Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors

[skyline]

A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.

[jackY]

TRUTH

A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.

[Dawnlegacy]

TRUTH

A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.

I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.

[jackY]

This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".

TRUTH

A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.

I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.

[Dawnlegacy]

I agree, at that point I think inner work about insecurities needs to happen a therapist is needed, not psychics 

This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".

TRUTH

A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.

I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.

[jackY]

Totally!

I agree, at that point I think inner work about insecurities needs to happen a therapist is needed, not psychics 

This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".

TRUTH

A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.

I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.

[love123]

Totally!

I agree, at that point I think inner work about insecurities needs to happen a therapist is needed, not psychics 

This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".

TRUTH

A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.

I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.

COMPLETELY agree with all of this!! I really need to learn to just trust the process and believe that what's meant for me will be Hoping to be able to do this moving forward!

[Miss Philosopher]

I'm so very sorry to hear about your break up. I'm so sorry you went through this. Do you have any updates? Still broken up? Back together? Did he give you the reason for his breaking up?

[love123]

I'm so very sorry to hear about your break up. I'm so sorry you went through this. Do you have any updates? Still broken up? Back together? Did he give you the reason for his breaking up?

Sorry! I missed this question.

My POI came back exactly 1 month later, as predicted by multiple readers. NSJ was the one who said he would come back after 1 month of no contact and pretend like everything is ok and try to go back to how things were before. This was spot on. When he came back though, I wasn’t interested in dating him anymore.

His reason for breaking up was basically that he had an avoidant relationship attachment. It got to the part where it was too close for his liking and he needed space.

[love123]

Coming back to say I finally deactivated my keen account. I’ve been actively reading for about 5 years now and I’ve had enough!

I’ve definitely relied on psychics far too many times, in good and bad situations it always seems like I’m reaching for my next reading.

A few stand out readers to me that have been extremely accurate:

• Northstar Julie, amazing with the outcomes and events that will happen, timing is not always accurate but what she says comes to pass eventually. Probably my favourite reader on Keen

•Evamoon, amazing at picking up POIs thoughts and feelings, great with timing, not amazing with overall outcomes

•amandareads111, great with current situation and outcomes, timing is a bit off

•Kelly Callahan, unreal at picking up specific information into the current situation, if she picks something up it almost always happen, timing is not her specialty. Great at giving insight into the persons thoughts/feelings etc.

•LightWhispers: unreal at picking up the current situation, 50/50 on timing predictions but pretty accurate on how things will play out

[Miss Philosopher]

I'm so very sorry to hear about your break up. I'm so sorry you went through this. Do you have any updates? Still broken up? Back together? Did he give you the reason for his breaking up?

Sorry! I missed this question.

My POI came back exactly 1 month later, as predicted by multiple readers. NSJ was the one who said he would come back after 1 month of no contact and pretend like everything is ok and try to go back to how things were before. This was spot on. When he came back though, I wasn’t interested in dating him anymore.

His reason for breaking up was basically that he had an avoidant relationship attachment. It got to the part where it was too close for his liking and he needed space.

I'm happy to hear that you found the strength to just walk away. It's pretty much impossible to have a good connected relationship with an avoidant. Every hot/cold or warm/cold situationship is a giant sign of an avoidant. It's one of the biggest confusing emotional rollar coasters ever. It's way better that you didn't go back because it would have ended up becoming a break up/make up pattern.

I'm also happy to hear that you decided to stay away from readings for now. I haven't had one in a month. I will go another month and then have another but not about any specific person.

My opinion on readings is, if you're going to have them, great but make your decisions based upon what's happening in the here and now and what's BEEN happening in the past up to date, no matter WHAT the reading outcome is. Many of us pause our lives waiting for predictions, anxiously holding on for dear life (myself included in the past) and we look up and months or sometimes years have gone by, wasted, waiting on some asshole to treat us properly, or want us back, or show some interest, We should be viewing ourselves as the gift to them in their lives and if they can't recognize that, then THEIR loss. There are too many other humans on this planet that would be on the same page we are. Ready for what we are. What we are seeking is also seeking us but we may miss out on wonderful opportunities because we're sitting around waiting for some fickle fkr to come around. Yeah, no thanks. I'll pass.

I wish you love and blessings and I hope everything is much better for you in your life at this time.