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Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => CaliforniaPsychics.com => Topic started by: optx88 on August 17, 2011, 07:07:18 PM
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I hate to have to write this...but they all told me that there is no one...they all told me that he doesn't have the energy and his head is not in the place to be with anyone. they all told me that he is going through struggles blah blah blah..well guess what? he has a girlfriend!
Its funny...I read through the stuff on here and feedback on their website...and it is funny how they all say "do not call him" "let him come to you and he will" etc " i see marriage" etc.
I was thinking over the past week..."why don't they want us to ever call them?" Well now i know why....even funnier...I thought that I would give Gabriella a chance...so i called her sunday night and she told me that my spirit guides keep telling me to reach out to him...he so badly wants to reach out but doesn't think that he can and doesn't know how to after our last meet up blah blah blah and that i should reach out to him...
Well...see it is 2011...we are in the time where everything we really want to know is online...and somehow through facebook...I discovered he as a girlfriend...and stupid stupid me had sent him an email around noon today to just say hi and etc....something just didn't sit well with me and after goofing around on facebook i came across this lovely information which is just beyond devistating.
i am so mad that i put money into my account today that was just so stupid of me...and i am even more mad that i believed him when we had dinner in what he said to me...i was such a fool...i knew when i drove away that was going to be the last time that i see him or that i speak to him....I am just the biggest stupid idiot in the world to have believed him and to have faith in these psychics...i believed perfect strangers because they knew how to tell a good story super fast i had nothing but false hope from both him and from them.
save your money and heal your hearts and your spirits
i'm sorry that i am writing this...i'm crying my eyes out ...we all have the same story and I just wish we all had happy endings
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I know exactly how you feel girl. But dont be hard on yourself for loving someone. And youre not stupid. If you are, then so am I. I know you feel foolish cause Ive been there too. But let me tell you something. I have discovered that these men will tell you anything they think you want to hear. Just like the psychics will tell you what you want to hear. I did have some things come true that I was told but never anything concerning the man in question. I am moving on and trying my best not to look back anymore. I am telling myself every day that he was the lucky one by having me and he is the stupid one for letting me go. And Im sure the man youre talking about is the stupid one for letting you go.
Please dont put yourself down. I know youre devastated right now, and you need to cry it out. There is a song by Rascal Flatts that I like to listen to when Im down. Im sure you have heard it. Cant remember the name of it but it tells you that you may bend til you break, but in the end you look up, wipe your hands, shake it off, then you stand. We all have to find the strength is us to shake it off and stand. Thats what Im doing now. Im shaking that man off of my shoulders at last and Im learning to stand straight and strong once again. And you will too.
Some of the girls here logged into the chat thing here last night. We accidentally all logged in at the same time and had a great chat. I hope you log in too in the evenings and maybe catch some of us here. Its great to chat with others in the same boat and gain strength to break our addiction to psychics and bad relationships. I hope we see you there.
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Thanks!
Trust me...I fall down all the time (espeically when I do my races) I always get up and shake it off and continue and deal with the injuries after the finish line...I always figure a way to finish the race...but this time...i have just been knocked down so hard and i can't seem to figure out how to get up.
I don't know what to think in regards to him anymore...I'm just disgusted.
But we all have the same stories in one way or another...and we all think our stories are going to end differently...Heal your selves. Heal your heart and Heal your spirits. Don't wait for the big picture and don't spend anymore time and money on psychics...we know between our gut and our heart...they are only going to tell us what we want to hear and what they think we need to hear. The truth is right in front of us...we just need to figure out a way to see it...and to see it clearly.
I feel like a debbie downer right now...and i don't want to be. I just don't know how to get back up.
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Green
First of all, I am so sorry. This is horrible and I can't even imagine how you feel. But I do have something to add and everyone can disagree if they want.
I feel as though whoever you read with owes you an answer. I don't remember who you read with but I think it is with some of the CP "heavy hitters". Since you have money on the account, I think you are owed an answer. You can always call after the reading and get a refund (meaning back into your CP account).
I've heard when they can't see the other person it is because the connection is so weak that the 3rd party is insignificant. However, they should have seen it (in my opinion) and if he has her on facebook......well......how can they miss that.
So on behalf of all of us, maybe you can call and get an answer and share with us who you've read with recently.
Best of luck - I'm so sorry - all of this SUCKS
big hugs
pt
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I feel your pain :((
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Reminds me a couple of years ago when I got readings from Keen..Celeste anc a few other top rated psychics on that site said me and this guy would be together. Actually, I would have a choice between these two guys..guess what.. they both had girlfriends and eventually married them...there i was waiting around like an idiot for a couple of years because some psychics told me we would be together.. then I'm dumb enough to spend $11K on CP, nothing to show for it..when will I ever learn..
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I know sometimes we get really depressed and lose hope, but girlfriends come and go, boyfriends too. Soul mates are forever. There's a cute movie out now you can all see: Crazy, Stupid, Love.
I just saw it and it reminded me of myself a lot and all of you guys too.
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I'm so sorry this happened and I don't want to give you false hopes, but is there any chance that this girlfriend is something that is very short term, or maybe even not even true? I know that I have friends who will joke around sometimes and change their relationship status. Or they do get a girlfriend, change their status and one week later it's over.
I've never read with CP, only PS and more recently with a psychic from psychic access, so I can't really comment on their accuracy. But from reading everyone's posts lately I am really starting to doubt psychic "abilities" However, I would like to hold on to the little hope I have left and hope that maybe they are just having an off day, and their predictions are going to eventually come true. But if these people know that what they are saying may not be true and are making money by feeding us false hopes and possibly ruining our relationships with other people, they are the worst kind of scum in the world.
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I agree with Vanyct. I know psychic ability does exist but I doubt that all of these people on the psychic lines are that gifted. I am doubtful now because of my readings telling me there would be contact from the man in question but the timelines keep getting pushed back. Im at a point of thinking that he doesnt care if Im dead or alive. And I have even told the ones that I read with at CP that I do not want false hope. I only want the truth. I have even asked for advice on how to rid myself of this pain and the memories and to just move on. But what do they say?????? "Oh but he is coming back" Yeah right. If he thought of me as much as they say he does he would have called or texted or emailed or something by now. You dont have feelings for someone as strong as they say his are for me and just ignore that person and never attempt any kind of contact. Im trying my best to move on and put him in my past. But the memories are there everyday. Its so hard to forget someone that you loved so unconditionally and gave your heart to. Its horrible. And even after 3 years, I cant open myself up to anyone else cause if I do, then they walk away and Im left feeling useless once more. Ive had it with the dating thing. Im honestly beginning to think its not worth it at all and like Vanyct, the psychics are scum and the cruelest people on earth to tell us so many lies. All for the almighty dollar.
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4ever: I understand you! I'm scared to open up myself to other ppl because I feel that I'm still vulnerable and don't want to be in the same situation I was with my ex...so instead I close myself off which has been a struggle for the dude I'm kinda dating now. I decided this time, Im going to try and be more open and let it flow and not be so snippy with him.
As far as your ex contacting you if he really had those strong feelings, that's how I feel!! If he really loves and cares about me then why is he not contacting me...to even check in and say hi. I mean sure he might be scared to say anything because he doesn't know how I'll react or if I"ll even say anything at all...sure he may be wanting to get his ish together before reaching out to me....but I don't know how likely that is...maybe he just doesnt care and I'm fooling myself. I've been feeling this way for a while and even though others say my ex might had told me he moved on to save face, I still feel like I've fooled myself this whole time with psyhics. I believe some have the ability but most don't. & I'm sure the ones who are scamming us will be going to hell with gasoline panties on :))
Feel better!
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Greengrlx made the comment that the psychics tell us not to contact our exes, let them contact us. Most psychics have told me this, don't contact him, he will contact you. Sometimes they were correct but most of the time they weren't. They said not to contact him because I am making things too easy for him, he needs to miss me, he may feel like I am pressuring him and scare him away, blah blah. Maybe we are told not to contact them because if we do, then we are going to find out the truth and that they've been feeding us lies. At the time that I am being told why I shouldn't call, text, email etc. all of the reasons they are giving me sound so valid, but going back and analyzing my readings and then comparing it to others I feel like they made a complete fool out of me.
I wonder if when they hang up the phone they are laughing at me saying talk to you in again in a few days SUCKER.
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Thats exactly how I feel anymh a little while ago. I spoke with Danni. After she let me know that he is with someone, which I already knew. She started to tell me how to move on as this is what I asked her, just how do I get past this man. I started to cry of course and told her how betrayed I felt by him and by CP for all of the psychics to tell me for 3 yrs that he would be back in my life at some point and how he still loved me. Of course she said they were picking up on the karmic connection that we have because its so strong and she understood why they had all seen him coming back. Well, he didnt come back, nor did he call to check on me or anything. Then she had the nerve to say yes he does love you. I told her that didnt make any sense to me at all. How could he love me and never want to talk to me or try to make things better for me since I do know that he knows how bad he hurt me. Of course she said he wasnt brave enough to face it. DUH!!!!! Thats a no brainer. They all kept telling me to keep positive thoughts and dont think negatively. Okay then, this is my positive thought for the day. I positively hope he chokes on the rice the little Phillipino girl feeds him. I dont mean to be racial or anything but it chaps my butt that he would act like such a patriot then hook up with someone from another country. All he ever talked about was loving this country and his home state and all that kind of crap. I also positively hope she cleans out his bank account and leaves him penniless after him going the distance that he did to make money. He doesnt deserve happiness after going around acting the way he has acted in his lifetime. Im sorry if I sound mean and cruel but I hope he winds up hurting just the way Ive hurt for the last 3 yrs. I didnt deserve the treatment he dished out after loving him so much. GRRRRRRRR!!!! Im so mad right now I could bite nails.
By the way, Danni told me to sign up at Match.com and she saw a new man coming in about 9 weeks. Went as far as to promise. Ok, we will see what kind of man comes in after 9 weeks. I signed up, now the waiting will start. Will let you guys know how it goes. But I have a feeling that it will be another prediction up in smoke.
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i personally do not think that psychics asked us not to contact the ex so as not to let us find out the truth. i "studied" a lot about NC, ( nothing to do with psychics), NC really makes sense and gives you the best chance in patching. if NC doesn't work, nothing will. is very simple, if you ex loves you for real, would he/she not contact you? if our ex don't contact us for a long time say 3 months, the answer is loud and clear. even if the psychic still tell us they would come back, we should be smart enough to conclude things for ourselves.
let's not vent our frustrations on the psychics. just like what the PS advertises, take them as a form of entertainment.
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4ever: I feel your anger! You're not being mean, you're just simply saying what it is! I said a few harsh things about my ex to others and to him lol. It is what it is! Sometimes it feels better to get it out there regardless if it's to the person, out loud to yourself or to others. I too wish my ex gets the karma that is so desperately waiting for him so he can see how I felt :) Even though apart of me thinks he might have an idea how I felt/feel since I DID break up with him and left him high and dry..only difference is I didn't start dating someone else soon after AND I went back to him telling him that I was sorry and this whole situation taught me alot about myself,him and our relationship.
I signed up for Match.com and I didn't really meet anybody, either I wasn't interested or they played games so it didn't work to well for me but I hope it does for you! I also used another dating website where I met the guy I'm sorta dating now on..if you want to know what that is shoot me a message! At any rate, GOOD LUCK!!!! I hope you find someone amazing :)!
LightMe: Hmmmm.... why shouldn't we vent our frustrations? Maybe the psychics should have some ethics and integrity and if they are real tell us the truth. I rather hear from 3 psychics back to back, he's not coming back than only 1 say it and every1 else says "of course!" Just because someone doesn't contact you in a while doesn't really mean they don't love you and never will...people are weird! I've not contacted someone because of my pride or I felt that the response will be negative so I just said whatever and didn't say anything. is it possible a ex feels that way? OF COURSE! Guys and some girls (I have a few friends) hate rejection so they rather say "f it" then put themselves out there and see what happens.
We don't know what's going on in these peoples minds....
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LightMe: What is NC?
As far as the disclaimer that "This service is for Entertainment Purposes Only" that's a load of bologna, that's something they put on their site to protect themselves from clients who they have robbed of thousands of dollars by feeding them fairy tales that aren't true.
Honestly, when we are calling these "psychics" are we doing it because we are board and want to be entertained. If I wanted entertainment I'll go watch a movie, it will be much cheaper than paying 7 dollars a minute to speak with someone who is making a fool out of me.
As I write these posts I get even more angry thinking of all the money I have wasted to "entertain" myself
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NC is no contact.
that's right. they had already put disclaimer that they are just for entertainment , we have no ground at all to argue.
i understand your frustration, i also wish some real psychics could give me some answers. perhaps we are too screwed up with our breakups, we are too sad, angry and upset to think straight. we are like drowning, so we grab at anything to try to stay afloat. we will even grab at straws, and then we still sink, but will we blame the straws?
from experience, psychics do have the ability to pick up on the situation, but i am not sure about the predicting part. will not bank on that.
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I agree 100% Vanyct!
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Just because someone doesn't contact you in a while doesn't really mean they don't love you and never will...people are weird! I've not contacted someone because of my pride or I felt that the response will be negative so I just said whatever and didn't say anything. is it possible a ex feels that way? OF COURSE! Guys and some girls (I have a few friends) hate rejection so they rather say "f it" then put themselves out there and see what happens.
We don't know what's going on in these peoples minds....
LLL,
I completely agree. Contact has nothing to do with love. We all love our SOs, but some of us don't contact them for very significant reasons. That doesn't mean we don't love them with our whole hearts. Life is complicated. Some things in life can't be worked out in 3 months, maybe it takes a year, maybe 2 but it will be worked out eventually...one way or another. The Universe will make sure of it.
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YUP! Agreed!
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if your significant other had dumped you and then never contact you , you still think your ex still loves you? wow, this is new to me.
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Well my ex didn't dump me so I can't comment on that sorry.
Maybe if my ex dumped me I'd feel that there was no future but that's ONLY if he didn't contact me at least a month after...if he's tried to contact me, had friends contact,stalked my fb etc then yes I'd think WE MIGHT have a future...because if he's doing all that then theres something going on because if someone is done with you,they wouldn't be doing all that..well i wouldn't lol
I don't really get the impression those who have mentioned they haven't received contact from their ex, didn't have their ex break things off then not contact them..or maybe I'm reading things wrong. To me it seems as if the ex stayed in the picture off and on or put ideas in the persons head that things aren't over.
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yup, i got you. i am in this kinda situation too, and he had contacted me etc etc so i think we are not done yet. but if he stop contacting me for lets say 3 months, i think i would conclude to myself that it is over, no matter what the psychics had said. and then i would also conclude to myself that all the psychics are scams, at least they can't predict the future.
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Yea I feel ya!
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A few things I've taken away from my own situation that I probably would had never learned any other way is:
1. Don't be afraid of commitment. If someone is good for you and you feel they are, keep them around. Don't push them away because your scared of committing to them. I never thought of myself as a commitment phobe but maybe I am. Weird since my parents have been married for 24 years lol so I saw commitment everyday from birth until now hahaa! I think my college days had to do with my non-commitment though...I never committed to anybody,just had fun....so maybe I just didn't know how too....but then again I never met anybody worth committing too....
2. Communication is always key. I use to get so mad at my ex and just shut off or I'd tell him "take care" LOL! I didn't want to deal with the foolery...but now I wish I would had sat him down and told him " Hey, this is what I don't like and this is what I do like....lets compromise. I'll work on what you dont like and vise versa"...instead I ran...which could also do with #1.
3. If you feel something isn't right, make the decision to change it asap! When I broke up with my ex, I consulted with my bff and she told me wait it out....wait until finals are over (I was graduating and was already stressed about that)...I listened to her...and my ex was already dating after I finally broke down and reached out to him. And you know what he told me? "I wish you would had said something earlier..." That has and will haunt me...Should had went with my first mind instead of listening to someone else.
Overall, I learned alot about myself...it's been a hard 8 months...last time I went through something so draining and emotional was when my friend passed away 4 years ago..only difference is in this situation I became depressed. I dont think I've ever cried as much in my life as I did these last 8 months and Ive always been emotional..it's a Virgo thing lol!! Sometimes when I'm eating,watching tv, or even waking up in the morning; my heart aches....it hurts because I miss him so much and I hate myself everyday for letting this man and this opportunity slip through my hands. But as DeeJay on CP said I can't think of him or us the same. We both have grown and so I need to imagine him as the man he's grown to be/going to be than the man he was. & that will be the way for things to work out and manifest quicker. (We'll see how that works lol).
I appreciate yall who have been there through my thread and posts...with your advice and what not. It means alot! I hope it all works out for each one of us in one day or another! :)
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OMG LLL what you have said is soooo true in so many ways. I never thought of myself as a commitment phobe either but after getting out of a bad marriage I was PETRIFIED. And I see this even now, I would happily welcome HIM back but I imagine someone else and I am already pushing them away and I may not have even met them yet!!!
Mine had a LISTENING problem at times, ie he heard what he wanted to hear so that didn't help the communication. But I was so burnt I tuned him out at times. I think I may have had a clue what was happening if I hadn't. I really regret that but I'm not sure I could have changed it based on the circumstances.
Whatever happens this is a life lesson for all of us - let's make sure we at least learn what we need to!
<hugs>
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Yes lets hope we do all learn :) ;D
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Hi! Sorry...I have been in a sad place. I've been crying on and off for the past few days. I'm still so mad about what I found out. She is just not his type at all...and that bothers me even more. I just need to stop looking up stuff and checking to see what's going on (which is nothing) because I am just torturing myself.
Thank you all for your support. I really do appreciate it and it has helped.
4ever: I too had some things come true in regards to my ex. Basically all the little things did come true…but I am in one time frame and working towards another…and now with this “girlfriend” I just don’t see “the big picture” coming true.
“I know you’re devastated right now, and you need to cry it out. There is a song by Rascal Flatts that I like to listen to when Im down. Im sure you have heard it. Can’t remember the name of it but it tells you that you may bend til you break, but in the end you look up, wipe your hands, shake it off, then you stand. We all have to find the strength is us to shake it off and stand.”
This does explain it all…because that is who I am…but right now…I feel like I am kind of stuck on the ground and I just can’t seem to figure out how to get up…I’m sure this will pass…hopefully lol.
PT: I will definitely break things down and I was one step ahead of you…yes…I contacted Seha and Nina (who have been the most accurate) and I needed to tell them they were wrong.
My readers lately have been: Jean, Kinsey, Seha, Nina
After our dinner:
They all said that he is struggling with stuff…everyday stuff…he knows how he feels about me, but doesn’t know how to express them (Nina says his tongue becomes paralyzed when he has to express his feelings). I gave him a lot to think about and I shook him up a bit.
Jean, Seha, and Nina all saw him coming around towards the end of July – Nina said end of July into beginning of August.
Kinsey gave a time frame of end of Sept.
Anasela gave a time frame of Autumn
No one picked up on another woman.
I decided to try Phoebe…She brought something up that no one picked up…at first I was confused and thought that she was talking about him being in a relationship now…but she said it was a past relationship that was done (and she was very correct in the years and info that she gave – I never talked to anyone on CP about this) She gave a time frame of September – of a reach out and then it we would take it slow and test the waters.
I had a reading with Seha 2 weeks ago in regards to him and an issue that I was having with a friend. She hit the nail on the head in regards to my friend without giving her any info on her…she just answered the question and then some…and she told me that there was no one in his life…and she gave me a time frame of October. He would reach out with an email…small talk…to test the waters.
I felt so confident with what they said. I saw it all to be possible.
Now…I am not so sure. Afte I sent my ex the “Hello How are you” email…2 ½ hours later I followed it up with “please disregard my previous email thank you” I just do not think he is going to reach out after that. It is not my personality to do that. This was Wednesday and today is Saturday and I haven’t heard a thing from him.
I will be unsubscribing to CP. I just can’t do it anymore.
I had 2 final readings with Nina and Seha because they have been the most accurate with me and I am debating if I should have one with Jean.
I will break it down in 2 posts.
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Nina: I spoke to her Thursday and all I said was “I last spoke to you about 2 months ago and I was wondering if you can give me an update on what is going on with my ex?”
Nina: “I am going to work with his energy today and right off the bat I will tell you that there is no one else. There is not another woman. So there is no need for you to have those worries. I see a battle between head and heart with him. He keeps suppressing his feelings for you and they keep coming back up. Is he the Hockey guy?”
Me: yes he is
N: “your time frame has already come and gone. The two of you should have been together already. The delay is due to him sometimes you need a negative in order to get a positive result. Right now there is a negative going on with him but I am not sure what it is. He is not making good decisions with his head. But you…your energy is negative. You will not believe anything that I tell you today. You have thrown in the towel and you do not think that you will hear from him , see him, or think any of this will come to pass. You reached out to him within the last day or two?
M: Yes
N: an email? A light hearted email?
M: yes
N: he has not yet responded, but he will. Give him a few days. But when he responds…so do you. You don’t want to respond to his emails…if you don’t…that will be a mistake. You will be surprised by what he has to say. You won’t believe what he has to say and he understands and recognizes he now has to work harder and he will. He was at a stand still and it seems like out of no where he gets slapped in the face with something and wakes up and aggressively moves forward with you. You won’t believe me…but I see this starting to happen towards the end of this month going into September.
M: when he received my email what was he thinking?
N: he was happy to hear from you, but very surprised to hear from you. He didn’t think he would.
M: a lil while later I sent him a 2nd email…what was he thinking?
N: he doesn’t understand and he is very confused. He doesn’t know why you did that? What did you say in the 2nd email?
M: disregard my previous email. Thank you
N: why would you do that?
M: because he has a girlfriend.
N: are you assuming that? Because you didn’t hear that from him. He never responded to your email and there isn’t another woman that comes through.
M: I saw it on facebook and she said “my awesome boyfriend”
N: he can’t believe everything you read on those sites. People write things sometimes and it is not what it really is. I am telling you…I do not see another girl I keep seeing you and him long term marriage…that has never changed with you two. Absolutely nothing is coming up in regards to another woman. I just don’t think this is of any relevance and will not change your outcome. I think she is making it more than what it is. Do not get hung up on this…she does not come up in his energy.
I ended the conversation basically saying that I just don’t believe any of this. I wish I could…but it just doesn’t seem possible. 8 weeks without hearing from him is not a good sign and if there wasn’t anything going on with him and her and if she was making more out of it, then he would put a stop to it and delete her comment from him art page. (I’m not friends with him on his own page and it is super private so I can’t see anything :-\ )
I really do want to believe what she says....and her and Seha are basically saying the same as my friends....but i just don't see it. He would have already...no?
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My reading with Seha:
M: Just wanted to see if there are any updates since we spoke 2 weeks ago in regards to my ex
S: I am picking up a lot of conflict. Conflict within himself. Wow this has really changed since last we spoke. He feels guilty…he feels like he let you down…he feels like he is going to lose you…”what did I do” wow…he is just has so much conflict within himself…this is so strange…your time frame has changed…it’s moved up…but its going like in a wave. I see that you will hear from him any day into maybe a few weeks…maybe a month or into the 2nd…hhhmmm…this is so strange.
He isn’t ready to commit to you…he isn’t ready for you…but he just feels so guilty…I just keep getting feelings of he let you down and doesn’t know if he lost you…he doesn’t know what to do.
M: I sent him an email yesterday. What was he thinking?
S: he was pleasantly surprised to hear from you.
M: when he received the email…did he have intentions of responding?
S: Yes his initial reaction was to respond…but then he stopped and he is not sure what to do. He seems very confused.
M: I sent him a 2nd email 2.5 hrs later…what was he thinking?
S: he is really confused. He doesn’t understand why you sent it.
M: will he respond?
S: yes…but not for a few days…he just doesn’t know what to say. What did the 2nd email say?
M: please disregard my email thank you
S: well that explains his confusion. Why would you say that?
M: because he has a GF
S: no he doesn’t another woman is not coming up…hang on and I will check again…no…nothing is coming up…there is no other woman. What is making you think that? He didn’t tell you
M: facebook
S: I’m telling you nothing is coming up…if this girl mattered one bit to him…it would come up. I think she is making it more than what it is. Right now she is significant to you because you saw it…but she really isn’t significant at all. I’m telling you this isn’t anything and that is why she is not coming up. Do you have a name and dob
M: yes (gave it to her)
S: oh…honey…this is not what you think…it is not even what she thinks…she is really making more of it than what it is. She is hopeful but she is all over the place she is hopeful but yet uncertain she is hopeful but she looks . this again isn’t anything and right now it is only signifant to you and you need to put it out of your mind. This is pretty recent and as fast as it went in is as fast as it will go out. Again…she is making it more than what it is.
M: does he know why I sent the 2nd email?
S: no…not yet…but he will put it together soon enough. This explains the conflict and stuff. You really do not have a thing to worry about. Be patient and work on you. He will be back and like I always said…I see the 2 of you together in a relationship and I see marriage.
I ended this call too with I just don’t see it and I just don’t’ think you are correct. I do not think he will reach out if there is someone else… no matter what her relevance is and I just can’t do this anymore…and she keeps insisting she is right.
I don’t know…i really like Seha...any thoughts or advise? Do I believe them or doubth them? They are both saying the same exact things that my friends are saying :-\
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:(( Greengrl I feel your pain! It's hard to know who to believe and who not to believe. I've been dealing with that for a while. Maybe try and go with your gut feeling? If your friends know more about your ex and this so called relationship then maybe believe what they are saying...this is a hard one...I wish I could give some sound advice on this situation. But regardless, stay as strong but cry as much as you need! I still cry and it's been 7 months lol. Sometimes it makes me feel a little better when I get it all out especially because I keep a smile on my face so much that all the sadness gets pint up inside. Hopefully none of it is what it seems and Nina and Seha are saying what's REALLY going to happen :)
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How long was he in that r/s Sunandmoon?
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greengrix333,
I feel your pain, and I am so sorry. I don't know how you feel about candle magic, but if you are ready and honestly are tired and just want to get over him, I know a great meditation with candle magic that really works. I did it with my first SM, who I felt and many psychics had told me, was my Twin Flame. Never, ever in the world thought I'd ever get over him and be able to move on, but after this meditation, I did and quickly. It wasn't instantaneous, but right away I felt lighter, like the weight of the world had lifted and I could start being me again. The thoughts of him came less and less as time went on and now thoughts of him are very rare. If you want it, shoot me a message...
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Greengrlx -
thank you SO much for the update. I've been checking to see how you are.
Regarding what to believe, gosh that is something only you can answer..................and don't forget timing is always off.................but the fact that they said the same exact thing would make me think they are probably pretty accurate..........................
UGH hang in there
PT
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greengrlx - also - I don't want to encourage calling psychics but Gail and William are pretty good at seeing a 3rd party and what's going on. good luck
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PT: I read with William. He didn't pick up on anyone and his time frame has come and gone. I do not think he was wrong...but I think he had a little hard time with the ex because he is a procrastinator. He was quick and right to the point and did mention something that he wouldn't have known and that I never mentioned to another psychic on cp.
I really am so torn. I don't know how to get him out of my mind...I'm trying lol. I have to stop checking her facebook page. I'm afraind I may come across something I don't want to see and it will make me feel worse. My one doubt is this....he has a private personal page, and he has a page for his art (which is public and that is where I found this information)...you can see her wall and who she posts to etc. why doesn't she post and comment on his private page? It's just a thought (maybe that is making me feel better lol) Or am I just trying to rationalize what I saw and finding reasons to continue holding on? Ugh! Lol
I do not think they take notes. I just can't see it. Some of the major psychics have a heavy line up of callers...when would they have the time to write and then look up?
I read with Nina and Seha on 2 different sites...and I had read with someone on Liveperson (who was right on and correct with me...timelines and info...and she gave the same info as Nina, Kinsey, etc...unfortunately she had suddenly passed away :'( )
I just feel like I'm spinning in a bubble and I can't breathe.
I was engaged several years ago...and that breakup was so much easier than this one...I got over it very quickly (which ironically is the same time that my ex broke up with his longterm gf) My heart hurts as much as it did the day i lost my brother. It just shouldn't hurt this bad if it wasn't meant to be (but then again...i'm a hopeless romantic)
I haven't decided if I get another reading or not. I was thinking maybe Anasela. I do not read with her often, but she has been pretty spot on (well for the most part...her time frame when I read with her 2 1/2 months ago was Autumn...when I read with her a year ago for the 1st time...she gave me the same time frame and she was dead on correct with all information) Decisions...Decisions...Decisions...lol I wouldn't be able to get into her que until Tuesday...so that gives me some time to think...I desperately wish I could get into Uli's Que...but that would take a miracle lol
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lol - I've never read with Uli. I've read with Seha and loved her but I felt like I couldn't get details from her. Never read with Nina. Read with Devyn a few weeks ago and liked her but her timing for contact has come and gone.........
One time I called William and said SM is talking to someone - can you look and see if you can see her and he did and gave me the scoop. He needed DOB and even got her hair color right. But I've been reading with him for awhile so maybe he can see it better because he's read for me a bunch of times.
I also did that with Jacqueline and she gave me the full scoop too. She told me more then what I really needed to know................ugh. But I've been reading with her for awhile also.
All I know is that this is all YUCK.
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Has anybody had predictions come to pass from seha or Nina?
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Hi elaan, I would love it if you would tell me about the candle meditation...maybe it would help me. Love, tippy. Ps everyone...give dawn at cp aa try, I have only been using her and William since my guy left me 5 weeks ago and I especially trust her and she does have 40 yrs experience with tarot and I feel that experience counts for a lot and she never gives me fairytail readings...I really love her. Xo
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LLL: I have had all the little stuff come to pass with both of them that is suppose to lead to the final outcome.
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Well then keep up the faith girl!! If all that they said have come to pass then that has to count for something right?
I read with Seha yesterday based on this post ( I said I wasn't going to anymore lol but I was curious what she saw after this development with my ex) and I said " Hi Seha, I spoke with you about a week ago but there has been a development in my situation so I want to know what is the outcome/future for me and my ex" she took her time to focus (i'm assuming) and said " you just rec'd bad news. Is that correct" I said yup and told her what he said etc. THAT was interesting that she picked up on that (assuming she's not reading this forum) it was is impressive! She said I should hear from him soon....at the most 2 months (Oct) but she feels Sept will be when I will hear from him...so if that comes to pass then I will be amazed!
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I know...I totally hear you. That's what is giving me my little glimmer of hope...but I do have so many doubts unfortunately.
I didn't see that ending when we had dinner in June. I really thought it was going to end differently. I had such a great time and he paid for dinner and he kept complimenting me when he saw me and he just kept staring at me when we were by the cars...but it's how he was staring at me...and then the hug...he hugged me and wouldn't let me go...I just really thought it was going to be different.
I called Seha the next day and she said hello and started the reading with "oh you just saw him this weekend didn't you?" and she was so excited...she said that i gave him a lot to think about and that she saw that we discussed the past and that we had a really nice time.....all was true.
I called Nina a few days after we had met for dinner and she said that I delayed the time frame a bit by our talk...but it was all goin to be ok...she said that she saw him reaching out to me within a few days (but he didn't) and she saw the time frame delayed to early August (which wasn't didn't come to pass...but she acknowledged it when we read and said that we are past our time frame and we should have been together at this point or moving towards that)
They are both so confident with the outcome. Seha was more chatty about it...she said that she understands where I am coming from and that she has been reading for many years...and she knows for a fact that this will come to pass...I will see that she is correct....I want to believe it...I just wish I didn't see what I saw on facebook...ugh...i hate facebook lol
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PT: Nina gives as much details as she can and I felt Seha too....I think it may depend on how many minutes you have with them. Nina really takes off and opens up when you have 20 min-30min. Seha is quick and right to the point...I kind of felt that way too when I 1st read with her...but I think she gives more info if/when she sees it....because sometimes she is really detailed and sometimes she is right to the point.
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Yea I definitely feel what you're saying!
I hate facebook too; I ended up deactivating mine back in May because I couldn't take it anymore. I just needed a break from social networking and having my ex's info and pic available. (his page was private too but he changed his default like every few wks so I'd look and see if the girl was in them) It has helped a little bit but not alot. I really need to stop talking to these psychics. I was good for a while actually but then something happened that made me think my ex was single and I went right back into it.
This time I'm done! I want to at least wait until Seha, Jacqueline and DeeJay predictions come to pass before calling anyone again.
DeeJay's is the furthest out (holidays/next year but that was the final outcome.) Seha is 2 months max and Jacqueline said 2.5-3 wks for contact...so we shall see!
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Green - I'll have to try Seha again. If they are getting little predictions right I would think the big one will be right too!!! And I agree about facebook - LOL
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I dont believe anything that is posted on facebook. Facebook in my oppinion is something that destroys friendships
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I dont believe anything that is posted on facebook. Facebook in my oppinion is something that destroys friendships
Agreed!
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I totally agree! I was doing the same thing...I can't see anything, but I just wanted to see his picture. Now...I keep looking at her page...is it making me feel better? absolutely not! I can't see either one of their friend's list to see if they are on each other's lists...if they aren't...well then i just read way too much into this...but if they are...well...then i just don't see the outcome lol
My friends and Nina were saying the same thing...you can't believe what you see on facebook.
And yes...it can end friendships...but i think only the ones that were already broken...like what just happened to me...i have been having issues with a good friend...she has been lying to me and being extremely sneaky and saying stuff behind my back...i kept quiet and pulled back...she knew why...but wouldn't admit it...she was so obsessed with how i found out...that no matter what i said to her in emails...(that i just need some time and space...there is just too much going on at once) if i wrote something on facebook she automatically assumed it was about her (which wasn't) and i deactivated my account as soon as i found out about my ex and she thought i deleted and blocked her...and she totally dissed me and disrespected me on her page and she ended our friendship... Seha was so correct in regards to this lol
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lol!! I had a friend like that. She use to always assume when I said something not hella positive that I was talking about her even when we were on good terms lol. She would reply with a status update like 30 seconds after mine with basically a reply to what I said..I even had other friends notice it and say "hey,ummm is she talking about you?" I figured she was insecure and is obviously guilty about something (probably was talking about me) and that's why she'd assume that. Our friendship has since suffered...we are still friends and she'll always be my lil sis but as far as being my best friend like she use too, I don't know if that will happen again..but maybe.
I should had talked to Seha about my best friend now that I think about it. Our friendship hasn't been the same for the last month, we don't talk as much as we use too. I know she's busy and I'm kinda annoyed with her because when I vented with her about my ex a month ago she was real short with me like "whatever" type attitude. So I haven't been feeling her lately...we are going to Vegas nxt week so I've been kinda whatever about it but when we get back I'll probably pull back from her. It seems I'm the one always reaching out to her lately aka txting her first..I think she's only texted me first once within a month which isn't normal to our friendship...so I'm going to just separate myself from that situation and keep moving and if she wants to reach out and be apart of my life she's more than welcome but I'm no longer reaching out to her anymore until she starts doing so...why do friendships have to be so damn difficult damn!
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LLL I had an online friend who blasted me 3 times in a month about my guy. I mean blasted! Just out of the blue. She was brutal with some of the stuff she said but what really got me is that she snapped the way she did. She also started to see someone around the same time. So the last time she did it, I said ok if we can't discuss him I'm good with that, I'm sorry you don't understand why I do what I do, but I can't explain it any better. She kept saying she'd be exhausted not knowing, well guess what, that's you not me. Anyway I sent her that email and never heard back from her until over a week later. She spent a week telling me via email that she was justified, I was stupid to be doing what I was doing, I was pushing away all my friends, I should be grateful that I had someone (her) in my life to tell me the truth. I didn't answer the first couple because I was kind of flabbergasted that she emailed me like that after so long when I had replied to her last email anyway. And as the week went on I realized that she never once asked if I was ok or busy (I had an appointment with a surgeon scheduled in this time frame that she knew about), she just assumed I was being childish and mad at her. And that I felt was pretty damn rude. Now the funny thing is, I had a reading with a private psychic in early Dec that told me I'd stop speaking to a female friend in July due to her big mouth and I automatically assumed it would be someone from one of my jobs LOL. So I agree, friendships are as hard as relationships which is probably why I don't have many of either!
<update> Well she sent me another email this morning. She is still calling me childish for not getting back in touch with her and said i should be adult enough to just tell her I don't want to be friends. But wow what I was supposed to think after not hearing from her for over a week? I don't use that account for much other than her and horoscopes and I know I told her it was a not-often used account. Truthfully the reason I didn't answer her right way was because I had a T appointment that week and her first couple of emails were kind of vile and I wanted to talk to him about it. So it has never once occurred to her that something happened to me - which I find odd since if I have someone I haven't heard from in a long time MY first thought is if they are ok.
As for fb I do the same thing with the pic. I find it funny that he's dyed his hair in the past year yet none of the fb pix he's put up show his "new" look. I wonder why? And isn't it annoying when they lock down their friend lists too? lol
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LOL...yeah...Seha told me it was all ego with her (especially in regards to the guy) and it was so true (and i didn't even say anything) she saw that she is very judgemental (so true) negative (she's in denial about it and if you use that word she goes bonkers and says she walks too much in nature to be negative) and there is a dark cloud that follows her (which one of my friends sees around her and she won't even say hi to her or look at her lol) so all was true that she Seha said lol She also said that we will be in each others lives always...but she said it would be about a year before we can get to a good place with our friendship...but just like you...i dont see it possible that we will ever be where we once were. i know her personality and she has all these rules - people aren't allowed to do or say so many things to her, but she can and does do those things to others and justifies it (she is also in denial about it)...she will just do what she did again...but it will take a long time for us to be in a better place.
LOL yes S&M I hate that...ugh...they really should do away with that option lol
ugh! I'm debating if I should have a reading tonight with Ciarra...or wait and have a reading with either Anasela or Kinsey on Tuesday...or should I just not have a reading? any thoughts?
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SunandMoon: I hate when people espcially friends do that! First thought should be are you okay since I haven't heard from you, not "oh your childish" etc. But it just shows what type of friend they really are. I don't have alot of close girlfriends either because I always have issues with trusting them, or assuming crap or we just go in different directions. I've always considered myself a good friend to all my friends and espcially my best friends or really good friends. I treat them like family, I do anything and everything I could. If I need to go beat someone's ass I will because your my friend lol. If you need me to come get you from somewhere because something happened to your car or something, Im right there (assuming Im not at work or out of town)...but it seems like alot of people aren't like that which is disappointing :( I somethings think it's because it's because I'm a only child so I take my friendships seriously and that's why I do anything for them (within reason lol) because they are like my sisters..smh! Definitely gonna pull away from my bff though until she gets her shit together..sometimes I feel that she might be jealous of me but I hate to look at that way you know...because she's my bff and she shouldn't be :(..Idk we'll see!
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Green: Have any three of those been accurate with you before? If so, maybe read with them but if there predictions haven't come to pass; then maybe don't have a reading with them and save your dollars!! hahaha
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Green, i've read with Ciarra and she's very thorough. She doesn't give timeframes, at least not in my case but she is a very detailed tarot card reader. I find she's good at describing me and ex and our relationship very precisely. But i'm sure you've had many readings already about the 'present' and 'past' so i suggest you save your money. As for Anasela and Kinsey, i have not read with neither but if you had in the past and was accurate for you.....it's up to you. IF they are new reads.....i duno, read on the past posts here and see if they were correct for others. I think triple twice about reading with new readers nowadays.
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i tried mona on sat. she was ok but i feel she was fishing for information
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I tried mona a couple of weeks ago & she picked up alot very quickly. She even knew a few minor things that others didn't. Really nice woman.
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"Has anybody had predictions come to pass from seha or Nina"
yes. i actually have only talked to Seha once. i wasnt sure if i should call her back but since she has been one of the most accurate readers for me maybe i will at some point. she was right with the only timeframe she gave me and also on a few very specific things. some of the things she told me sounded too good to be true but she did pick up on details...like intimate details that no other psychic had told me. i also was crying my eyes out for about half of the reading. i just told her that i was at the end of the tunnel with no light and wanted someone else to come in my life, but she said that this was a pre-destined thing and that she actually saw me having a little boy with the guy i was inquiring about. obviously that hasnt happened and there are major communcation problems with this person still...i also still need answers to some things about the past...but she was accurate in everything that i have found out so far. she also knew my number was still blocked (at the time of the reading), and i think thats when i started crying because i felt she was real. i have never read with Nina.
Greengrlx333 please pm me if you want to talk more in detail. i will say a prayer for you too
LiveLaughLove no problem, im so glad we have this forum
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Thanks CSK for the response! So I guess I can have a little hope in what Seha told me then....lets keep our fingers crossed :-/
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i'm upset for you. i'm unhappy that you went through this experience. i went through it too. Facebook is a killer: one day i opened this guy's page and see he's in a relationship with someone else. his updated status left me heartbroken. even though we weren't formally together--neither one of us said okay, now we're bf and gf, we were together like a couple and we knew each other for a few years/had history, so silly me thought i was the girlfriend or at least girlfriend to be....well, Facebook showed me to the door. so i want to give you a hug because i know it sucks right now.
and CPs are mostly wrong, i found. i called so many, i want all my money back. there are a few that i can use now...for different things. Tisha i use for relationship updates because she's consistently accurate for me; Leah I use for school and family stuff; William also for career/life path/school....but so many, dead wrong. promises of this and that. luxurious time frames. all false. it's upsetting, it's heartbreaking but only bc we depend on it. today i really wanted to know the outcome of something before i begin a conversation with someone about the situation....and then i thought, why bother call a psychic? let me just find out, it won't change things anyway, whether it goes down smoothly or blows up in my face. it's too much money for an answer that's probably wrong. i know we all want to know what will happen but we have to admit we are trying to find comforting answers so we can move on somehow, either with hope that things will be peachy or that things are so bad we should forget it. but it's always our choice, really, and we must always take care of the present to create a future for ourselves.
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Some depressing Illumine but true....maybe we are only calling them for those reasons...guess that makes sense :(
How was Tisha been accurate? Has her timeframes came to pass or is she just accurate in describing people and situations?
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*sounds depressing
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Green,
I am sorry that you are going through this. That is never an easy thing to find out. I'm sure you feel doubly deceived. First by the guy who lied to you & then by all of those you talked to at CP. I would have to call them all back & tell them they were wrong & have to see what they had to say about that. Probably some b.s. about a free will choice. On the bright side, now you get to heal yourself & move on.
I am starting to think that only some of what these so called psychics say is true and starting to believe that only God truly knows how things are going to play out. Maybe our paths are constantly changing based on the decisions that we make.
Has anyone heard of a lady by the name of Rori Raye? She is not a psychic but she has a program called Have The Relationship You Want.
www.havetherelationshipyouwant.com I think I am going to try that instead of calling these charlatans.
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sometimes I wonder where i would be emotionally and mentally in regards to my ex if i never went to see a psychic. but when my relationship ended with my ex-fiance...i just knew it was over and there was no chance of us getting back together. i totally didn't see it coming and i couldn't believe how it ended...i was so extremely hurt...i just wanted to know why...why him and his family did what they did and why did they choose me (it really does make for a great lifetime movie of the week...or maybe even hallmark movie of the week lol) but i just kept going. but with M...it was different...when we broke up...i just never felt like it was over...and him reaching out to me and the way that he spoke to me and the way he looks at me when he saw me...makes me think he doesn't either...cause why reach out? i just never felt this strongly about someone...and if my gut is wrong...then i just really won't know where to go from here...i will just throw in the towel because i just can't let myself get hurt again...there is no more room in my heart and soul for any more pain and hurt and heartache.
now...we have so much information at our finger tips...some are facts and some aren't...sometimes i feel like facebook is our way of going back to high school....to relive those days and times but in a different way, if that makes sense.
i want to say that i have stopped looking at her page, but i just can't...something doesn't make sense....and i just want to figure it out...for example...she posted on her wall "my awesome boyfriend" and then attaches the link to his art page....why wouldn't he "like' that on her personal page? it's his girlfriend and out of no where she now is his "BIGGEST fan" of his art work (oh please...i'm so rolling my eyes right now) but i will say, when we dated...he really wanted me to like his art work...it seemed really important to him...I totally did...i loved the odd way that he thinks...it actually if very similar to my way of thinking...i just keep it to myself and he puts in paintings lol...i doubt that with her...(i'm totally sounding bitter lol)
i have had many readings with cp...i have had more good readings than bad ones. the 1st huge prediction came to pass in November - that he would reach out to me and he did ....and all that they said after...was happening...but something happened going into february...and that was all him and they were even stumped...but everytime they said i would hear from him i would....(well for the most part) things that my regular gals explained...were correct...time frames were off a bit...but the one thing that they all seem to agree with is that we should have already been working towards something.
the ones on cp that said we would not be together were so off with other stuff....if they weren't...than i would take that into consideration.
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I called Jean yesterday...i wanted to see what she would say... i only put in 10 min with her...
M: Hi jean...i wanted to get an update on what was going on with me and M and where this is going?
J: there is a really strong connection between the 2 of you. even thought the 2 of you have not been communicating...that connection still remains very strong. i'm picking up that he is making a really big decision this week...do you know what?
S: no...he is down the shore for the week
J: when you last spoke...did he tell you what was going on with him?
S: yes...he was just being hard on himself and basically turning 40 was really hard etc.
J: yes... he is in a better place then when you 2 last spoke...he is working towards a better direction right now you don't see any of this possible..you can't see him reaching out in any way and you just can't see this being what i see....this is going to come together and the two of you will be together...and i do see marriage.ection (which is what seha, nina, and kinsey have said) but yes...what he said to you in what he was going thru is correct...but he didn't think you would be supportive
S: i don't believe that to be true because i have alwasy been supportive and when we spoke i was giving him some advice etc...so i don't see that to be so.
J:...i keep picking up big decision...he is going to make a decision on something this week.
S: can you see what it is in regards to?
J: it isn't coming in clear...its not about career or stuff like that...let me have your DOBs
J: ok ok...this is a little better...but still not clear...the decision is about you..
S: whats the decision? to end things?
J: no...(she just kept repeating about decisions...as if she was thinking and looking more into it)
S: i emailed him on wednesday to say hello how are you...can you tell me what was going thru his head?
(she just kept saying the same stuff)
S: i emailed him 2.5 hrs later to say "disregard my previous email" can you tell me what he thought of that and if he will still respond?
J: he will explain...he needs to explain something to you...i see that you will hear from him in a few days...i can't see...i am not sure about this...but you will hear from him...but i think he wants to explain in person...but i am not sure about that.
S: about his girlfriend? is he going to decided to reach out to tell me that he is with someone and to leave him alone?
J: yes he is going to reach out...but no...you've been misinformed...
S: jean he has a girlfriend
J: no...he doesn't...the only female that comes thru is you...honey i think you have the wrong idea...
S: can you tell me how long they have been together?
J: i told you...you are the only female that is coming thru...they are not together...i just really think you are under the wrong impression...and i am thinking this is what he is going to clear up with you.
S: if i give you her name and dob, maybe something will come thru on her end? (gave it to her)
J: oh honey...she is NOT his type AT ALL (and she kept repeating this)...you really are under the wrong impression and have been misinformed...this is not what you think at all...and i am going to stick by this and say that i am right and you are wrong here...you will hear from him in 8 days...and this will all be cleared up.
and then we were cut off....so blah blah blah...it makes me feel better for a lil bit and then i think too much and part of me is trying to rationalize and leaves me with hope...and then the other part of me leaves me hopeless and i get mad...i seriously think my only hope at this point is a lobotomy followed by a very light electric shock therapy lol
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Green: That's how I feel about my ex J. Out of all my boyfriends from high school to now (I'm 24) and all the guys I seriously dated btwn that time too, I never EVER felt that connection with anybody like I do with J.
I too sometimes wonder how I'd be emotionally if I hadn't contacted a psychic but I thought that was my only option. AND like, the ones who did say we weren't going to be together were off with so many details...being off by one makes me wonder but when it comes to 2,3 or 4 I start to think they don't know what they are talking about. There's only been one person who got details correct regarding my ex and she said he'll contact me but we won't be together BUT she didn't get another question I had correct so we will have to see what happens with that.
I just wish one of my predictions would come to pass...maybe I was dealing with the wrong ppl aka Keen advisors..and maybe CP advsiors or the 3 i spoke with outside of CP will be correct with predictions;good and bad. Sept-Oct seem to be the timelines so we'll see. I'll tell you what though, if nothing comes to pass during these next two months I'm closing all my accounts because I just can't keep putting myself through this.
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green - Im telling you - 10 minutes with gail and she will tell you about the other girl. Whenever I'm nervous about someone else I ask her and she hasn't been wrong yet. All of the others have. She is BRUTALLY honest.
She has a weird way of seeing each person in question and can tell the relationship by who is facing who or who has their backs to who. Last reading she said SM had his back to me while digging like a dog through bills. I don't want to go into details but when she said that my chin hit the floor. She won't want details from you in the beginning. Tell her you think your guys has a girlfriend but then say nothing else. She'll start to tell you who she sees, who looks like what (hair color, glasses, even face structure once), and who is facing who, then will ask you for validation (like what is your hair color etc). As you will find out from talking to her, she literally only tells you what she sees and doesn't do a lot of interpretation.
instead of the lobotomy....lol
and I've read with Jean 3 times too.....
xxoo
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WOW! What's Gail's schedule! I need to talk to her asap lol
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if you talk to Gail please let us know
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PT2: would she pick up on it if i don't mention it?
i have to be honest...i just can't see this being anything...the girl is ghetto...that is not his type what so ever...i can see some of her friends that have left comments...and he is just out of his element 100%..they are all kind of really rough and hard looking...and she lives 40/45 min away from him and i kind of know the area where she lives and i just can't see him being ok with his car there (i know that sounds funny...but he totally loves his car) i just can't see this working...but i hate that she has his attention.
i'm still so angry and emotional...i don't know who to believe at this point...i just wish i could hear everything from him.
i had a reading with Miriam - my friend has used her - so i thought that i would try her...i think i just feel just as i did the day after i found everything out :-(
LLL: my advice would be to choose one site and stick with it if you have to.
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That's what I did...started with Keen then looking at this forum changed to CP and only talked to two outside psychics.
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sometimes I wonder where i would be emotionally and mentally in regards to my ex if i never went to see a psychic.
Why don't you follow this train of thought? Take what the psychics say out of it. Look at your story objectively. Write it down if you must. Read it as though it were someone else's story.
What would you say to the person who told you this story?
I think this board is good for weeding out good and bad readers but, it's also not so good for someone in your position. Greengrl I was in your position and you're hurting an incredible amount. I KNOW. I sound bad when everyone else is encouraging you to have more readings and I'm saying don't. I've read with all the people you're reading with. They told me the same things as you. The exact same words. You don't need more readings. Not right now. You need to look at your situation objectively.
Your original post is right. They WERE all wrong.
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Hi Green:
Does it make you feel better that several psychics have said the same thing about this girl? I really doubt what CP psychics are saying but that's several of them who are all saying the same thing right?
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I totally agree with CSJ!! There's simply no point reading with anymore from CPs because they will just tell you the same thing again. It's a temporary relief only and what you need is to branch yourself away from the situation. Heck, deactivate your FB account for a while if you have to. Simply checking it and cyber stalking like that will only make you feel more crappy. I know so because when i see my ex on FB doing this and that on the weekend......i wonder if he's seeing someone, are they sleeping together......he's having fun while i feel shitty and left behind and i feel more crappy. Then i get a reading to hear them tell me pretty lies.....( LIES cuz i see nothing happening so yes they are LIES ).
Re-read the old posts about the ones you want to read with and you will find that they are ALL 50/50. I don't believe that they are accurate when they get little contacts correct. I remember posting about Gail before...and she told me a fairytale and when a couple weeks later it turned to hell, all she did was defend her name and how she's accurate and it is what she sees at that time. I find it funny how she didn't see the breakup happening or pick up on any arguments two weeks prior when she told me i was going to marry this boy. I mean, she's the same person when we call in to see when there's contact and usually CPs most often would say 1-2 weeks to ballpark it. So logically speaking, if she IS what she claims to be, if she CAN see contact in two weeks ahead in the future, how come she didn't see my breakup happening in two weeks time? STOP rationalizing the accuracy of these psychics. I just think they are really good COLD readers. You can actually pick up a book and learn on your own how to cold read people if you ask the right questions. If the reading it's 100% wrong, it means you didn't give enough lead answers and we, as desperate readees will claim it as 'no connection with the reader'. Don't you ever wonder why they are so good at picking up the past and present but never the future?? How many of us on this board are 'waiting' for the final outcome to be with the ex who left us behind? And how many of us have came on this board and say 'OMG XX was right!! He popped up out of no where and said he missed me, made a huge mistake and wants to get back together!!!'.
The top CPs predictions for me are for August and early September and that includes the great Uli. If she is correct then i will take my words back but until then, they are ALL fake. Before you or anyone else considers having another reading with someone new, READ THE POSTS. And really ask yourself, do you really need another read?
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I hear what you are all saying. I am really good at giving advice to others and oddly enough...for the most part...am usually correcct.
What would I say to a friend if they were me? Stop readings...take a breath...cry it out...and pick one thing to focus on that will keep you preoccupied.
I felt that I was doing just that at first...I had good days and bad and didnt' really feel like I needed or wanted a reading...I had other things to focus on and that is what I was doing...but I had a really scary incident happen to me during my last triathlon and it made me see some things differently. I wanted to reach out to him so badly and I just wanted to put myself out there...but I was scared...and then I reached out...and unfortunately came across something I didn't want to see.
If it was a friend...I would have told her to stay focused and take some time and cry it out...I would have told her that she will never know what is really going on and the only one that has all the answers is him.
After several readings...does it make me feel better? for the moment. But I feel crappy once I start thinking about it. Do i want to believe them? Yes I do. Do I want false hope? No But I just don't believe that they are all 100% wrong about this final outcome...maybe...but I would hate to know that they are and the reality is only time will tell.
I hate that I have so much anger inside of me about this. I'm mad at him and I'm mad at myself.
I'm 39 years old. I have been hurt a lot...and I have learned a lot from my experiences...do you think that I am proud of where I am in my life and do you think I feel proud about calling psychics and spending what little money I have on them....No...Not at all....I'm so disappointed in myself.
But everything in my gutt is telling me that I will hear from him...that we will be together...and I would hate to be wrong when the feeling in my gut is so strong.
There are plenty of positive reviews...where the big picture has come to pass for so many people...my friend is one of them.
I have been let down so much in my life by people...maybe right now I just need to believe in something...maybe right now...I just really need to believe that someone...one of these readers has to be right....how could they all be saying the same things? i don't feel like I feed them information in order for them to feed it back to me....I'm sorry...but I just want to be hopeful...I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life. I just want someone to love me as I love them.
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Oooh Greengrlx, i know how you feel. If hope is something you need to help you climb back up again then do that. But just don't lose yourself in the process. Reading with more readers and asking for second, third and fourth opinion is NOT the answer. If you want to believe in the final outcome that other reads are telling you, then wait it out. Getting another reading will not move up the process. You know that, and we all know that. The best thing you can do is time. Time to give to yourself to heal and be YOU again. And in time, the outcome will unfold itself.
*hugz!!!!*
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LOL - But a warning - she is BRUTALLY honest and you have to take her with a grain of salt. But for seeing a 3rd party she is tops and non-judgmental and she is quick. The rest of it I'm not so sure about. I literally only call her to check on that............But I've also heard she is AWESOME if you loose something. She has a funky way of seeing things. I will also tell you she firmly doesn't believe there is only one person for us, she won't paint a rosy picture, she is VERY honest and really just tells you what she can see and then sends you on your merry way to figure it all out. If you are looking for someone to make you feel better - she isn't the one - at all - lol.
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I'm 39 years old. I have been hurt a lot...and I have learned a lot from my experiences...do you think that I am proud of where I am in my life and do you think I feel proud about calling psychics and spending what little money I have on them....No...Not at all....I'm so disappointed in myself.But everything in my gutt is telling me that I will hear from him...that we will be together...and I would hate to be wrong when the feeling in my gut is so strong.
There are plenty of positive reviews...where the big picture has come to pass for so many people...my friend is one of them.
I have been let down so much in my life by people...maybe right now I just need to believe in something...maybe right now...I just really need to believe that someone...one of these readers has to be right....how could they all be saying the same things? i don't feel like I feed them information in order for them to feed it back to me....I'm sorry...but I just want to be hopeful...I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life. I just want someone to love me as I love them.
I've used similar words. It feels like no-one understands what you're going through. We do! I used bill money to pay for readings and then kicked myself when I had no food. I just want you to know that there IS someone who knows what you're feeling right now, and that you can find someone to love you as you love them. And you'll see it when you're ready. This is so much bigger than just getting readings.
I can feel your despair when I read your words. It's not easy to get out of, but you need to be strong enough to make that first step. You're not ready now, but when you are, read back to some of the replies in this thread and you can turn to any one of these people to help you get through it.
I won't say any more, because it will come off as though I'm bashing psychics and that's not what this board was intended for. But I can't not say anything. My grandfather always says to us," I have already been where you're still going." I didn't have anyone whose story I could look at when I was in my "psychic phase" but now you do have someone whose experience you can look at. You have several someones, in fact.
As for having something to believe in, believe in yourself. You deserve so much more than this and you'll realise it soon enough.
hugsxx
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Also - with Gail, I don't usually use her for future relationship predictions. I tend to call Jacqueline and William for that. Last time I called, she immediately said, you are calling because you are concerned about a 3rd party, say his name and your name 3 times, then she tells me what she sees. Then after you can ask questions but I find the beginning part of her reading the most accurate.
I've called her about other relationship stuff and have had mixed results.
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CoCo: Definitely don't want anybody to make me feel better lol/ I just want to know how she sees my ex and his "gf" and if she sees them together and all that then I'll take it for what it is and completely move on.
Green: Yes, we all feel your pain! I've been there and others have too. I know it's hard to hear people say "stay strong,stay focused" etc because when your feeling like the world is ending it matters none. I felt like that for months when my bff would say that or my mom would...they said they understood but they didn't in my opinion. Sure we all go through heartache so they can relate in terms of that, but the heartache I felt and I know your feeling,not everyone feels. I wish I can say something to make it all better :( I do agree with a comment or two below though, getting more readings won't make the progress come faster. Maybe lay off the readings for a bit,deactivate your fb (a very good idea,trust me!) and try to focus on other things IF you can but I also know it's easier said than done :). If you can,maybe take a mini vacay with friends to get your mind off things..it's probably to soon to date but when you get that feeling that you might want to just try it,do it! I've been saying to myself lately: "Universe, I let _________ unto you and wish them health and happiness" I do it when I start thinking about him...Its helped a little bit.
If nothing else though, wait until these predictions come to pass (communication and what not) before getting another reading AND vow to yourself if it doesn't come to pass, you won't talk to them anymore.
Hugs&Kisses from Cali!! Feel better!
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csj - I agree with you. Psychics aren't the answer. Somehow we have to learn to just use them as an occasional guide. We aren't meant to know everything nor know everything that is ahead. Much of what we experience is some sort of life lesson - including Faith.
Liam once wrote - psychics are predicting probabilities. Nothing is 100%.
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It seems a lot of us are very skeptical about our readings lately. I know I am. Reality has set in and I am proud to say that I have not read with a psychic in almost two weeks. Thats a pretty good record for me. I plan to spend my money on me now, not to someone to give me grand stories and false hope of something to come that most likely never will. I will be the first to say that the psychics have picked up on personality traits and some small things have happened that they predicted but not the big one that I called for in the first place.
Its much better to have a forum such as this to interact with others that have been through or are going through a heartbreak. Please know that I am a pretty good listener and will be here for each and everyone of you that feel you need to just talk. Just PM me here and let me know. I am usually online everynight and will always check in here to see what is going on. I love talking to you all on chat when we happen to be here at the same time, but I noticed that there is also an option to chat one on one privately.
Anyway, I just hope we can all find our inner strength and steer away from psychic readings except for maybe once or twice a year just for a general reading. Thats fun and there is no reason to not have those kind of readings as long as we keep our perspective, lol.
Wishing everyone the best of luck and hope we all achieve our dreams.
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Very true 4ever&PT2...wanted to call Gail or Andie tonight but guess I won't lol
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LLL - I read with Jacqueline today for the first time in 2 weeks and was just sitting here thinking, I would love another reading tonight and Andie is CALLING MY NAME. But I'm not doing it. LOL
Greengrlx - If you have a success story from your friend do you mind sharing it? I'm sure all of us could use alittle "boost". :)
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Lol!!!! I know! Its so hard not to sometimes lol!
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does anyone know any psychic that has a long term prediction come true. I cant find one feedback on california psychic that stated the big prediction came true
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Positive: I have seen them written on CP...I have seen many actually.
PT2: do you accept private messages?
I have 2 friends that have had predictions come to pass.
My one friend has been using Cp for about a year and she calls mainly for work Her all time favorite is Jean...her time lines may be off...but her predictions come to pass in regards to work and even her husbands work. i think career is the hardest to predict because work is fact and you can't bs and come up with excuses as to why this and that didn't happen.
Jean and Jacqueline both told her that will be traveling within a certain period of time...and she did not have intentions to travel...and well...she will now be traveling right in the time frame that they have predicted.
My other friend has been using them for many years...she suggested Cp to me. She has had more good readings than bad. She has had many readings...at times she hits them hard and at times...like now...she just calls doesn't call as much.
Her favs are: Seha, Ciarra, Kinsey, Jesse, Miriam, Uli (these are the ones that I remember)....she has read with Anasela and Jean and have liked them also....there are others that she has read with in the past but are no longer on CP.
A few years ago she had a reading with someone no longer on CP and she told her that she will meet her husband outside and he will be wearing a bright colored shirt....well...this was years ago...and she never would have thought anything of it...she said it was the most bizarre reading...but all came to pass....years later...but i was with her....and she met someone outside on the bike path...and he was wearing a bright yellow shirt...they are together and will most def be married (uli predicted him as well)
She has had many work things come to pass...and most of them were correct in regards to other love issues along the way.
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WOW! I hope that happens for me Haileyn. Congrats on your final outcome coming to pass :)
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Haileyn, who did you read with that gave you the predictions of getting back together? Was there one that was the most accurate for you? At last, we have a happy story on this board. It's been a while...I feel that we should at least get SOMETHING right so that our money doesn't go in vain.
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I read with London, Michelle and Anasela during that time period, they all said he would come back. London and Michelle gave me time lines that came and went every month and their readings were pretty general imo, things like "I see your connection is still strong, just hang in there until xxxx" type of things. Anasela said fall and got a few details correct here and there so out of the 3 I would say Anasela but at the same time she would insist on this or that happening that I know no way in hell it would and it hasn't so she can't prove me wrong (almost 1 year later so it's enough time to see if it'll pass). She also got my feelings wrong, she said I wanted to move out of my house, which I don't. I can't verify the feelings of others but certainly can verify my own. So I guess it's all 50/50, they probably can't get details correct but final outcome was correct, all that matters.
Backtrack 2 years ago when I broke up with SM for the very first time, Randall was the most accurate and I mean really accurate about what would happen and it happened like he said. He's no longer with CP so I don't think mentioning him would help... He was the most authentic reader I came across, in terms of the whole psychic experience and he didn't sugar coat either so it wasn't always good news. In fact he made me cry a couple of times because of the bad news.
I can tell you something though, Michelle really sucks. I don't think she's ever gotten anything correct now that I think about it.
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MAN! That sucks Randall isn't on there anymore :(
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LiveLaughLove: My bf and I broke up a few times and when we did she would say we'll get back together by this and that time. The first time we broke up, she said wait a week, he'll call and talk about something other than the relationships and then by a certain month you'll be back together like nothing happened. Everything unfolded as she said, with time frames correct. The next break up, I honestly don't remember what happened with what she said....I know she was wrong on there being other women in the future but I think she said we'll be back together, although I don't remember when. Either way, we got back together. I remember that my 2nd reading with her wasn't as good. It's not that she wasn't accurate (except the other women thing) but she seemed more vague. I called her recently and she told me that she doesn't really see marriage with us but that he's not the kind to break up with me either so it just might stretch on...I don't know if I believe that. Also, without my reminding her, she said how even if we do break up it's like hitting a reset button, we just start things over again...which is what has been happening. Also, I would call like every half year or so to see what's going on, especially when I would suspect a break up and she would say no, it's not happening...and it hasn't. so, overall, i found Tisha to be accurate. First time was the best though, she was so spot on with predictions.
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Cool thanks Illumine! I'll give her try today after work if she's on!
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Green - Yes, I think I'm set up to get PM's. I went through a bit of a paranoia stage with this web site and disabled it but I think I'm good to go now.
LLL - Interested to know how Tisha was :)
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I only read in here maybe once a month or so I've been so busy but I felt compelled to write my input here on Randall. I read with him for over 2 years. Yes he comes across as genuine...he is not. He's manipulative and lacks character. Not one thing he told me ever happened. He contacts clients off of CP and takes money from them. I know that for a fact. Psychics like Randall give psychics a bad name. I wish him well and hope he has his health. But a true lightworker he was not. I had to say something because no real psychic should be compared to Randall.
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I'm sorry that happened to you aef2929, he just worked out really well for me.
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I had tried Tisha a while ago based on a friend's recommendation. She was extremely accurate with her in regards to a work issue.
When I called her...she seemed like she was mad that I was calling through...I actually felt very uncomfortable...she was very quick and short and I was thrown off because it is not what I was expecting.
At the time I wasn't hearing from my ex and I had asked her if I would and where she sees this going...she said No...I am not going to hear from him and no we would not be together...I was a little taken back and asked another question and she told me that he is out of my life etc...it was really strange..i was very uncomfortable...i must have read with her for not even 5 min.
Everything was no...negative...and not gonna happen information...i had asked her one other question, I can't remember what it was...but I do remember that she was wrong with that also.
I did hear from him...a few days after the reading actually...and our communication had picked up and was on a really good flow...and then I saw him in June....(granted now we are not in communication and he has a trashy looking gf)
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PT2: Okay! So Tisha said that she still feels the energy btwn my ex and I but no contact would happen for another 8 months to a year!! She said he needs to go through this chapter in life,admit defeat and come to terms with his real feelings for me and that's when things will come full circle with us.
That's the longest timeline I've gotten!! Just for contact too,wow crazy!
She also mentioned a move to another state or city for my job but staying with the same company. Hear about it in Nov and moving in jan. There is a facility in Austin that I am interested in transferring too if possible (I'm in Cali). I love Austin and would love to move down there. So that made sense especially since my boss said "hey you know you can always transfer to Austin if you want to move down there" about a week ago.
Lastly, I asked her about anybody coming into my life soon, she said yea but probably when I move.She said she feels someone around me who's interested in me but their energy doesn't interest me basically lol. She said my ex J still thinks about me, is confused and gets frustrated when thinking of me so his energy is still connected to me and vise versa therefore finding someone to match that energy is becoming a challenge with me right now (very true). She said either the move or J coming back will start up my love life again.
Again, timelines are so far out! Except hearing of the job opp in Austin (Nov)...the kicker is the the 8 months from a year from now?! GEEZE!
Also, had a reading with Gail (don't know if anybody saw my post) but she wasn't good for me. Didn't get anything right other than the 3rd party. Everything else she said was 100% false in regards to him so I am not going to believe what she said.
I think I'm done calling CP..I wanted to call Andie but she's not on until 2 and my plane leaves for Vegas at 2 so maybe I"ll call her when I get back..but Ima take a break and work on letting go of my ex so he comes bk to me faster like Cosmo did!! Everyone have a good weekend! Hope I win big :))!
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Have a great time in Vegas!
I am trying to let go as well. Not with the thoughts of him coming back...but I just really need to for my mental and heart health. I'm so angry in regards to everything. I don't know if he was honest with me...I question that...but at the time I believed him. I'm questioning myself and how I could have been so wrong in regards to everything.
I have a reading scheduled with Nina to follow up on some things. She keeps changing her schedule last minute which is really frustrating.
I read with Miriam and I liked her reading...first time and she was very thorough and went along with what the others have said.
I read with Deejay this morning and I just don't know what I think...she kept going on at first about the economy going bad again and he is really stressing about finances and everyone is stressing about finances...etc...(which can apply to everyone...but that is just not one of his stresses) I felt like i had to provide info...i was asking questions and i just wasn't getting answers and i was getting frustrated...she asked if there was another woman and i said yes...she told me that he sees it as a serioius relationship and he has introduced her to friends and is on the fence on introducing her to family...(the only thing that she got right was that he has a family gathering over the holiday weekend) but who knows...maybe he will bring her...who knows...at this point i just don't care. she said that i put too much pressure on him and he felt trapped (which is not true...i never did...he would bring up things and i would say...if you want to talk about it we can...but we aren't there yet...) i never pressured him..and she said it was the vibe i was giving off...but i just don't think that either...she also said stuff about his friends relationships and divorces that he had to watch his friends go thru etc....none of his friends are divorced.
So who knows what to think of it....but at this point...i just feel done.
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Thanks!!
WOW! So off!! Crazy!! I think its a good plan to start letting go, each day will get easier when you decide to do that :)
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At the moment I am very well aware that I am torturing myself...I keep checking her page and it is not a good thing....but I am giving myself until Sunday and then I am done (and I don’t mean Sammi the Sweatheart done)...I just feel like there is something that doesn't make sense...I am not sure if I am just looking to prove these readers right or wrong.
Tuesday I was on Youtube looking up something and decided that I was going to look up the video link to see if it was still on there and it was…I accidentally hit the mouse and I see that she made a comment. I was so mad...it's his friend's account...and none of his friends had left comments...it is a little weird...and I basically don't like it...it made it feel too real and it made me just think these readers are wrong.
Today she posted on her page something along the lines of how she is counting down the hours until she sees her Russian man and have greek food and partake in some dutch vodka...tonight can't come fast enough....one of the comments from one of her friends is how she is so in love and its so cute etc.
I don't know if it's him and I don't know what to think. When you ask him what he is...he doesn't really think of himself as anything...he says that he's Jewish...but he is not religious at all and neither is his family...so he doesn't feel a connection to the Jewish culture or religion...we had a lengthy discussion about it when we were together about Ethnic backgrounds...he said that he guesses that he's Russian...but again..so far removed that he just doesn't think of himself as Russian at all.....but he absolutely loves Greek Food...but he doesn't do Vodka...
He is down the shore this week...and he loves loves loves the beach...he also has a wedding in upstate NY this weekend that he is not looking forward to because he has to lose his beach time (even though it was only 1 day) but he was more annoyed about the 3 or 4 hr car drive...well...i can't see him cutting his vacation in half to go and be with a girl....but if he is...then that means that he is making efforts...and you only make efforts for the people that you really like no?
I know that I am making this so much harder on myself than it needs to be...I guess I think that the more I see...the more sense this will make...sense of what? I am not sure? Maybe who's right or wrong?
I had a callback scheduled with Nina for 2 days now and I finally got on with her a little bit ago. I just don’t know what to think. She remembered speaking to me and she explained things a little more and she gave me some more details and she sticks to her time frame. She made me feel better about some things.
I asked her about them being together…and she said that they are not together…that is not how he sees it…and she is definitely looking at this a lot more than he is…she described her a little more and talked to me about more posts etc (I didn’t mention it to her until afterwards) she said in a few weeks all string of communication will be removed…I will not see any more posts or traces of her.
Nina also picked up that I was thinking of sending him an email again…that was true. Tuesday night I was very upset and I just hate what I am letting this do to me…so I wanted to send him a “Good-bye” Email…basically asking him not to reach out to me anymore because it hurts me too much because he means something to me and I will never know what his intentions are…but I basically will always want more. I didn’t do…and I am not going to do it. But she highly suggests that I don’t…I would regret it.
She was very nice…and she did make me feel better…I want to believe what she says…I really do…but I want to believe in reality and not fantasy and right now I don’t know what’s what.
The one thing that I always felt when I was with him was hope…every time I hear from him…I just feel hope…maybe I afraid to let go because if I do I will be letting go of “hope”.
I know in time…things will be better and I will feel better…but I wish it was now.
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LLL Good Luck in Vegas!! If you win big you can let your ex know how well off you without him and then make him suffer a bit for what he put you through. I know I sound spiteful... Maybe that's why things don't work out for me.. hmmm
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gg you are so right. Wtf do they see and how come soo many of them are so wrong. I stopped calling a long time ago when l found out the guy who is my sm had a baby.
False hope is the worst. Save your $. It doesnt hurt to just wait for it to happen without calling (if thats what you choose to do) I know someone on here said they waited 6 years for anything to happen. Well l'm 26. By then who knows where l will be.
I use to bash people for being so negative but now l see why. Nothing happens! Life is too short to worry about one person who may never come bqack until 6 years. I refue to pin hopes on psychic readings to direct my life. YOu're basically paying money to be told what you want to hear and then when something bad happens it hurts more!
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I agree Green...they all were wrong ...
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Nina's reading made me feel better yesterday. She was so confident and she just kept saying..."I know you are not believing a word that I am saying...but trust me please...I have seen many people in your position and it will come together...this will happen. It is right there. If I did not see permanent relationship...marriage...i would have told you to walk away."
But I hear what you are saying CJ...I know what you mean...I read in a another of your posting how we are all waiting for our exs and for the big picture...i guess I didn't tihnk about that...I had read thru tons of posts and the one thing that I picked up is all the readers say "do not contact him"...I didn't see it until you wrote it...All of us on here were told that our exs will be coming back into our lives etc. WOW! That just made me super angry and has left me with many hard doubts.
Is there anyone on here that were told the ex will not be coming back and someone new will be coming in and you are waitng for your someone new?
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I originally started calling CP over an ex-boyfriend. Miss Krystal said he isn't coming back but someone new is right around the corner who is being sent in as my next LRT. She even described him to a "t" - and she was right (it was 3-4 months). It was SM. What she didn't tell me then was all of the problems SM has and how hard it would be. Right after I met him I called her and she told me - no commitment for a long time and we have a rocky road but it is worth it. At the time everything was great and I was thinking - she has no clue. And here I am and she was right - at least about that. I don't call her anymore and I don't even know why. I guess because other stuff was off. :(
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Thanks PT for that...I don't reall know what I'm doing.
her page has gone to super private this morning...but made public that she is in a relationship...which she didn't have before...or if she did it wasn't public. so now I really won't know what's going on. but as of this morning...she is in a relationship and i am assuming its with him and that just breaks my heart into more pieces.
I'm not going to check anymore...but i just don't know what i am doing...am i looking to prove someone wrong? or am i just looking to hold onto hope?
Nina said that all strings of communication will be cut and a few weeks i will not see a trace of her any where. When i spoke to her yesterday she started with me...she knew that i wanted to send him a big letter (email) and she said please do not send it...you will regret it and you wil not be able to take it back...please tell me you didn't (all of that was true) she also told me that this girl is putting her mark on everything that is attached to him..and so far yes ....she has. But she kept saying it is not what i think...it is not serious etc...and then this morning..."in a relationship" ??? that doesn't make me feel good :-(
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some of us were told new people were coming and that time past too lol.
Do I believe in psychics (idk) but I believe theres a lot of good empaths but now that theres a forum where people can honestly say what has sufaced and what hasnt whereas we only see and hear the good on cp, its so hard to believe that they can really see the future.
I dont want to sound bitter but nothing is happening for anyone for me to put my full trust in this. I think its really sad bc a lot of us look for that piece of hope and we seek it from them so that we feel like we shouldnt give up, but when something horrible happens that we didnt not expect it puts us in a bad and vulnerable place
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I agree Cj..I was told my ex was coming around sept oct and one even said end of yr because he will soon realize that this isn't the relationship he wants....comes to terms with his real feelings about me etc.
Well....I spoke with him last night and he said: " im over you. Please stop talking to me. Ive moved on and am in love with some. I want to spend the rest of my life with her"
Guess that's it. Deleted my acct from CP and Keen. Im done.
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I think most of us are coming to terms with reality. Especially those who's been with this forum since the beginning. They are the most accurate in terms of these 'predictions'. I'm going to comment on ALL the CPs i read with tonight...the REAL testimonials so that any new members who wonders in to our forum with the same heartache can move on faster than those of us, who have spent thousands of dollars later to get to where we are.
I think the most accurate reading you can get in terms of your ex is, well....call him up and ask. Instead of asking psychics to hear those pretty words that you cannot validate. The best way to validate their feelings....is to ask them directly instead of waiting for weeks, months and sometimes years for 'contact, reaching out etc.'.
LLL, you have your answer so now it's time to move forward. I know some who are still in denial will say things like 'oooh it's free will, time works differently in the spirit world, he's not thinking with his heart, XX said he still loves me etc. they can't be 100% correct, they connect differently with different people' Or we'll try to convince ourselves that 'the new girl is totally not his type, she's a rebound it's not going to last'. What that's doing it's just creating excuses for ourselves. Seriously, if they ALL say he's coming back and he tells you point blank 'no i've moved on'...are you going to write it off as 'oh, maybe the psychics i read with didn't connect with me'. Seriously, if you read with almost all the readers on CPs (at least the tops that are mentioned on this board) and NONE OF THEIR PREDICTIONS ARE TRUE, does that mean you don't connect with ANY of them? I don't believe that. Out of 100...there's got to be one that you connect with and if they ALL say he's coming back, what other excuse are you doing to say to yourself? That that particular psychic was 'off' when she/he read with you? I'm directly this post to EVERYONE to just wake up and ask yourselves. The most recent posts we have are the TRUTH. And truth is.....they are WRONG. I'm not saying are not gifted. People like Uli who sees the present so clearly there's no denying it HOWEVER, predictions of the future are key and it's not working people. So why are we still reading with those who tells us what we know already.
If you don't like this post and thinks it's psychic bashing then don't read it and don't comment on it. I just want people to wake up and realize that THIS is reality. The sooner you come to terms and let go of the past, the faster you can heal and let TIME be on your side.
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OMG LLL - that happened last night??? Are you on your trip??
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Coco: I agree...not making excuses for him. He told me what's going on so I have to force must to move on now. I just wonder if those psychics even see present. Why tell me he's still thinking about me and cares about me when what he says prove different? That's what pisses me off. I mean I guess Gail was correct even tho what she said wasn't true but she said he was gonna marry the girl he's with now. Im done with them though. No pt in wasting money or energy anymore. Could my ex just be a asshole and just saying that (my friend who read it said it sounded as if the girl sent the text) sure he was could but im not gonna sit around and wait to see...I've always said you only have to tell me once you don't want me and im out of your life forever so that's what will happen.
PT2: yea happened last night. my friend and I were talking about him last night and I started crying and told her how much I missed him and loved him and she told me to hit him up and let him know how I feel so we constructed a text that didn't sound like I was begging but sounded sincere and that was the reply....so well for the happy ending right?
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The psychic info is nice - when accurate - but we have to lives our lives as if we don't have the insight. So LLL maybe the girlfriend sent it, or who knows what, but we have to live our lives assuming he did it. If he didn't, then he is a dumb ass for letting her do it.
The psychics say we can mess up predictions by not living the lives we are supposed to live because we know the outcome. Who knows if any of that is true. All I know is you must be hurting right now. :-[
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LLL...
I am so sorry to hear that.
Right now I can't help but cry.
You can't think about who sent the text.
It will drive you crazy.
Who knows? Just down the road, you might be in that different place you were told you were gonna be.
Just live your life. You are a beautiful girl with a kind and warm heart. His loss. Remember, you are the prize, not him.
I hope you continue to do new things to keep yourself busy.
I wish you the absolute best.
I hope this reaches you.
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PT2:yea true doesn't matter who sent it. I got the msg loud and clear. I was rely hurt last night but today i'm okay. Just gonna focus on my vacay and deal with my emotions when I get home. It hurts me that I wont ever be with him but I shouldn't be too hurt cuz alot of things don't work in my favor anyway so should be use to it by now.
Charlie: thanks love. Really appreciate it:))
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And what's funny is shea and jacqueline the most requested by this thread were wrong obviously. My situation was a lost cause I wish I would had just left it alone or those two would had told me the truth....
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i don't mind if they made mistakes. what is most hateful is whether they say the same thing to everyone, ie ex will come back.
did anyone here ever get a negative reading from top psychics like Jac, nina, or uli ?
accurate or not aside, now the question is are they even ethical? do they say the same "will come back" prediction to everybody? it seems like so now with our most recent posts.
i had a couple of them from keen that said it is over for me, but they didn't pick up anything right on the currently situation either. so i think they are fake. then CP psychics picked up on the current situation real well, but now i am facing the question if they are ethical or not. ok, i am not worked up, i am just more towards curious whether this whole business is a scam. but over time, with more people contributing to this forum, we should be able to find out the answer in future.
but if they are reading these forum, they may start to give negative predictions. lol
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But there is a difference btwn making a mistake and being wrong on 95% of what you say ..
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LLL!
What the hell are you doing on this forum?!
It's Friday! You should be making plans with your girlfriends to go out and do something new!
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Yeah LLL - Go try and have alittle fun. All of this will be here when you get back. Enjoy the distraction now while you have one. Maybe a big margarita would help alittle too?
xxoo
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LLL: I am so sorry! That really just sucks...I am so sorry. But you took the chance...and you found out for yourself. I wish it would have worked out differently...but hopefully there is someone coming your way soon that will rock your world and put any thoughts of him to rests...I hope you are having a great time in Vegas :D
I'm a 50/50 at this moment...I know I am trying to rationalize everything...someone asked me today what does my gut tell me? and I couldn't answer. When ever I get a strong feeling in my gut i am always right...and I just never felt it over between us...and when we had dinner...i had such positive feelings (and nothing that readers told me even came to play in any of my thoughts or feelings) i just went with the moment and followed my heart...and I really thought I was going to have a different outcome...i came straight out and asked questions...and I just never got my answers.
I am so confused and I have so much mixed feelings that I just don't have a feeling in my gut...it all just feels so numb inside.
My friend that reads with CP regularly has her regulars and she sticks with them and they are pretty right on with her. One of them even told her that in 2011 we were going to see a lot of natural disasters and said the east coast was going to be hit hard with a hurricane in late august. This reader has always been right with her.
My other friend called me today to tell me that her predictions came to pass. She loves Jean. She calls mainly for work. Jean told her that business was going to pick up and she was going to be busy in August...and she is very busy right now...6 or 7 projects all at once. She also had asked about a client...if he was happy with her work and if he will be asking her for me....Jean said yes...but not for 2 months and he will have 2 projects for you...and that is exactly how it happened. She also told her that she will be taking a trip in September...and she is not going away with her husband for a week to destress.
Nina keeps telling me that I am making it out to be more than what it is between the 2 of them (my ex and this girl) and maybe I am. I feel like I was just meant to see it for a reason. She told me that this girl is putting her mark on everything that is attached to my ex...and that is true too...she picked up that I wanted to write and send an "i'm letting go of you" email...which is so true (i didn't tell anyone on cp) She just keeps telling me this girl is irrelevant and she just keeps stressing it.
But when I saw her write "in a relationship" this morning...it just made me feel numb inside. I didn't cry (which is a big step lol) I actually laughed and said to myself "oh...i guess he finally figured out with my second email that i know about ther" I don't know...maybe he asked her to make her page private...or maybe it has absolutely nothing to do with him...I will never know...and I have to let it go. But if it is about him...i can't see Nina's prediction coming to pass...he won't reach out to me.
I guess I am the one that is irrelevant...i am the one that is making it all to be more than what it is between me and him...if he was interested or had a care or thought about me...he would have reached out and made a move. If he had a heart or cared about me...he would have responded to my email and very nicely said "I'm sorry S...I just can't give you what you want. I just don't feel the same way about you...I wish you well blah blah blah" but no...I just got nothing.
I stand by that this girl is not his type at all and that he is 110billion% out of his element...but it is still his choice...and he chose to be with her and not with me.
I have asked him "what are your intentions with me? what is going on here with you and I?" and I just didn't get anything...he just stared at me in silence...and basically told me "we dont' know what the future holds" really? future? I am 39 years old and you are 40 years old...there just isn't much future time left. He then hugs me and doesn't let me go....what is that...why?
I just wanted hope....I just wanted to hear the truth....I just wanted a happy ending....all I did was come up empty.
I know I am going to be ok. Will I find what I am looking for? I don't know...I'm not sure it exists....but no matter what...I know I will be ok even though I am a lot more poor since discovering CP lol
I always wish for happy endings...I wish for all of us to find love and laughter and happiness.
I wish that somone on here will be able to prove the readers right and I hope that all our disappointments are lifted from our hearts and from our spirits.
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Hi all, I posted about a month ago under "My Story". Anyway, I check in here quite often to see, or rather hang on to that last glimmer of hope, that something happened for someone. It's become more and more a reality check.
Lightme: I do not call them anymore, but, Yes I have read with all three that you had mentioned about 3 years ago when I first started calling about the first guy. And WOW, the things they picked up.... I had only called for about 6 months, but I NEVER had a negative reading....from ANYONE on CP, or any other site that I tried. And if you read my original post, NOTHING and I mean NOTHING ever happened regarding him. Never heard from him, never saw him, nothing. Bumped into him a few months ago, and he's still with the girl that he left me for 3 1/2 years later. And quite happy to boot. Umm, excuse me but he was supposed to be my destiny, my SM, the guy I was supposed to marry, and let's not forget how IN LOVE with me he was. YES, alot of them do have a gift. They said things that they couldn't have possibly known, so specific to your situation. And NO they are not ethical. Well, there are about 3 that I would trust. And they're from the 2nd time I started calling. But that's it. They know the game, how to get you hooked.
If there are about 200 people registered here on this board, and I'm sure all 200 were told yes, it's going to work, yes, he'll be back, blah blah blah, just think of all the MONEY that they made just off of the people here? The repeat callers, when we're upset, or a timeline has come and gone, or some little bs thing happened, You call back and call back and call back. I'm not condemning anyone, I've been there. Everyone has to come to grips with their reality in their own time. It just pisses me off, not just the money spent, but the heartache too. It's only up to ourselves to stop the madness, and learn how to deal with life as it is. Not to pay someone by the minute to hear fairytales.
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Healer - I agree cards with a gifted reader is more accurate. They might not pick up on the small details that a no-tools can but their timing and overall assessment seems to be more accurate. Good to hear from you. :)
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thanks Bella so much for sharing, wow this is a good post, although not something we would like to hear.
sigh.... i think i would conclude no point calling afterall. my objective is to have real honest guidance, not this bs. imagine the money we pay, is more expensive than seeing a doc. $7.50 per minute !!! when sometimes i would think and think for two weeks before i get the $20 lipstick!
maybe some local psychics would be more ethical. i still believe there are real ones, just how to find them.
actually if they can really see, why is it so difficult to tell us it is over? if they are accurate, we would still call them when we are in a new relationship, or in other matters.
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why is it so difficult to tell us it is over? if they are accurate, we would still call them when we are in a new relationship, or in other matters.
That's what I can't understand either! If I call and ask about this new guy in my life, why do they keep saying the old guy is the one and he will be back? They've already hooked me so why wouldn't I continue to call them about a developing (or not) relationship?
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LLL Im so sorry. :'( thats not a way to treat someone. I know how hurt you may feel. Just focus on what steps you will take next to move forward. It will be hard for a while.
Bella- YOU ARE SPOT ON!
Im so happy a lot of people are seeing that its a waste of money to keep getting false hope. I t hink if many of us never started with cp or psy callinig we probably wouldve not only save a lot of $ but also moved on a long time ago and saved us some heartache
I want the best for everyone here. I hope everyone gets the best and never settle for what someone elses definition of what that is.
L & L
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I astill can't believe he said he wanted to be with her for the rest of his life....guess what we had wasn't.as strong as I thought....just makes me want to cry...damn seha and jacqueline for telling me he'll be back...back to my depression I go.
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LLL: Again I am so sorry. Give your self up to a certain time to cry and sulk and then try to let it go. It really does suck and I am so sorry...I wish they were right for you. But the good thing is...you now know and you its a good thing you found out now rather than later. Heal your heart and spirit. Good things will come your way...they just have to. Big hugs your way! :)
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Thanks green :))
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i just remember a year ago i spoke with charlotte and she told me that my friend and i will not be back together... that was a wierd since i am custom to every reader saying we will. But we both move on with our lives......Now i end speaking to different psychic about another relationship.
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Guess that's who I should had called if I wanted the real truth
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LLL, i am sorry to hear what you went thru and i feel and know your pain. but did he not tell you it was a clean break when he broke up with you? or he left you in limbo?
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I broke up with him...
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One thing y'all don't know about me and dudes know about me until it's to late is all you have to do is tell me one time im cool off you and im out the picture for ever. If he had made a clean break regardless of who broke up with who I wouldn't be in this situation. Previous posts would give some nsight of how this situation came to how it was....that's all.im going.to say on that subject. As a matter of fact I really don't want to discuss him anymore.
I hope those who still believe get what they want out of y'all situation. My luck as always been shitty so at this pt i'm not surprised about what happened.
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your reply is good enough, no you don't need to go into details.
everything will be ok, vent and write here whenever you need. we are here for you.
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Green
First of all, I am so sorry. This is horrible and I can't even imagine how you feel. But I do have something to add and everyone can disagree if they want.
I feel as though whoever you read with owes you an answer. I don't remember who you read with but I think it is with some of the CP "heavy hitters". Since you have money on the account, I think you are owed an answer. You can always call after the reading and get a refund (meaning back into your CP account).
I've heard when they can't see the other person it is because the connection is so weak that the 3rd party is insignificant. However, they should have seen it (in my opinion) and if he has her on facebook......well......how can they miss that.
So on behalf of all of us, maybe you can call and get an answer and share with us who you've read with recently.
Best of luck - I'm so sorry - all of this SUCKS
big hugs
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the ethical readers will give you an answer and apologize but the rest will remind you of that shelter of 'entertainment only' and ask you for more money and to 'keep quiet or else'.
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I just read through this entire thread waiting for an update from optx88. Was any of it true? Is he with her, did they split?
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I just read through this entire thread waiting for an update from optx88. Was any of it true? Is he with her, did they split?
This thread is pretty old. I'm sure if her original post was wrong she would have updated it.
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Or if it was right! So maybe since she hasn't updated it, they all slipped into some sort of time warpy blackhole, since it was neither wrong nor right?
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i have been reading with psychics for like 5 years now .. this is the first time I found a place where the reviews are sort of real.. HONESTLY don't know if they are real.... for instance I spoke to numerous psychics about an ex ( then boyfriend and they all (megan, abigail, demi, said he was going to commit to me except for gina rose from CP ) she was a bitch and i hung up and got my money back he said I would meet someone in the summer and he would have blue eyes .. guess what she was correct the ex broke up and said he didnt want to commit and i did meet this boy with blue eyes and i called Gina rose again and she said I would marry him and guess WHAT ?? HE BROKE MY HEART !!!!! so there I dont know what you believe any more