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Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
jackY:
This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".
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--- Quote from: jackY on November 27, 2024, 12:24:39 AM ---TRUTH
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--- Quote ---A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.
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Exactly this.
Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.
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I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.
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Dawnlegacy:
I agree, at that point I think inner work about insecurities needs to happen a therapist is needed, not psychics ;D
--- Quote from: jackY on November 27, 2024, 01:10:17 AM ---This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".
--- Quote from: Dawnlegacy on November 27, 2024, 12:58:42 AM ---
--- Quote from: jackY on November 27, 2024, 12:24:39 AM ---TRUTH
--- Quote from: skyline on November 26, 2024, 07:41:36 PM ---
--- Quote ---A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.
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Exactly this.
Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.
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I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.
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jackY:
Totally!
--- Quote from: Dawnlegacy on November 27, 2024, 01:18:41 AM ---I agree, at that point I think inner work about insecurities needs to happen a therapist is needed, not psychics ;D
--- Quote from: jackY on November 27, 2024, 01:10:17 AM ---This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".
--- Quote from: Dawnlegacy on November 27, 2024, 12:58:42 AM ---
--- Quote from: jackY on November 27, 2024, 12:24:39 AM ---TRUTH
--- Quote from: skyline on November 26, 2024, 07:41:36 PM ---
--- Quote ---A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.
--- End quote ---
Exactly this.
Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.
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I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.
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love123:
--- Quote from: jackY on November 27, 2024, 01:29:55 AM ---Totally!
--- Quote from: Dawnlegacy on November 27, 2024, 01:18:41 AM ---I agree, at that point I think inner work about insecurities needs to happen a therapist is needed, not psychics ;D
--- Quote from: jackY on November 27, 2024, 01:10:17 AM ---This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".
--- Quote from: Dawnlegacy on November 27, 2024, 12:58:42 AM ---
--- Quote from: jackY on November 27, 2024, 12:24:39 AM ---TRUTH
--- Quote from: skyline on November 26, 2024, 07:41:36 PM ---
--- Quote ---A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.
--- End quote ---
Exactly this.
Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.
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I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.
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COMPLETELY agree with all of this!! I really need to learn to just trust the process and believe that what's meant for me will be :) Hoping to be able to do this moving forward!
Miss Philosopher:
I'm so very sorry to hear about your break up. I'm so sorry you went through this. Do you have any updates? Still broken up? Back together? Did he give you the reason for his breaking up?
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