I completely agree with scorpiogirl. I heard all the same statements for multiple men. I don't want to diminish your pain or minimize the strength of your connection, but there comes a point when you have to accept reality and actions at face value.
Ditto, though I had only called on one. I bet if I called on my current guy I'd get the same lines. It was always interesting when I asked about both the guys.
Yes, mine also is/was going through what seemed to me a major life change, cut others out of his life (and still is) and has not let them back in. These are not even love interests, but true friends - at least they were. I listen to one tell me "at least he hasn't deleted my friend request on fb" (after he defriended her) and I think - honey, it's unlikely he'll refriend you. I mean, he never deleted me and still rarely communicates with me via fb.
I was told we had a deep connection, sm connection, spent other lives together. I've heard it all. Fact of the matter is he wants nothing to do with me, not even as a friend. A psychic would tell me he's embarrassed, he still has feelings for me and doesn't know what to do about them.... truth is he's the only one that really knows what he's thinking and he's not sharing.
