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Offline artsygirlms

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I think I’m done
« on: April 19, 2025, 03:27:42 AM »
Massive addict - massive
Like spent all my money. Always do.

Been majorly hung up on a guy with addiction problems and in recovery. He’s a mess but I loved him. Funny enough even good psychics saw something picking up end of April and taking off in May.

I have been so so so sad the last month over him doing his pattern again. I don’t even know how much I have spent. Most of them are bullshit. Plus energy changes all the time.

Anyway of all things I met a super cool man who has everything in common with me as soon as I decided NO I cannot keep doing this to myself. I’m too hot and cool. I deserve better. It’s not my job to protect him so he doesn’t get triggered. Go to therapy. Get help.

Anyway out of the blue this man is like everything I saw in that guy but proactive, wants to go on adventures, wants to spend time, all the things I dreamed of with my SP. this guy shows up out of the blue and bam.

So yeah I have wasted literally 10s of thousands of dollars over the years. I think after this stint of being hung up and spending everything for it not to work out and get heartbroken. I’m done. I think I’m just gonna get therapy and finally get honest about my addiction and anxiety. 

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #1 on: April 19, 2025, 10:14:56 AM »
Massive addict - massive
Like spent all my money. Always do.

Been majorly hung up on a guy with addiction problems and in recovery. He’s a mess but I loved him. Funny enough even good psychics saw something picking up end of April and taking off in May.

I have been so so so sad the last month over him doing his pattern again. I don’t even know how much I have spent. Most of them are bullshit. Plus energy changes all the time.

Anyway of all things I met a super cool man who has everything in common with me as soon as I decided NO I cannot keep doing this to myself. I’m too hot and cool. I deserve better. It’s not my job to protect him so he doesn’t get triggered. Go to therapy. Get help.

Anyway out of the blue this man is like everything I saw in that guy but proactive, wants to go on adventures, wants to spend time, all the things I dreamed of with my SP. this guy shows up out of the blue and bam.

So yeah I have wasted literally 10s of thousands of dollars over the years. I think after this stint of being hung up and spending everything for it not to work out and get heartbroken. I’m done. I think I’m just gonna get therapy and finally get honest about my addiction and anxiety.

So you found a new man?

Offline artsygirlms

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #2 on: April 19, 2025, 12:21:49 PM »
Yep and it was out of the blue. And the crazy thing is he is literally all the things I wanted the first one to be. It’s like this guy is the things man #1 wouldn’t give me.

Man #1 was so cool & perfect for me IF…
-if he would love himself, if he wasn’t terrified of love, if he worked through his really bad traumas and healed, if he wasn’t so avoidant

This guy is wanting to do literally all of the things I imagined going with man #1.

The hard part was really working through and accepting that no matter the “thoughts and feelings” man #1 has or had, I cannot break through to make him treat me well, express it or have a traditional relationship.

Seems like man #2 wants to explore it, do things together, go on adventures. Everything I want

I’m sick to think of how much money I spent on psychics for man #1. I am immediately starting therapy and getting my money in order.

Offline Notacrystalfreak

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #3 on: April 19, 2025, 02:27:20 PM »
Yep and it was out of the blue. And the crazy thing is he is literally all the things I wanted the first one to be. It’s like this guy is the things man #1 wouldn’t give me.

Man #1 was so cool & perfect for me IF…
-if he would love himself, if he wasn’t terrified of love, if he worked through his really bad traumas and healed, if he wasn’t so avoidant

This guy is wanting to do literally all of the things I imagined going with man #1.

The hard part was really working through and accepting that no matter the “thoughts and feelings” man #1 has or had, I cannot break through to make him treat me well, express it or have a traditional relationship.

Seems like man #2 wants to explore it, do things together, go on adventures. Everything I want

I’m sick to think of how much money I spent on psychics for man #1. I am immediately starting therapy and getting my money in order.

Out of the blue as in no reader predicted it?

Offline artsygirlms

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #4 on: April 23, 2025, 05:04:49 PM »
Well that was wrong too because he turned out to be a psycho and I immediately blocked him

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #5 on: April 23, 2025, 05:28:38 PM »
Well that was wrong too because he turned out to be a psycho and I immediately blocked him
Oh! second guy who seemed perfect was wrong too???? that was fast...
Yes, they are all scammers and no one can predict anything

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #6 on: April 23, 2025, 05:30:03 PM »
Massive addict - massive
Like spent all my money. Always do.

Been majorly hung up on a guy with addiction problems and in recovery. He’s a mess but I loved him. Funny enough even good psychics saw something picking up end of April and taking off in May.

I have been so so so sad the last month over him doing his pattern again. I don’t even know how much I have spent. Most of them are bullshit. Plus energy changes all the time.

Anyway of all things I met a super cool man who has everything in common with me as soon as I decided NO I cannot keep doing this to myself. I’m too hot and cool. I deserve better. It’s not my job to protect him so he doesn’t get triggered. Go to therapy. Get help.

Anyway out of the blue this man is like everything I saw in that guy but proactive, wants to go on adventures, wants to spend time, all the things I dreamed of with my SP. this guy shows up out of the blue and bam.

So yeah I have wasted literally 10s of thousands of dollars over the years. I think after this stint of being hung up and spending everything for it not to work out and get heartbroken. I’m done. I think I’m just gonna get therapy and finally get honest about my addiction and anxiety.

This is what I have been saying all along here....some psychos on this forum should do the same as you are doing, i.e. getting therapy and going to psychiatrists instead of psychics, aka scammers

Offline Notacrystalfreak

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #7 on: April 23, 2025, 07:12:46 PM »
Well that was wrong too because he turned out to be a psycho and I immediately blocked him

Is this the new guy?

Offline Miss Philosopher

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #8 on: April 23, 2025, 07:45:42 PM »
Massive addict - massive
Like spent all my money. Always do.

Been majorly hung up on a guy with addiction problems and in recovery. He’s a mess but I loved him. Funny enough even good psychics saw something picking up end of April and taking off in May.

I have been so so so sad the last month over him doing his pattern again. I don’t even know how much I have spent. Most of them are bullshit. Plus energy changes all the time.

Anyway of all things I met a super cool man who has everything in common with me as soon as I decided NO I cannot keep doing this to myself. I’m too hot and cool. I deserve better. It’s not my job to protect him so he doesn’t get triggered. Go to therapy. Get help.

Anyway out of the blue this man is like everything I saw in that guy but proactive, wants to go on adventures, wants to spend time, all the things I dreamed of with my SP. this guy shows up out of the blue and bam.

So yeah I have wasted literally 10s of thousands of dollars over the years. I think after this stint of being hung up and spending everything for it not to work out and get heartbroken. I’m done. I think I’m just gonna get therapy and finally get honest about my addiction and anxiety.

This is what I have been saying all along here....some psychos on this forum should do the same as you are doing, i.e. getting therapy and going to psychiatrists instead of psychics, aka scammers

How are your therapy sessions going @allisgood?

Offline beautifulsunset

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #9 on: April 24, 2025, 11:27:17 AM »
Hello,

I am pretty  new to this place, however after seeing what is going on here, which is so very toxic, I am wondering if anyone knows of any other forum where discussion can take place in an adult manner. It is close to impossible to even read the forum as it is full of crazy and immature people.

If anyone has any suggestions I would appreciate it as I will not be part of this place, which doesn't seem to even be managed by and administrator in order to block all the haters.

In a way what this user allisgood is saying is correct - seeing what is going on here people do not need psychics but something else by the look of things.

Thank you
« Last Edit: April 24, 2025, 11:29:22 AM by beautifulsunset »

Offline Florallover87

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #10 on: April 24, 2025, 12:18:13 PM »
Yes, it becomes very complicated to actually read anything—there are capital letters as if people are screaming, and others being called out for things that happened to them. I’m also interested in a new forum.
« Last Edit: April 24, 2025, 10:58:52 PM by Florallover87 »

Offline Sunset21

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #11 on: April 24, 2025, 01:05:10 PM »
lipstick alley doesnt seem to have hateful toxic people just genuine reviews and most hate is banned quickly. Its a healthier more united forum. This one is pure garbage

Offline Dawnlegacy

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #12 on: April 24, 2025, 01:36:55 PM »
lipstick alley doesnt seem to have hateful toxic people just genuine reviews and most hate is banned quickly. Its a healthier more united forum. This one is pure garbage

Are you able to post the link to the forum?

Offline mystic_sparks81

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #13 on: April 24, 2025, 01:41:41 PM »
What happened to the moderator? There are some people here who need to be banned.

Offline beautifulsunset

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Re: I think I’m done
« Reply #14 on: April 24, 2025, 01:57:43 PM »
Yes, I wonder about the moderator...if there is one because it does not look like it.
Yes, several people need to be banned immediately.
I am not surprised to see people exposing private details of others. Psychics do this and people on this forum as well.
There was a member who chose to tell her life here...can't remember about her username something miss.... and then ok but others haven't done so and several people are bringing up private stuff about them.
Yep, they need to be removed from here ASAP

 

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