focusing and focusing on an outcome that was said to me. "It will get better in April," and "Come June, you two will have a MAJOR breakthrough," and the ever popular, "They like you so much, but they're scared!"
I deactivated my old Keen account and it was the best decision that I've made. I did create a new one just to speak with an empath (Judi and I know she's hit or miss with a lot of people, but she was solid with me) when I was at a low point again, but this time I limit myself to only getting one reading with her every few months - if that. Times like today I logged in on Keen, saw that she was available for scheduling calls and I said to myself, "I don't have a need to speak with Judi today." This might seem small but coming from someone where about 10 months ago, I was talking to a psychic on Keen easily every other day, it's a huge step in the right direction.
I think I'm going to deactivate my new account as well. Like I said, I only use it for Judi but I'm at the point where I don't want or need any readings. I don't think it's healthy on your energy, your mental health and of course, your wallet.
TL; DR - I became addicted to psychic readings on Keen and I can't exactly remember when my addiction stopped but I'm so glad that I was able to break free of it. I know you can't control 100% of everything that happens in your life but take it from someone that wishes they could get their time, energy and money back, it's not worth it.
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When I read all the post in here I felt like the psychic get the outwrong like 95 percent of the time, which I wonder why all these psychics get 5.0 rating.
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This. All of this!
I haven't posted on here in a while which feels good because oddly enough, I felt like I was slightly addicted to this specific forum in terms of always wanting to know about a psychic on Keen, people's reviews and whether or not I should give them a try.
I've said this before and I'll say it again. I've spent thousands of dollars on Keen within the last year. I don't know the exact amount and I don't want to know because it will make me sick but I know that it was easily in the thousands. That's money that I won't get back and I'm more mad at myself than anything. Nobody forced me to get readings, I willingly put money on my account and I willingly reached out to new readers for reassurance.
And guess what?
My situation and POI that I kept on calling and chatting about is exactly the same as it was months ago!
I kept focusing and focusing on an outcome that was said to me. "It will get better in April," and "Come June, you two will have a MAJOR breakthrough," and the ever popular, "They like you so much, but they're scared!"
I deactivated my old Keen account and it was the best decision that I've made. I did create a new one just to speak with an empath (Judi and I know she's hit or miss with a lot of people, but she was solid with me) when I was at a low point again, but this time I limit myself to only getting one reading with her every few months - if that. Times like today I logged in on Keen, saw that she was available for scheduling calls and I said to myself, "I don't have a need to speak with Judi today." This might seem small but coming from someone where about 10 months ago, I was talking to a psychic on Keen easily every other day, it's a huge step in the right direction.
I think I'm going to deactivate my new account as well. Like I said, I only use it for Judi but I'm at the point where I don't want or need any readings. I don't think it's healthy on your energy, your mental health and of course, your wallet.
TL; DR - I became addicted to psychic readings on Keen and I can't exactly remember when my addiction stopped but I'm so glad that I was able to break free of it. I know you can't control 100% of everything that happens in your life but take it from someone that wishes they could get their time, energy and money back, it's not worth it.
When someone I ask about if they give me that stock line this person like you a lot but she/he scared, I’ll hang up on them lol.
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I agree on all these replies. We should just call each other and say: I sense distance, is it emotional or geographical? they are preoccupied with work, they are thinking you are the one, but have to over come some obstacles, very stressed out and unhappy right now. Some family issues as well. I see contact in one month, reconciliation in two.
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I agree on all these replies. We should just call each other and say: I sense distance, is it emotional or geographical? they are preoccupied with work, they are thinking you are the one, but have to over come some obstacles, very stressed out and unhappy right now. Some family issues as well. I see contact in one month, reconciliation in two.
LMAO
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I wish someone would explain to me though how on this forum there are readers who I am seeing really good feedback on in terms of predictions coming to pass. I understand on the sites, Keen, all the others - the feedback may be able to be tailored. Or it could be that people rate them more favorably simply because they have seen more favorable reviews already and that creates an unconscious kind of bias.
But there are readers who I have now tried to select very, very carefully based on - wow - tooooo many hours of reading posts on this forum - and they have given me very similar predictions and time frames. They seem to me to be very good and very specific but I also know that I’m vulnerable and in a common “will we reconcile” frame of mind. So I really don’t know if they’re true or not.
But my root question here is... how do we explain the many posters on here - senior looking members - that seem to give very detailed info about predictions coming true for them!? I mean it makes me wonder if some are people that are just here making stuff up, lying and on purpose posting about a reader to get us to call them. But holy crow that would be quite the conspiracy!
I can’t figure it out.
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I agree on all these replies. We should just call each other and say: I sense distance, is it emotional or geographical? they are preoccupied with work, they are thinking you are the one, but have to over come some obstacles, very stressed out and unhappy right now. Some family issues as well. I see contact in one month, reconciliation in two.
Lollllllll yesss
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I wish someone would explain to me though how on this forum there are readers who I am seeing really good feedback on in terms of predictions coming to pass. I understand on the sites, Keen, all the others - the feedback may be able to be tailored. Or it could be that people rate them more favorably simply because they have seen more favorable reviews already and that creates an unconscious kind of bias.
But there are readers who I have now tried to select very, very carefully based on - wow - tooooo many hours of reading posts on this forum - and they have given me very similar predictions and time frames. They seem to me to be very good and very specific but I also know that I’m vulnerable and in a common “will we reconcile” frame of mind. So I really don’t know if they’re true or not.
But my root question here is... how do we explain the many posters on here - senior looking members - that seem to give very detailed info about predictions coming true for them!? I mean it makes me wonder if some are people that are just here making stuff up, lying and on purpose posting about a reader to get us to call them. But holy crow that would be quite the conspiracy!
I can’t figure it out.
It seems like most of the posters on here actually say most of the psychics were wrong on outcome. They were all wrong on my outcome too. I had several of the best ones (AV, Yona, +) say February for my big outcome. Nope. Then I had others say May (Kisha, Sweethearts tarot, Miss Ann, Jade8928) Nope. And finally August (Micah, Tara CP, AV again) Nope.
Cookie never gave me a time frame.
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I wish someone would explain to me though how on this forum there are readers who I am seeing really good feedback on in terms of predictions coming to pass. I understand on the sites, Keen, all the others - the feedback may be able to be tailored. Or it could be that people rate them more favorably simply because they have seen more favorable reviews already and that creates an unconscious kind of bias.
But there are readers who I have now tried to select very, very carefully based on - wow - tooooo many hours of reading posts on this forum - and they have given me very similar predictions and time frames. They seem to me to be very good and very specific but I also know that I’m vulnerable and in a common “will we reconcile” frame of mind. So I really don’t know if they’re true or not.
But my root question here is... how do we explain the many posters on here - senior looking members - that seem to give very detailed info about predictions coming true for them!? I mean it makes me wonder if some are people that are just here making stuff up, lying and on purpose posting about a reader to get us to call them. But holy crow that would be quite the conspiracy!
I can’t figure it out.
It seems like most of the posters on here actually say most of the psychics were wrong on outcome. They were all wrong on my outcome too. I had several of the best ones (AV, Yona, +) say February for my big outcome. Nope. Then I had others say May (Kisha, Sweethearts tarot, Miss Ann, Jade8928) Nope. And finally August (Micah, Tara CP, AV again) Nope.
Cookie never gave me a time frame.
I don’t know - I have seen lots of posts that say a given outcome didn’t happen or that it didn’t happen in the time frame given - but I absolutely have seen also lots of posts with people giving specific examples where they are saying they did.
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I wish someone would explain to me though how on this forum there are readers who I am seeing really good feedback on in terms of predictions coming to pass. I understand on the sites, Keen, all the others - the feedback may be able to be tailored. Or it could be that people rate them more favorably simply because they have seen more favorable reviews already and that creates an unconscious kind of bias.
But there are readers who I have now tried to select very, very carefully based on - wow - tooooo many hours of reading posts on this forum - and they have given me very similar predictions and time frames. They seem to me to be very good and very specific but I also know that I’m vulnerable and in a common “will we reconcile” frame of mind. So I really don’t know if they’re true or not.
But my root question here is... how do we explain the many posters on here - senior looking members - that seem to give very detailed info about predictions coming true for them!? I mean it makes me wonder if some are people that are just here making stuff up, lying and on purpose posting about a reader to get us to call them. But holy crow that would be quite the conspiracy!
I can’t figure it out.
It seems like most of the posters on here actually say most of the psychics were wrong on outcome. They were all wrong on my outcome too. I had several of the best ones (AV, Yona, +) say February for my big outcome. Nope. Then I had others say May (Kisha, Sweethearts tarot, Miss Ann, Jade8928) Nope. And finally August (Micah, Tara CP, AV again) Nope.
Cookie never gave me a time frame.
very similar to yours...August was supposed to be when me and the current (now past) POI and me would get more serious..well the opposite happened and I spoke with him a grand total of twice all month..once a quick text in the beginning of the month, and then he reached out last Friday with a "hey how you been" text, which I ignored. I'm exercising my "free will" (LOL) and cutting my losses here.
These readers don't know jack about the future, I'm sorry to say.
And i can't even begin to tell you how may timelines came and went with the first POI I called about...disgusting. I should have been married to him by now.
It's funny, because I haven't gotten a reading in over a week and have zero desire, because when you come to the realization that it's most BS, it's like you just lose desire to get them. But is a funny void in my life because I was SO used to getting them for so long that it became a habit.
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I wish someone would explain to me though how on this forum there are readers who I am seeing really good feedback on in terms of predictions coming to pass. I understand on the sites, Keen, all the others - the feedback may be able to be tailored. Or it could be that people rate them more favorably simply because they have seen more favorable reviews already and that creates an unconscious kind of bias.
But there are readers who I have now tried to select very, very carefully based on - wow - tooooo many hours of reading posts on this forum - and they have given me very similar predictions and time frames. They seem to me to be very good and very specific but I also know that I’m vulnerable and in a common “will we reconcile” frame of mind. So I really don’t know if they’re true or not.
But my root question here is... how do we explain the many posters on here - senior looking members - that seem to give very detailed info about predictions coming true for them!? I mean it makes me wonder if some are people that are just here making stuff up, lying and on purpose posting about a reader to get us to call them. But holy crow that would be quite the conspiracy!
I can’t figure it out.
It seems like most of the posters on here actually say most of the psychics were wrong on outcome. They were all wrong on my outcome too. I had several of the best ones (AV, Yona, +) say February for my big outcome. Nope. Then I had others say May (Kisha, Sweethearts tarot, Miss Ann, Jade8928) Nope. And finally August (Micah, Tara CP, AV again) Nope.
Cookie never gave me a time frame.
very similar to yours...August was supposed to be when me and the current (now past) POI and me would get more serious..well the opposite happened and I spoke with him a grand total of twice all month..once a quick text in the beginning of the month, and then he reached out last Friday with a "hey how you been" text, which I ignored. I'm exercising my "free will" (LOL) and cutting my losses here.
These readers don't know jack about the future, I'm sorry to say.
And i can't even begin to tell you how may timelines came and went with the first POI I called about...disgusting. I should have been married to him by now.
It's funny, because I haven't gotten a reading in over a week and have zero desire, because when you come to the realization that it's most BS, it's like you just lose desire to get them. But is a funny void in my life because I was SO used to getting them for so long that it became a habit.
I’m so glad you’re not getting readings more... I am rapidly losing interest due to the fact that it seems like I’m also one where time lines seem to come and go - but jury’s still out a bit as it hasn’t been that long and I only started getting readings again pretty recently as in within the last 6 mos. But still I don’t get it!!! What gives with all those that seem to report that outcomes *did* happen?!? Luck? Coincidence? Idk. Some of it seems so specific.
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I wish someone would explain to me though how on this forum there are readers who I am seeing really good feedback on in terms of predictions coming to pass. I understand on the sites, Keen, all the others - the feedback may be able to be tailored. Or it could be that people rate them more favorably simply because they have seen more favorable reviews already and that creates an unconscious kind of bias.
But there are readers who I have now tried to select very, very carefully based on - wow - tooooo many hours of reading posts on this forum - and they have given me very similar predictions and time frames. They seem to me to be very good and very specific but I also know that I’m vulnerable and in a common “will we reconcile” frame of mind. So I really don’t know if they’re true or not.
But my root question here is... how do we explain the many posters on here - senior looking members - that seem to give very detailed info about predictions coming true for them!? I mean it makes me wonder if some are people that are just here making stuff up, lying and on purpose posting about a reader to get us to call them. But holy crow that would be quite the conspiracy!
I can’t figure it out.
It seems like most of the posters on here actually say most of the psychics were wrong on outcome. They were all wrong on my outcome too. I had several of the best ones (AV, Yona, +) say February for my big outcome. Nope. Then I had others say May (Kisha, Sweethearts tarot, Miss Ann, Jade8928) Nope. And finally August (Micah, Tara CP, AV again) Nope.
Cookie never gave me a time frame.
very similar to yours...August was supposed to be when me and the current (now past) POI and me would get more serious..well the opposite happened and I spoke with him a grand total of twice all month..once a quick text in the beginning of the month, and then he reached out last Friday with a "hey how you been" text, which I ignored. I'm exercising my "free will" (LOL) and cutting my losses here.
These readers don't know jack about the future, I'm sorry to say.
And i can't even begin to tell you how may timelines came and went with the first POI I called about...disgusting. I should have been married to him by now.
It's funny, because I haven't gotten a reading in over a week and have zero desire, because when you come to the realization that it's most BS, it's like you just lose desire to get them. But is a funny void in my life because I was SO used to getting them for so long that it became a habit.
I’m so glad you’re not getting readings more... I am rapidly losing interest due to the fact that it seems like I’m also one where time lines seem to come and go - but jury’s still out a bit as it hasn’t been that long and I only started getting readings again pretty recently as in within the last 6 mos. But still I don’t get it!!! What gives with all those that seem to report that outcomes *did* happen?!? Luck? Coincidence? Idk. Some of it seems so specific.
I don't know, might just be lucky guesses...I rarely see the people come back here and say the POI and them lived happily ever after. Are you talking about feedback on the sites like Keen and Bitwine? Because you can't trust those at all.
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Ok so I have a question. To everyone who goes to psychics about an ex or specific someone. And this is totally out of curiosity:
After your readings, do any of you meditate, pray, do law of attraction work? They say when you truly believe something from the heart, it manifests. Obviously timing varies. I know I’ve doubted things in life and they’ve manifested lol but I was just wondering what everyone else’s thoughts are on this.
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My poi he still haven’t come back like 95 percent of the psychic said most of them said he scared/afraid of a committed reationship. All I known is that he might be marry.
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Ok so I have a question. To everyone who goes to psychics about an ex or specific someone. And this is totally out of curiosity:
After your readings, do any of you meditate, pray, do law of attraction work? They say when you truly believe something from the heart, it manifests. Obviously timing varies. I know I’ve doubted things in life and they’ve manifested lol but I was just wondering what everyone else’s thoughts are on this.
I did a class from a website that was like Manifest your Soulmate or something like that from dailyom.com It did not bring back my ex, but man did this new dude meet all the criteria I wrote down. Kinda freaky. but now i have a notebook full of me writing affirmations about my ex that I need to burn haha
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Ok so I have a question. To everyone who goes to psychics about an ex or specific someone. And this is totally out of curiosity:
After your readings, do any of you meditate, pray, do law of attraction work? They say when you truly believe something from the heart, it manifests. Obviously timing varies. I know I’ve doubted things in life and they’ve manifested lol but I was just wondering what everyone else’s thoughts are on this.
I'm a strong believer of positive thinking, but for me it seems to work better on issues like money, and job stuff. Not so much romance. I think it might be because you are dealing with emotions of another individual..not so black and white.
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@sawthelight
I’m talking about posts and threads on here. There are many where the person has said such and such prediction has come true. No, it may not be a happily ever after everything’s perfect with their POI but it seems to me there are plenty of posters saying that they have had specific outcomes happen. So where does that leave us concluding things? They’re all just lucky or what? Seems weird to me. I have a hard time believing I’m being strung along to believe such complex posts as true when someone just made it up or something. But if they’re true... then.... what’s the deal. I don’t know. I’m confused.
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I wish someone would explain to me though how on this forum there are readers who I am seeing really good feedback on in terms of predictions coming to pass. I understand on the sites, Keen, all the others - the feedback may be able to be tailored. Or it could be that people rate them more favorably simply because they have seen more favorable reviews already and that creates an unconscious kind of bias.
But there are readers who I have now tried to select very, very carefully based on - wow - tooooo many hours of reading posts on this forum - and they have given me very similar predictions and time frames. They seem to me to be very good and very specific but I also know that I’m vulnerable and in a common “will we reconcile” frame of mind. So I really don’t know if they’re true or not.
But my root question here is... how do we explain the many posters on here - senior looking members - that seem to give very detailed info about predictions coming true for them!? I mean it makes me wonder if some are people that are just here making stuff up, lying and on purpose posting about a reader to get us to call them. But holy crow that would be quite the conspiracy!
I can’t figure it out.
I doubt they are lying. We don't know the circumstance in full and can only past judgement based on what the poster chooses to share. I know psychics have been wrong for many but there are still those how have luck with them so we cannot discredit them or the user completely based on our bad experiences.
The positive outcomes are in the minority and most people who have a positive outcome simply don't return or care to share their success. I've read several posts on this forum where it's been mentioned that psychics have got small predictions right but the big ones haven't unfolded/happened yet.
I'm sure if we knew everyone's story in full it may explain why certain prediction don't or won't manifest (having an affair with a married man/woman hoping they will choose you, dealing with someone who is emotionally unavailable hoping they will commit, long distance relationship).
We all know bad news travels quicker then good news, most of us are on this forum because we are either frustrated because predictions were wrong, confused from having multiple readings and don't know who to believe or awaiting a prediction to come to pass.
I'm know I'm playing devils advocate here and I have mixed reviews about psychics so I certainly feel your pain.
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@sawthelight
I’m talking about posts and threads on here. There are many where the person has said such and such prediction has come true. No, it may not be a happily ever after everything’s perfect with their POI but it seems to me there are plenty of posters saying that they have had specific outcomes happen. So where does that leave us concluding things? They’re all just lucky or what? Seems weird to me. I have a hard time believing I’m being strung along to believe such complex posts as true when someone just made it up or something. But if they’re true... then.... what’s the deal. I don’t know. I’m confused.
From my time on this board I would say there's more negative than positive outcomes. Most of the positive outcomes are in the Yona Farrell thread. I have't had a reading with her, but apparently she is one of the best. It's not completely impossible for things to spin on their head, after all isn't this the very same reason why we are all here? in search of a psychic to give us the right answers. I think you are over analyzing things.
I would be cautious of reviews on keen, bitwine etc.. simply because most people leave feedback after the session and not when or if the prediction manifest because these sites don't allow follow ups which is why these psychics have such glowing reviews, if you read through them.
I'm more inclined to trust what is written good or bad on this board where people disclose background info and give plenty of time for predictions to manifest before providing feedback
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Anytime you ask a Psychic a particular question, you have a 50 -50 chance of it being right. If you get a general reading with a reader like the caliber of Psychic Will or Yona and they see something. Yes, it will happen. If you are calling about a certain POI one assumes it them. Most times it turns out to be with another. 99.9 of the readings I had on keen were rubbish and nothing happened. The way things have turned out in my situation no one predicted. Maybe I wasn't supposed to know. Had I known it might have changed things. One big thing I've learned is only general readings for me and no more keen.
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Anytime you ask a Psychic a particular question, you have a 50 -50 chance of it being right. If you get a general reading with a reader like the caliber of Psychic Will or Yona and they see something. Yes, it will happen. If you are calling about a certain POI one assumes it them. Most times it turns out to be with another. 99.9 of the readings I had on keen were rubbish and nothing happened. The way things have turned out in my situation no one predicted. Maybe I wasn't supposed to know. Had I known it might have changed things. One big thing I've learned is only general readings for me and no more keen.
This is interesting, I don't ask for general readings but I think you have a good point. Sometimes if you ask about a POI psychics can say the usual "he has feelings but..." or "he will come around" or "things will pick up". But a general reading can be better, I think that's true!
Would you say that the way things happened for you in your life were negative or positive in comparison to what psychics said?
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What I was told what would happen didn't, because so many said it would happen a certain way... It kept me hanging on longer. Because they got a few things right about the past or present I assumed they have to be right.. Right. Wrong. Both Will and Yona have not given a big fairy tale. But things they told me happened. With Will i thought no way he is full of shit and blew him off. Yes, he was extremely close. Yona, has also given predictions and they happened just like she said, and people acted just like she said they would. I just put different people to those predictions... So, no she wasn't wrong. Like I said if a psychic sees a vision of you doing something then that will happen. Maybe not just who you think it will happen with.
The best readings I've had over the years have been General.... 99.9 of those readers on keen and sites like that tend to tell people what they want to hear. Make money out of telling people their soulmates and the other person is a runner. There hot and cold. I see contact in three 3 hours, 3 days 3 weeks, 3 months or a day or time with 3 in it. Maybe its 3 decades from now. lol. Its a cruel sick and twisted way to make money. The problem is we think we can call a psychic and ask them a ton of questions and get answers plain and simple you can't. I've been on this board for over 2 years and time and time again... you see people raving about certain readers. Then as the weeks and months go by they post back the readers were all wrong and in fact their POI has moved on. Sometimes they are even married or engaged. Yet, they were kept holding on to something and spending money too boot. Sometimes money they don't have. When they should have spent the time mourning their loss and healing.
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Like I've mentioned in other threads, I've tried the readers recommended to me such as Psychic Will and Hazel Lowndes and nothing happened from them. Hazel was very inconsistent and she gave my first reading as positive, second when I raised concerns and questions with her that I just had to get off of my chest - she changed her tune. I wasn't impressed for £70 for less than an hr and her being so inconsistent.. Will - I only had the 1 reading with him as I've contacted him multiple times since and he's ignored me for some reason, but he seemed honest at the time of reading and saw my ex coming back and he never did. Now I know readers can get mixed up, but the things that Hazel and Will were describing and the unique way this guy is - it just had to be him. I have to accept that they got it wrong for me and I haven't met any reader yet that's been closest to correct about what really is going on with my ex.
I haven't tried Yona, and I'm having a reading with another supposed "top rated reader" this weekend, but just not holding out any hope anymore for anything to come to fruitation. I find that relationship readings are really hard to predict and I've not even had close enough luck with them. Perhaps having a reading with Yona is a good idea and she may be good for me. I also find readings a head f*ck because one reader will say something and another will say the opposite and I'm sure you guys have all experienced that which can get frustrating. Like an example with my situation, some readers say my ex isn't socialising and is like a loner, others say he's out and about being a prat with his friends to escape from it all. Because I haven't had contact from my ex for a while, I also can't validate all things that they pick up. So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.
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So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.
I've had a lot of readers say they are picking up an addiction as well. I can't really figure out what it might be as I see my ex almost every day and he is not drunk or high. There are other possibilities but none of them ring true yet. Maybe it's a stock line.
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So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.
I've had a lot of readers say they are picking up an addiction as well. I can't really figure out what it might be as I see my ex almost every day and he is not drunk or high. There are other possibilities but none of them ring true yet. Maybe it's a stock line.
That’s one line I’ve never heard....lol. I’ve heard pretty much all the rest
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So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.
I've had a lot of readers say they are picking up an addiction as well. I can't really figure out what it might be as I see my ex almost every day and he is not drunk or high. There are other possibilities but none of them ring true yet. Maybe it's a stock line.
That’s one line I’ve never heard....lol. I’ve heard pretty much all the rest
There's a Tarot card that usually means addictions of some kind. It obviously should be interpreted specifically to each situation and not just thrown out there as an automatic "addiction", though. It doesn't always mean that. Which is why we're calling psychics so they can use their intuition to interpret that lol. Otherwise, I can just google the definitions. But maybe that card keeps coming up for him and it's not an obvious drug or alcohol addiction but they don't know that. It could also mean a personality type or the type of guy who is really "carnal" but doesn't necessarily show it up front. It's usually a "guy" card. And I've noticed most readers use Tarot in some way, even though they don't always say it. And that's fine. But that could explain why they're all getting that but it's not as simple as they're thinking.
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So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.
I've had a lot of readers say they are picking up an addiction as well. I can't really figure out what it might be as I see my ex almost every day and he is not drunk or high. There are other possibilities but none of them ring true yet. Maybe it's a stock line.
That’s one line I’ve never heard....lol. I’ve heard pretty much all the rest
There's a Tarot card that usually means addictions of some kind. It obviously should be interpreted specifically to each situation and not just thrown out there as an automatic "addiction", though. It doesn't always mean that. Which is why we're calling psychics so they can use their intuition to interpret that lol. Otherwise, I can just google the definitions. But maybe that card keeps coming up for him and it's not an obvious drug or alcohol addiction but they don't know that. It could also mean a personality type or the type of guy who is really "carnal" but doesn't necessarily show it up front. It's usually a "guy" card. And I've noticed most readers use Tarot in some way, even though they don't always say it. And that's fine. But that could explain why they're all getting that but it's not as simple as they're thinking.
That's right, that's what usually happens with tarot card readings. They see addiction from the cards and say gambling. I personally aren't a fan of tarot, one reading can be positive and you call another reader and the cards are all negative, plus the reader usually goes off too much from cards. It's definitely not drugs for this guy and he isn't an alcoholic, perhaps he drinks alot in bad times but yeah it's hard for me to confirm the readers validations as I wouldn't know since we last had contact. Thanks guys for explaining things.
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Like I've mentioned in other threads, I've tried the readers recommended to me such as Psychic Will and Hazel Lowndes and nothing happened from them. Hazel was very inconsistent and she gave my first reading as positive, second when I raised concerns and questions with her that I just had to get off of my chest - she changed her tune. I wasn't impressed for £70 for less than an hr and her being so inconsistent.. Will - I only had the 1 reading with him as I've contacted him multiple times since and he's ignored me for some reason, but he seemed honest at the time of reading and saw my ex coming back and he never did. Now I know readers can get mixed up, but the things that Hazel and Will were describing and the unique way this guy is - it just had to be him. I have to accept that they got it wrong for me and I haven't met any reader yet that's been closest to correct about what really is going on with my ex.
I haven't tried Yona, and I'm having a reading with another supposed "top rated reader" this weekend, but just not holding out any hope anymore for anything to come to fruitation. I find that relationship readings are really hard to predict and I've not even had close enough luck with them. Perhaps having a reading with Yona is a good idea and she may be good for me. I also find readings a head f*ck because one reader will say something and another will say the opposite and I'm sure you guys have all experienced that which can get frustrating. Like an example with my situation, some readers say my ex isn't socialising and is like a loner, others say he's out and about being a prat with his friends to escape from it all. Because I haven't had contact from my ex for a while, I also can't validate all things that they pick up. So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.
THIS!! sounds like my situation only I'm trying to keep myself busy to escape the on going confusion. There's nothing worst than having a reading about a POI who you are no longer in contact with. My last reading prior to taking a break said my ex is isolating myself right now and previously I'd been told he was socialising a bit with friends. Maybe his situation has changed, but it's knowing who to put your trust in when there's no contact with and POI.
I've thought about having a reading with Yona but don't really like telephone readings. I can hold out for three weeks, I might see if these other predictions unfold and book a reading with her for the fall. At this point in time I have nothing to loose, if she picks up something negative it may probably free me of the cycle of readings and move on with my life.
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Like I've mentioned in other threads, I've tried the readers recommended to me such as Psychic Will and Hazel Lowndes and nothing happened from them. Hazel was very inconsistent and she gave my first reading as positive, second when I raised concerns and questions with her that I just had to get off of my chest - she changed her tune. I wasn't impressed for £70 for less than an hr and her being so inconsistent.. Will - I only had the 1 reading with him as I've contacted him multiple times since and he's ignored me for some reason, but he seemed honest at the time of reading and saw my ex coming back and he never did. Now I know readers can get mixed up, but the things that Hazel and Will were describing and the unique way this guy is - it just had to be him. I have to accept that they got it wrong for me and I haven't met any reader yet that's been closest to correct about what really is going on with my ex.
I haven't tried Yona, and I'm having a reading with another supposed "top rated reader" this weekend, but just not holding out any hope anymore for anything to come to fruitation. I find that relationship readings are really hard to predict and I've not even had close enough luck with them. Perhaps having a reading with Yona is a good idea and she may be good for me. I also find readings a head f*ck because one reader will say something and another will say the opposite and I'm sure you guys have all experienced that which can get frustrating. Like an example with my situation, some readers say my ex isn't socialising and is like a loner, others say he's out and about being a prat with his friends to escape from it all. Because I haven't had contact from my ex for a while, I also can't validate all things that they pick up. So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.
THIS!! sounds like my situation only I'm trying to keep myself busy to escape the on going confusion. There's nothing worst than having a reading about a POI who you are no longer in contact with. My last reading prior to taking a break said my ex is isolating myself right now and previously I'd been told he was socialising a bit with friends. Maybe his situation has changed, but it's knowing who to put your trust in when there's no contact with and POI.
I've thought about having a reading with Yona but don't really like telephone readings. I can hold out for three weeks, I might see if these other predictions unfold and book a reading with her for the fall. At this point in time I have nothing to loose, if she picks up something negative it may probably free me of the cycle of readings and move on with my life.
It is really frustrating, because at least when you're in contact with the POI you can validate. Like I see people on here say "I know that's not true, as I'm in contact with/see him", so when you guys aren't talking, you can't admit nor deny. Just go off of what you know from when you were last in contact.
And that's also why I want to try Yona, I've never used her before, but I know if she says negative news then it most probably will be. The rest of the readers have all said he'd come back to no avail and time has really gone on, now.
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Yes.... this is part of why I’ve been calling.
And I think some of the situation in my case is making the tendency to call more frequently particularly worse....
When I actually first started calling again (I went through a horrible phase back in 2002 with calling regarding someone else for many months and spent all money I should have saved. I was very young and foolish and that’s a whole other story).... it was in early May this year and it was in regards to someone totally different. Well the reader who I spoke with, Cookie, who was the only one to pick up anything consistently that has come to pass for me (QofC has also now picked up some surprising very immediate things but not very specific so I’m still not sure) - told me about the new guy I was seeing. And was very adamant about giving me info about this new guy who at the time I thought, eh, no, that’s probably not going anywhere.
But sure enough it did and things have been playing out it seems pretty close to what she predicted. She said it would be a big roller coaster with him (which it was / has been) and that he would start seeing someone else from the same way he met me (same dating app as it turned out) - which he did - and that he would decide between the two of us by Labor Day. And that he would choose me. Well yes, I found out he was (is?) seeing someone else that he connected with through same dating app and he and I haven’t been in touch hardly at all ...
Because *I* was the one who said look, I think we should just take a break if you want to see other people. If you want to date other people I understand you need to know what you want etc (he’s still going through the very end of a nasty divorce) so let’s just take a break and if you want to date me again and I’m available then maybe it will work out in the future.
But now of course I’m missing him and don’t know what to think about what’s going to happen or not.
So I have this sort of perfect storm of circumstances that’s making me want to call so much and it’s really hard not to. I have been getting better. And I have been genuinely letting go more. But it almost doesn’t help that Cookie said to me now repeatedly that as I let go and someone who I was letting go of would be part of my healing ... would come back around.
So now I’m in this mental mess of trying to figure out if he’s still with her or not ... I have zero interest in the first guy I was originally calling about back in May.... and I’m trying to wait to see what unfolds. But I am horribly impatient. But at the same time trying to let things be the way they are meant to.
She said I would meet FIVE (lololol) other guys and that one of them I would be just as interested in and someone who I wouldn’t have any question how he felt about me... well I’ve been on two dates and sort of chatted with a third and that ended... and I just honestly don’t see myself meeting anyone else new because I am such a homebody I never go out or go anywhere because I am so busy.
But she also seemed to say that we would reconnect in Sept/Oct and things would be realiy good for a few months... and that it would sort of be up to me but I would need a lot of patience with him if I wanted to stay with him.
So I don’t know.
Last I communicated with him he said he was busy with work and that he’d like to get together once things slowed down. That was 3 wks ago. I spoke with lots of other readers who appear to be highly recommended on here and got very similar info and time frames. But I don’t know if they’re all giving me a line or what.
So I’m waiting to see. And yes it really, really stinks where you’re not in touch with the person. Leaves one much more vulnerable.
Thanks for all the responses to my questions and posts. I really appreciate the support. I honestly need it right now. I’m thinking about a reading with Yona as a last final reading. But 1) think maybe I should wait and see what unfolds and 2) she seems to be very long term outcome focused and I’m more about the short term present right now.
Which is why I have found QofC good and seemingly accurate but she said a couple weeks ago that he was going to reach out by now, then the other day said that yes he’s not alone but not in anything committed, something about travel and work came up that interfered with his contacting me, and that he had emotional walls up but really still liked me but I would have to let him feel like he has space and have to be accommodating for his distance .... but that he did still like me and felt like he wanted to keep me a secret for some reason. She was like, wait, why are you a secret?!?
Sorry for such a long post and thanks again to anyone that took the time to read my story here. I am getting better about reducing my readings. Funny how that coincides with looking at my budget. ;)
I know it's difficult but wait until the time frames to pass before seeking Yona. If you've been given a few similar timelines from readers I would wait for them to unfold first before making another move.
I'm waiting for September to pass since I was told I should hear something from POI this month.
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Like I've mentioned in other threads, I've tried the readers recommended to me such as Psychic Will and Hazel Lowndes and nothing happened from them. Hazel was very inconsistent and she gave my first reading as positive, second when I raised concerns and questions with her that I just had to get off of my chest - she changed her tune. I wasn't impressed for £70 for less than an hr and her being so inconsistent.. Will - I only had the 1 reading with him as I've contacted him multiple times since and he's ignored me for some reason, but he seemed honest at the time of reading and saw my ex coming back and he never did. Now I know readers can get mixed up, but the things that Hazel and Will were describing and the unique way this guy is - it just had to be him. I have to accept that they got it wrong for me and I haven't met any reader yet that's been closest to correct about what really is going on with my ex.
I haven't tried Yona, and I'm having a reading with another supposed "top rated reader" this weekend, but just not holding out any hope anymore for anything to come to fruitation. I find that relationship readings are really hard to predict and I've not even had close enough luck with them. Perhaps having a reading with Yona is a good idea and she may be good for me. I also find readings a head f*ck because one reader will say something and another will say the opposite and I'm sure you guys have all experienced that which can get frustrating. Like an example with my situation, some readers say my ex isn't socialising and is like a loner, others say he's out and about being a prat with his friends to escape from it all. Because I haven't had contact from my ex for a while, I also can't validate all things that they pick up. So they've been constantly mentioning "gambling addiction", I couldn't say in the time since - but he certainly wasn't when I was in contact with him.
THIS!! sounds like my situation only I'm trying to keep myself busy to escape the on going confusion. There's nothing worst than having a reading about a POI who you are no longer in contact with. My last reading prior to taking a break said my ex is isolating myself right now and previously I'd been told he was socialising a bit with friends. Maybe his situation has changed, but it's knowing who to put your trust in when there's no contact with and POI.
I've thought about having a reading with Yona but don't really like telephone readings. I can hold out for three weeks, I might see if these other predictions unfold and book a reading with her for the fall. At this point in time I have nothing to loose, if she picks up something negative it may probably free me of the cycle of readings and move on with my life.
It is really frustrating, because at least when you're in contact with the POI you can validate. Like I see people on here say "I know that's not true, as I'm in contact with/see him", so when you guys aren't talking, you can't admit nor deny. Just go off of what you know from when you were last in contact.
And that's also why I want to try Yona, I've never used her before, but I know if she says negative news then it most probably will be. The rest of the readers have all said he'd come back to no avail and time has really gone on, now.
It makes it even more additive when there is no communication. My ex isn't on social media which doesn't help so I can't check in on him either, sucks. I think from the readings I've had there certainly aren't far from the truth, I don't think he is in a relationship maybe dating at best. He does like to spend time along so the isolation period could be true.
I've been told things will work out but it will take time, he had issues prior to and centred around the reason we split up. Even though I have my to go readers I know Yona is the most credible source and has the ability to see years ahead unlike most psychics. She really is our last resort. I'm giving it another month at least unless something changes before turning to Yona.