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Title: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: lanlingyu on June 30, 2016, 09:45:18 PM
hi,  Have you ever had a prediction coming true?  Please share your story.  I had the following predictions coming true

1. Diarmuid told me in October 2014 that I would find a job in Feb 2015.  I did.  It was a great position and a great career move.

2. Queen of Cups18 saw that I would date my coworkers even before I got those positions.  This happened twice, in 2006 and 2015. She brought them up on her own when I asked her about finding a new job.  But those relationship ended in big disasters. 

3. Sincerity predicted my ex would break up with the gal around new year.  She was right. But they made up a month later. 
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: bluebelle on July 01, 2016, 01:45:30 PM
I have had many of them get details right, like that he would contact again, when he would, and he always does (at least for now) and there were times I really thought he wouldn't. 

Also about how he would act, etc...and more or less why he was acting the way he was.....
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 01, 2016, 04:16:12 PM
Oh no Presence...I'm so sorry it turned out that way.

Seems like it might be a common theme for some of us that a guy changed or disappeared overnight.  That's what happened in my case too.  It's very difficult to make sense out of it when that happens.  Please don't feel like an idiot.   It is natural to want answers and to want to understand what happened.   

I'm glad he finally manned up and told you the truth...but wow it just sounds so shitty to me that he was doing this behind your back and flaked out with no explanation.  Maybe you are better off to be rid of him!


The weird thing was, about an hour before he called me, I talked to Melody Marie who told me he'd be coming back into my life and would want to get back together. (Sorry tired, I know you really like her...)

No need to apologize for that, ever...these are the kinds of things I want to hear and think we all need to know here.  I will never get upset when a reader I like turns out to be wrong for someone else.  Melody has been wrong a few times for me too.  Overall she has been more accurate for me than other readers, but when it comes to final outcomes, who knows...so many things haven't finished panning out for me yet. 

Sometimes I feel like maybe no one can really predict the ultimate outcome...but then when a reader does get it right, that's really awesome.  I'm just sorry that it turned out the way it did for you. 
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: FaithnTrust on July 01, 2016, 08:04:08 PM
So funny how some readers work for some, and not for others. Jenny Alton said I would marry the man I asked about. This man is the most commitment "phobe" I have ever know....LOL! Even he admits it!  This was 2 years ago...and nothing. Not dating, and even our friendship is nearly non existent.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 01, 2016, 08:13:48 PM
I know!  It's weird how they can be right for some and wrong for others.  Or both right and wrong about different things for the same caller.  It can be really crazy making.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 01, 2016, 09:44:15 PM
If you don't mind Presence, it would be helpful to know which ones got it wrong.

That's spooky that you had just asked Melody about it...I mean I was wondering if YOU sensed you were going to hear from him?  Even if maybe you didn't realize it?

I have to rethink some of what she's told me...I don't know would be nice for once if I could get verification one way or the other within an hour of anything a reader told me.  lol  Things move way more slowly for me.

Again I'm so sorry though...lots of hugs. 
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: Leogirl0808 on July 03, 2016, 06:17:13 AM
Did Sincerity give you anytime frames for things to take place between you two?
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: Leogirl0808 on July 04, 2016, 11:09:24 PM
totally understand this one.  But I am not sure if I understand you right.  This is just how I feel.    I feel,  sometimes psychics will tell you something,  in your mind, you thought it is THIS but it turned out to be THAT.  It is just me.  If they tell me about this apology, I would think this ex will come back to apologize and reconcile. :(


Lanlingyu, I think you are reading a bit into the prediction of an apology. To me and I think for Presence, (correct me if I'm wrong)is saying sorry for what they have  done, taking some responsibility/accountability for their action.  No where does that sum up reconciling and getting back together.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: Leogirl0808 on July 04, 2016, 11:20:11 PM
One can only hope lol that they would apologize and reconcile and everything would be good. I totally see what you're say on though unfortunately some psychics and maybe Sincerity has said this also but they do tell you if he will want to reconcile after the apologize. I mean you can an apology and not forgive the person which will then become the game changer, unless the psychic predicted that. In that case, that's an awesome reader:)
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: Leogirl0808 on July 05, 2016, 12:18:09 AM
So are they together? Or do you think they are?
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 05, 2016, 02:29:46 AM
Oh good grief...readers damn well know if someone is asking about an ex, they are probably wondering about the possibility of reconciliation and getting back together.  Being vague about it or leaving things "open to interpretation" is irresponsible and a great way of covering their ass later if it doesn't pan out. 
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 05, 2016, 02:37:58 PM
Some psychics, both fortunately and unfortunately, don't like to give bad news, so they'll tweak a reading so that they are not flat out delivering bad news (these are the dangerous ones in my opinion and should be avoided at all costs)

I agree these readers are best avoided.  It takes a lot of tact to deliver bad news in a kind way.  But there's a fine line between being tactful and misleading someone. 

It's frustrating though when you have to drag the answers out of them and keep asking more and more specific questions.  I tend to avoid those too.  Sometimes it comes off as suspect to me if they can't elaborate more without me asking something specific, it makes me feel like they are just going off what I ask them instead of really getting something on their own.  I feel like it's more legit when they offer information spontaneously.

In my experience most are all too willing to elaborate and some may downright embroider the answers.  They don't just say you will reconnect and leave it at that, they go on to say things like you are destined to be together for many years, I see you moving in together, you will get married and so on. 

I'm less inclined to believe that callers are just reading into predictions what they want to hear, more often the readers are the ones who are reading too much into things and misleading the caller.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 09, 2016, 09:34:40 AM
Hey ladies so as you guys know my ex and I are back in contact I'm currently visiting him right now we had a good night almost had sex smh I got him really drunk and it seems that Judi and qoc18 where in tune with some of his thoughts just they were exaggerating it. Pretty much they both said my ex really wants too be and we won't be able to be together till he does . Judi said that he is having problems at home with his family and how they probably want to kick him out well he confirmed that he does want to move out but his life at home is fine he expressed that he doesn't feel pressure and at first he felt stressed about paying his student loans . I then asked him if he hated his job because Judi and qoc18 said that he wants a new job he said that he loves his job but would like to get paid more and he is thinking about applying for a new job it moving to miami but I know my ex and he's all talk . Then in the end I was asking him questions about why he broke up with me the way he did and then he asked me to live with him. Honestly it was hard to tell what he was thinking because it sounded all over the place.so far I think Keisha's negative prediction might be true the most that he won't get back together
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: sunandmoon on July 09, 2016, 02:58:02 PM

hi, dear. It sounds like he does want you but his current financial situation is limiting him.  Was he drunk when he said all these?  If he is very drunk, I may take what he said with a grain of salt. But he may be telling the truth. 

http://elitedaily.com/life/culture/drunk-talk-real-talk/704272/

I think people are more truthful when they are drunk.....
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 09, 2016, 04:54:59 PM
@Tthompsj if Sin prediction comes true I will be so shocked I think I will die from a heart attack lol.Yeah no way will I pick up from where I am to move in he has a lot to prove before I feel comfortable in doing that.Yeah there was no way I was going to let him get close to my heart easily he has to work for it.
@langlingyu I think he was telling the truth because he was drunk and his guard was down he usually does tell the truth when he is drunk.His real feelings come out.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: Leogirl0808 on July 09, 2016, 08:25:52 PM
@Allibai. Did you feel Judis was way off or was she telling you what you wanted to hear?
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: Leogirl0808 on July 09, 2016, 08:27:56 PM
Even Lisa Dianne? Was she at least right on the empath stuff regarding him?
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 10, 2016, 12:13:30 AM
@leogirl I don't think Judi was telling me things u wanted to hear but I do think she was off she got certain things right but the intensity of those things were wrong and some of the detail.lisa Dianne when I lay spoke to her she said we would reconcile which we have not and idk if it will happen because he seems very hesitant. I have not spoken to her since then.@langlingyu I agree with you he probably is telling his true desire but he's not going to act on it when he is sober because he is thinking more logical
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: sunandmoon on July 10, 2016, 04:40:49 PM
 
When one is drunk, one tends to overlook and DOWNSIZE all the obstacles.  Subconscious mind came out to dominate.   He tells you what he truly desires.  It may be true.  But it often is not reliable.  He may not act on his true desire.   After he sobers up, he will continue his old way.  It happens a lot.   That's why drunk people do stuff they normally would not do when they are sober.  When their senses came back, all the inhibition and obstacles come back.  So ......

Exactly. Way back when I was going through the mess with my ex, he invited me to an event. He got absolutely hammered and was throwing up when we got back to his place. In the midst of everything he tells me he loves me, misses me and wants to make things better. Well that's what I'd be dying to hear for almost a year at that point. Was affectionate towards me all night.

Come morning, he's back to his cold self. I told him what he had said, and he believed that he said it, but said it didn't matter. Wouldn't even look me in the eye - and keep in mind HE invited me to the event. I think his reasoning was that "people" wouldn't let it happen, meaning his family. All BS but whatever.

He confided to me a bit about his family a couple of times after that but it was pretty much it and I was tired of it at that point. I cut him loose completely 6 months later.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 10, 2016, 11:25:16 PM
Here to report another prediction coming true.   QOC18 was right. last time I asked her about a job opportunity and she said they are not ready for me.  She was right.

Sorry to hear it didn't come through for you lanlingyu.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 11, 2016, 02:49:15 AM
I agree with you 100%.  They tell their true feelings. But, based on my personal experience (just happened this March), you have to be careful with what you hear.  I got myself tipsy just to have some courage to open up.  He started drinking with me.   He was tipsy too but he has a high tolerance.   The good thing is the guys I date are good at communicating complicated thoughts and emotions when talking to me.  So the alcohol is just for me. 

When one is sober, one's conscious mind takes over.  One makes decision based on logical thinking, logical evaluation of pros and cons, weighs risk vs benefits.  etc etc.  One cannot let go of these influences or inhibition.  Even if one strongly desires somebody or something, one's conscious mind will stop this person from losing inhibition and overlooking all the obstacles to obtain it.   

When one is drunk, one tends to overlook and DOWNSIZE all the obstacles.  Subconscious mind came out to dominate.   He tells you what he truly desires.  It may be true.  But it often is not reliable.  He may not act on his true desire.   After he sobers up, he will continue his old way.  It happens a lot.   That's why drunk people do stuff they normally would not do when they are sober.  When their senses came back, all the inhibition and obstacles come back.  So ......

Well said...I agree.  A person may reveal their deeper feelings when they are drunk...or act on impulses they normally wouldn't follow.  But that does not mean they will continue to follow through on those things when they are sober...more often the opposite, they will be embarrassed or just flat out deny it.

In the long run those deeper feelings and intentions may will out and come to fruition, but it can take awhile for a person to work through whatever is stopping them from acting on it...like, years.

The downside to getting readings is that some readers - especially empaths - can pick up on all those deeper feelings and intentions but they don't always "see" what is stopping the person from acting on it.  They might feel strongly that something will happen and give us relatively short time frames, when in actuality it could take a long time. 

And when the reader is very feeling-oriented I think they over-emphasize the FEELINGS...and they can totally miss picking up on the rational and practical reasons why people can't always ACT on their feelings.  In reality we all have things we have feelings about and wish we could do, but life doesn't always work out that way. 

Lots of people have feelings at one time or another about "hating" their job...it might be a mood or a passing thing, or it might be a deeper feeling that the person has to suppress every day so they can get on with things...but the reality is a lot of people don't have the options to just quit their job or change careers when they feel like it. 

It can be the same with relationships...you can have very deep feelings for someone and really wish you could be with them, but still have all kinds of reasons why it doesn't seem like a good idea to act on it.  And the reasons aren't necessarily obstacles that have to be overcome...sometimes they are things we wouldn't ever be willing to give up or compromise, and shouldn't. 

But again the downside of getting readings is sometimes they frame it to us like the reasons are all obstacles that can be overcome...rather than issues of compatibility or timing or life circumstances.  They say oh this person really loves you (which may be TRUE) but they aren't acting on it because ___ and as soon as they get that figured out they will be ready to move forward.  And they present it like it will have a fairytale ending. 

Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: Leogirl0808 on July 20, 2016, 01:27:54 AM
Oh me me me:))))
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: Leogirl0808 on July 20, 2016, 01:34:58 AM
Thank you:))))
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: bstalling on July 20, 2016, 02:01:07 AM
Barbara says that with everyone..."theres going to be a delay". For the most part, she is general and phones it in when shes not gettnig anything specific about you.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: bstalling on July 20, 2016, 02:02:49 AM
So no one was right about ANYTHING?? oh boy :-\

LOL yes, its common. Which is a reason why most people should just forget about the readings. Just read old posts. Its always a variation of providing some sort of validation (job title, how someone acted in past etc.) but then being wrong about what actually happens. One or two readers in a list of 200 may get it right, but you would be spending tons of money before then.  The worst is when several readers are giving the same prediction, so you assume that it will happen, but then they all turn out dead wrong. Sigh...
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: Leogirl0808 on July 20, 2016, 02:13:33 AM
Question: Sincerity said what will take place 7/22?
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 20, 2016, 03:00:41 AM
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So no one was right about ANYTHING?? oh boy :-\

LOL yes, its common. Which is a reason why most people should just forget about the readings. Just read old posts. Its always a variation of providing some sort of validation (job title, how someone acted in past etc.) but then being wrong about what actually happens. One or two readers in a list of 200 may get it right, but you would be spending tons of money before then.  The worst is when several readers are giving the same prediction, so you assume that it will happen, but then they all turn out dead wrong. Sigh...

I have read through old posts and saw a lot of stories where readers were just flat wrong, missed the obvious and really misled people.  I feel really bad for people having gone through things like that.  And I think sometimes wrong is just wrong. 

But...on the other hand I have seen some posts where people said the readers turned out to be wrong...however if I read through all their posts they also admit somewhere that at least part of it turned out like a reader said it would...or sometimes they got the outcome that was predicted but just didn't want it anymore.  So it was not ALL wrong or dead wrong. 

It is definitely a good suggestion to read old posts though, at least if you can stomach the arguing and drama that went on here on some of those old threads.   :o  It's a real sucker punch to the solar plexus to read some of that stuff. 
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: bstalling on July 20, 2016, 04:24:57 AM
bstalling have you tried Dominique? she's been right about a lot of things for me but wrong with timing. Im following up with her tonight.

No, not really a fan with CP. And, I'm kinda winding down with readings for good now. Unless is she good with work/business issues?
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 20, 2016, 11:41:23 AM
Sooooooo they were all fucking wrong! I'm currently in Vegas and I got really drunk and of course I called my ex and then stupid me I texted him pretty much saying I'm done because he keeps doing things that he did in the past distancing himself from me and I told him I don't like it and how he talk shit about my mom but he treats me just like her a lame.told him that he needs to man and grow up hopefully he does that for the next girl. I drive 10 hours and spent $300 and it's like he didn't appreciate it and he says he figured out he wanted me but it's like I'm not getting anything. He then texted me saying no problem and that he figured out he doesn't want me and that he's not attracted to me anymore and he doesn't love me anymore and that he can't be with someone that doesn't believe in God( mind you I said to him idk if I believe in God anymore because it's like I give my all to people and they hurt me). He said no told me to come see him and pay $300 when u have a boyfriend ( which I don't I'm just dating someone) he said that he is trying to focus on his careers and he there's nothing wrong with himand maybe there's something wrong with me  and he doesn't care about relationships and I care so much about being with some that it pushes them away.
So the person that they all said loves me and wants me just said this to me . They were all wrong . Keisha said we won't be together but she says that he loves me . So she's wrong but right outcome idk why she said we wouldn't be together. So heartbroken right now
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: Sooshi on July 20, 2016, 11:56:52 AM
It sounds like he does love you. He's just immature and wants to hurt you. He figures if you loved him, you wouldn't be dating someone else, even though he's pushed you into it with his own behavior.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 20, 2016, 03:58:37 PM
@Sooshi he has said that before if you love someone you dont move on so quickly but honestly I don't get how he can come back after this after all that he has said.Hes being very spiteful.I don't know.I know for sure that we will never speak or be together again.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 20, 2016, 06:57:54 PM
I have been reading with Keisha since January and she had always said that he loved me but we won't be together. So idk of that will change after 6 months . I have not talked to Domnique. I don't see the point in talking to readers anymore. He chose to not only walk away but hurt me and right now I can't phamon him coming back and making things right
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 20, 2016, 07:37:15 PM
Allibai I'm so sorry that you are hurting.  What he said was mean and you didn't deserve that, and especially not after going all that way to see him. 

But it's not a question of deserving, it's more that there are natural consequences to the actions that we take.  When you phone/text a guy while you are drunk - and you're saying that you're done and insulting his male ego - after already saying that you're seeing someone else??  This is what happens.  Most people tend to hurt someone back when they feel hurt or feel the need to protect themselves from rejection.  You've given him mixed signals, he doesn't even know why you bothered coming out all that way to see him if you're telling him that you're involved with someone else.  It's natural that he would respond the way he did. 
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 20, 2016, 08:23:01 PM
@tiredofitall , I didn't think of it that way. I wAs upset that after seeing him he started distancing himself from me last week he asked me how I felt after seeing him I said I was scared and confused because I do want him but I'm scared to get my heart broken so instead of him saying how he felt after my message he decided not to express himself and went m.i.a for a whole week till I texted him. I wanted him to fight for me . So I didn't think of hurting his ego because I was hurting and even though I dating another guy all I want is my ex but i don't want the pain he causes me. I want to do everything to make him happy and make h feel loved but he keeps sabotaging . You are right I didn't see it from that perspective and that was selfish
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 20, 2016, 08:32:35 PM
I understand allibai and I mean wow I have been there, not the exact situation but you know wanting someone to fight for me and being scared they won't and that I'll just keep getting hurt.  And I don't know what all he has put you through up to this point so I don't know maybe you are right to be selfish at this point.  I got to a point with my situation where I felt like I had to be selfish and protect myself.  You know the situation best and it is your choice always, no right or wrong here.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 20, 2016, 09:35:51 PM
Yeah all I can do right now is move on if he comes back I'll be happy but I'll be reluctant, if doesn't come back oh well . Thinking of it only one psychic predicted this Rachel Marie she said I would reach out to him and  she sees him texting me saying something really  rude because he is frustrated and he wouldn't talk to me for a while and hell back. I didn't think anything of it because she said it would happen at the end of june.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 20, 2016, 10:02:34 PM
This Rachel Marie?
http://www.keen.com/psychic-readings/love-relationships/rachel-marie/12432692

She has no feedback on Keen but found the same reader on bitwine and kasamba
http://www.kasamba.com/psychic/rachel-psychic-medium/
http://psychic.bitwine.com/users/250631-rachelmarie?advisor=true&feedback=true&filter=-1#feedback
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 21, 2016, 12:08:33 AM
@tiredofitall yes rachel marie on bitwine
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 21, 2016, 12:11:19 AM
@ allibai
I wonder if any of this would have happened had you NOT contacted him. Not saying that the psychics (or "psychics") were all right, but at some point, we as callers have to take some sort of responsibility for why some things don't work out.  Drunk calling/texting is the worse. I agree with some of the others here -- that he DOES care about you, but he probably lashed out and said those things as a reaction to how you came at him. If someone came at me in such a manner, I'd be on both defense and offense too. I'm sorry you're hurting, but I've been there. My ex used to do the same thing and I used to blame him, but eventually realized that he wouldn't have acted in such a way if I hadn't provoked him. Granted, he could definitely be an ass all on his own WITHOUT any aid from me...gotta love men. In response to some of the others (laningyu?) and the predictions...yeah, QoC....man. Hit or miss. Good with present, but again...for me, personally, she never really panned out.  SIN has actually been on target with me thus far. My ex did reach out to me via email recently, but I haven't responded. I'm still contemplating if I want to go down this road again :/

Cheer up! It's not the end of the world. I don't think you two are DONE done, but you need to back off from him. Otherwise, he'll definitely stay away. You went from 0 to 100 real quick with him.  Just keep pushing forward and put him on the back burner.  If he comes back, good! If not...good? Hopefully by then, you won't be hurting as much.

::hugs::

Yeah i just wanted him to wake up and him going mia for a week really hurt me and I mean I could but my mind kept saying to contact him. I will try my best to move on and hopefullt eventually I wouldnt want him anymore which would be great after everything he put me through but honestly I know I will always have a soft spot for me.

Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 21, 2016, 12:50:27 AM
@lanlingyu I'm dating in genreal.Ultimately the only person I want is my ex but I dont cut my options off becuase as you can see my ex likes to disappear on me or sabotage.So, I wanted to see my ex to see how I felt about us and just see how things would be between us.When I saw him everything felt the same ,I knew I still loved him and wanted him but I was also scared of him running away.On thursday of last week he asked me how I felt and I told him how I felt overall,I want him but Im scared he would hurt me.He didn;t say muchto my response. He said he knows what he wants to  say but doesnt know how to say it in the right way.I trying to have hm express himself and he still couldnt tel me.After that day and I never heard from him.

My ex has pushed me to date others because of his push and pull behavior if he was not like that trust me I will be with him and no one else.

As for the other person they know its casually dating not serious its for fun
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 21, 2016, 12:50:36 AM
You just want to shake them like, "WAKE UP!!!" unfortunately, most people (especially men) need to realize their hurtful actions on their own. Doesn't matter how many people throw it in their face, they will only change when they're ready.

Exactly...and if they are anything like my ex, the more people try to tell them the more stubborn and resistant they get. 

I would have to see my ex really humble himself a lot, soften his attitude and take some responsibility for his actions.  I know deep down he probably feels bad about things but it can't just be deep down and it can't be something I have to play a guessing game about.  It has to come up to the surface and be a real change.  Otherwise - I can still love him from a distance but I'm not going to take any crap from him.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 21, 2016, 01:14:38 AM
COMPLETELY understand. That's why I'm hesitating on responding to my ex. He finally reached out after playing around on social media after a year of silence. I'm not sure if I want to put myself through the craziness again because I KNOW he hasn't changed. I really wish you hadn't reached out to your ex. It can be hard, I know. You just want to shake them like, "WAKE UP!!!" unfortunately, most people (especially men) need to realize their hurtful actions on their own. Doesn't matter how many people throw it in their face, they will only change when they're ready.

With my ex, I kept getting SUPER strong sensations to contact him, but I didn't. It killed me not hearing from him for a year, but now I look and see the things he's doing to catch my attention and make me notice him and I'm not biting. It's kind of like, "now look whose begging for attention? Funny how the table has flipped."  Allibai: DO. NOT. CONTACT. HIM. ANYMORE. Especially after what has recently transpired. If he reaches out, that's one thing. Space is definitely best right now. I could move on from my ex and get married and be happy, but I will ALWAYS have a spot for him. Nobody will change that. Doesn't mean I can't be happy with someone else though :)

Yeah no i wont contact him honestly my self esteem feels very bruised right now.I feel really worthless right now so I'm not going to reach out to the person who made me feel that way unless he apologizes and shows me he means it .
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 21, 2016, 01:17:16 AM
Yeah men are like children :) They are not willing to admit they are wrong..and the more you call out on them the more stubborn/defensive they get..let him come to you, let him WANT to do care for you and love you. Shouting at him "LOVe ME! CARE ABOUT ME!" isn't gonna work (not saying thats what you're doing, just a generalization)

Lol maddie honestly I think I did sound like that.That sounds exactly like what I was trying to say/do.thats all I want love and care about me and Ill be happy.I dont care if hes broke or has one leg.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 21, 2016, 01:25:40 AM
I see how you feel.  But I don't agree with your ex pushing you to date others.  As mature grown up adults, no one is pushed to DATE others...  I am sorry I don't understand.  I hope your situation will get resolved very soon.

I think the same way.  No one pushes you to do this it's just a choice.  And it sends a message and not necessarily the message you might want to send. 

I mean if I was thinking of getting back together with an ex and they were dating someone else...no freakin' way!  I don't roll that way and it would be way too emotionally risky for me. 
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 21, 2016, 02:03:37 AM
Before we can get any sort of commitment from anyone, we should all be open to other options.

No...people are different.  I wouldn't date anyone casually or get involved with multiple guys at the same time because I'm just not built that way.  Some people can do that but for me it would go against my nature. 

Commitment goes both ways...if you are wanting the other person to commit but still dating other people it can send a very mixed message and put them off.  There's this myth that if a woman makes a man jealous he will fight harder for her.  That only works on men who want the excitement of a chase or a conquest...and when that excitement settles down he may just move on to another conquest.

A person who wants a commitment and wants to put their whole heart into a relationship is going to be more cautious.  Seeing the person they care about casually dating other people is more likely to scare them away...not bring them closer. 
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 21, 2016, 03:36:26 AM
I know my ex very well . Which is why it's good for me to have options. When I asked him where this was going he told me not to ask him questions like that and to let things go with flow . That shows me he is hesitant and likes to have me there with no responsibility of having a relationship. In my mind in single .i don't believe just because I'm dating or talking to someone I should drop all my options. Until a guy ask me to be his girlfriend I'm free. All the other times when we got together or were in the process I cut everyone off just to be hurt again
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: member60636366 on July 22, 2016, 05:20:10 PM
there was an advisor who told me that my bf was leaving me after 20 others said he was coming back in 3 weeks. Of course he had met someone else.
That advisor is not on Keen anymore I don't think.
jory
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: monika on July 23, 2016, 02:08:50 AM
Is there anyone on keen who is good with time frames ?? Lisa Dianne changed her timeframes twice already, some others as well. I am just wondering if this is typical.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 23, 2016, 02:11:00 AM
I have not found anyone yet who has been good at that.Lisa dianne for me has never been good with timing.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: monika on July 23, 2016, 02:16:02 AM
I give Lisa Diane a big credit for her accuracy with feelings and present situation. However,  timing is completely off.
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 23, 2016, 02:45:27 AM
Is there anyone on keen who is good with time frames ??

I haven't found anyone on Keen who is good with time frames...or good with predictions at all for that matter. 
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: RedVelvet on July 23, 2016, 03:22:09 AM
Is there anyone on keen who is good with time frames ?? Lisa Dianne changed her timeframes twice already, some others as well. I am just wondering if this is typical.

very typical of SO MANY readers. if you're looking for someone good with timeframes, you'll be looking forever. 
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: monika on July 23, 2016, 03:25:04 AM
😁. Ok, as long as "soon" does not mean 5 years or so, I will accept it then 😂
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: monika on July 29, 2016, 01:03:05 AM
Congratulations 👏👏 so only Sincerity was right? Is that correct ?
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: tired of it all on July 29, 2016, 01:44:12 AM
lanlingyu I hope everything works out for you with this new job offer!
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 31, 2016, 02:21:42 AM
@langlingyu is he good with love predictions?
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: allibai3 on July 31, 2016, 02:44:55 AM
I still try ,him he sounds really good
Title: Re: Right on PREDICTION
Post by: monika on August 21, 2016, 03:36:28 AM
I am glad to announce that two readers were recently right on predictions! One of them was Joeanna- I spoke with her in the morning and she told me that I will receive an email from poi. Around 2 pm the same day I got an email! The second one was Astrosarah who predicted that my POI will travel during these days without his new girlfriend . I just got a validation of this statement.