I'm so very sorry to hear about your break up. I'm so sorry you went through this. Do you have any updates? Still broken up? Back together? Did he give you the reason for his breaking up?
Sorry! I missed this question.
My POI came back exactly 1 month later, as predicted by multiple readers. NSJ was the one who said he would come back after 1 month of no contact and pretend like everything is ok and try to go back to how things were before. This was spot on. When he came back though, I wasn’t interested in dating him anymore.
His reason for breaking up was basically that he had an avoidant relationship attachment. It got to the part where it was too close for his liking and he needed space.