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Re: Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
« Reply #15 on: November 26, 2024, 07:41:36 PM »
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A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.

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Re: Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
« Reply #16 on: November 27, 2024, 12:24:39 AM »
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A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.

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Re: Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
« Reply #17 on: November 27, 2024, 12:58:42 AM »
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A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.
I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.

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Re: Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
« Reply #18 on: November 27, 2024, 01:10:17 AM »
This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".

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A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.
I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.

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Re: Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
« Reply #19 on: November 27, 2024, 01:18:41 AM »
I agree, at that point I think inner work about insecurities needs to happen a therapist is needed, not psychics  ;D
This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".

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A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.
I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.

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Re: Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
« Reply #20 on: November 27, 2024, 01:29:55 AM »
Totally!

I agree, at that point I think inner work about insecurities needs to happen a therapist is needed, not psychics  ;D
This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".

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A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.
I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.

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Re: Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
« Reply #21 on: November 27, 2024, 05:09:44 AM »
Totally!

I agree, at that point I think inner work about insecurities needs to happen a therapist is needed, not psychics  ;D
This is also true! But I think what's being referenced here is more about constantly calling psychics to see if you're "on track" with your POI. What did he mean by that? Why did he say this? Who's that friend, really? Is he seeing her today? Is his ex really his ex? Blah, blah, blah.... That path never bodes well for a 'relationship".

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A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance.

Exactly this.

Anytime I was calling psychics a lot, it was an indication the relationship or job interview process wasn't going in the right direction.
I think sometimes it’s just anxiety but everything can be fine. I know someone that kept calling psychics about their job and ultimately ended up getting the job but their anxiety and impatience kept getting the best of them. Interview process was fine but they kept thinking they messed up on the questions and wouldn’t get it despite all psychics saying they would. Even with me, sometimes things are going too good and I may want to call a psychic out of fear of “this is too good to be true, what should I be expecting”, luckily I’ve learned to lean more into seeking advice from friends to calm myself down.

COMPLETELY agree with all of this!! I really need to learn to just trust the process and believe that what's meant for me will be :) Hoping to be able to do this moving forward!

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Re: Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
« Reply #22 on: January 04, 2025, 03:34:39 PM »
I'm so very sorry to hear about your break up. I'm so sorry you went through this. Do you have any updates? Still broken up? Back together? Did he give you the reason for his breaking up?

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Re: Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
« Reply #23 on: April 05, 2025, 07:59:43 PM »
I'm so very sorry to hear about your break up. I'm so sorry you went through this. Do you have any updates? Still broken up? Back together? Did he give you the reason for his breaking up?


Sorry! I missed this question.

My POI came back exactly 1 month later, as predicted by multiple readers. NSJ was the one who said he would come back after 1 month of no contact and pretend like everything is ok and try to go back to how things were before. This was spot on. When he came back though, I wasn’t interested in dating him anymore.

His reason for breaking up was basically that he had an avoidant relationship attachment. It got to the part where it was too close for his liking and he needed space.

 

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