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Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => Keen.com => Topic started by: peppie on October 21, 2017, 04:49:11 PM
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i've realized nobody can help you better than those who have suffered through it. i actually tried to talk to someone more professional about my bad calling habits but i notice people really don't understand and it's quite embarrasing to even try to explain what this problem is. finally, it's viewed as something very very bad psychologically and i don't need somebody looking at me like i'm a freak show.
for those of you who stopped after persisting calling, you can write down what helped you to stop and how you cope?
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i've realized nobody can help you better than those who have suffered through it. i actually tried to talk to someone more professional about my bad calling habits but i notice people really don't understand and it's quite embarrasing to even try to explain what this problem is. finally, it's viewed as something very very bad psychologically and i don't need somebody looking at me like i'm a freak show.
for those of you who stopped after persisting calling, you can write down what helped you to stop and how you cope?
For me, i had to seriously look at the reason I was calling and then focused on why I couldn't stop obsessing and calling. It took a very long time to get to this point. Basically, nothing ever came true from the readings and I was so miserable, I desperately wanted to change. I started working on myself and trusting God instead of psychics. Its not easy to stop and I fell back into it many times. I would go a little bit without calling and would start feeling better, then I would call again and get sucked right back into the pattern. I would suggest trying to figure out what is making you hang on which leads to calling. Then start trying to change it. Its not normal to call psychics all the time. Its not normal to obsess about something and not let go. The admittance of that is what started my healing. And yes, its healing :)
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Before that I thought if I kept trying one day I would find the right reader. Now I realize even the best ones are prone to mixing things up and it is dangerous to rely on anything they say.
I also made myself read through notes I had taken on past calls, embarrassing though it was to see how many calls I made and how ridiculous some of the readings were, that I paid good money for and got little or nothing out of. ...And reading it again made me realize how wrong they were, how wasteful it was and just how much I was out of my mind to even listen to it much less pay for such garbage.
Yes... this helps me... I mean I have pages and pages of notes. PAGES. what's helpful is that in this current situation I am in I noticed peopel who said something before were saying the same thing exactly again but they were wrong last time. It made me dump those readers and really understand that finding a reader who is actually right is pretty rare. I think I'll do what you said.
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... I couldn't stop obsessing and calling. It took a very long time to get to this point. Basically, nothing ever came true from the readings and I was so miserable, I desperately wanted to change.
I'm at this point now. The worst part is I feel I can't tell anyone. Like I stated I told someone "more professional", but that was a more ostricizing and hurtful experience more than anything else and I won't do it again.
I think the reason I do it is because I am in such a bad situation and I have no option to leave so I live in persistent fear of what's going to happen. I know I should just "let go and let God", but there's that notion that if I know what someone is going to do I can stay a step ahead and protect myself.
If you have any more advice about what worked for you, Baypark, please keep 'em coming.
Oh and thanks :)
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... I couldn't stop obsessing and calling. It took a very long time to get to this point. Basically, nothing ever came true from the readings and I was so miserable, I desperately wanted to change.
I'm at this point now. The worst part is I feel I can't tell anyone. Like I stated I told someone "more professional", but that was a more ostricizing and hurtful experience more than anything else and I won't do it again.
I think the reason I do it is because I am in such a bad situation and I have no option to leave so I live in persistent fear of what's going to happen. I know I should just "let go and let God", but there's that notion that if I know what someone is going to do I can stay a step ahead and protect myself.
If you have any more advice about what worked for you, Baypark, please keep 'em coming.
Not.ONE person in my life knows I've called psychics so I understand.
Since I don't know your whole.situation, I don't really know what to suggest. If you're in a bad situation, there must be something you can do to get out. If not physically then emotionall meaning accept what it is and try and move on. No situation is forever. We control how we react and our decisions. Regardless of what the situation is, you need to put YOU first. Your emotional and spiritual wellbeing. YOU need to be the most important person in your life, so you have to figure out how you can change it, even if its a simple thing like changing a reaction. It sounds like you have " hit bottom" so now the only way is up and that is a good thing because it forces you to make changes for the better. You just have to figure out what those changes are :)
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Not.ONE person in my life knows I've called psychics so I understand.
Since I don't know your whole.situation, I don't really know what to suggest. If you're in a bad situation, there must be something you can do to get out. If not physically then emotionall meaning accept what it is and try and move on. No situation is forever. We control how we react and our decisions. Regardless of what the situation is, you need to put YOU first. Your emotional and spiritual wellbeing. YOU need to be the most important person in your life, so you have to figure out how you can change it, even if its a simple thing like changing a reaction. It sounds like you have " hit bottom" so now the only way is up and that is a good thing because it forces you to make changes for the better. You just have to figure out what those changes are :)
thanks, Baypark :) . It's good to have a place where other people understand. hitting rock bottom is not always so bad.
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I know how you feel Peppie. I’m here waiting for things to pan out with the psychics predictions. I’ve been contacting these psychics for 2 years now. But I’ve finally come to an understanding that I just have to accept that maybe this girl & I are just not meant to be. It’s apt easier said than done. I wish her nothing but the best though. Just keep moving. Pick up a hobby. Lately I’ve been painting just to keep myself busy. I hope you get through your situation & always have hope. Hope in yourself to get through this not in the predictions. Live for today because tomorrow is never promised.
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... I couldn't stop obsessing and calling. It took a very long time to get to this point. Basically, nothing ever came true from the readings and I was so miserable, I desperately wanted to change.
I'm at this point now. The worst part is I feel I can't tell anyone. Like I stated I told someone "more professional", but that was a more ostricizing and hurtful experience more than anything else and I won't do it again.
I think the reason I do it is because I am in such a bad situation and I have no option to leave so I live in persistent fear of what's going to happen. I know I should just "let go and let God", but there's that notion that if I know what someone is going to do I can stay a step ahead and protect myself.
If you have any more advice about what worked for you, Baypark, please keep 'em coming.
Oh and thanks :)
Peppie,
I don't want to read in between the lines, but if you are in any kind of abusive situation you should really get out. And regardless of the nature of the difficult situation, there are people on this forum who are really here for you. Great for you for reaching out this way and don't hesitate to ask people here -- either in the group format or individually -- for help if you need it.
For me, I have slowed down calling dramatically after hitting my own rock bottom of sorts. Basically I ran out of money -- for real. And I went through a LOT. More than I am comfortable admitting and it really shocked and scared me when I got to a place where I was in real economic distress. The good thing, though, was that stopping calling for long enough really helped me in a lot of ways. I got some of my power back, started to trust my own intuition again, started living in reality and not a fantasy, got a handle on my anxiety (that was building as a result of too many readings, and had to reflect on why I had become so dependent on calling. All that to say, however you can do it -- stop calling for as long as you can! If you have lost control of it, it has become a habit and you need to break it, and once you do you will feel so much better.
I agree 100% with Baypark, that it's an opportunity to look at the reasons underlying why we call psychics for advice. For me, sometimes calling was actually a way to avoid looking at those underlying issues. A lot has to do with control -- feeling like I don't have any. I can't remember who said it, but accepting that and letting go of control was also helpful.
Good luck peppie and keep reaching out when you need to.
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One thing I did when I finally was ready to stop was not only work on cleaning the crap within but cleaning out my house. For 3 years I was focused on my ex who screwed my life royally and this POI I had been calling about for a YEAR! I called as well with the ex. Pretty much thats all I thought about. So I started with my bathroom drawers and then ended up painting. It felt good to focus on me and what would make ME feel good. Every part of my house was a mess (hidden behind the doors :)) I am one that loves organization and things neat and tidy. As I cleaned out my cabinets, drawers and closets, I started to feel stronger and more in control of my life and I felt good. I read somewhere that cleaning out is very good for putting the past behind you and it worked for me.
Maybe you can try it!. Im sure your sock drawer or closet can use an overhaul :) If you're.OCD and your house is perfect then paint a room :)
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I just read this thread. Its an older thread but damn, if this doesn't make you want to stop calling, get control of your life and heal yourself, I don't know what will.
I am available for anyone that needs to talk and wants to stop this addiction
http://www.thepsychicreviews.com/forum/index.php/topic,1499.0.html
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One thing I did when I finally was ready to stop was not only work on cleaning the crap within but cleaning out my house. For 3 years I was focused on my ex who screwed my life royally and this POI I had been calling about for a YEAR! I called as well with the ex. Pretty much thats all I thought about. So I started with my bathroom drawers and then ended up painting. It felt good to focus on me and what would make ME feel good. Every part of my house was a mess (hidden behind the doors :)) I am one that loves organization and things neat and tidy. As I cleaned out my cabinets, drawers and closets, I started to feel stronger and more in control of my life and I felt good. I read somewhere that cleaning out is very good for putting the past behind you and it worked for me.
Maybe you can try it!. Im sure your sock drawer or closet can use an overhaul :) If you're.OCD and your house is perfect then paint a room :)
I love this. I've gotten rid of all my stuff over the past couple of years, but I find I'm always behind in housekeeping because of the obsession... do you know how tiring obsession is? It's exhausting.
Thanks - I really do love these suggestions.
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For me, I have slowed down calling dramatically after hitting my own rock bottom of sorts. Basically I ran out of money -- for real. And I went through a LOT. More than I am comfortable admitting and it really shocked and scared me when I got to a place where I was in real economic distress.
I understand this all too well. I'm pretty much here.
No, it's not an abusive relationship but I don't want to say what it is.
I'm so glad there are other people on here who understand. This is a good place to vent and people understand...
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For me it was realizing that I can’t do anything to change my situation so I just have to let it be.. I can’t cry enough, call psychics enough, plead enough or pray enough to change other person. I accepted that it’s over.. It was and is so painful still. Sometimes i feel crippled with fear of future but then I slowly tell myself in my head it’s going to be okay, it’s safe to let him go, it’s okay to let him go, i am okay.. just kind of baby talk myself..
When the desire of that other person will die or what happens next dies the willingness to call will also start fading.
I also used to get cravings to call or chat then I would go over old transcripts and just realizing that all the glorious Aprils and Junes and Augusts just came and passed by used to turn me off a little from getting readings.
I would applaud myself for getting just one reading in two days instead of calling 15 readers per day liek before.
Just think it’s a process— you are healing from your situation and also from calling psychics. Treat it like any other addiction. Accept it, sweettalk yourself because no one else will, don’t push yourself to quit, just treat yourself with love as you would treat a friend.
I had to see the addicted person in me as a thirs person and be nice to that person and help reduce the addiction.. because like you no one around me also knows that i call or believe in psychics. So had to do it myself
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For me it was realizing that I can’t do anything to change my situation so I just have to let it be.. I can’t cry enough, call psychics enough, plead enough or pray enough to change other person. I accepted that it’s over.. It was and is so painful still. Sometimes i feel crippled with fear of future but then I slowly tell myself in my head it’s going to be okay, it’s safe to let him go, it’s okay to let him go, i am okay.. just kind of baby talk myself..
When the desire of that other person will die or what happens next dies the willingness to call will also start fading.
I also used to get cravings to call or chat then I would go over old transcripts and just realizing that all the glorious Aprils and Junes and Augusts just came and passed by used to turn me off a little from getting readings.
I would applaud myself for getting just one reading in two days instead of calling 15 readers per day liek before.
Just think it’s a process— you are healing from your situation and also from calling psychics. Treat it like any other addiction. Accept it, sweettalk yourself because no one else will, don’t push yourself to quit, just treat yourself with love as you would treat a friend.
I had to see the addicted person in me as a thirs person and be nice to that person and help reduce the addiction.. because like you no one around me also knows that i call or believe in psychics. So had to do it myself
thank you so much. i really like the tips you gave.
i also like you stating we need to be nice to that person... kind to ourselves... i need to work on that
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For me it was realizing that I can’t do anything to change my situation so I just have to let it be.. I can’t cry enough, call psychics enough, plead enough or pray enough to change other person. I accepted that it’s over.. It was and is so painful still. Sometimes i feel crippled with fear of future but then I slowly tell myself in my head it’s going to be okay, it’s safe to let him go, it’s okay to let him go, i am okay.. just kind of baby talk myself..
When the desire of that other person will die or what happens next dies the willingness to call will also start fading.
I also used to get cravings to call or chat then I would go over old transcripts and just realizing that all the glorious Aprils and Junes and Augusts just came and passed by used to turn me off a little from getting readings.
I would applaud myself for getting just one reading in two days instead of calling 15 readers per day liek before.
Just think it’s a process— you are healing from your situation and also from calling psychics. Treat it like any other addiction. Accept it, sweettalk yourself because no one else will, don’t push yourself to quit, just treat yourself with love as you would treat a friend.
I had to see the addicted person in me as a thirs person and be nice to that person and help reduce the addiction.. because like you no one around me also knows that i call or believe in psychics. So had to do it myself
thank you so much. i really like the tips you gave.
i also like you stating we need to be nice to that person... kind to ourselves... i need to work on that
So true. Even the small victories are still victories. Give yourself pats on the backs when you aren't calling as much, in particular knowing and recognizing there is an addiction. That's the first and biggest step. We all do the best we can under the circumstances and beating yourself up only does more harm than good.
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I just read this thread. Its an older thread but damn, if this doesn't make you want to stop calling, get control of your life and heal yourself, I don't know what will.
I am available for anyone that needs to talk and wants to stop this addiction
http://www.thepsychicreviews.com/forum/index.php/topic,1499.0.html
Dang this is sad.very sad.What made me quit was the embarrassment of the habit and spending tons of money.I realized I need to love and respect myself more.I went back to school& I pray to God to help me..I just kept so busy .I have gone a month with one reading sometimes two months.This board also helps to come back read how everyone not only me have not had success ..be strong
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Dang this is sad.very sad.What made me quit was the embarrassment of the habit and spending tons of money.I realized I need to love and respect myself more.I went back to school& I pray to God to help me..I just kept so busy .I have gone a month with one reading sometimes two months.This board also helps to come back read how everyone not only me have not had success ..be strong
i have had enough evidence to know that no one is accurate really but it's still hard for me to stop. i really don't know why.
also, more recently i've been having a hard time and one of my favorites gave me a really bad report and it really really shook me. well lo and behold i called back in two days and i got a positive report - a complete flip flop. i was like wth because it made me spiral into a bad bad place when she gave me a bad report. it was really bad for me.
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when people on here talk about God, are you talking about a particular religion?
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There is a site called "Psychic Junkie" it is a group of us who are addicted. I haven't been on in a while because....well.....I am still an addicted. Most of the members on that site have kicked the habit and just keep each other in line. But here is a funny little tidbit; I wrote in the forum that I couldn't quit because I have a couple of readers who get everything right for me. I started getting private messages from those who had "quit" asking which readers and how could they contact them.
One of the sadder stories that happened was around Christmas time a few years back. One of the members sent out an urgent message to everyone asking for help. She was a single working mom and it was December 5th. Her boyfriend had broken up with her and she went on a Keen binge....spent over a $1000 and had NO money to buy her two children any Christmas presents. She was darn near suicidal. Everyone jumped on and started giving out their phone numbers and telling her to call them. It was sad.
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There is a site called "Psychic Junkie" it is a group of us who are addicted. I haven't been on in a while because....well.....I am still an addicted. Most of the members on that site have kicked the habit and just keep each other in line. But here is a funny little tidbit; I wrote in the forum that I couldn't quit because I have a couple of readers who get everything right for me. I started getting private messages from those who had "quit" asking which readers and how could they contact them.
One of the sadder stories that happened was around Christmas time a few years back. One of the members sent out an urgent message to everyone asking for help. She was a single working mom and it was December 5th. Her boyfriend had broken up with her and she went on a Keen binge....spent over a $1000 and had NO money to buy her two children any Christmas presents. She was darn near suicidal. Everyone jumped on and started giving out their phone numbers and telling her to call them. It was sad.
it is sad how fragile we are. and i don't even know how we got here. isn't that true for any addiction? how? how did we get here?
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when people on here talk about God, are you talking about a particular religion?
I'm not a bible thumper ,stuff it down your throat Christian. I don't believe in religion. I believe God wants to have a relationship with us and that doesnt mean knowing every scripture of the bible. Ive met more hypocritical Christians living in the south that i care to admit. I love jesus and have finally allowed myself to trust again after many things that happened to really rock my faith to the point I turned my back on him. This whole psychic addiction was a catalyst in trusting God again :)
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Hey Peppie, it's not easy. There was one point where I was addicted because I was hurting and wanted the pain to go away. These advisors would tell me he was coming back, he loved me, we were meant to be together, and all that bull shit crap. There were a few who said to let go because he wasn't coming back and was moving on. I refused to believe these people and kept calling all my feelgood advisors.
That's what we need to remember...these readings are short term feelgood coping mechanisms. We pay these people to make us feel better because we're having such a hard time coping with whatever emotion we are going through. Instead of healing from a broken heart at an organic pace, I was only pushing the inevitable...all the pain I tried to push away for months finally came snowballing as an avalanche when I realized he wasn't coming back and he had indeed moved on. That pain was worse than anything because I let it grow AND I felt so stupid wasting thousands of dollars on these people.
I'm not exactly sure what you are going through, but I bet it's not easy. I think the best thing to remember is...the pain, the anxiety, the worry is all temporary. There will be an end to it. It's not forever. No one knows when it will end but just know that it will. It will NEVER be forever. Time is your best advisor. It will heal you and help you understand things. I had a yoga instructor who would make us hold uncomfortable positions for a bit longer than comfortable. She would always say, "Yes, it hurts. Yes, it's uncomfortable but you won't be holding this position for an hour or even 5 minutes. Stop your mind from saying you can't, because you can. Believe in yourself. If you fall out of the pose, it's ok. It takes practice and forgiveness of yourself to quiet your mind, your ego." She taught us this in order to apply it to our lives.
I can go on and on here...lol...I'm a yoga guru, sorry. But what I'm trying to say is, believe that you don't need these people to tell you anything. Try and sit with these emotions and remember it will pass. Just be patient and if you slip, it's ok! It takes practice but one day soon you'll stop calling these people! And maybe hold bird of paradise for 5 minutes! :) ;)
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I am in a similar boat myself. Havent completely stopped calling either. Also we have discussed this many times and I cant agree enough how detrimental it is to mix up the energies.
What helps me these days is to be comfortable in my own pain after reading from some comments on the forum on this topic.. coz after too much pain, you will definitely come out of it (better said than done, but there is some truth to this)..
Also, I use a credit card through a credit union that does not update the balance till after the cycle, so I have it maxed out, and now only pay the minimum due, so can use just that min due on keen monthly. Once that balance is used, I cant pay from some debit card and have the balance updated instantly. So that is keeping me under check (for now its helping).
I haven't completely stopped but have cut way back. What helped me the most was finding this forum and reading everyone's stories. Before that I thought if I kept trying one day I would find the right reader. Now I realize even the best ones are prone to mixing things up and it is dangerous to rely on anything they say. It still took awhile for it to really sink in and I had to stop reading here for awhile too so I wouldn't be so tempted to keep calling.
I also made myself read through notes I had taken on past calls, embarrassing though it was to see how many calls I made and how ridiculous some of the readings were, that I paid good money for and got little or nothing out of. Facing up to it and reading those notes helped a lot. There were lots of things I wrote down but forgot. And reading it again made me realize how wrong they were, how wasteful it was and just how much I was out of my mind to even listen to it much less pay for such garbage.
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The biggest thing for me has been to avoid being in situations that would drive me to want to call.
Thanks for sharing - very helpful.
The quote above though... omg that means I have to stop living... ;D
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Long story short I can't be friends with people (much less be partners with someone) with very different values than my own.
So true. It's just as painful and as long of a road to recovery.
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I just posted it under LOL when it should have been here
Just wondering if any of you have ever use tarot cards online? I am seeing that those have somehow helped me when I have the urge to read. There is a card deck online called deste, I have 0 clue if it is accurate prediction wise or not but the cards that pop out makes sense sometimes..but there is a drawback here too: when I have the urge, I keep reading over and over on the same Q negating the concept of tarot reading- which should be read just once or twice for the Q at hand (atleast for 15 days). I read multiple times in one day so its probably nothing but helping me a bit with the urge not to call keen psychics..
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one thing that has helped is that i'm not up for calling new people anymore - months of calling has shown pretty much everyone is fake and starting with someone new is just tiring. the few people i DO like either don't come on anymore or just have been shown to be wrong about important matters. that leaves about four people left. not very exciting and fulfilling. it's mostly just "eh!" now. i DO have one regular i call consistently... maybe that's why the craving has gone away... who knows...
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For me, if i was in a really bad place -- calling daily for example -- I'd just try to take a small amount of time 'off.' Like 3 days, or 1 week. I found that if I could get a week off, at the end of that week I would feel quite different, as if a fog had cleared and I had a lot of clarity back... and I the impulse to call was dramatically diminished. Baby steps... I guess as opposed to trying to convince yourself you will never call again. There's something about one call that can lead to another and so on, so if you can get free for a while that urge starts to go away.
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For me, if i was in a really bad place -- calling daily for example -- I'd just try to take a small amount of time 'off.' Like 3 days, or 1 week. I found that if I could get a week off, at the end of that week I would feel quite different, as if a fog had cleared and I had a lot of clarity back... and I the impulse to call was dramatically diminished. Baby steps... I guess as opposed to trying to convince yourself you will never call again. There's something about one call that can lead to another and so on, so if you can get free for a while that urge starts to go away.
this is completely true. once i give in i tend to give in more and more. are you pretty much done calling now? or it's just more balanced?
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I just posted it under LOL when it should have been here
Just wondering if any of you have ever use tarot cards online? I am seeing that those have somehow helped me when I have the urge to read. There is a card deck online called deste, I have 0 clue if it is accurate prediction wise or not but the cards that pop out makes sense sometimes..but there is a drawback here too: when I have the urge, I keep reading over and over on the same Q negating the concept of tarot reading- which should be read just once or twice for the Q at hand (atleast for 15 days). I read multiple times in one day so its probably nothing but helping me a bit with the urge not to call keen psychics..
OMG @Universal9! This deste thing, that Greek one?! Someone on this forum had posted about it. I looked. And tried. And asked again and again. Those cards are freaky as all $hit. As you say the cards that pop up make sense sometimes and fit my situation but dang ... they're all so negative I feel like. Even when I ask about super positive things like my dog, something negative comes up! They scared me so I don't do it anymore. Clearly I have nothing to say to their veracity but at least they helped curb the mini binge I had recently :) at least it's free!
Yea those cards gave me a bad vibe, big time. I tried them when someone first posted about them and ugh.
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I just posted it under LOL when it should have been here
Just wondering if any of you have ever use tarot cards online? I am seeing that those have somehow helped me when I have the urge to read. There is a card deck online called deste, I have 0 clue if it is accurate prediction wise or not but the cards that pop out makes sense sometimes..but there is a drawback here too: when I have the urge, I keep reading over and over on the same Q negating the concept of tarot reading- which should be read just once or twice for the Q at hand (atleast for 15 days). I read multiple times in one day so its probably nothing but helping me a bit with the urge not to call keen psychics..
OMG @Universal9! This deste thing, that Greek one?! Someone on this forum had posted about it. I looked. And tried. And asked again and again. Those cards are freaky as all $hit. As you say the cards that pop up make sense sometimes and fit my situation but dang ... they're all so negative I feel like. Even when I ask about super positive things like my dog, something negative comes up! They scared me so I don't do it anymore. Clearly I have nothing to say to their veracity but at least they helped curb the mini binge I had recently :) at least it's free!
They really aren't freaky. The explanations on the Deste site are sort of like ... when you buy something made in China and the instructions have been translated ... but not quite accurately. A couple of the cards have the meanings reversed also. Plus, the online spread combines elements, figures (including the spirits), horses and symbols. A card spread is different. You don't use the spirit cards in the pile. The online version is a bit like playing slapjack with tarot cards. I think it's ok for certain well phrased questions, but it's not like a real Deste reading.
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Journal until the anxiety is out of you. Meditate ... ask yourself/your guides your own questions and see what answers you get/come to you.
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the fastest way to stop calling is let keen do what keen does and run all the good readers off. there's no one left to call so i don't bother hardly anymore... addiction cured. good job, keen. keep up the sucky work!
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Why I stopped calling after literally thousands on that site: Every single one, and I talked to MANY, even ones with huge praise here, were dead wrong about a pretty huge situation in my life.
I was promised that my ex was coming back, he'd apologize for hurting me, he was feeling guilty for cheating on me, he would beg me back after dumping his new girlfriend ....
I started asking about this in May. I was told it was all imminent.
All wrong. False hope. He doesn't feel guilty. He goes out of his way to rub what he did in my face. And not only did they not break up, but they went to Vegas and got married, posting pics publicly and seem very happy.
It's all bullcrap. They'll tell you want you want to hear. It did not help my depression. It's worsened it.
I stopped calling once I realized the complete opposite was the case.
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Why I stopped calling after literally thousands on that site: Every single one, and I talked to MANY, even ones with huge praise here, were dead wrong about a pretty huge situation in my life.
I was promised that my ex was coming back, he'd apologize for hurting me, he was feeling guilty for cheating on me, he would beg me back after dumping his new girlfriend ....
I started asking about this in May. I was told it was all imminent.
All wrong. False hope. He doesn't feel guilty. He goes out of his way to rub what he did in my face. And not only did they not break up, but they went to Vegas and got married, posting pics publicly and seem very happy.
It's all bullcrap. They'll tell you want you want to hear. It did not help my depression. It's worsened it.
I stopped calling once I realized the complete opposite was the case.
Personally, I'm very sorry this happened to you. No one deserves this.
You are very right though. Readers either tell you what you want to hear or as I like to say....they tell you what you want to happen opposed to what will actually happen. It's not all readers though, just the fairy bullcrap ones. Again, wishing you the best hon.
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Why I stopped calling after literally thousands on that site: Every single one, and I talked to MANY, even ones with huge praise here, were dead wrong about a pretty huge situation in my life.
I was promised that my ex was coming back, he'd apologize for hurting me, he was feeling guilty for cheating on me, he would beg me back after dumping his new girlfriend ....
I started asking about this in May. I was told it was all imminent.
All wrong. False hope. He doesn't feel guilty. He goes out of his way to rub what he did in my face. And not only did they not break up, but they went to Vegas and got married, posting pics publicly and seem very happy.
It's all bullcrap. They'll tell you want you want to hear. It did not help my depression. It's worsened it.
I stopped calling once I realized the complete opposite was the case.
I am so sorry this happened. I can't even imagine what you must be going through, it sucks and when stuff like this happens then nothing makes sense, we start questioning everything. Sending you strength and love and praying this all pass quickly for you.
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Why I stopped calling after literally thousands on that site: Every single one, and I talked to MANY, even ones with huge praise here, were dead wrong about a pretty huge situation in my life.
I was promised that my ex was coming back, he'd apologize for hurting me, he was feeling guilty for cheating on me, he would beg me back after dumping his new girlfriend ....
I started asking about this in May. I was told it was all imminent.
All wrong. False hope. He doesn't feel guilty. He goes out of his way to rub what he did in my face. And not only did they not break up, but they went to Vegas and got married, posting pics publicly and seem very happy.
It's all bullcrap. They'll tell you want you want to hear. It did not help my depression. It's worsened it.
I stopped calling once I realized the complete opposite was the case.
same here I got emotionally damages by theses so call psychic for now I don’t think I ever heal. What kind of person have true feeling of love for you doesn’t contact you or said sorry for what they did. She just said she doesn’t care. When I look at all the 5 star review they said the same thing to everyone thanks you clam me down he will tell me his true feeling for me just leave him alone. They never go and look back why there were wrong.