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Do psychic readings stop us making our own progress?

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jdd2003:
Jordie that's good advice. I think you must be referring to Kisha no? She pulls out numbers like that. I started this thread because I would see a lot of people posting repeatedly in feedback on reader's pages and it just seems like some cannot go without knowing the next tiny thing - getting contact and then calling for when is the next, and the next, and the next. Ultimately though, I think I've still come to the conclusion of not really wanting to know.

elcaliente:
jdd,

I love your optimism for my case!!  And believe me I will use that as a tool for myself also.

Actually, I think in my case things couldn't be worse.  I have had no contact from my beloved for 5 months after a 5 1/2 year relationship that ended with a phone call out of the blue.  We never see each other, have no mutual friends, and right now I have every reason to believe he has spent the better part of the last 5 months lying next to another woman. 
He asked that we preserve what he called a cherished friendship - that he wanted to talk, and do things together and such - so far nothing.  I sent a simple text wishing him a happy holiday weekend that was ignored.  Frankly, as I look at my situation it's tragic....but I continue to hope because the relationship we had was pure joy for both of us.


--- Quote from: jdd2003 on September 19, 2012, 10:01:06 PM ---Smee, I completely agree. However, I think you're in a better position than most in that case. i think if things are generally going well it's easier to use readings as a tool. On the contrary, when things are rough, like just after a break up, it's harder to do that and the readings start dictating behaviour or lack thereof. If someone told me yes I could contact someone, but it's not advisable (which by the way in my current situation someone did and luckily I ignored that advice), I would still question it and spend my time questioning is it right or wrong, instead of just going for it. I think unless you're in a good place in your life, it's better to stay away from depending on readings.

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jdd2003:
Smee

I am really sorry to hear you're hurting but this is exactly my point. There is hope and then there is hope. One kind is the kind we carry while getting on with life and letting it be on the backburner. The other is what happens when we speak to psychics. The sheer act of speaking to psychics makes it an active thought and that's what holds us back as individuals and people when it comes to these situations. I am not saying give up,  but it will be easier to get through each day when it's not something that's actively thought about. By speaking to psychics about some of these things we prolong out pain and our time to heal because we're picking at the wound instead of letting it heal. Everything that's meant to be will be- and til you get there you might as well live it up, work hard and party harder :)

Furah2fun:
Jdd2003, great post and good mantra to live by!!!

elcaliente:
jdd,

We're really on the same page.  I have consulted enough readers to get a fair sense of how they predict the outcome will be.  I have to say that at first I consulted advisors without giving a lot of consideration to whether they are considered accurate or not.  After reading this forum, I determined a core group I wished to consult based upon if they are respected and their accuracy rate and have enough information assembled from those readings that I feel comfortable leaving it now ( I am in Cookie's line right now, and will decide when my turn comes up if I need to read with her or not).

That was a process that took some time, because I had to find out who I could rely on, and who I felt was not so connected. At no time have a secured a reading because a predicted date for contact came and went without a result. I've always maintained that the outcome is all that matters.  Indeed, once that is done it is best to continue to "restore" and let the Universe go to work.


--- Quote from: jdd2003 on September 19, 2012, 10:36:55 PM ---Smee

I am really sorry to hear you're hurting but this is exactly my point. There is hope and then there is hope. One kind is the kind we carry while getting on with life and letting it be on the backburner. The other is what happens when we speak to psychics. The sheer act of speaking to psychics makes it an active thought and that's what holds us back as individuals and people when it comes to these situations. I am not saying give up,  but it will be easier to get through each day when it's not something that's actively thought about. By speaking to psychics about some of these things we prolong out pain and our time to heal because we're picking at the wound instead of letting it heal. Everything that's meant to be will be- and til you get there you might as well live it up, work hard and party harder :)

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