The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: Sooshi on July 11, 2016, 02:53:43 AM
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Its finally over. He really kicked me in the guts hard tonight. He had another woman over and not just broke things off permanently, but made sure to salt the earth so nothing could ever grow again. My god, what did I do to deserve what that man has put me through. :'(
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OMG Sooshi. I'm so sorry. Big hugs. You didn't do anything to deserve this.
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I really sorry your going though this Sooshi did any of psychics warn you or tell you this was going to happen?
Please do your best in trying to take care of your self and needs.No one dserves to be treated like crap,he is not a good person at all and deserve better in all aspects.
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No, they didn't predict this. :-[
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I'm probably going to go on a binge tomorrow
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Please don't binge Sooshi. Please. If none of them predicted this then they can not read the people or the situation accurately. They won't be able to give you the answers you need. Take some time to process this and take care of yourself.
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Don't torture yourself Sooshi. This is what I mean when I said that, for the most part, getting readings will ultimately disappoint you. Most readers have little practical ability when it comes to being accurate and right about your situation. They can give you a glimpse, but that is it. 99 percent of them don't actually know what will happen. Forget about readings and try to face lifes problems head on.
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i agree.Binge calling will actualy make it worse and you will confused. All those emotions will be very overwhelming
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i agree.Binge calling will actualy make it worse and you will confused. All those emotions will be very overwhelming
Yes please don't binge read...I'm so sorry this happened to you....see this makes me never want to get a reading again.
Sooshi....did any reader predict you will not get back together?
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I can't really go on a binge guys, I don't have the cash to do so. But I will be making a few calls to try to understand the situation.
I don't really want to post what the predictions were on the open board, but the prediction was that we would be back together again. This is not the first time we've had a blow out like this, but this one really upped the ante and made both him and I look crazy to people around him.
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So sorry for this hun. I hope you get through this stronger and better. Its crazy how dumb shit happens. But dont let that ever stop you from living your life and doing things your way.
Maybe 1 reading but that's it. People get so heart broken the more they binge. Its sick. And readers can say this was a freewill choice which it probably is, but damn thats harsh.
I agree with maddie try dominique on CP. She's pretty good at seeing details on certain events.
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I dont know how to use CP. When I clicked on there, it was automatically cashing me out for a $40 reading, and I dont want to spend that much.
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So very sorry Sooshi! I have been in your shoes. My guy came back and left again. No one predicted that this would happen.
It's heartbreaking.
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As a new caller you should get the $1/min deal...but maybe Dominique doesn't participate in that..I'm not sure.
$40 isn't a lot..I'd rather spend more on the truth than thousands of dollars on fairy tales
$40 really is a lot for some of us :(
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I agree.Calling causes you to hold on and hold on can most likely lead to disappoint and more hurt.He might come back he might not.The best thing to do is go NC,no contact and heal if he comes back cool if he does not at least you will be healed and can meet someone else if you want.
This is all easier said than done
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I agree.Calling causes you to hold on and hold on can most likely lead to disappoint and more hurt.He might come back he might not.The best thing to do is go NC,no contact and heal if he comes back cool if he does not at least you will be healed and can meet someone else if you want.
This is all easier said than done
No, going no contact is not possible in our situation. It's not even a consideration.
I'm so sorry Sooshi- I remember how one ex of mine and I got into an abusive fight. It was really hard to accept. He is now practically married with someone else. And I still can't make sense of that relationship- but it does hurt less. Its not any good comfort right now, but time does make it hurt less.
There's no making sense on why guys do that kind of shadiness- some think it's like ripping off band aid. It hurts more now, but less later? Others, just find a way to finally end something out of cowardliness.
The question and focus isn't in on him- but on you. How do choose to let this define you? What do your actions speak of this? It's utterly gut wrenching painful. Even doing the "right" thing isn't even easy.
If you can -maybe it would help to go to a 12-step group codependent anonymous, or even call a SLAA. Hearing about other people go thru heartbreak listening to the ugly and hopeful side may be cheaper than calling a psychic, and helps with the grieving process.
Thank you, but I don't feel that applies to myself or my situation. I had to look up what SLAA is, and that is definitely not for me. I'm not spending tons on psychics. I'm only calling as often as I can afford to and it's only 5 minute calls. I don't think I've called more than one psychic in a calendar month since January. I've gotten some accurate info that's helped me and proved to be true as well, so it's been worth it.
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Sooshi I know you are cautious in how much you spend and of course no contact is not an option for you. We are all in different situations but sometimes it's so easy to see similarities and identify with each other. But we all know our own situations better than anyone else. I'm glad you have gotten readings that were helpful. I have too and I will keep getting readings as long as they are useful to me. I just try to limit my spending as much as possible.
It gets a little confusing here sometimes, one day people are going gaga over a reader with a high rate and telling others to splurge because it is worth the money...then next thing you know people are saying don't get anymore readings because it is bad for you. lol
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Sooshi I know you are cautious in how much you spend and of course no contact is not an option for you. We are all in different situations but sometimes it's so easy to see similarities and identify with each other. But we all know our own situations better than anyone else. I'm glad you have gotten readings that were helpful. I have too and I will keep getting readings as long as they are useful to me. I just try to limit my spending as much as possible.
It gets a little confusing here sometimes, one day people are going gaga over a reader with a high rate and telling others to splurge because it is worth the money...then next thing you know people are saying don't get anymore readings because it is bad for you. lol
So true