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kiki155:
Cocoa, Yea, I didn't mean "gym fit". I meant just like trim but not rail thin. It's kind of hard to explain body types, since everyone has different ideas of what's what.

And then there's a girl with (fake) blonde hair who he talks to about you.

bjr181:
He isn't in school but his job deals with a lot of reporting/papers/auditing.

Not sure how I scare the crap out of him.

Not sure what desert means either.

I get the bombarding him, he always says I pressure him and stress him out unintentionally.  Is that how he is feeling now or how he felt in the past?  I'm unsure if you can read people's feelings in the "now".

He is my ex and that is probably part of the reason he broke it off with me. 

Can you read anything else?

kiki155:
I feel like he thinks you take unnecessary risks. With what I'm not sure. Which is weird, because you are actually pretty practical.

Desert...it's almost like I could see the desert or some area in the southwestern states. But who knows.

Let me try to tap into that (the bombarding thing)...I'm just going to type what I get as far as bombarding him and if he's feeling that now...did something happen on Wednesday? Did you talk to him then? NO, he is not feeling bombarded now. In fact, he is feeling sad about you for some reason. You must've backed away?

I'm not getting anything else right now, and I don't even know if this stuff is right. I'm totally new to all this...

bjr181:
Hmm... I'm very practical and safe, he is usually the unnecessary risk taker!  Haha.  It may be the fact that he thinks I'm doing things out of my comfort zone.  He thinks I do those things to win him back but its actually kind of exciting for me to do the things he does.

Desert- He did travel to Arizona about a month ago and saw the Grand Canyon.  Maybe that's it?

I didn't really talk to him on Wednesday, he texted me but not a lot of conversation took place on Wednesday.  Not sure if it could have been yesterday, he seemed a little off then and today.  I don't think I've backed away so I'm not sure if he's sad. 

I love this, feel free to keep reading if you want. 
Can I ask you questions?

bjr181:
KIKI-
I'm not trying to put thoughts in your head, but could the reason I scare the crap out of him is the feelings he has for me?  Or is it that he doesn't know what will happen between us and we could get hurt again?

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