There are a few of them out there but the one that I mean
was Matt Huston.
I looked at a few systems. All seem to have written books and they all seem to be in a circle (they seem to get kickbacks from recommending each other). I really hate the videos of who is it? Tdub? Something like that. Nothing written, just him.
Anyway back to Matt. Someone sent me his ebook and it was really well written. Said pretty much the same thing as others did but when I checked out his website he actually offered a coaching service and it wasn't too expensive. $70 I think for 30 days. This was back in June-July 2010 so it was still pretty early in the breakup (don't forget I was never told we were breaking up, he just stopped talking to me).
I should have had my first clue in his website, it was NOTHING like his book. Poorly written with spelling and grammatical errors. (ever notice how bad some psychics spell too?) And his coaching services page was one of those "buy now before I raise the rate, only 3 slots left as I want to dedicate my time to everyone fairly!" At one point I saw his available number change so I kind of figured it was to suck people in, it's pretty common with self-help e-stuff these days.
In his first email to you, he tells you to give him ALL the details of the r/s and what has happened since. And I mean ALL. He encourages this. So I wrote him a book, including all the nuances and contacts we had up until that time. A few days later I got this insightful message back "You have been through a lot, what does your therapist think of this, as he's known you for awhile?". Then I didn't hear from him for a week and had to email him back to see if he was still interested in coaching me. He comes back with another one-liner. At one point I tell him I am no longer interested in the coaching and he tells me he'll extend me for a complete 30 days to make up for it. Again it's like pulling teeth to get responses from him and the ones I get are total nonsense. All in all I got a total of 6 responses from him and sometimes after sending him repeat emails.
The end of August, about 35 days after I started this mess, I asked for my money back as he offers a money back guarantee and did extend my coaching for a couple of weeks due to him being out of town. No reply.
In October I emailed him again and got this: "'Unfortunately services have been rendered and help was offered back in July and August. The coaching is only for 23 days."
Thing is, first time I wanted out was well before the 23 days, and no help was offered at all. That's when I posted on ripoff report. I didn't even say his system didn't work, just that his coaching services were a scam and he won't refund money even though he says he will.
I highly doubt he wrote his ebook either, I think he massaged it from others based on the writing style of his web page and emails, but obviously no way to prove it.
I did also join another forum that costs as well. It was fun and had good advice, but I haven't been on there since mid-summer I think, I just got too busy to keep it up.
