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soulmates???do they always end up together? and why is it such damn hard work!

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cj:
aef..you are wise and wonderful and inspirational... xoxoxo I loved your post...you keep me smiling and you give me strength

kirakira:
I'm not angry, I'm frustrated that people in a position to be a trusted consult for paying customers will treat their hearts so frivolously.  A medical doctor would be sued for this type of negligence.  I am frustrated that people buy the words written by others regarding exactly what a soul mate is and all the rules therein.  There's a lot of talking going on and a lot of supposed knowledge on a subject that in intangible.  To me this is only further exacerbating hopes which may be in vain and, more importantly, detrimental. 
You're right that everybody is living his/her own experience, and nobody needs to apologize for their feelings.  I certainly don't apologize for being honest and realistic and caring about people I don't even really know.  My input here is what it is and it's not a style that works for everyone, but if any one person engages in a new thought path that leads to resolution because I speak from my perspective, that's worth it to me.  There is no authority on this subject.  To think it's all been figured out is contrary to what spiritualism is.

aef2929 P:
I agree Kira...

This subject is intangible...it does not have a physical presence...it's what is in each person's individual heart.  It's for each of us to have our own experience and go within ourselves and decide how we want it to go.  Not to experience this on others terms...on our own terms.  I agree.

I don't feel that this is further exacerbating hopes.  We are all supposed to have hope for ourselves...it's about what each individual wants.  And I don't feel anyone thinks it's all been figured out.  For me I feel it has been about me figuring myself out and my own path in this.

kirakira:
So it sounds like you agree with some of what I'm saying, so do you not feel miffed by psychics who tell a person this is their one and only soul mate or there aren't any others out there and stuff like that?  I think that's horrible and obviously they shouldn't be doing this work.

cj:
well God is all for the love so I def dont think we have only one sm, but hey people stay married to people and they're not sm...so just bc a person has one sm in this lifetime doesnt mean thats the end of the road for them and they will never be happy.

It just means that their soul has only made a contract with one person in this lifetime..its not the psychics who did that..our souls did..they're just the messengers.

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