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Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: Lovefash67 on September 08, 2016, 01:41:45 PM
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I coming to the realization and just accepting the fact that my ex is not coming back and I'm fine with that. Why should I want someone who said very mean things to me and the entire relationship I have don't nothing wrong but go out of my way, spend lots of money and time invested for a person to break up with me constantly over nothing and every single time he left me I was in a crisis and needed him for support. If I say something mean to someone that I love I will it wait a whole month and half or more to apologize . So I am now accepting wheat he said that he doesn't love me anymore or find me attractive anymore as face value. I didn't deserve for him to treat me like s*** for four years. Wasted my college years on him and I should have let him go when he left me the first time I probably could have met the man of dreams at college who wasn't selfish and cared only about himself ,money , and what others can do for him. I can only be upset with myself . All the readers say that my ex had issues and it's not because of me but when someone treats you horrible it's hard not to take it personal or feel your not good enough but I have taken off the pedestal and I know that I was a good girlfriend and gave it my all.
I'm tired of reading with psychics about him and just over this situation just done , it's too much for me.
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It's a sad realization but I think a lot of women have gone through this...we give and give and get crap or very little in return, and we justify it somehow. then, if you get readings, they give you all these theories, like he's been hurt, has issues, etc...but NOT OUR PROBLEM! it's very hard not to take personally but at the end of the day, you just have to pity them, and realize it was their loss, and someone better is out there and we will see that once we stop focusing on the wrong person and open ourselves up to the right one.
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Exactly ! It's not my problem that he has been hurt and has insecurities . We all have those things. So far right now no reader who predicted positive things has been right and I honestly can't see this thing turning around by December like hey are saying . So Kiesha is right and was right from the get go. It will officially be a year since we have broken up in December and there's no turning back I'm going to continue to focus on school and then eventually focus on my love life.
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Exactly ! It's not my problem that he has been hurt and has insecurities . We all have those things. So far right now no reader who predicted positive things has been right and I honestly can't see this thing turning around by December like hey are saying . So Kiesha is right and was right from the get go. It will officially be a year since we have broken up in December and there's no turning back I'm going to continue to focus on school and then eventually focus on my love life.
yep Keisha told me no long term future for me too...looks like she was right, but she tends to be very negative with predictions re: love anyway....
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Yeah your right she is negative . I thought Dominique from cup and Leo even sincerity were good picking up on past present and what's been going on and since they've worked for others I was hoping the same but it is looking like they are wrong and positive prediction is not going to happen.
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Yeah your right she is negative . I thought Dominique from cup and Leo even sincerity were good picking up on past present and what's been going on and since they've worked for others I was hoping the same but it is looking like they are wrong and positive prediction is not going to happen.
Listen, you never know, it could! It just might be later than you want.....I have heard of that happening...like the person coming forward wayyyy after the other has moved on......
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I totally agree Bluebelle! I read with psychics about 8 years ago about a different love interest back then, some were right and some were straight up wrong but once I stopped caring, a year later that same love interest wrote me an email and wanted to talk, he begged for me even cried 😳. I had checked out completely but he still tried and contacted me few months after. All of sudden he was ready to give me what I wanted but the hurt, betrayal was all there and I can tell you even though you forgive the pain doesn't ever disappear. My point is the happy ever after reading may have happened but I chose not to take it which changes everything.
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I totally agree Bluebelle! I read with psychics about 8 years ago about a different love interest back then, some were right and some were straight up wrong but once I stopped caring, a year later that same love interest wrote me an email and wanted to talk, he begged for me even cried 😳. I had checked out completely but he still tried and contacted me few months after. All of sudden he was ready to give me what I wanted but the hurt, betrayal was all there and I can tell you even though you forgive the pain doesn't ever disappear. My point is the happy ever after reading may have happened but I chose not to take it which changes everything.
exactly! I guess that's the whole "free will" thing at play....
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Certain things are pre destined to happen in our lifes. Only god/universe know the right timming of things. There are few psychics that can see the big picture or even see the destined things but as far as timming that can change all the time. Thats where freewill and soul growth comes into play.
That man maybe the one for you, just not now. Its could be 10 or 20 years from now. Energies and emotions change.
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Sometimes you have to accept when someone's part in your story is over. I am guessing that is why I call....cause I cannot see it or accept it. As most of us cannot.
Hate to admit, but I have called a few regarding the last guy (#4). They've been wrong for all the other situations, what would make me think they'd be right now????? Lol. My own fault for picking up the phone. Oh, I haven't called In almost a month....but nothing they all said ever happened, nor will they.
It's hard when things end, more so when you were really feeling it, and "thinking" they did too. It's our projections. Not seeing thingsfor what they really are.
I say this tonight as I just learned my guy, who I was with for 4 months was and is with someone else....all the while I was being told he was scared of commitment, and I was the only one. He loved ME!!!! Omg... What a crock of shit. I just could not accept it...that is why I called. If a guy wants you, believe me you will know. And if they're with someone else...that means they do NOT want to be with you. At all...well maybe a Booty call, but that's it. Cause obviously they chose them... Not you.
Ladies and gentlemen....please.....save your money. Yeah, they all pick up on stupid shit...make us believers, it is all bullshit. Save your money.
All the new people here....READ BACK....nothing I mean NOTHING ever happened for anyone. Stop the insanity. Some stories are Horrifying, honest they are.
We call so we can feel better. At least that is why I called. To feel better, that I was loved. Or that he wanted me.... Well. You know what? Not so much, as reality shows me he does not.
I have never had any kind of real prediction happen for me. Oh a contact or two, and one trip. One even was right on insight about a guy. ( he confirmed something she said about him) but nothing more...and that is with years of calling....it's the addiction. Save your money and your sanity.
Even the best of the best readers that people here rave about have been horribly, horribly wrong with out come. Keep reading back. You will see. It goes back years. Please please read.
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Even the worst reading that I have gotten regarding this situation cannot compare to the reality I have found out tonight. And omg all the lovey Dovey readings....that I kinda hoped were right... They are all full of shit... All of them....
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Even the worst reading that I have gotten regarding this situation cannot compare to the reality I have found out tonight. And omg all the lovey Dovey readings....that I kinda hoped were right... They are all full of shit... All of them....
What happened?
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What happened? Well nothing they said would happen did. Ever. Basically he is on to someone else...while all the while it was supposed to be me that he wanted and was too scared...and loved me so.... .really? Save your money. Stop calling.
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So true. If someone wants you, you will know it. If they're not with you, they don't want to be with you or can't for whatever reason. Move on and stop relying on contact dates or numbers or trying so and so reader because they worked for someone on this forum.
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What happened? Well nothing they said would happen did. Ever. Basically he is on to someone else...while all the while it was supposed to be me that he wanted and was too scared...and loved me so.... .really? Save your money. Stop calling.
Oh, Bella. I am so sorry. Psychics suck at grasping third parties. If it gives you a peace of mind-Out of the 60+ psychics I read with, only four knew the POI was attached to someone else. One saw her, the other felt her via energy and the other was told via hearing. One knew via tarot cards. O Valley and Lolli from Keen and Jeremiah and Jozette from CP and Asknow.com. They knew within minutes. How did you find out?
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Exactly...
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I found out via a family member who saw him out... But this is not the point At all. I am calling and I hear lovey dovey rainbow sparkle fart bullshit... That it is ME who he loves....yeah, that would be a resounding NO. And if I knew there was a third party, then I am out. I don't do that shit. We were together last year and the again this year. My post was to say that you should save your money as they really don't know shit, and read back....keep fucking reading....they know shit for your future. this board goes back to 2011. Read back. It nothing but an addiction. ,cause we cannot deal when someone does not want us. Or me...speaking for myself...
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Bella I am so sorry as to what happened to you. I don't know what to say. I haven't had a reading in a while and I am going to keep at it.
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Don't be sorry...it is what it is...calling psychics are basically prolonging the pain. They know shit. Not for your future anyway, oh maybe the here and now, but not the future, ever, and of they were so good, they certainly would not be on keen or any other site. Keep that in mind when you call again.
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Don't be sorry...it is what it is...calling psychics are basically prolonging the pain. They know shit. Not for your future anyway, oh maybe the here and now, but not the future, ever, and of they were so good, they certainly would not be on keen or any other site. Keep that in mind when you call again.
If you don't mind me asking but who were the ones that sold you the fairytales? Out of all the readings I have had, I only had two fairy teller's. Majority of them didn't sell a fairy tale to me. The closest was probably Naveah or Abrielle.
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Pm me and I will tell you....
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done
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There really are success stories. Read the one under the love nurse thread today. Ouch it hurts to find out something's not going to happen!
which one under love nurse...don't believe her feedback on keen, a lot of it is fake. Nothing she said for me even remotely came true.
But i do think a lot of readings can come true...just have to find the right reader who validates things....but first and foremost, always go with your gut. I have had most readers pick up on third party so.....
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Judi was completely right for Intuitive Scorp who got back together with her guy and left the board. Maddie had success with her ex who contacted her out of the blue after a year of no contact and it was Domenique from CP who was right for her.
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which one under love nurse...don't believe her feedback on keen, a lot of it is fake. Nothing she said for me even remotely came true.
But i do think a lot of readings can come true...just have to find the right reader who validates things....but first and foremost, always go with your gut. I have had most readers pick up on third party so.....
Fake feedback? Did she sell you a fairy tale ?
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which one under love nurse...don't believe her feedback on keen, a lot of it is fake. Nothing she said for me even remotely came true.
But i do think a lot of readings can come true...just have to find the right reader who validates things....but first and foremost, always go with your gut. I have had most readers pick up on third party so.....
Fake feedback? Did she sell you a fairy tale ?
yea, I liked my first reading but went downhill after that. I don't know maybe she's off with timing, and maybe she works for some....
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Judi was completely right for Intuitive Scorp who got back together with her guy and left the board. Maddie had success with her ex who contacted her out of the blue after a year of no contact and it was Domenique from CP who was right for her.
And that is great! Stories like that, the two of them , is what fuels this board, and calling those psychics. Again, I don't' pretend to know everyone's situation. And yeah, In Life that does sometime happen, people do get back together, however, more often they do not. Just my experience. And from being on this board for almost 6 years now, seems it is the majorities experience as well. Insight proven wrong, people they called about marrying other people. Way way more than the 3 or 4 here that things panned out for.
My path is mine as yours is yours. I just know for me, that nothing they ever said regarding 4 different relationships ever panned out. Obviously, I wouldn't have gone on to relationship 2,3 and 4 if I married the first guy like they all said....oh and btw, he married the girl he left me for. When people don't call you or see you it is only because they do not want to. Nothing more, people do what they want to do for the majority. There is no one who is too busy or whatever, to send a 5 second text. Especially if they love you so much. Again, this is my experience only. If they are with someone else, it is obvious they prefer them over me! So my readings, insight, predictions, don't hold any water. At all.
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@bella: what fueled you to keep calling after so many readers were wrong for the first, second, and third guy?
Honestly, I don't know....I think it's my hurt and not understanding. Not being able to accept or see that they didn't feel quite the same maybe. Plus it felt good to hear that I was loved. I know that sounds messed up, and maybe I am. Seems I pick the wrong guys too. I will say, that after a few months of calling about someone. I kinda feel foolish calling about someone I haven't heard from in a while. So I do then stop, however then another guy breaks my heart and I call. I guess maybe for hope. Even if it is false. Vicious cycle. They're there 24/7 to call and hear nice things. So soothing when you're hurting. I also think back to how right they can be in the present....and I fool myself into thinking "maybe this time" lol. I think it's more of an addiction thing with me.
Thank you for asking....I need to look further into why I would call after so many failures.
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Did you try different readers the next times around? I used to go with cp, and here i am in a new case calling all different ones perhaps foolishly expecting different results. After all that, none that you trust for an honest read????
Yes, different readers, except for lady p, I called her for guy 2 and 3. Obviously wrong on both accounts. And no, I don't think I can trust any reader really. Oh, there was Dillian from third eye live, I called her for guy #2' and she said nope, not happening. (I'm paraphrasing) She was the only one who said that. So I called her for guy #3....she was super positive. And that did not pan out. She was wrong. Idk, maybe she figured she would get more calls by being positive? Lol....like when people call them back after nothing happens to check in?
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I love your honesty Bella! Your awesome :)
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It is a 50/50 with everyone here. Either it will pan out or it won't pan out. That is the risk you take when you get readings. Or sometimes the reader is positive at first and then "negative" in the second reading and that it ends up being true.
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For guy one 4 years ago, the readers were correct but I had called a few private readers and a few on psychic source. The guy came back in the spring and they were 90% right with the things about the relationship he was in at the time. Same guy a few years later, they were right that he came back but were wrong about a love relationship. Maybe it would have had my eyes not been opened to him. They were also right about the relationship he had been in. I cinformed alot of things after the fact from the woman herself. Guy 2, completely wrong in every way, shape and form. Guy 3 is still pending. Hes with someone now but I can't confirm if what all of them tell me about the relationship is correct. His feelings for me? I'm not sold on what they are telling me because his actions are completely different. Only two, mystic raven 11 on Keen and Penelope on Etsy has picked up he's angry and frustrated with me. This I pretty much confirmed when I sent a text unanswered. I guess because they were right on the first guy that I keep thinking they may be right on this one. I need to just stop calling because nothing has changed in 4 months and actually has gotten worse with us. Plus, hanging on to this guy, who is with someone else and not communicating with me is preventing me from attracting a man that is better for me. I agree with Bella with most of what she said. We don't like the rejection, we need clarification as to why and validation that we are still lover and wanted. It is an addiction. For sure.
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Yup-actions speak louder than words. Always. Or better yet-get it from the direct source or someone that is closest to him.
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Yup-actions speak louder than words. Always. Or better yet-get it from the direct source or someone that is closest to him.
I try to get info out.of.his son, who is friends with my son, but I start feeling weird about it. I try to eavesdrop but boys dont talk about things like girls do lol. As for talking to the source, hes.not taking to me. He accused me and/or my son of sending his GF messages and I ended up telling him to fuck off and hung up on him. Then to try and smooth things over, I texted him saying I understood where he was coming from and apologized for my reaction to it but he never responded. Today, I left some beer for him to take that someone left at my house (I don't drink). I made sure I wasn't here when he came to pick up his son. He didn't take the beer and his son said he didn't want it. It's freaking beer. Last night Mystic Raven said he was angry and frustrated. I sent the text yesterday afternoon. Most the readers say he's having huge issues with the GF and they are about to be done. Who knows. But the fact that he accused me and I made the effort to apologize for my actions and he didn't respond, makes me think he's just a stubborn ass who can't swallow his pride. I told him off pretty good when he accused me. I was pretty mean. So, maybe it's over for good. Maybe it's for the best as well. I want someone who can forgive and move past petty crap and Im not sure he can. I know there is someone better out there for me.
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Yeah there's definitely someone better for you, someone who actually wants you. What has kept you holding on?
I have no idea. I tend to do this when I get rejected and have felt a deep connection with the guy. I'm like Bella, I choose the wrong men.
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And the readings keep me holding on as well. If they all told the truth, I'd have moved on but they give you the fairytale which keeps me hanging on!
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Don't call yourself messed up. Rejection hurts, period, especially when it was someone you trusted and cared for deeply, even more so if they do the back and forth because they aren't emotionally mature enough for a stable relationship.
If you don't have a good support circle or people who can give great advice, and you happen to stumble across readers, it's just like a drug. You shoot up and get to skip the pain of the current situation. Plain and simple. Until the timing runs out.
Really it points at a struggle with faith that you will have better around the corner, or he will return so either way you win... the only reason we stare in the rear view mirror is cause that's what we know, and we don't really see how someone new could be better at the time, because we are so attached.
Of course then we can get angry at the readers if they are wrong but we are the ones who chose to keep calling, and it's the guy we chose to hold onto. Be mad at the guy. Be mad at yourself for continuing to call but also be gentle cause you did the best you could at the time. Being mad at the readers really doesn't accomplish much, but if we get mad at the guy.. If he comes back we won't tolerate the same relationship ship he knew and if we get mad at ourselves we may just learn impulse control or other ways of staying strong when we feel so crushed, abandoned, left out and betrayed.
Find the silver lining. Grow. Change the behavior or coping mechanism. Changing is hard and relapsing is likely but eventually you break the pattern.
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Thank you so much for that, that was so calming and healing
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And the readings keep me holding on as well. If they all told the truth, I'd have moved on but they give you the fairytale which keeps me hanging on!
except a lot of these readers do not know the truth because they have no true gift of seeing the future. Moving on is all within you. You have the power to stop calling.
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Don't call yourself messed up. Rejection hurts, period, especially when it was someone you trusted and cared for deeply, even more so if they do the back and forth because they aren't emotionally mature enough for a stable relationship.
If you don't have a good support circle or people who can give great advice, and you happen to stumble across readers, it's just like a drug. You shoot up and get to skip the pain of the current situation. Plain and simple. Until the timing runs out.
Really it points at a struggle with faith that you will have better around the corner, or he will return so either way you win... the only reason we stare in the rear view mirror is cause that's what we know, and we don't really see how someone new could be better at the time, because we are so attached.
Of course then we can get angry at the readers if they are wrong but we are the ones who chose to keep calling, and it's the guy we chose to hold onto. Be mad at the guy. Be mad at yourself for continuing to call but also be gentle cause you did the best you could at the time. Being mad at the readers really doesn't accomplish much, but if we get mad at the guy.. If he comes back we won't tolerate the same relationship ship he knew and if we get mad at ourselves we may just learn impulse control or other ways of staying strong when we feel so crushed, abandoned, left out and betrayed.
Find the silver lining. Grow. Change the behavior or coping mechanism. Changing is hard and relapsing is likely but eventually you break the pattern.
Thank you, yes I agree with just about everything you stated. I am more angry at myself as I am the one who picks up the phone, yep, I am. And I am angry at him for not being more honest with me.
However, don't take my post as being angry at the readers....this is a review board. I was posting, as one...being hurt, and two...the readers I read with were sooooo terribly wrong. I thinks that is fair to state. I am also just expressing my experiences. That fact that is plural makes me sick. I know I need to work on me. Period.
I was told a boat load of crap. And that is the truth. And I paid for it, emotionally and monetarily.
When they're wrong, they're wrong, nothing more, no excuses about whether ther're good at third parties or whatever....wrong is wrong. Again, it's about putting any stock in their "future" predictions.
I loved to hear how this guy truly loved me, and this and that was going to happen, how he would say this and that....he was so scared of commitment. His job, and on and on and on. But it was ME that he loved. I have said this plenty....if they really knew the future, they would not be on a pay by the minute site. As they say, which I seem to forget...."for entertainment purposes only".
Also, let me add that mostly I would call for the here and now. And the here and now has shown to be very wrong as well, as said person would not be dating someone else? Or marrying someone else? Or not hearing from in years and years? Each of these guys, according to my readings, loved me so and wanted to make things right. All the readings I have ever gotten....maybe 3 contact, one trip and one insight about someone (that I was able to confirm) and that is with 4 different situations. But there are some who can pick up on the here and now. But honestly, nothing more for me ever happened.
I am an original member, from before this board when it started on complaints board. So when people ask why they don't come back to report, well stupidly I have been here on and off for years. The members that I am still in contact with,( a few) well nothing that was told happened, they've moved on and don't feel the need to call anymore, or some still call a select few, however the addiction, constant calling, has stopped and they are just living their life. And not because what was predicted for them happened either.
Unrequited love sucks. Believe me I know. A few will get back together, but most will not. That is life. And I fully aware of that. How I started cAlling, I will never know, but I do know for me, it was/is and addiction. Nothing more. It made me feel good to hear good things.
At times, many times, this board was a wonderful deterrent to calling, just reading all the failed outcomes. It would keep me from calling. Then, heart newly broken, or the guy starting to act different, I would come here to keep me from calling, but would see how some contact happened for someone and here we goo......lol. Yeah, I need to work on me.
Wishing you and everyone here a happy and healthy new year.
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And the readings keep me holding on as well. If they all told the truth, I'd have moved on but they give you the fairytale which keeps me hanging on!
except a lot of these readers do not know the truth because they have no true gift of seeing the future. Moving on is all within you. You have the power to stop calling.
Amen...
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And the readings keep me holding on as well. If they all told the truth, I'd have moved on but they give you the fairytale which keeps me hanging on!
Yeah, that seed of hope....can be detrimental to our well being. Again "for entertainment purposes only"
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Oh, to clarify I didn't think you were being angry, I was more kind of riffing on the idea of where to direct the emotion, perhaps? That's super cool that you're one of the seniors here! I feel like what happens is people move on - either in life, or, they do get their "happy ending" but then are so busy living it they don't post.
I'd love to have you consider joining my recent project as a speaker -- or if you know those who might be willing from your previous circle. Check out my post with the phrase that starts "one reading is too much"
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Oh, to clarify I didn't think you were being angry, I was more kind of riffing on the idea of where to direct the emotion, perhaps? That's super cool that you're one of the seniors here! I feel like what happens is people move on - either in life, or, they do get their "happy ending" but then are so busy living it they don't post.
I'd love to have you consider joining my recent project as a speaker -- or if you know those who might be willing from your previous circle. Check out my post with the phrase that starts "one reading is too much"
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Lol...believe me, my anger is with me. But my hurt is with believing, or wanting to believe. Again. Just trying to pay it forward with accurate reviews for my situation and those readers.
Also, for the most part, older members, that it is shown that ever 6 months or so are a new bunch, do not get their happy endings and forget to post, sans the 3 or 4. They've moved on, as reality shoes otherwise. You can go to the member list and see their posts. Most (can't say all) have written how nothing is what they said it would be. Not even close. I am going to check out your endeavor, as I think it might be helpful, thank you.