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soulmates???do they always end up together? and why is it such damn hard work!
cj:
I totally agree with you aef..we do need hope in our lives...and we need to experience those choices we've made no matter how detrimental bc thats how we live and learn..this is what were here for on this planet after all.
aef2929 P:
I feel that you are supposed to take from a reading what resonates with you and throw the rest out!
I feel that reading with a psychic is our own choice in this experience. We are doing it to gain insight. I believe some are out there that need work on their presentation and they shouldn't be doing this type of work where people are coming to then and are vulnerable and need to be handled with care...and some don't do that. Some can be rude.
I don't feel any good psychic would tell someone that this person is their one and only soulmate. We all have multiple soulmates...are we on their path in this lifetime...maybe....maybe not. Our vibration and our energy we put out there is what creates our reality. I do believe we made some or at least 1 contract with someone before we came down here..now I am not saying a love contract per say...it may be a contract of care for that person...seeing them through an illness etc...A Sacred Contract. There are also Soul Contracts I believe.
But no, do we get "punished" and have to be with no one if the soulmate can't get it together? I don't believe that....someone else will come in our path even if not a soulmate. Most marriages and loving relationships between 2 people are not soulmates...or love soulmates..heart soulmates they call it. Soulmate relationships are work...they are hard...until that work is getting done then they are dynamite!
I also believe with a reading it goes by current energy and as long as that person continues on that energy path then what is seen at that time is pretty accurate. But I believe every action has a reaction and we change our own paths at times. Freewill right? We are revising the script. We create our own reality by our actions....good and bad. The law of Karma, consequences, they're unavoidable when we make an action. That's why I feel to examine your intention...it will result in an outcome you may not really want.
It's all in our choices...even with the readings...our choice. WE are accountable for us...it's our experience.
fm:
In any case, to me, SM is just only a label. Ultimately, it is reality and time speaks for itself. In this case, we have to make the choice of how we want to live our lives, SM or not, this lover or that lover, if you guys feel happy being with them, and if they are worth your time and love, good for you, if not you can choose to wait or move on. Ultimately, it is true that we are responsible for our decisions and the life we live.
positivethoughts:
Just to clarify on my end - I asked they psychics if they saw anyone else in my near future - they didn't. With the current energy they felt like SM is the person I am going to end up with. They also didn't see a another *love* SM relationship in my near future. That doesn't mean it isn't out there. I have full faith in God that I am going to end up with someone awesome and be happy when the time is right. It's what I want and pray for. Abrielle said the same thing that aef said. If the soul mate doesn't work out, another will be sent. Abrielle took a look to see if she saw another SM on the horizon and she didn't. Doesn't mean another relationship isn't out there. Ellen basically said the same thing.
I could start dating someone else next weekend. I actually tried to reconnect with the December guy recently but it didn't work out. Dating someone and the SM connection are 2 completely different things. I can't even compare the two. I had major lust and infatuation for December guy but that is quite different from the SM 'pull'.
Honestly, December guy was much easier to deal with then the SM nonsense. But my heart and soul is with SM and for now, I want to leave it there. I'm willing to take the chance that this may or may not workout for what I think could be an awesome life changing relationship. A few days after I broke up with SM, December guy came flying into my life. I know he was sent in to help get me through. Based on what I've seen and learned through my recent journey, I have faith. Spiritual faith, destiny faith, faith in the goodness of others and faith in myself.
We spoke again last night for 2 minutes. Things are moving very slowly - like a snail - but there is movement after months of being stagnant. I have learned such patience from this. I don't know how much more patience I can learn at this point. We are communicating - hooray!!!
xxoo
pt
jb27:
Hey all,
Just wanted to stop and and say hi to everyone, been super busy latelyand haven't had much time to post. I don't really have anything to update though either lol I'll try and post a lil more later when I'm not on my phone!!
PT- I'm so glad you guys are communicating again. You have a wonderful attitude towards everything and that only ensures a great outcome. I know what you say about patience haha!!
Hope everyone had a great weekend!
Back soon!!
JB
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