Hi everyone,
Long time, no post! I hope all is well with everyone.
My last post was an update in which I listed a couple of readers who had gotten some stuff right. Queen of Cups18 was on that list, and I just realized she was right about something else. Disclaimer: This is pretty minor and is also completely dependent on my "free will". Anyways, at the end of last year, I had a reading with Anne and told her that I had decided to sign up for both Match and eHarmony for online dating. In that phone call, she stated that I wouldn't have any luck with online dating, and she didn't even see me going on any dates within anyone from either site. Well, a couple of weeks ago I cancelled my Match membership and today I cancelled my eHarmony subscription. Although I was speaking with one guy from eHarmony and we were slated to meet, I went with my gut and cancelled on him. Other than him, I didn't really speak with anyone else, and I did not go on any dates. I would say Anne was correct.
I rarely call readers anymore (although I do break down every now and then), but I have found that they are best with the stuff they just "get". Anne has been this way for me. I am sure she won't work for everyone, but when she is on, she is on. She isn't perfect, but the stuff she has been able to get on her own has been spot on. Interestingly enough, I would say the same about Jenny Alton, even though I have expressed dislike for her before. She may not be a great predictor, but she has told me things that had recently happened or has provided me with details I can most certainly confirm.
I think it's important to reel in our expectations of readings. We will not get a clear picture of the future. Honestly, I don't think we're really supposed to know. We may get some insight, and it's best to go in with that mindset. If not, we become entirely dependent on needing to know. But come on. We don't really need to know. It stops us from living. We are all too familiar with that debilitating feeling.
Now that I am less dependent on readings, I honestly feel alive. Am I still single? Yup. But I am ok. It's not going to kill me. When it happens, it happens. If it doesn't happen, it's ok because I am busy with work, school, and my children.
This week I had a super stressful issue arise with the father of my children. I was dying to call every reader to see what they had to say. I did break down and called one and then realized it was pointless. Eventually I'll see how it all plays out. It'll happen the way it's meant to happen no matter what any reader says. I think that's what we have to remain focused on.
Anyways, with all that said, I will say that Anne is one of the few readers I trust. Now that I can be more objective I would say that I would be willing to consult with Ness21, Aries Intuition, LadyPersephone, and Jenny Alton in the future. None of them is perfect and they all have been wrong in one way or another. Even though that's the case, they also have managed to impress me with details and predictions they could not have merely guessed. I'm ok with taking those odds if I get the itch for a reading sometime.
I wish all the best to everyone here and want you all to know that in one way or another you've all contributed to my growth in the past couple of years. I lost a lot of money on readers, but I guess I had to go through that in order to learn what I have. I don't hate psychics and I do think there is something to this gift. We just have to find a balance and remember to continue living our lives.