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Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
Dawnlegacy:
--- Quote from: Chitowngirl on November 25, 2024, 10:08:28 PM ---Please keep us posted on NSJ either way it goes. She's been very good for me as well. Curious, when you said that your favorite advisors didn't pick up on it initially but then did after it happened, did you at all give them any hints that your person broke up with you? It seems odd that they wouldn't pick up on that initially and then when it actually happened they did so I'm wondering if you gave anything away, even unintentionally? Keep us posted, hoping all works out for you.
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Who is NSJ?
love123:
--- Quote from: Dawnlegacy on November 26, 2024, 02:40:52 AM ---
--- Quote from: Chitowngirl on November 25, 2024, 10:08:28 PM ---Please keep us posted on NSJ either way it goes. She's been very good for me as well. Curious, when you said that your favorite advisors didn't pick up on it initially but then did after it happened, did you at all give them any hints that your person broke up with you? It seems odd that they wouldn't pick up on that initially and then when it actually happened they did so I'm wondering if you gave anything away, even unintentionally? Keep us posted, hoping all works out for you.
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Who is NSJ?
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Northstar Julie!
love123:
--- Quote from: jackY on November 26, 2024, 12:01:41 AM ---Oh, guuuurl! I hate that this happened with you. That's just terrible and I'm sorry.
Please do be careful as you move forward and consider going a bit more inward instead of jumping back on the reader train. It already proved to not work well with your situation. Pay attention to what he's saying and doing-not what the readers tell you. Been there, done that. It was such a punch to the gut when I finally realized the guy had already shown me who he is. I'm not saying you're in the same situation, but sometimes it's best to move forward and if they show back up, you can decide then what you want to do :).
--- Quote from: love123 on November 25, 2024, 10:50:08 PM ---I think it was the weirdest thing that’s ever happened! I read with an advisor on Friday and she said things are changing for the better before thanksgiving. Saturday morning I got a text from my person asking to “talk” I called dragonfly dancer freaking out and she said it would be positive… of course it was not. It was very out of the blue as we were chatting on the phone normally and he was sending me memes all morning prior too. Not sure if it was an impulsive decision that nobody could pickup on or what.
I did unfortunately binge a bit today. Everyone says he will be back and the majority of people were able to pickup that he’s “distant” or it feels like “a breakup” some of them I just said bluntly what was going on.
Either way I will keep you all posted on NSJ :)
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I totally agree. They really have proven that they were not accurate for my situation and I should have taken a step back and actually looked at the situation as a hole vs wasting my money and listening to them! This forum has helped a TON for me today.
love123:
--- Quote from: gemmaasks on November 26, 2024, 01:54:39 AM ---@love123 im sorry to hear that! im going through a hot and cold / situationship right now so I totally get what you're going through. Have you tried Lillian or Claire from CP? They are expensive though. They are great at channeling current energy like they pick up things first. They picked emotions so well for me. If you're stressed, want to know "current" feelings and thoughts of your poi and have extra cash to spare, I would look into them.
Best of luck!
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Thank you!! I actually have never read on CP! Maybe I'll give them a go in the future but for now I think I really need a break from readings and try to just trust that everything will work out (easier said than done). Thank you so much :)
Mina:
--- Quote from: love123 on November 25, 2024, 03:56:54 AM ---Throughout my most recent relationship I read non stop. I didn't stop to take a breathe or just trust the process. I'm so frustrated and confused because almost all readers (minus 3) told me that my POI would take our relationship to the next level. I believed them because a lot of their short term predictions were coming to pass. Yesterday, literally out of nowhere my POI broke up with me over text.
My favorite advisors who usually do pickup if there is an ending did not pickup on this. At least, not until it happened. I called them after and they were able to pickup on it right away. I'm annoyed and frustrated.
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I hate giving into astrology forecast (which we are in retrograde) but it is the holiday season, that steers everyone in their feelings.
I recommend staying busy. I made a list of things to stay busy, from getting ppl gift cards, adding 10% to my workout goals, and things that I really need to do to stay grounded, like budgeting, journaling. I do have to keep minimal money in the bank, and go on cash diet, to avoid binging, or at least keep it down.
I recommend love advice channels like Chris Seiter, Coach Lee, coach Ken (yes they are gimmicky but) they are my go for staying in no contact; and honestly sometimes their advice is exactly like psychics (you kind of start to realize probably psychics use psychology manipulation tricks and say very similar things). Coach Lee has a break up kit (and also anxiety play list, which was my go to). I haven’t gotten his break up kit but I have gotten some of manifest with Genevieve courses and they are not easy manifesting courses so I’m redoing them; but I’m less afraid to deal my scary feelings and recognize when I want to go psychics it’s cause I’m avoiding feeling the overwhelming amount of uncertain. I feel the key is being confident in who I am, and staying connected that keeps me grounded. I was also listening a lot to Thais Gibson and did her free week personal development website- this helped me understand what are my goals in current life, has quiz in where you identify. She has an overwhelming amount of content daily- but I’m not a fan labeling every one as avoidant or narcissist- and many ppl get stuck with those labels as attachment. However, all of this has helped me also to stay strong in no contact and avoid binging. It did get me busy, did help with mini-therapy. That being said therapy online like better help, talk space are sending me promos for half off. I would strongly suggest consider how much your spending on psychic binges and setting like 10% aside of that and invest in something like this. Because when I broke the math in how much I spending monthly on psychics versus therapy; I could have paid to invest my focus in different way. Psychics really just get you drunk your feelings and run with whatever will stick.
I also want to point out that NSJ could view it as a break but other psychics may not even count it because it’s not long term… then again I am an optimist.
Regardless, as much as it hurts stay busy, and busy doesn’t mean things you dread with must do and need to. Find fun things, don’t isolate… I see now the more I do isolate and cater to that the more I am likely to call more psychics. Change your routine! Rearrange your room! Because if you can forget your current routine for 3 seconds you have so much power to redirect your thoughts; instead of my bf broke up with me it’s over
A good sign your relationship will not last (and I hate saying this but it’s true) is when you’re constantly calling a psychic for reassurance. I did find when I was in good relationships (or at least the start of one) I felt secure and there was no doubt. Yes blind sighted moments happen in life but solid relationships don’t need a psychic to hold your hand to be in a relationship. This really sounds like inner anxiety and I can’t stress enough a real therapist to help you face your anxiety. (I feel like this came off putting but it’s important you get secure in you whether or not this person come back- it’s attractive, and it doesn’t have you running to a psychic when life falls apart)
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